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Allen Jackson Ministries | Allen Jackson - A Celebration of Life (Part 1) | May 31, 2025
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- Allen jackson: hey, i believe it's more important that we lead
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- With our faith now than at any time i can remember in
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- Recent history.
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- It's not always easy to do if you're at work, or sometimes in
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- A family setting, or with children, you don't know how to
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- Get a conversation started.
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- Well, we've created a tool that we believe can be really
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- Helpful, they're conversation cards.
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- They're designed for a variety of settings, children, family, a
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- Small group setting, but the idea is it's a way to initiate a
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- Faith-based conversation.
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- You can share 'em with other people and do it together, you
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- Can simply look through them and use it as an imagination starter
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- For yourself when you're thinking about a coworker or a
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- Neighbor or a family member or you're gonna have some time with
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- Children or grandchildren, or maybe something happening in
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- The neighborhood.
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- We want to lead with our faith, you don't have to preach a
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- Sermon, or quote a bible verse, or present a small group study,
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- We simply want to engage a conversation so that faith
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- Becomes a part of who we are, no matter where we go.
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- I think these conversation cards will be a real blessing to you
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- And a very useful tool as we lead with our faith.
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- Allen: nah, it's mother's day and i think it's appropriate to
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- Try to glean a bit of a biblical perspective around that.
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- This one's a bit more personal to me.
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- It's the first mother's day since my mom went to heaven.
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- Oh, yay god.
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- Her gain, our loss.
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- And i'm determined to celebrate her gain, amen.
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- So if i reference her during the course of this and i'm sure i
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- Will, i need this disclaimer on the front.
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- I'm very clear she was not a saint.
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- I knew my mom bc.
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- Most of y'all didn't.
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- And the transformation in she and my father was so dramatic
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- When they came to know jesus in a personal way.
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- We were churched.
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- We went to church every week.
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- But we weren't christians.
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- You know, you can do that.
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- You can do that here.
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- But when they had a personal encounter with jesus, there was
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- Such a transformation in their lives that i walked into the
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- Kitchen and said, "what's happened?"
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- And i was 8 or 9 years old.
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- That's not a normal question for a boy at that age.
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- There was a real transformation in their lives and i continued,
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- I had the privilege, i became a christian not long after that
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- And i watched god bring change in our lives, and he still is.
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- And that's the invitation i would give to you today.
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- We need men and women who have not checked a box that says,
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- "i'm christian," as opposed to muslim or agnostic.
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- We need people who are being transformed by the power of the
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- Living god on a daily basis.
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- Haven't coughed all day.
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- You know, i suppose many of you know the story.
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- My mom was healed when i was a boy.
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- The doctors gave her a few months to live.
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- And she prayed.
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- Not to--not to be healed, she just prayed to know the truth.
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- And god really, in an act of his sovereign grace, intervened and
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- Brought health to my mom's body.
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- She lived more than 50 years longer than the doctor said
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- She could.
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- My takeaway from that wasn't very complicated because it
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- Impacted my life as a boy and it changed my life, i'm quite
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- Certain, but was that god can, and you can fill in the blank.
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- God can heal a body.
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- Doesn't mean he heals everyone i pray for, but i'm not
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- Particularly open to people saying that god doesn't do that
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- Because my life was changed when god did.
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- You know, i've been in some very fine academic institutions with
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- Some very well-trained professors who were very adamant
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- That healing ended at the end of the first century and i'm going,
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- "well, not completely."
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- It is not theoretical to me.
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- God can. he can change a life.
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- He can--he can heal a body.
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- He can be mercy--he can show mercy to someone who's pagans
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- Because we were.
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- It wasn't because we knew the right prayer to play.
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- We didn't know the right response.
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- We didn't know.
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- We just didn't know and i'm quite confident our behavior
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- Didn't justify it.
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- It was an expression of god's mercy.
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- And if you ask me for one statement to help define the
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- Ministry that i've been involved with all these years, it's that
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- God can.
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- We wanna be guilty of inviting god in the midst of people's
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- Lives to do those things that only god can do.
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- You know, i like to learn, i like to study.
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- I encourage you on a very regular basis to read your
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- Bibles, to make time to do many things.
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- But at the heart of all of that is this conviction that god can.
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- And whatever you bring to the lord, if you'll keep seeking
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- Him, he will show you ways through.
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- I have lived it out, doesn't mean i always get the answer i
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- Want in the time i want it, or the outcome in the way i
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- Imagined it, but god can change a life.
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- I think the notion that this biblical notion of family, of
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- Men and husbands and fathers, of women as wives and mothers, the
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- Family and the children are notions that are considered
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- Antiquated, a little out of date.
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- They're not really chic anymore.
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- You know, it's--you're far more chic or courageous if you say
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- They're confusing.
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- Well, i don't believe those are things we should be
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- Confused about.
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- I don't find them to be confusing at all, but i'm gonna
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- Start with children.
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- Because i think we all need to understand that children is not
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- Defined by our age.
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- It's--it signifies a relationship.
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- You know, i'm still a child, not by age any longer.
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- But i'm the child of someone.
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- But i think we think of children only in terms of little people.
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- And the reality is all of us stand in that role as a child.
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- If we got here, we had to have parents.
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- It's a sovereign expression of god.
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- We don't choose our parents, any more than parents choose
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- Their children.
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- There are characteristics and gifts.
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- Some are shared by dna and some i think are inexplicable, other
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- Than almighty god.
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- You know, lots of debates around whether it's nature or nurture
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- And you watch family systems very long and you'll go, "yeah,
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- There's some other things too."
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- God's involved in this.
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- Proverbs 23 and verse 25 says, "may your father and mother be
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- Glad; may she who gave you birth rejoice!"
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- Biblically, it's very clear, we are given by god a
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- Responsibility towards parents, as children.
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- We're told to honor our father and mother.
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- When jesus quoted it, he added a penalty to that.
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- Not just that our--we would have a long life and be blessed,
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- But that there would be--we'd be penalized if we failed to
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- Do that.
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- We have a responsibility before god towards our parents.
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- It comes with a kingdom opportunity.
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- There are rewards offered, but there's also punishment if we
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- Neglect it.
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- So this isn't an optional kind of a thing, and we think about
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- Our families and our relationships, every family
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- Faces challenges.
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- The ones that you think are perfect, you just don't know
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- Well enough.
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- I didn't accuse you or your family.
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- I don't know you well enough.
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- But one of the challenges is to keep short accounts, and this
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- Really isn't that complicated.
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- There's some simple things we can do.
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- I don't like, you know, the things that i can truly
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- Understand, i can explain to a third grader.
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- And you can always know, if i'm using--the bigger the words i
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- Use, the less i understand the topic.
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- And so this one to me is not particularly complicated.
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- If we're gonna honor our father and mother, we have to learn to
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- Bless them.
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- You can do it with your words, you do it with your attitude,
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- You can do it with your posture.
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- Proverbs 20:20 said, "if a man curses his father or mother, his
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- Lamp will be snuffed out in pitch darkness."
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- That's pretty plain, folks.
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- There are no perfect parents.
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- Some are even evil.
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- I meet children, i meet adults who have suffered greatly at the
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- Hand of parents who were wicked.
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- And i'm not suggesting that blessing your parents means you
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- Should get back in line for further abuse or you should
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- Deny the mistreatment that you received.
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- I'm simply saying that once you can acknowledge the reality of
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- That, it's still possible to acknowledge that your parents
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- Gave you life.
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- And the good news is most of us did not come from family systems
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- That were evil.
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- And there are things for which we can bless our parents.
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- The circumstances of our birth are beyond us, but you and i can
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- Make a decision to bless our parents.
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- And i will couple that with another response that's equally
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- Necessary in every family system, we have to forgive.
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- Proverbs 10:1 says, "a wise son brings joy to his father, but a
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- Foolish son grief to his mother."
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- Whether you are wise or foolish can be displayed in the emotions
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- That you bring to the home where you were.
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- It's not about your opinion or your pronouncements or the
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- Degrees that you earn.
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- It's about the impact you have on the lives of people who've
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- Made a sacrifice for you to have an opportunity.
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- And we have to be willing to forgive.
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- Forgiveness is not an emotion.
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- It's not based on outcomes.
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- We don't forgive because someone apologizes.
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- Forgiveness is a decision.
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- It's something self-initiated, it's a choice we make.
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- You see, as we make our way through life, there are times
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- The responses towards us are not appropriate.
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- And the perception, the reality is, there's some sort of an
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- Injury, emotionally, physically, whatever it may be, and as a
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- Result of that, there's a debt that's established.
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- We feel like we're owed something, restitution,
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- Restoration, an apology.
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- And when we hold unforgiveness or resentment or bitterness,
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- We're waiting for the debt to be paid.
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- It's like a marker.
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- It's like you've got a chip and i'm not releasing the chip until
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- There's something done.
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- And forgiveness says i'm gonna tear up the marker.
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- I'm not saying the event didn't happen.
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- I'm not saying you couldn't have done better.
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- I'm not saying what was done was appropriate.
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- I'm saying i'm choosing not to carry the marker any longer.
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- I'm gonna lay it down.
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- Now here's the challenge in that.
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- The biblical prescription is that in order for us to be
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- Forgiven, we have to forgive.
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- And all of us need forgiveness.
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- None of us make the journey through time without mistakes.
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- And so the ability to practice forgiveness, to keep these
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- Accounts short, to allow the words you use towards the people
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- Closest to you to be words of blessing and to refuse to carry
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- Resentment and anger and bitterness.
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- You can do that and you can change the trajectory of your
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- Life and bring the blessings of god, or you can reject it and
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- You'll bring a whole different set of consequences.
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- You'll never make a case so compelling that you'll cause god
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- To agree with you in your ungodliness.
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- Allen: hey, leading with our faith is often not easy, you
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- Know, you're in a business setting.
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- How do you start a conversation?
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- Or you're with family, and maybe it's awkward to bring
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- Faith forward?
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- Or maybe it's children, and you're not sure how to get to
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- It on their level?
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- Allen: and so as we walk towards this notion of mother's day and
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- A weekend where we stop to consider our families for a bit,
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- I want to give you the invitation and the opportunity
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- To do both of these things, to bless your parents, your mother
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- Specifically, and to be certain that the accounts are short and
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- That you have forgiven what needs to be forgiven.
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- And if your parents have stepped out of time into eternity, you
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- Can still be carrying things that you need to forgive.
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- There's no statute of limitations on unforgiveness or
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- Bitterness or hatred or resentment.
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- Please don't carry those things forward.
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- I saw a little chart.
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- I thought it was worth sharing about our relationships with
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- Our moms.
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- Says when you're 4 years of age, your mommy can do anything.
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- At 8 years old, my mom knows a lot, a whole lot.
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- At 12 years of age, my mother doesn't really know
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- Quite everything.
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- At 16, naturally, mother doesn't know that either.
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- At 18, that old woman is clueless.
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- At 25, well, she might know a little bit about it.
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- At 35, before we decide, i wonder if we could get
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- Mom's opinion.
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- At 45 years of age, i wonder what mom would have thought
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- About that.
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- And at 65, i wish i could talk it over with mom.
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- You know, this notion of being a mom is so deeply embedded in
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- Scripture that it's difficult to understand how we've arrived at
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- The place that we are without almost the complete capitulation
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- Of the church.
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- But i thought i would start with mary, the mom that was recruited
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- For jesus.
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- Are you ever intimidated by god assignment?
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- I am.
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- You know, i don't think usually they show up with, like, a neon
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- Light that says, "this is a god assignment for you."
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- But maybe you know, you're at work and he gives you some new
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- Coworker or an assignment with somebody for a season and
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- They're really difficult.
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- And you'd just rather not have to deal with them.
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- And then you realize that perhaps it's a god assignment.
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- And i think, "ah, couldn't i have had somebody easy?"
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- Because once those circumstances that are uncomfortable or
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- Problematic or once they're cast in the light of perhaps it's a
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- God assignment, it brings a whole new meaning to it and now
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- The fact that it's challenging or difficult isn't something to
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- Be complained about, it's an expression of trust.
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- You've been trusted with a difficult assignment.
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- Well, i think mary is a classic example of that.
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- As a teenager, she's recruited to give birth to jesus, and it
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- Completely disrupts her life forever.
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- Well, i mean, i know you could say on the backside, "oh, it was
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- Wonderful and it's a blessing," but in real time, it was just
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- A pain.
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- It brought shame.
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- It brought a lot of commentary no one would like to have.
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- It wasn't easy.
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- But in luke chapter 1 and verse 31, this was the announcement
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- That mary received, "you'll be with child and give birth to a
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- Son, and you're to give him the name jesus."
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- It's a birth announcement.
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- We do those a lot.
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- Now we do it with social media or digitally, and they go viral.
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- You can share them easily, but this one fascinates me.
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- The birth announcement that god delivered with an archangel,
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- Even the name of the child was included.
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- "you're gonna be with child.
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- You're gonna give birth to a son."
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- Conception hasn't taken place yet.
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- "you're gonna be with child.
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- You'll give birth to a son, and his name is jesus."
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- You see, i think we labor under a mistaken notion from a
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- Biblical vantage point, children aren't ours.
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- Oh, we share some genetic material.
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- And we're given an assignment as a parent, but god is the author
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- Of life.
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- And he knows those children, the scripture's very clear, before
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- We ever see them or before we hear them utter their first cry.
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- And that is evidenced in this birth announcement to mary.
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- "you'll be with child, you'll give birth to a son, and you're
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- Gonna name him jesus."
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- They're a sacred trust to be cherished and prepared
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- And released.
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- Now, most of you aren't raising messiahs.
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- Probably a little more devilment in the house.
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- But they're a sacred trust to be cherished, prepared,
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- And released.
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- Children make very poor idols.
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- Mothers choose the gift of birth.
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- I don't wanna miss that.
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- Because that message is largely lost in our culture.
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- We talk in terms of choices.
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- And from that it ratchets-- the discussion ratchets up so
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- Quickly with so much emotion and so much animation and so
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- Many facts.
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- But from a biblical standpoint, the simplest presentations we
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- Have are you'll be with child and you'll give birth to a son.
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- It's clear the choice to give birth to that child is very
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- Similar to the choice of what you'll name him.
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- Moms choose to give birth.
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- And i would submit that if you've been pregnant and chosen
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- Other than the gift of birth, that there's forgiveness
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- There too.
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- That you can move forward.
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- In fact, i think mother's day is a good day to take just a minute
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- With that.
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- You know, we are several decades into this discussion about the
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- Sanctity of human life and how we view it, and 60 million
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- Children is a conservative number that have been lost.
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- Every family has been touched directly or indirectly.
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- Our nation would be a different place, a dramatically
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- Different place.
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- And i'm not interested in igniting the debate and
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- The argument.
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- I'm more interested, for the moment, in just staying in the
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- Simple presentation of scripture.
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- And because of the--how widespread that is, i think
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- There is a--
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- A candor that we need to take a step towards for just
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- A moment.
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- The temptation is to wanna live through things, live through the
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- Seasons of our lives that weren't godly.
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- Just to live through those hard times just like if you're
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- Walking through the valley of the shadow of death, just hurry.
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- But the message is that when you're walking through that
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- Valley, the only way really to flourish in that valley is to
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- Understand who your protector is,
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- Not just to hurry.
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- In those seasons in our lives where those very difficult
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- Decisions have been made, usually there's an anxiousness
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- Just to get to the other side
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- And then to do our best not to talk about it.
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- But keeping those things buried is like carrying unforgiveness.
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- It's a weight, it's a burden, it's a handicap.
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- And i think it's appropriate this weekend to take a moment
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- And just the biblical prescription for when we find
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- Ourselves engaged in something ungodly isn't to deny it or to
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- Justify it or to explain it or to blame it on someone else
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- Or the circumstances were really difficult.
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- The biblical prescription is repentance.
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- It has a technical meaning and really it's twofold.
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- It means we change how we think.
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- We made an ungodly choice and we thought it was okay, we thought
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- We could get away with it.
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- We thought we could overcome it.
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- We thought there'd be no consequence.
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- And the reality is there is always a consequence
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- For ungodliness.
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- So our thought was wrong, and our bad thought led us to
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- Bad behavior.
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- So repentance says, "god, i'm sorry my thinking was wrong.
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- And because my thinking was wrong my behavior was wrong.
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- And i'm sorry.
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- And i ask you to forgive me."
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- And i think it's appropriate, not just for ourselves, but to
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- Have that tool in your own tool kit to help other people.
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- Stop shouting at people, and extend to them the grace and the
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- Mercy of god to change our lives.
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- I'm gonna say a little prayer.
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- I'm not gonna ask you to stand.
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- I'm gonna stay seated with you.
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- But in those places--and this isn't just for the
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- Women, fellas.
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- I'm pretty sure there wouldn't be those crisis pregnancies
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- Unless there were men involved.
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- And we've lived through way too much ungodliness without ever
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- Stopping to clean it up.
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- And if we're really gonna have the kind of breakthroughs that
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- We need to secure the futures for our children and
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- Grandchildren, we're gonna have to do more than live through
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- Our sin.
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- We're gonna have to be repentant.
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- "well, it was a hard time."
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- Okay.
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- "there weren't good choices."
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- Understood.
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- We still made bad ones.
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- So i'm gonna say a prayer and if it's--to the degree that's
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- Touched your life, maybe it's something that you have already
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- Presented to the lord and you've already worked through.
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- I don't think it's a bad idea.
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- I don't think it's unhealthy or unhelpful to simply say to the
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- Holy spirit, if there's anything there.
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- And there's some ways you can recognize that the conversation
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- Makes you uncomfortable.
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- The memory of the individuals involved triggers all sorts of
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- Emotional responses, from anger to resentment to grief.
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- We need to be forgiven and we need to forgive.
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- Can we do that?
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- You just bow with me in prayer for a moment?
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- Heavenly father, i thank you that you're the author of life.
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- Or that there's no child hidden from you.
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- That you know us and we're knit together in our mother's wombs,
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- That those lives are a gift that begin with you
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- And then are entrusted to us for a short season.
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- And lord, our lives have coincided with a cheapening
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- Of life.
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- Lord, we have seen millions of children sacrificed
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- For convenience.
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- Oh lord, we come today not to point an accusing finger at
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- Someone else,
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- But to acknowledge our own complicitness in this.
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- Forgive us.
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- Forgive us when we've set your boundaries aside.
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- Forgive us when we have been casual with things that we
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- Should not have been casual with.
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- Forgive us for our disobedience.
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- Lord, we ask for your mercy in our lives.
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- And we forgive those who we feel like betrayed us or let us down
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- Or disappointed us.
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- Lord, we release them.
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- We cancel the marker.
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- And i thank you now that through the blood of jesus, you will
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- Cleanse us, redeem us, sanctify us, justify us.
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- Lord, you paid a tremendous price that we could be clean.
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- So we choose not to treat it casually or flippantly, but to
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- Recognize it took the life of your son that our lives might
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- Be clean.
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- And now by faith we receive that forgiveness.
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- And i thank you for the good things you have for us, for the
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- Freedom that awaits us, in jesus's name, amen.
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- How about just a big deep breath?
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- You know, sometimes we carry that stuff a long time.
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- And it's not a--it's not something you earn, but it's not
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- A simple thing to lay down a burden, an emotion, that you
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- Have carried for decades and decades.
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- And the fact that you've buried it in the past or hidden it from
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- The video, there's a freedom that's available to us.
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- Allen: you know, it seems to me our nation is more polarized
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- Than any time i can remember.
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- I don't believe we're gonna bridge that gap with better
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- Politics, i believe we will change that by an extension of
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- Our faith.
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- Those of us with a biblical worldview, those of us that
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- Believe jesus of nazareth is lord, christ, and king have to
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- Understand how to take that message back into the
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- Marketplace, back into academia, back into our neighborhoods.
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- We got a tool that we think will help you lead with your faith.
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- It's really simple, they're conversation cards, we've built
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- To bear in our communities, our homes, and beyond.
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