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Allen Jackson Ministries | Allen Jackson - God At Work Through Family (Part 2) | June 4, 2025
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- Allen jackson: yeah, i believe it's more important that we lead
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- With our faith now than at any time i can remember in
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- Recent history.
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- It's not always easy to do if you're at work or sometimes in
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- A family setting or with children.
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- You don't know how to get a conversation started.
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- Well, we've created a tool that we believe can be
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- Really helpful.
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- They're conversation cards.
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- They're designed for a variety of settings: children, family,
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- A small group setting, but the idea is it's a way to initiate
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- A faith-based conversation.
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- You can share them with other people and do it together.
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- You can simply look through them and use it as an imagination
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- Starter for yourself.
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- When you're thinking about a coworker or a neighbor or a
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- Family member or you're gonna have some time with children or
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- Grandchildren or maybe something happening in the neighborhood,
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- We want to lead with our faith.
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- You don't have to preach a sermon or quote a bible verse or
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- Present a small group study.
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- We simply want to engage a conversation so that faith
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- Becomes a part of who we are, no matter where we go.
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- I think these conversation cards will be a real blessing to you
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- And a very useful tool as we lead with our faith.
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- Allen: in matthew chapter 15, there's a story of a mother
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- That's distraught.
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- On behalf of her daughter, she comes to jesus.
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- She's a canaanite woman.
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- That's important.
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- She's not jewish.
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- She doesn't keep the rules.
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- She doesn't keep the holidays, she doesn't eat the right foods.
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- If you saw this woman, you would think, "that's not one of us."
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- You know, the canaanite-jewish distinction is lost on us, but
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- Occasionally you see somebody in our culture and you think,
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- "that's not one of us."
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- Whatever that image is to you, think of this woman.
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- When she approached jesus and the disciples, it was very clear
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- She's not one of us.
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- "she came to jesus, crying out, 'lord, son of david, have mercy
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- On me!
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- My daughter is suffering terribly from demon-possession.'
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- And jesus wouldn't answer.
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- So his disciples came to him and urged him, 'send her away.
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- She keeps crying out after us.'"
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- And he turned the page.
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- "and jesus answered, 'i was sent only to the lost sheep
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- Of israel.'
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- And the woman came and knelt before jesus."
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- She's already called him lord and cried out in desperation.
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- He won't speak to her.
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- And now she's come and knelt before him, "and said, 'lord,
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- Help me!'
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- And he replied, 'it's not right to take the children's bread and
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- Toss it to their dogs.'"
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- I don't know any cultural reference that'll make that
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- Statement friendlier.
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- It's a rebuff, a rebuke.
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- The answer is no, not helping you.
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- And there's some tone around it that's not friendly or inviting.
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- For the people that say jesus was always about love, that's--
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- I mean, yeah, you can take the big broad definition of the
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- Word, but every encounter didn't feel like a group hug.
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- Jesus says, "no, nothing for the dogs today."
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- "and she said, 'yes, lord, but even the dogs eat the crumbs
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- That fall from their masters' table.'"
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- This woman's desperate.
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- She's not being passive.
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- One of the things i think we're gonna have to overcome in
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- Contemporary american christendom is this passive
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- Approach, you know, "if god wants me to have it, he'll give
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- It to me."
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- Folks, with that attitude, you can miss the kingdom of god.
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- The bible invites us towards a different posture.
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- It's far more assertive, it's far more in pursuit of god.
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- Bible talks about hungering and thirsting.
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- It talks about those that seek the lord will be rewarded
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- For it.
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- There's a--there's a pursuit of god in us that is required of
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- Us, "and this woman said, 'lord, even the dogs eat the crumbs,'
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- And jesus said, 'woman, you have great faith!
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- And your request is granted.'
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- And her daughter was healed."
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- I'm gonna suggest to you that mothers have a very, very, very,
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- Very significant role.
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- This daughter absent that mother's humility,
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- Determination, compassion, effort, would have spent her
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- Life in a dramatically different way.
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- Her mother changed her future.
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- I'm intrigued by people that say they want to do
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- Something important.
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- The god assignments of our lives start in those
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- Family assignments.
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- Mothers are intercessors, you help establish a pathway for
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- Your family, preparing them to make better choices
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- For themselves.
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- I know that's true in my own life.
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- My mother's legacy was of the conviction regarding the value
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- Of prayer.
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- That woman, you--if you were around my mother for 10 minutes,
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- You had to pray.
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- And you know, now we kind of giggle, but it wasn't always,
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- Like, fun.
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- You bring a friend home from school, she's gonna pray.
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- You walk in the front door with a friend, you would announce you
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- Were there because you didn't know what kind of prayer she
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- Was praying.
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- Most of our friends thought we were about half crazy anyway.
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- If my brothers and i got together for anything, i'm not
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- Talking about when we were little kids, i'm talking about,
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- Like, when we were, like, pushing grown.
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- We're almost grown up.
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- Before we could leave, my mom would always say, "well,
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- Couldn't we say a prayer?"
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- At which we'd roll our eyes.
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- I mean, like, grown men, "really, mom?
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- That's original.
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- You think we should pray again?"
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- She prayed hundreds and thousands of hours, for you.
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- I always smile a bit, wryly, when people, you know, talk
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- About let's pray or some of the things that we do as
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- A community.
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- Folks, those are derivatives of things that were handed to me.
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- I resented 'em for a long time.
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- I'm like, "really?
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- We want to pray again?"
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- Pray for anybody anywhere.
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- I'm like, "could you just dial it back?"
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- You have such an important role.
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- A mother's prompting makes an enormous difference.
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- I brought you some biblical examples.
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- You have potential for good and you have potential
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- For destruction.
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- It's important to understand in matthew 20, "the mother of
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- Zebedee's sons, james and john, came to jesus with her sons, and
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- She knelt down and she asked a favor of jesus.
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- He said, 'what do you want?'
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- And she said, 'grant that one of these two sons of mine may sit
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- At your right and the other at your left in your kingdom.'
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- And jesus said, 'you don't know what you're asking.
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- Can you drink the cup i'm going to drink?'
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- And the boys said, 'yeah.'"
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- Mom comes in with her two boys and kneels in front of jesus and
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- Says, "i want my boys to get privileged spots."
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- Helicopter parents are not new.
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- "give my boys an advantage.
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- I know you recruited all of these other young guys, but
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- These two are special.
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- They're my boys."
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- And jesus said, "you have no clue."
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- Now we have the advantage of hindsight.
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- "can you drink the cup i'm going--" he's got a cup of
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- Suffering to drink.
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- And the boys are--they're happy to have the mom running
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- The interference.
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- "oh yeah, we can do that, whatever.
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- Can we see pictures of the thrones?"
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- Godly people, close to jesus, engaged in ministry, pushed all
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- Their chips in the middle of the table.
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- And mom is being fueled by selfish ambition.
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- I know it's wrapped in a lot of religious language.
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- She has ambition for them in the kingdom of god.
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- It's still not appropriate.
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- A mother's promptings are important.
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- Guarding our hearts, the bible says, is more important than
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- Anything else we have to guard or protect.
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- I'll give you another example.
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- Mark chapter 6: "the daughter of herodias came in and danced
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- Before the king and his audience.
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- She pleased herod and his dinner guest, and the king said to the
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- Girl, 'ask me for anything you want, and i'll give it to you.'
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- And she went out and said to her mother, 'what shall i ask for?'
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- And her mother said, 'the head of john the baptist,'" wow.
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- A mother's prompting.
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- This is a mother fueled by hatred and rebellion.
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- She no doubt thought she was gaining a personal advantage by
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- Shutting down john the baptist and his persistent declaration
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- Of the truth.
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- I don't believe it brought a better future for her
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- Or her daughter.
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- Mother's promptings matter.
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- They really do.
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- I'll give you another alternative in john chapter 2:
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- "on the third day there was a wedding in cana of galilee, and
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- Jesus's mother was there, and jesus and his disciples had also
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- Been invited to the wedding.
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- And when he's--the wine was gone, jesus's mother said to
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- Him, 'they have no more wine.'
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- And jesus replied, 'dear woman, why do you involve me?
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- My time has not yet come.'
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- Then mary said to the servants, 'just do what he tells you.
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- Just whatever he tells you.'"
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- She didn't argue with jesus.
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- She didn't try to manipulate him.
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- There doesn't even seem to be any shame involved.
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- She's reminding him of a very obvious fact.
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- There's humiliation about to take place.
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- It seems to me to be an expression of a mother fueled by
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- Compassion for her friends.
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- And a tremendous faith in god.
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- She understands the uniqueness of jesus's life.
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- A mother's promptings matter.
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- The coaching of a mother can make a tremendous difference in
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- Our lives.
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- Be certain that you're seeking the lord consistently, so that
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- Your counsel brings a godly outcome.
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- It's important.
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- I'm convinced if the men and women amongst us will begin to
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- Honor god and choose god, that we will see his power
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- Demonstrated in our homes and that will bring a momentum to
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- Our culture.
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- It'll change our schools, it'll change our health care systems,
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- It'll change our legal systems, it'll change our churches.
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- It's as simple as starting in those places where we have
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- A voice.
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- I have benefited from godly encouragement.
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- Choosing god is often a path which contradicts
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- Conventional wisdom.
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- Choosing to honor god oftentimes will mean you have different
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- Priorities than the broader culture around you.
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- You can baptize them in religious language, much like
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- The mom who came and was asking for thrones for her sons.
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- But the reality is the purposes of god often bring a different
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- Set of priorities, different objectives, different goals.
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- And godly moms can make an enormous difference.
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- Can make an enormous difference.
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- It's a life assignment.
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- It's a mission.
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- I'm not suggesting it's easy.
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- I had a gift.
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- Many times in my life when i came to forks in the road, my
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- Parents, if they didn't--they didn't oppose me if i had an
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- Inclination to try to do something for the lord.
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- I'm very grateful for those gifts.
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- They didn't always get it right, neither did i.
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- But moms, you've got an enormous opportunity, a great privilege.
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- Don't let a secular culture determine your parenting style.
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- Don't let the values of a secular culture, a godless
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- Culture, even wrapped in religious language, determine
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- The future.
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- Allow god to lead you.
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- Spend enough time with him.
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- Listen to him.
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- I've also discovered by observation and experience that
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- If you don't have that voice in your family system, god will
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- Provide a voice.
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- I have seen it over and over and over again.
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- I see it oftentimes through your lives.
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- And i see you provide your voice in the lives of someone else,
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- With an expression of kindness or generosity or support.
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- You change futures, encourage one another to seek god.
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- Most of us, when we found ourselves in dark places, we
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- Accepted the encouragement of voices that were pushing us down
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- A dark path.
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- I would suggest that you and i become voices to encourage
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- People for god's best.
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- Allen: and finally, god is at work with us.
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- And i think any of us that can recognize god's goodness to us,
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- Stand there and go, "i'm not really sure.
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- I can tell you some components, but the outcomes are
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- Really disproportionate.
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- Only god."
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- Doesn't mean there's no pain or disappointment or heartbreak
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- Or brokenness.
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- All of those things are a part of the journey through time.
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- But cooperating with god.
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- In luke chapter 1 and verse 35: "the angel said to mary, 'the
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- Holy spirit will come upon you, and the power of the most high
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- Will overshadow you.
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- So the holy one to be born will be called the son of god.
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- For nothing is impossible with god.'
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- And mary's response: 'i'm the lord's servant.
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- May it be to me as you have said,' and the angel left her."
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- Nothing about that explanation really helps mary understand
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- About what's to happen.
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- She's a teenage kid, she's engaged, she's got a life plan
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- And an angel says, "good news."
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- I'm sure it would have been easier for mary if that angelic
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- Host that filled the skies outside of bethlehem and talked
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- To the shepherds, had filled the skies over nazareth and
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- Explained it to all of her friends.
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- All the women in the synagogue where her family went, "did you
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- Tell them?"
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- Mary said, "you know, i haven't been involved in the behaviors
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- That would make that possible."
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- "that's not your problem, mary."
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- There is no explanation that's satisfactory.
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- Mary has to have her dreams realigned.
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- And we find them all the way through the journey until she
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- Steps out of the historical record that we have, the foot of
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- The cross, with jesus being tortured to death.
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- A heartbreaking scenario.
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- There's a principle there that i think is still in play in
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- Our families.
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- There's a sacrifice and then there's success.
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- Sacrifice is made enabling others to have opportunities.
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- I'm very aware that motherhood is a sacrifice.
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- I think that's why it's mocked and ridiculed.
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- The intention to cooperate with god is the defining principle of
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- Our lives, the realignment of our dreams, the release to god's
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- Best for us and not demanding our way.
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- Not easy things.
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- But worthwhile.
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- I wish i could tell you there's some season of life, some age
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- You reach, some point of accomplishment in your faith
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- Where that gets easier, but i haven't found that yet.
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- I'm still working on that and working through that.
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- My mom went to heaven in this past year.
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- Her gain, a loss for many rest of us.
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- But i'll celebrate her gain.
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- I want to close with a story i shared in the previous session
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- Because i think it's empowering to all of us.
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- I didn't get through it very well earlier.
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- I'm gonna try to do a little better on this one.
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- I borrowed it from chuck swindoll some time ago.
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- It's the name--it's a story about a young man and a teacher.
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- The young man was walking through a difficult circumstance
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- And the teacher made a difference.
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- The boy's name was teddy, the teacher is mrs. thompson.
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- And teddy stollard certainly qualified as one of the least.
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- He was disinterested in school.
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- His clothes were wrinkled.
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- He often had kind of a musty odor about him.
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- His hair was never combed.
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- He was one of those kids in school with a deadpan face,
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- Completely expressionless, sort of a glossy, glassy-eyed,
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- Unfocused stare.
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- When ms thompson spoke to teddy, he always answered
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- In monosyllables.
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- Truthfully, he was unattractive, unmotivated, and undisciplined.
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- He was just plain hard to love.
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- Even though his teacher said she loved all of the kids in her
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- Class, down inside she wasn't being completely truthful
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- Because whenever she marked teddy's papers, she got a sort
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- Of perverse pleasure by putting x's next to the wrong answers.
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- And when the scores supported an f at the top of the page, she
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- Did it with a bit of flair.
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- She should have known better.
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- She had teddy's records.
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- She knew a bit about his story, and she had some insight
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- And awareness.
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- The records were clear.
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- The first grade said: "teddy shows promise with his work.
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- And he has a good attitude but a poor home situation."
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- Second grade, it was: "teddy could do better.
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- His mother is seriously ill, and he receives little help
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- At home."
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- The 3rd grade said: "teddy's a good boy, but he's too serious.
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- He's a slow learner.
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- And his mother died this year.
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- By the 4th grade: "teddy's very slow, but he's well behaved.
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- And his father shows no interest."
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- Christmas came that year and the boys and the girls in ms
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- Thompson's class brought her christmas presents.
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- They piled their presents on her desk and trotted around to watch
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- Her open them.
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- Among the presents there was one from teddy stollard.
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- She was surprised that he'd brought her a gift, but he had.
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- Teddy's gift was wrapped with brown paper and held together
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- With scotch tape.
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- And on the paper were written the simple words: "for ms.
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- Thompson, from teddy."
- 00:19:43.264 --> 00:19:47.235
- When she opened teddy's present, out fell a gaudy rhinestone
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- Bracelet with half the stones missing and a bottle of
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- Cheap perfume."
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- The other boys and girls began to giggle and smirk at teddy's
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- Gift, but ms. thompson at least had enough sense to silence them
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- By immediately putting on the bracelet, and putting some of
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- The perfume on her wrist.
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- She held her wrist up for the other children to smell, and she
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- Said, "doesn't it smell lovely?"
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- The children, taking their cue from the teacher, responded with
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- Oos and ahs.
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- At the end of the day, when school was over and the other
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- Children had left, teddy lingered behind.
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- He slowly came over to her desk, and he said softly, "ms.
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- Thompson, you smell just like my mother, and her bracelet looks
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- Real pretty on you.
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- I'm glad you liked my presents."
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- When teddy left her classroom, ms. thompson got down on her
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- Knees and she asked god to forgive her.
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- Next day when the children came to school they were welcomed by
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- A new teacher.
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- Ms. thompson had become a different person.
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- She was no longer just a teacher, she was an agent
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- Of god.
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- She was now a person committed to loving her children and doing
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- Things for them that would live on after her.
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- She helped all the children, but especially the slow ones.
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- And especially teddy.
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- By the end of that school year, teddy showed
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- Dramatic improvement.
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- He'd caught up with most of the students and was even ahead
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- Of some.
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- Well, the year ended.
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- She didn't hear from teddy for a long time.
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- And then one day she received a note: "dear ms. thompson,
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- I wanted you to be the first to know, i'll be graduating second
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- In my class.
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- Love, teddy stollard."
- 00:21:56.263 --> 00:22:00.201
- Four years later another note arrived: "dear ms. thompson,
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- They just told me i'll be graduating first in my class.
- 00:22:05.373 --> 00:22:13.147
- I wanted you to be the first to know.
- 00:22:13.147 --> 00:22:16.117
- Love, teddy stollard."
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- Four years later, another note: "dear ms. thompson, as of today,
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- I am theodore stollard md.
- 00:22:28.028 --> 00:22:31.499
- How about that?
- 00:22:31.499 --> 00:22:34.802
- I wanted you to be the first to know.
- 00:22:34.802 --> 00:22:37.872
- I'm getting married next month, the 27th to be exact.
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- And i want you to come and sit where my mother would sit if she
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- Were alive.
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- You're the only family i have now.
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- Dad died last year.
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- Love, teddy."
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- Well, as you might guess, ms thompson went to that wedding,
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- And sat where teddy's mother would have sat.
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- She deserved to be there she'd done something for teddy that he
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- Could never forget.
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- If you'll allow me, i would suggest that we all have the
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- Opportunity to be a ms. thompson in somebody's life.
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- [congregation applauding]
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- And i know it's mother's day and there are reasons to celebrate
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- And there are reasons to grieve.
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- That's true of all of us.
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- But i would encourage you not to miss the opportunities that god
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- Puts in front of us.
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- He works through our families, oftentimes in spite of us.
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- It's worth the effort.
- 00:23:58.219 --> 00:23:59.587
- I brought you a prayer.
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- If you'll stand with me, we can read it together.
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- Heavenly father, thank you for the mother that you chose
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- For me.
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- I trust your grace and mercy.
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- Today i choose to bless her and to rejoice in the faithfulness
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- Of my god.
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- I pray for the families of our nation--strengthen them, awaken
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- Them to your purposes and protect them from evil.
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- In jesus's name, amen.
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- God bless you and happy mother's day.
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- Allen: you know, the most impactful part of faith in my
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- Well, i know as a pastor the things that are most impactful
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