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October 15, 2020
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Better Together LIVE | Episode 124

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  • - LAURIE: WE ARE CHOSEN
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  • - LAURIE: WE ARE CHOSENAND FULLY ACCEPTED BY GOD
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  • AND FULLY ACCEPTED BY GODHIS OPINION OF US IS THE
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  • HIS OPINION OF US IS THEONLY ONE THAT TRULY
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  • ONLY ONE THAT TRULYMATTERS.
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  • MATTERS.TODAY WE'RE LEARNING HOW
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  • TODAY WE'RE LEARNING HOWTO STOP PEOPLE PLEASING
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  • TO STOP PEOPLE PLEASINGAND FOCUS ON AN AUDIENCE
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  • AND FOCUS ON AN AUDIENCEOF ONE.
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  • OF ONE.COME ON, WE NEED TO TALK
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  • COME ON, WE NEED TO TALKABOUT THIS.
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  • ABOUT THIS.♪ MUSIC ♪
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  • ♪ MUSIC ♪♪ MUSIC ♪
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  • ♪ MUSIC ♪- JOYCE: PEOPLE PLEASING.
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  • - JOYCE: PEOPLE PLEASING.IT SOUNDS LIKE SOMETHING
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  • IT SOUNDS LIKE SOMETHINGTHAT WE OUGHT TO DO.
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  • THAT WE OUGHT TO DO.AND THERE'S ACTUALLY EVEN
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  • AND THERE'S ACTUALLY EVENA PLACE IN THE BIBLE WHERE
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  • A PLACE IN THE BIBLE WHEREIT DOES SAY TO LIVE TO
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  • IT DOES SAY TO LIVE TOPLEASE OTHERS AND NOT
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  • PLEASE OTHERS AND NOTYOURSELF.
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  • YOURSELF.BUT THEN ACTS 5:29 SAYS:
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  • BUT THEN ACTS 5:29 SAYS:WE MUST OBEY GOD.
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  • WE MUST OBEY GOD.AND NOT MAN.
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  • AND NOT MAN.AND SO, I THINK THAT WE
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  • AND SO, I THINK THAT WEWANT TO TRY TO PLEASE
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  • WANT TO TRY TO PLEASEPEOPLE AND MAKE THEM HAPPY
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  • PEOPLE AND MAKE THEM HAPPYUNTIL WHAT THEY'RE WANTING
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  • UNTIL WHAT THEY'RE WANTINGUS TO DO IS GOING AGAINST
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  • US TO DO IS GOING AGAINSTWHAT GOD IS WANTING US TO DO.
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  • WHAT GOD IS WANTING US TO DO.AND GROWING UP IN AN
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  • AND GROWING UP IN ANABUSIVE HOME WITH AN ANGRY
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  • ABUSIVE HOME WITH AN ANGRYALCOHOLIC FATHER AND A
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  • ALCOHOLIC FATHER AND AMOTHER WHO WAS JUST WEAK
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  • MOTHER WHO WAS JUST WEAKIN HER TEMPERAMENT.
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  • IN HER TEMPERAMENT.SHE WAS FEARFUL AND WEAK
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  • SHE WAS FEARFUL AND WEAKAND SHE WOULDN'T REALLY
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  • AND SHE WOULDN'T REALLYSTAND UP FOR HERSELF OR
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  • STAND UP FOR HERSELF ORFOR MY BROTHER AND I.
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  • FOR MY BROTHER AND I.MY FATHER WAS SEXUALLY
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  • MY FATHER WAS SEXUALLYABUSIVE.
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  • ABUSIVE.ABUSED ME ON A REGULAR
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  • ABUSED ME ON A REGULARBASIS FOR 12, 13, 14, 15
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  • BASIS FOR 12, 13, 14, 15YEARS.
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  • YEARS.THAT'S ALL I EVER
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  • THAT'S ALL I EVERREMEMBER, SO, I KNOW IT
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  • REMEMBER, SO, I KNOW ITSTARTED REALLY EARLY.
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  • STARTED REALLY EARLY.AND IT WAS REPETITIVE.
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  • AND IT WAS REPETITIVE.IT WASN'T JUST A HANDFUL
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  • IT WASN'T JUST A HANDFULOF TIMES.
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  • OF TIMES.IT WAS ALL THE TIME.
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  • IT WAS ALL THE TIME.AND MY MOTHER KNEW IT.
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  • AND MY MOTHER KNEW IT.SHE CAUGHT HIM.
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  • SHE CAUGHT HIM.I TOLD HER.
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  • I TOLD HER.BUT SHE WOULDN'T,
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  • BUT SHE WOULDN'T,WOULDN'T, COULDN'T DO
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  • WOULDN'T, COULDN'T DOANYTHING ABOUT IT.
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  • ANYTHING ABOUT IT.THIRTY YEARS AFTER I WAS
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  • THIRTY YEARS AFTER I WASOUT OF THERE AND IN
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  • OUT OF THERE AND INMINISTRY, SHE SAID TO ME,
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  • MINISTRY, SHE SAID TO ME,"I'M SORRY FOR WHAT I LET
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  • "I'M SORRY FOR WHAT I LETYOUR DAD DO TO YOU.
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  • YOUR DAD DO TO YOU.I JUST DIDN'T THINK" --
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  • I JUST DIDN'T THINK" --TO ME, THIS IS INTERESTING--
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  • TO ME, THIS IS INTERESTING--"I DIDN'T THINK THAT I
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  • "I DIDN'T THINK THAT ICOULD MAKE IT ON MY OWN
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  • COULD MAKE IT ON MY OWNAND TAKE CARE OF YOU AND
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  • AND TAKE CARE OF YOU ANDYOUR BROTHER, AND I DIDN'T
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  • YOUR BROTHER, AND I DIDN'TTHINK I COULD FACE THE SCANDAL."
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  • THINK I COULD FACE THE SCANDAL."YOU SEE, INCEST BACK IN
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  • YOU SEE, INCEST BACK INTHOSE DAYS WAS NOT
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  • THOSE DAYS WAS NOTANYTHING THAT ANYBODY
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  • ANYTHING THAT ANYBODYTALKED ABOUT.
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  • TALKED ABOUT.YOU DIDN'T TALK ABOUT
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  • YOU DIDN'T TALK ABOUTTHAT.
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  • THAT.ACTUALLY, WHEN I STARTED
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  • ACTUALLY, WHEN I STARTEDOPENLY TALKING ABOUT IT IN
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  • OPENLY TALKING ABOUT IT INTHE PULPIT, I DON'T KNOW
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  • THE PULPIT, I DON'T KNOWTHIS, BUT I THINK I COULD
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  • THIS, BUT I THINK I COULDHAVE BEEN ONE OF THE FIRST
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  • HAVE BEEN ONE OF THE FIRSTTO EVER DO THAT, BECAUSE
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  • TO EVER DO THAT, BECAUSEYOU JUST DIDN'T TALK ABOUT
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  • YOU JUST DIDN'T TALK ABOUTIT.
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  • IT.AND MY DAD WAS A VERY
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  • AND MY DAD WAS A VERYANGRY MAN.
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  • ANGRY MAN.THERE WAS ALWAYS THIS
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  • THERE WAS ALWAYS THISDANCE GOING ON OF TRYING
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  • DANCE GOING ON OF TRYINGTO KEEP DADDY HAPPY.
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  • TO KEEP DADDY HAPPY.I COULD TELL EARLIER WHEN
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  • I COULD TELL EARLIER WHENYOU WERE TALKING THAT WE
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  • YOU WERE TALKING THAT WECOULD JUST OVERLAY THE
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  • COULD JUST OVERLAY THESTORIES AND THEY WOULD BE
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  • STORIES AND THEY WOULD BETHE SAME.
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  • THE SAME.IT WAS ALL ABOUT DOING
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  • IT WAS ALL ABOUT DOINGWHATEVER WAS REQUIRED TO
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  • WHATEVER WAS REQUIRED TOKEEP HIM HAPPY.
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  • KEEP HIM HAPPY.BECAUSE WHEN HE GOT MAD,
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  • BECAUSE WHEN HE GOT MAD,OR ANGRY, IT JUST WASN'T
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  • OR ANGRY, IT JUST WASN'TPRETTY.
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  • PRETTY.IT COULD BE ANYTHING FROM
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  • IT COULD BE ANYTHING FROMGETTING SLAPPED ACROSS THE
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  • GETTING SLAPPED ACROSS THEFACE TO HAVING ALL YOUR
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  • FACE TO HAVING ALL YOURPRIVILEGES TAKEN AWAY,
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  • PRIVILEGES TAKEN AWAY,WHATEVER THOSE WERE.
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  • WHATEVER THOSE WERE.SO YOU DON'T LIVE LIKE
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  • SO YOU DON'T LIVE LIKETHAT FOR THAT MANY YEARS
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  • THAT FOR THAT MANY YEARSAND THEN JUST WALK AWAY
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  • AND THEN JUST WALK AWAYAND NOT STILL HAVE SOME OF
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  • AND NOT STILL HAVE SOME OFTHAT LEFT OVER.
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  • THAT LEFT OVER.SO, MY SITUATION WITH
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  • SO, MY SITUATION WITHPEOPLE PLEASING IS REALLY,
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  • PEOPLE PLEASING IS REALLY,I THINK, VERY INTERESTING,
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  • I THINK, VERY INTERESTING,BECAUSE I WAS ALSO A
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  • BECAUSE I WAS ALSO ACONTROLLER, SO IF I COULD
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  • CONTROLLER, SO IF I COULDCONTROL SOMEBODY, I WOULD.
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  • CONTROL SOMEBODY, I WOULD.BUT, IF THEY WOULDN'T LET
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  • BUT, IF THEY WOULDN'T LETME AND IS IT WAS A
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  • ME AND IS IT WAS ARELATIONSHIP I WANTED TO
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  • RELATIONSHIP I WANTED TOKEEP, I WOULD QUICKLY
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  • KEEP, I WOULD QUICKLYBECOME THE PEOPLE PLEASER
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  • BECOME THE PEOPLE PLEASERAND SO I DID BOTH.
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  • AND SO I DID BOTH.SO BEING AROUND ME, YOU
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  • SO BEING AROUND ME, YOUWOULD NEVER, EVER, EVER
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  • WOULD NEVER, EVER, EVERTHINK THAT I WAS EVER A
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  • THINK THAT I WAS EVER APEOPLE PLEASER BECAUSE I
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  • PEOPLE PLEASER BECAUSE ICOME ACROSS STRONG.
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  • COME ACROSS STRONG.AND NORMALLY, THAT IS THE
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  • AND NORMALLY, THAT IS THEWAY I AM.
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  • WAY I AM.BUT, AS I GOT OLDER AND I
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  • BUT, AS I GOT OLDER AND IGOT INTO OTHER
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  • GOT INTO OTHERRELATIONSHIPS AND GOT INTO
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  • RELATIONSHIPS AND GOT INTOCHURCH, THIS IS BEFORE GOD
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  • CHURCH, THIS IS BEFORE GODEVER CALLED ME TO PREACH
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  • EVER CALLED ME TO PREACHOR BEFORE-- I ALWAYS SAY
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  • OR BEFORE-- I ALWAYS SAYBEFORE I BECAME A SERIOUS
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  • BEFORE I BECAME A SERIOUSCHRISTIAN, I'VE BEEN A
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  • CHRISTIAN, I'VE BEEN ACHRISTIAN AS LONG AS I CAN
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  • CHRISTIAN AS LONG AS I CANREMEMBER.
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  • REMEMBER.BUT I WASN'T A SERIOUS ONE
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  • BUT I WASN'T A SERIOUS ONEUNTIL GOD TOUCHED MY LIFE
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  • UNTIL GOD TOUCHED MY LIFEBACK IN THE 70's DURING
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  • BACK IN THE 70's DURINGTHE OUTPOURING OF THE
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  • THE OUTPOURING OF THEHOLY SPIRIT THAT WE OFTEN
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  • HOLY SPIRIT THAT WE OFTENREFER TO AS THE
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  • REFER TO AS THECHARISMATIC MOVEMENT.
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  • CHARISMATIC MOVEMENT.I WAS GOING TO A CHURCH
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  • I WAS GOING TO A CHURCHTHE DENOMINATIONAL CHURCH
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  • THE DENOMINATIONAL CHURCHDAVE GREW UP IN.
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  • DAVE GREW UP IN.I ALWAYS WANTED TO BE
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  • I ALWAYS WANTED TO BEIMPORTANT BECAUSE I FELT
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  • IMPORTANT BECAUSE I FELTBAD ABOUT MYSELF.
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  • BAD ABOUT MYSELF.I WANTED TO BE IMPORTANT.
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  • I WANTED TO BE IMPORTANT.I WANTED TO LEAD.
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  • I WANTED TO LEAD.SO THERE WAS THIS ONE
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  • SO THERE WAS THIS ONEWOMAN THAT KIND OF WAS THE
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  • WOMAN THAT KIND OF WAS THEWOMAN THAT IF YOU WANT TO
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  • WOMAN THAT IF YOU WANT TOBE IN THE IN-CROWD YOU
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  • BE IN THE IN-CROWD YOUHAVE TO BE IN WITH HER.
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  • HAVE TO BE IN WITH HER.I LOOK BACK NOW WHEN I
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  • I LOOK BACK NOW WHEN ITHINK, IT JUST MAKES ME
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  • THINK, IT JUST MAKES MEALMOST WANT TO THROW UP
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  • ALMOST WANT TO THROW UPTHE WAY I CATERED TO HER
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  • THE WAY I CATERED TO HERAND WAS SO UNAUTHENTIC
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  • AND WAS SO UNAUTHENTICWITH HER, BECAUSE I WOULD
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  • WITH HER, BECAUSE I WOULDJUST MAKE ON OVER HER AND
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  • JUST MAKE ON OVER HER ANDCALL HER EVERYDAY AND
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  • CALL HER EVERYDAY ANDCOMPLIMENT HER AND
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  • COMPLIMENT HER ANDANYTHING SHE WANTED ME TO
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  • ANYTHING SHE WANTED ME TODO I WOULD DO.
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  • DO I WOULD DO.AND SURE ENOUGH, I GOT
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  • AND SURE ENOUGH, I GOTWHAT I WANTED.
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  • WHAT I WANTED.I GOT IN WITH THE IN-CROWD.
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  • I GOT IN WITH THE IN-CROWD.DAVE WAS AN ELDER IN THE
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  • DAVE WAS AN ELDER IN THECHURCH.
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  • CHURCH.WE WERE ALWAYS INVITED TO
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  • WE WERE ALWAYS INVITED TOALL THE PARTIES AND YADA
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  • ALL THE PARTIES AND YADAYADA YADA.
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  • YADA YADA.BUT, THE THING IS, WHEN
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  • BUT, THE THING IS, WHENYOU GET A RELATIONSHIP
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  • YOU GET A RELATIONSHIPTHAT WAY, THAT'S WHAT YOU
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  • THAT WAY, THAT'S WHAT YOUGOT TO DO TO KEEP IT.
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  • GOT TO DO TO KEEP IT.- LISA: THERE'S NO
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  • - LISA: THERE'S NOFOUNDATION.
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  • FOUNDATION.- JOYCE: AND SO,
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  • - JOYCE: AND SO,EVENTUALLY IT BECOMES
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  • EVENTUALLY IT BECOMESEXHAUSTING AND YOU GET SO
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  • EXHAUSTING AND YOU GET SOFED UP WITH FALLING ALL
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  • FED UP WITH FALLING ALLOVER THIS PERSON THAT YOU
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  • OVER THIS PERSON THAT YOUCAN'T EVEN HARDLY STAND,
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  • CAN'T EVEN HARDLY STAND,THEN, WHEN GOD DID TOUCH
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  • THEN, WHEN GOD DID TOUCHMY LIFE AND I WAS CALLED
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  • MY LIFE AND I WAS CALLEDTO TEACH, ALL THESE PEOPLE
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  • TO TEACH, ALL THESE PEOPLETHAT I THOUGHT WERE MY
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  • THAT I THOUGHT WERE MYFRIENDS WERE THE FIRST
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  • FRIENDS WERE THE FIRSTONES TO TURN AGAINST ME
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  • ONES TO TURN AGAINST MEAND TELL ME-- WELL, IF
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  • AND TELL ME-- WELL, IFTHIS IS WHAT YOU'RE GONNA
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  • THIS IS WHAT YOU'RE GONNADO, THEN WE CAN'T HAVE
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  • DO, THEN WE CAN'T HAVEANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU.
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  • ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU.SO, ALL MY PEOPLE PLEASING
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  • SO, ALL MY PEOPLE PLEASINGDIDN'T REALLY GET ME ANY
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  • DIDN'T REALLY GET ME ANYFRIENDS, IT JUST-- AN
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  • FRIENDS, IT JUST-- ANEXERCISE IN EXHAUSTION.
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  • EXERCISE IN EXHAUSTION.I PRETTY MUCH DON'T HAVE A
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  • I PRETTY MUCH DON'T HAVE APROBLEM ANYMORE WITH
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  • PROBLEM ANYMORE WITHPEOPLE PLEASING, EXCEPT,
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  • PEOPLE PLEASING, EXCEPT,WITH MY CHILDREN.
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  • WITH MY CHILDREN.(LAUGHTER)
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  • (LAUGHTER)- LAURIE: OKAY.
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  • - LAURIE: OKAY.- JOYCE: AND, IT'S NOT
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  • - JOYCE: AND, IT'S NOTTHAT TRY TO MAKE ME BE A
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  • THAT TRY TO MAKE ME BE APEOPLE PLEASER, I DO IT
  • 00:07:02.011 --> 00:07:02.845
  • PEOPLE PLEASER, I DO ITALL ON MY OWN.
  • 00:07:02.845 --> 00:07:05.081
  • ALL ON MY OWN.I CAN TALK ABOUT PEOPLE
  • 00:07:05.081 --> 00:07:06.849
  • I CAN TALK ABOUT PEOPLEPLEASING BECAUSE I KNOW.
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  • PLEASING BECAUSE I KNOW.AND I ALSO FOUND IN MY
  • 00:07:09.218 --> 00:07:10.620
  • AND I ALSO FOUND IN MYLIFE AS AN ADULT, THAT ANY
  • 00:07:10.620 --> 00:07:12.388
  • LIFE AS AN ADULT, THAT ANYTIME I RAN ACROSS SOMEBODY
  • 00:07:12.388 --> 00:07:14.724
  • TIME I RAN ACROSS SOMEBODYTHAT HAD A PERSONALITY
  • 00:07:14.724 --> 00:07:16.192
  • THAT HAD A PERSONALITYLIKE MY FATHER'S, I WOULD
  • 00:07:16.192 --> 00:07:17.193
  • LIKE MY FATHER'S, I WOULDGO INTO THAT SAME ROUTINE
  • 00:07:17.193 --> 00:07:19.595
  • GO INTO THAT SAME ROUTINEAGAIN.
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  • AGAIN.IF THEY WERE REAL STRONG
  • 00:07:21.030 --> 00:07:23.599
  • IF THEY WERE REAL STRONGAND ABRASIVE AND
  • 00:07:23.599 --> 00:07:24.734
  • AND ABRASIVE ANDAGGRESSIVE AND HAD A QUICK
  • 00:07:24.734 --> 00:07:25.868
  • AGGRESSIVE AND HAD A QUICKTEMPER, I WOULD QUICKLY
  • 00:07:25.868 --> 00:07:27.303
  • TEMPER, I WOULD QUICKLYBECOME THE PEOPLE PLEASER
  • 00:07:27.303 --> 00:07:28.471
  • BECOME THE PEOPLE PLEASERBECAUSE I JUST DIDN'T WANT
  • 00:07:28.471 --> 00:07:29.605
  • BECAUSE I JUST DIDN'T WANTANYBODY MAD AT ME.
  • 00:07:29.605 --> 00:07:31.073
  • ANYBODY MAD AT ME.I LIVED IN SO MUCH ANGER
  • 00:07:31.073 --> 00:07:32.275
  • I LIVED IN SO MUCH ANGERWHEN I WAS GROWING UP,
  • 00:07:32.275 --> 00:07:34.777
  • WHEN I WAS GROWING UP,THAT I DON'T-- YOU KNOW,
  • 00:07:34.777 --> 00:07:37.146
  • THAT I DON'T-- YOU KNOW,EVEN IF TWO OF MY KIDS
  • 00:07:37.146 --> 00:07:38.014
  • EVEN IF TWO OF MY KIDSAREN'T GETTING ALONG, I
  • 00:07:38.014 --> 00:07:39.782
  • AREN'T GETTING ALONG, ICAN'T STAND IT UNTIL
  • 00:07:39.782 --> 00:07:42.318
  • CAN'T STAND IT UNTILEVERYTHING IS-- YOU KNOW,
  • 00:07:42.318 --> 00:07:43.853
  • EVERYTHING IS-- YOU KNOW,PEACEFUL AGAIN.
  • 00:07:43.853 --> 00:07:44.854
  • PEACEFUL AGAIN.- LISA: I'M SO FAR BEHIND
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  • - LISA: I'M SO FAR BEHINDAS FAR AS SPIRITUAL
  • 00:07:46.656 --> 00:07:48.624
  • AS FAR AS SPIRITUALMATURITY, BUT I AM WALKING
  • 00:07:48.624 --> 00:07:49.525
  • MATURITY, BUT I AM WALKINGBEHIND YOU.
  • 00:07:49.525 --> 00:07:51.928
  • BEHIND YOU.I'M GRATEFUL YOU MADE THE
  • 00:07:51.928 --> 00:07:52.795
  • I'M GRATEFUL YOU MADE THEPATH.
  • 00:07:52.795 --> 00:07:54.030
  • PATH.BECAUSE WHAT YOU'RE SAYING
  • 00:07:54.030 --> 00:07:55.731
  • BECAUSE WHAT YOU'RE SAYINGIS WHAT GOD CONTINUES TO
  • 00:07:55.731 --> 00:07:56.299
  • IS WHAT GOD CONTINUES TOTEACH ME AND I'VE REALIZED
  • 00:07:56.299 --> 00:07:58.568
  • TEACH ME AND I'VE REALIZEDTHAT PEACE WITH GOD HAS
  • 00:07:58.568 --> 00:07:59.235
  • THAT PEACE WITH GOD HASNOTHING TO DO WITH THE
  • 00:07:59.235 --> 00:08:01.938
  • NOTHING TO DO WITH THEAPPROVAL OF OTHER PEOPLE.
  • 00:08:01.938 --> 00:08:07.410
  • APPROVAL OF OTHER PEOPLE.HE HAS JUST HAD TO UNSEAT
  • 00:08:07.410 --> 00:08:09.178
  • HE HAS JUST HAD TO UNSEATA LOT OF IDOLS IN MY LIFE.
  • 00:08:09.178 --> 00:08:11.047
  • A LOT OF IDOLS IN MY LIFE.THIS IS REAL SIMPLISTIC,
  • 00:08:11.047 --> 00:08:14.083
  • THIS IS REAL SIMPLISTIC,BUT A PASTOR THAT HAS
  • 00:08:14.083 --> 00:08:15.351
  • BUT A PASTOR THAT HASMENTORED ME, HE SAID,
  • 00:08:15.351 --> 00:08:17.520
  • MENTORED ME, HE SAID,LISA, IT'S NOT BAD THAT
  • 00:08:17.520 --> 00:08:19.155
  • LISA, IT'S NOT BAD THATPEOPLE ARE PLEASED WITH
  • 00:08:19.155 --> 00:08:20.856
  • PEOPLE ARE PLEASED WITHYOU, IT'S THAT IT'S KIND
  • 00:08:20.856 --> 00:08:21.924
  • YOU, IT'S THAT IT'S KINDOF LIKE FIGURE SKATING,
  • 00:08:21.924 --> 00:08:22.925
  • OF LIKE FIGURE SKATING,YOU THROW OUT THE HIGH
  • 00:08:22.925 --> 00:08:24.160
  • YOU THROW OUT THE HIGHSCORES AND THE LOW SCORES
  • 00:08:24.160 --> 00:08:24.961
  • SCORES AND THE LOW SCORESAND YOU JUST SOMEWHERE IN
  • 00:08:24.961 --> 00:08:28.598
  • AND YOU JUST SOMEWHERE INTHE MIDDLE.
  • 00:08:28.598 --> 00:08:30.232
  • THE MIDDLE.I FOUND MYSELF, YOU KNOW
  • 00:08:30.232 --> 00:08:32.668
  • I FOUND MYSELF, YOU KNOWHOW IT IS, ALL OF US HAVE
  • 00:08:32.668 --> 00:08:34.003
  • HOW IT IS, ALL OF US HAVEPLATFORMS AT SOME LEVEL
  • 00:08:34.003 --> 00:08:35.638
  • PLATFORMS AT SOME LEVELWHERE WHATEVER-- YOU SING
  • 00:08:35.638 --> 00:08:38.140
  • WHERE WHATEVER-- YOU SINGAND YOU PREACH AND SO YOU
  • 00:08:38.140 --> 00:08:40.376
  • AND YOU PREACH AND SO YOUDO WHATEVER YOU'RE CALLED TO
  • 00:08:40.376 --> 00:08:42.211
  • DO WHATEVER YOU'RE CALLED TODO AND IT USED TO BE I
  • 00:08:42.211 --> 00:08:43.112
  • DO AND IT USED TO BE IWOULD ALMOST RESENT IF IT
  • 00:08:43.112 --> 00:08:43.679
  • WOULD ALMOST RESENT IF ITWENT OVER WELL, BECAUSE I
  • 00:08:43.679 --> 00:08:44.413
  • WENT OVER WELL, BECAUSE ITHOUGHT, YOU DON'T REALLY
  • 00:08:44.413 --> 00:08:45.781
  • THOUGHT, YOU DON'T REALLYKNOW ME.
  • 00:08:45.781 --> 00:08:46.282
  • KNOW ME.WHY ARE YOU CLAPPING?
  • 00:08:46.282 --> 00:08:49.685
  • WHY ARE YOU CLAPPING?BECAUSE I WAS SO
  • 00:08:49.685 --> 00:08:52.722
  • BECAUSE I WAS SODISTRUSTFUL OF KINDNESS
  • 00:08:52.722 --> 00:08:53.289
  • DISTRUSTFUL OF KINDNESSBECAUSE OF SOME STUFF FROM
  • 00:08:53.289 --> 00:08:54.423
  • BECAUSE OF SOME STUFF FROMMY PAST.
  • 00:08:54.423 --> 00:08:56.325
  • MY PAST.I WOULD SMILE AND NOD, BUT
  • 00:08:56.325 --> 00:08:57.493
  • I WOULD SMILE AND NOD, BUTI WOULD THINK, THERE'S
  • 00:08:57.493 --> 00:08:58.060
  • I WOULD THINK, THERE'SNOTHING IN THAT THAT FEEDS
  • 00:08:58.060 --> 00:08:59.562
  • NOTHING IN THAT THAT FEEDSANYTHING IN ME.
  • 00:08:59.562 --> 00:09:01.430
  • ANYTHING IN ME.I WAS EXPECTING-- BUT IF
  • 00:09:01.430 --> 00:09:03.032
  • I WAS EXPECTING-- BUT IFSOMEBODY SAID THAT'S THE
  • 00:09:03.032 --> 00:09:04.433
  • SOMEBODY SAID THAT'S THEWORST THING I'VE EVER
  • 00:09:04.433 --> 00:09:06.168
  • WORST THING I'VE EVERHEARD ANYBODY SAY ON
  • 00:09:06.168 --> 00:09:07.403
  • HEARD ANYBODY SAY ON1 THESSALONIANS, I'D BE
  • 00:09:07.403 --> 00:09:07.837
  • 1 THESSALONIANS, I'D BELIKE, OKAY.
  • 00:09:07.837 --> 00:09:09.572
  • LIKE, OKAY.IT'S LIKE THE GRIEVE IN ME
  • 00:09:09.572 --> 00:09:11.440
  • IT'S LIKE THE GRIEVE IN MEGOT SO STUCK ON ABUSE THAT
  • 00:09:11.440 --> 00:09:11.974
  • GOT SO STUCK ON ABUSE THATWAS THE ONLY PLACE I WAS
  • 00:09:11.974 --> 00:09:15.444
  • WAS THE ONLY PLACE I WASCOMFORTABLE.
  • 00:09:15.444 --> 00:09:15.978
  • COMFORTABLE.WHEN I REALIZED, WHAT AN
  • 00:09:15.978 --> 00:09:17.179
  • WHEN I REALIZED, WHAT ANIDOL THAT WAS IN MY LIFE
  • 00:09:17.179 --> 00:09:17.680
  • IDOL THAT WAS IN MY LIFEAND HOW I REALLY DIDN'T
  • 00:09:17.680 --> 00:09:20.816
  • AND HOW I REALLY DIDN'TBELIEVE, I BELIEVE GOD
  • 00:09:20.816 --> 00:09:21.584
  • BELIEVE, I BELIEVE GODDELIVERED ME FROM MY SINS.
  • 00:09:21.584 --> 00:09:23.686
  • DELIVERED ME FROM MY SINS.I COULDN'T IMAGINE GOD
  • 00:09:23.686 --> 00:09:24.854
  • I COULDN'T IMAGINE GODDELIGHTING IN ME BECAUSE I
  • 00:09:24.854 --> 00:09:27.523
  • DELIGHTING IN ME BECAUSE IWAS SUCH A BROKEN LITTLE
  • 00:09:27.523 --> 00:09:29.258
  • WAS SUCH A BROKEN LITTLEGIRL THAT I THOUGHT, I'VE
  • 00:09:29.258 --> 00:09:30.660
  • GIRL THAT I THOUGHT, I'VEJUST GOT TO WORK REALLY
  • 00:09:30.660 --> 00:09:31.994
  • JUST GOT TO WORK REALLYHARD TO PROVE THAT HIM
  • 00:09:31.994 --> 00:09:33.629
  • HARD TO PROVE THAT HIMSAVING ME WASN'T SOMETHING
  • 00:09:33.629 --> 00:09:35.564
  • SAVING ME WASN'T SOMETHINGTHAT HE WOULD LATER
  • 00:09:35.564 --> 00:09:36.766
  • THAT HE WOULD LATERREGRET.
  • 00:09:36.766 --> 00:09:37.667
  • REGRET.I WOULDN'T SAY THAT
  • 00:09:37.667 --> 00:09:39.201
  • I WOULDN'T SAY THATTHEOLOGICALLY, I WOULD
  • 00:09:39.201 --> 00:09:40.569
  • THEOLOGICALLY, I WOULDNEVER SAY THAT WAS MY
  • 00:09:40.569 --> 00:09:41.871
  • NEVER SAY THAT WAS MYDOCTRINE, BUT THAT WAS--
  • 00:09:41.871 --> 00:09:44.740
  • DOCTRINE, BUT THAT WAS--THAT EMOTIONAL BRAND ON MY
  • 00:09:44.740 --> 00:09:46.809
  • THAT EMOTIONAL BRAND ON MYHEART OF THERE'S NO WAY A
  • 00:09:46.809 --> 00:09:48.477
  • HEART OF THERE'S NO WAY AGOD LIKE THAT COULD
  • 00:09:48.477 --> 00:09:49.745
  • GOD LIKE THAT COULDACTUALLY DELIGHT IN A
  • 00:09:49.745 --> 00:09:50.846
  • ACTUALLY DELIGHT IN AWOMAN LIKE ME.
  • 00:09:50.846 --> 00:09:52.415
  • WOMAN LIKE ME.IT'S TAKEN YEARS FOR GOD
  • 00:09:52.415 --> 00:09:55.785
  • IT'S TAKEN YEARS FOR GODTO UNWIND THOSE UNTRUTHS.
  • 00:09:55.785 --> 00:09:57.920
  • TO UNWIND THOSE UNTRUTHS.- JOYCE: WHEN I FIRST
  • 00:09:57.920 --> 00:09:59.121
  • - JOYCE: WHEN I FIRSTSTARTED--
  • 00:09:59.121 --> 00:10:00.022
  • STARTED--WHEN MY MINISTRY FIRST
  • 00:10:00.022 --> 00:10:00.623
  • WHEN MY MINISTRY FIRSTSTARTED GROWING, I REMEMBER
  • 00:10:00.623 --> 00:10:01.457
  • STARTED GROWING, I REMEMBERSO MANY PEOPLE SAYING, NOW,
  • 00:10:01.457 --> 00:10:03.292
  • SO MANY PEOPLE SAYING, NOW,DON'T GET SO BIG THAT
  • 00:10:03.292 --> 00:10:04.360
  • DON'T GET SO BIG THATYOU'RE TOO GOOD TO COME
  • 00:10:04.360 --> 00:10:06.295
  • YOU'RE TOO GOOD TO COMETO US.
  • 00:10:06.295 --> 00:10:07.563
  • TO US.WELL, WHEN MY MINISTRY DID
  • 00:10:07.563 --> 00:10:09.999
  • WELL, WHEN MY MINISTRY DIDGET BIGGER AND I COULDN'T
  • 00:10:09.999 --> 00:10:13.402
  • GET BIGGER AND I COULDN'TJUST GO DO EVERY
  • 00:10:13.402 --> 00:10:15.271
  • JUST GO DO EVERYNINE-PERSON BIBLE STUDY,
  • 00:10:15.271 --> 00:10:17.006
  • NINE-PERSON BIBLE STUDY,YOU KNOW, THAT WOULD COME
  • 00:10:17.006 --> 00:10:17.606
  • YOU KNOW, THAT WOULD COMEBACK TO ME ALL THE TIME.
  • 00:10:17.606 --> 00:10:18.874
  • BACK TO ME ALL THE TIME.I DON'T WANT THEM TO THINK
  • 00:10:18.874 --> 00:10:20.142
  • I DON'T WANT THEM TO THINKI THINK I'M TOO GOOD TO
  • 00:10:20.142 --> 00:10:22.011
  • I THINK I'M TOO GOOD TOGO.
  • 00:10:22.011 --> 00:10:24.180
  • GO.SO I WOULD JUST SAY YES TO
  • 00:10:24.180 --> 00:10:26.582
  • SO I WOULD JUST SAY YES TOEVERYTHING AND I LITERALLY
  • 00:10:26.582 --> 00:10:28.150
  • EVERYTHING AND I LITERALLYJUST WAS MAKING MYSELF
  • 00:10:28.150 --> 00:10:28.984
  • JUST WAS MAKING MYSELFSICK.
  • 00:10:28.984 --> 00:10:30.019
  • SICK.I WAS COMPLETELY
  • 00:10:30.019 --> 00:10:32.722
  • I WAS COMPLETELYDESTROYING MY HEALTH.
  • 00:10:32.722 --> 00:10:36.525
  • DESTROYING MY HEALTH.SO, I WAS NOT BEING
  • 00:10:36.525 --> 00:10:39.929
  • SO, I WAS NOT BEINGPLEASING TO GOD AND SAYING
  • 00:10:39.929 --> 00:10:41.363
  • PLEASING TO GOD AND SAYINGYES TO EVERYBODY, SOMEBODY
  • 00:10:41.363 --> 00:10:42.665
  • YES TO EVERYBODY, SOMEBODYSAID SOMETHING TO ME I
  • 00:10:42.665 --> 00:10:43.499
  • SAID SOMETHING TO ME ITHOUGHT WAS REALLY GOOD.
  • 00:10:43.499 --> 00:10:44.133
  • THOUGHT WAS REALLY GOOD.THEY SAID, IF YOU KEEP
  • 00:10:44.133 --> 00:10:47.136
  • THEY SAID, IF YOU KEEPTAKING ALL THE LITTLE
  • 00:10:47.136 --> 00:10:48.070
  • TAKING ALL THE LITTLETHINGS THAT YOU ARE
  • 00:10:48.070 --> 00:10:50.306
  • THINGS THAT YOU AREINVITED TO TAKE AND YOU
  • 00:10:50.306 --> 00:10:51.974
  • INVITED TO TAKE AND YOUWON'T LET ME PROMOTE YOU,
  • 00:10:51.974 --> 00:10:53.242
  • WON'T LET ME PROMOTE YOU,THEN YOU NEVER MAKE ROOM
  • 00:10:53.242 --> 00:10:55.010
  • THEN YOU NEVER MAKE ROOMFOR THE OTHER PEOPLE HERE
  • 00:10:55.010 --> 00:10:59.482
  • FOR THE OTHER PEOPLE HERETHAT ARE WAITING TO MOVE
  • 00:10:59.482 --> 00:11:00.816
  • THAT ARE WAITING TO MOVEINTO THAT-- SO I WAS
  • 00:11:00.816 --> 00:11:02.952
  • INTO THAT-- SO I WASACTUALLY REALLY, BY NOT
  • 00:11:02.952 --> 00:11:03.953
  • ACTUALLY REALLY, BY NOTOBEYING GOD, I WAS
  • 00:11:03.953 --> 00:11:05.454
  • OBEYING GOD, I WASHINDERING OTHER PEOPLE.
  • 00:11:05.454 --> 00:11:06.021
  • HINDERING OTHER PEOPLE.- LISA: KIND OF CLOGGING
  • 00:11:06.021 --> 00:11:07.389
  • - LISA: KIND OF CLOGGINGUP THE PIPE.
  • 00:11:07.389 --> 00:11:07.923
  • UP THE PIPE.- JOYCE: YEAH.
  • 00:11:07.923 --> 00:11:08.424
  • - JOYCE: YEAH.I WAS CLOGGING UP THE
  • 00:11:08.424 --> 00:11:09.725
  • I WAS CLOGGING UP THEPIPE.
  • 00:11:09.725 --> 00:11:10.826
  • PIPE.SO GOD SHOWED ME IT'S
  • 00:11:10.826 --> 00:11:12.261
  • SO GOD SHOWED ME IT'SGOOD-- YOU HAVE TO SAY NO
  • 00:11:12.261 --> 00:11:14.730
  • GOOD-- YOU HAVE TO SAY NOWHEN GOD IS SAYING NO.
  • 00:11:14.730 --> 00:11:17.900
  • WHEN GOD IS SAYING NO.OTHERWISE, WHEN YOU START,
  • 00:11:17.900 --> 00:11:19.835
  • OTHERWISE, WHEN YOU START,IT'S TIME TO GO DO THIS
  • 00:11:19.835 --> 00:11:21.937
  • IT'S TIME TO GO DO THISTHING YOU SAID YES TO AND
  • 00:11:21.937 --> 00:11:25.775
  • THING YOU SAID YES TO ANDYOU'RE DREADING IT AND
  • 00:11:25.775 --> 00:11:27.376
  • YOU'RE DREADING IT ANDRESENTING THAT YOU HAVE TO
  • 00:11:27.376 --> 00:11:28.110
  • RESENTING THAT YOU HAVE TOGO, THEN THERE'S A
  • 00:11:28.110 --> 00:11:30.746
  • GO, THEN THERE'S APROBLEM.
  • 00:11:30.746 --> 00:11:32.114
  • PROBLEM.AND ONE THING I'VE MADE MY
  • 00:11:32.114 --> 00:11:34.817
  • AND ONE THING I'VE MADE MYMIND UP TO, IF I'M GOING
  • 00:11:34.817 --> 00:11:35.718
  • MIND UP TO, IF I'M GOINGTO SPEND MY LIFE DOING
  • 00:11:35.718 --> 00:11:38.087
  • TO SPEND MY LIFE DOINGTHIS, I AM GOING TO ENJOY IT.
  • 00:11:38.087 --> 00:11:40.656
  • THIS, I AM GOING TO ENJOY IT.IF I CAN'T ENJOY WHAT I'M
  • 00:11:40.656 --> 00:11:43.292
  • IF I CAN'T ENJOY WHAT I'MDOING,.
  • 00:11:43.292 --> 00:11:43.826
  • DOING,.- CECE: THEN YOU'RE NOT
  • 00:11:43.826 --> 00:11:45.694
  • - CECE: THEN YOU'RE NOTGONNA DO IT.
  • 00:11:45.694 --> 00:11:46.529
  • GONNA DO IT.THAT'S GOOD.
  • 00:11:46.529 --> 00:11:47.062
  • THAT'S GOOD.- ELISABETH: GOD WANTS
  • 00:11:47.062 --> 00:11:47.897
  • - ELISABETH: GOD WANTSTHAT FOR YOU TOO.
  • 00:11:47.897 --> 00:11:48.898
  • THAT FOR YOU TOO.HE WANTS YOU TO ENJOY.
  • 00:11:48.898 --> 00:11:49.465
  • HE WANTS YOU TO ENJOY.HE WANTS TO KNOW THAT YOU
  • 00:11:49.465 --> 00:11:51.433
  • HE WANTS TO KNOW THAT YOUCAN HAVE THE FULLNESS OF
  • 00:11:51.433 --> 00:11:52.401
  • CAN HAVE THE FULLNESS OFWHAT HE HAS TO OFFER.
  • 00:11:52.401 --> 00:11:52.935
  • WHAT HE HAS TO OFFER.AND THAT'S ONE THING I'M
  • 00:11:52.935 --> 00:11:53.502
  • AND THAT'S ONE THING I'MLIKE, I DON'T ALLOW MYSELF
  • 00:11:53.502 --> 00:11:54.203
  • LIKE, I DON'T ALLOW MYSELFTHAT SOMETIMES.
  • 00:11:54.203 --> 00:11:55.704
  • THAT SOMETIMES.HE WANTS THE FULLNESS FOR
  • 00:11:55.704 --> 00:11:56.839
  • HE WANTS THE FULLNESS FORUS.
  • 00:11:56.839 --> 00:11:58.507
  • US.- LAURIE: WHEN JESUS-- HE
  • 00:11:58.507 --> 00:12:01.043
  • - LAURIE: WHEN JESUS-- HEDIDN'T WANT THE OPINION OF
  • 00:12:01.043 --> 00:12:03.345
  • DIDN'T WANT THE OPINION OFMAN, BECAUSE HE KNEW HOW
  • 00:12:03.345 --> 00:12:05.481
  • MAN, BECAUSE HE KNEW HOWFICKLE WE ARE.
  • 00:12:05.481 --> 00:12:07.149
  • FICKLE WE ARE.ONE DAY THEY ARE FOR US,
  • 00:12:07.149 --> 00:12:08.350
  • ONE DAY THEY ARE FOR US,ONE DAY THEY'RE AGAINST US.
  • 00:12:08.350 --> 00:12:09.785
  • ONE DAY THEY'RE AGAINST US.SO HE KNOWS THAT AND WE
  • 00:12:09.785 --> 00:12:12.121
  • SO HE KNOWS THAT AND WENEED TO LIVE THE SAME WAY
  • 00:12:12.121 --> 00:12:14.223
  • NEED TO LIVE THE SAME WAYTHAT-- I LOVE YOU AND I
  • 00:12:14.223 --> 00:12:16.492
  • THAT-- I LOVE YOU AND IWANT YOU TO LOVE ME.
  • 00:12:16.492 --> 00:12:19.195
  • WANT YOU TO LOVE ME.BUT I CAN'T LIVE FOR YOU.
  • 00:12:19.195 --> 00:12:20.763
  • BUT I CAN'T LIVE FOR YOU.I HAVE TO LIVE FOR HIM.
  • 00:12:20.763 --> 00:12:23.966
  • I HAVE TO LIVE FOR HIM.AND SO, KEEP THAT IN MIND.
  • 00:12:23.966 --> 00:12:26.035
  • AND SO, KEEP THAT IN MIND.BECAUSE I KNOW TOMORROW
  • 00:12:26.035 --> 00:12:27.469
  • BECAUSE I KNOW TOMORROWYOU COULD TURN AGAINST--
  • 00:12:27.469 --> 00:12:28.337
  • YOU COULD TURN AGAINST--YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING.
  • 00:12:28.337 --> 00:12:29.805
  • YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING.- LISA: ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:12:29.805 --> 00:12:30.673
  • - LISA: ABSOLUTELY.- LAURIE: AND HE IS THE
  • 00:12:30.673 --> 00:12:32.074
  • - LAURIE: AND HE IS THEONLY CONSTANT, CONSTANT,
  • 00:12:32.074 --> 00:12:35.377
  • ONLY CONSTANT, CONSTANT,CONSTANT IN OUR LIVES.
  • 00:12:35.377 --> 00:12:36.245
  • CONSTANT IN OUR LIVES.- CECE: THAT'S RIGHT.
  • 00:12:36.245 --> 00:12:36.846
  • - CECE: THAT'S RIGHT.- JOYCE: I WANT YOU TO
  • 00:12:36.846 --> 00:12:37.413
  • - JOYCE: I WANT YOU TOLIKE ME BUT I WILL SURVIVE
  • 00:12:37.413 --> 00:12:38.814
  • LIKE ME BUT I WILL SURVIVEEVEN IF YOU DON'T.
  • 00:12:38.814 --> 00:12:39.648
  • EVEN IF YOU DON'T.- LAURIE: YOU'RE JUST
  • 00:12:39.648 --> 00:12:41.283
  • - LAURIE: YOU'RE JUSTGONNA HAVE TO GO ON, IF
  • 00:12:41.283 --> 00:12:42.084
  • GONNA HAVE TO GO ON, IFYOU DON'T.
  • 00:12:42.084 --> 00:12:43.385
  • YOU DON'T.- CECE: PEOPLE PLEASING
  • 00:12:43.385 --> 00:12:46.021
  • - CECE: PEOPLE PLEASINGIT WILL EXHAUST YOU, IT'S
  • 00:12:46.021 --> 00:12:46.755
  • IT WILL EXHAUST YOU, IT'SEXHAUSTING.
  • 00:12:46.755 --> 00:12:48.724
  • EXHAUSTING.IT'S LIKE LIVING ON A
  • 00:12:48.724 --> 00:12:50.993
  • IT'S LIKE LIVING ON AROLLER COASTER.
  • 00:12:50.993 --> 00:12:52.394
  • ROLLER COASTER.AND FOR ALL OF US WHO LIVE
  • 00:12:52.394 --> 00:12:56.098
  • AND FOR ALL OF US WHO LIVEIN THE PUBLIC EYE A LOT--
  • 00:12:56.098 --> 00:12:56.599
  • IN THE PUBLIC EYE A LOT--- LAURIE: WE HAVE TO
  • 00:12:56.599 --> 00:12:57.333
  • - LAURIE: WE HAVE TOLEARN THAT.
  • 00:12:57.333 --> 00:12:58.500
  • LEARN THAT.- CECE: --I HAD TO LEARN
  • 00:12:58.500 --> 00:12:59.702
  • - CECE: --I HAD TO LEARNTHAT REALLY, REALLY QUICK.
  • 00:12:59.702 --> 00:13:02.605
  • THAT REALLY, REALLY QUICK.SINGING, CUZ ONE WEEK
  • 00:13:02.605 --> 00:13:05.040
  • SINGING, CUZ ONE WEEKEVERYBODY LIKES YOUR SONG
  • 00:13:05.040 --> 00:13:06.508
  • EVERYBODY LIKES YOUR SONGAND THE NEXT WEEK, IT'S
  • 00:13:06.508 --> 00:13:08.677
  • AND THE NEXT WEEK, IT'SREALLY NOT GOOD AT ALL.
  • 00:13:08.677 --> 00:13:11.247
  • REALLY NOT GOOD AT ALL.SO YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND
  • 00:13:11.247 --> 00:13:15.384
  • SO YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTANDTHAT PLEASING GOD PUTS YOU
  • 00:13:15.384 --> 00:13:16.685
  • THAT PLEASING GOD PUTS YOUIN A POSITION TO BE A
  • 00:13:16.685 --> 00:13:17.920
  • IN A POSITION TO BE ABLESSING TO PEOPLE.
  • 00:13:17.920 --> 00:13:20.022
  • BLESSING TO PEOPLE.BUT WHEN SHE SAID THAT, IF
  • 00:13:20.022 --> 00:13:21.857
  • BUT WHEN SHE SAID THAT, IFYOU DON'T, REALLY, IF YOU
  • 00:13:21.857 --> 00:13:23.058
  • YOU DON'T, REALLY, IF YOUDON'T LEARN TO SAY NO,
  • 00:13:23.058 --> 00:13:24.159
  • DON'T LEARN TO SAY NO,YOU'RE NOT IN A POSITION
  • 00:13:24.159 --> 00:13:24.927
  • YOU'RE NOT IN A POSITIONTO SAY YES.
  • 00:13:24.927 --> 00:13:27.263
  • TO SAY YES.- LISA: EXACTLY.
  • 00:13:27.263 --> 00:13:28.264
  • - LISA: EXACTLY.- CECE: YOU DON'T EVEN
  • 00:13:28.264 --> 00:13:29.865
  • - CECE: YOU DON'T EVENHAVE TIME TO SAY YES TO
  • 00:13:29.865 --> 00:13:30.399
  • HAVE TIME TO SAY YES TOWHAT YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO
  • 00:13:30.399 --> 00:13:30.966
  • WHAT YOU'RE SUPPOSED TOSAY YES TO.
  • 00:13:30.966 --> 00:13:31.467
  • SAY YES TO.- JOYCE: YOU CAN'T SAY
  • 00:13:31.467 --> 00:13:32.034
  • - JOYCE: YOU CAN'T SAYYES TO WHAT YOU'RE
  • 00:13:32.034 --> 00:13:32.701
  • YES TO WHAT YOU'RESUPPOSED TO SAY YES TO.
  • 00:13:32.701 --> 00:13:33.469
  • SUPPOSED TO SAY YES TO.- CECE: BECAUSE YOU
  • 00:13:33.469 --> 00:13:34.703
  • - CECE: BECAUSE YOUHAVEN'T SAID NO.
  • 00:13:34.703 --> 00:13:35.437
  • HAVEN'T SAID NO.- LISA: YOU DON'T HAVE
  • 00:13:35.437 --> 00:13:36.372
  • - LISA: YOU DON'T HAVETHE JOY AND YOU DON'T HAVE
  • 00:13:36.372 --> 00:13:37.306
  • THE JOY AND YOU DON'T HAVETHE EASE.
  • 00:13:37.306 --> 00:13:37.873
  • THE EASE.YOU HAVE THAT, I HAVE SAID
  • 00:13:37.873 --> 00:13:38.841
  • YOU HAVE THAT, I HAVE SAIDYES TO SO MANY THINGS THAT
  • 00:13:38.841 --> 00:13:39.909
  • YES TO SO MANY THINGS THATI FELT LIKE AFTERWARDS,
  • 00:13:39.909 --> 00:13:41.176
  • I FELT LIKE AFTERWARDS,NEVER IN A CAPRICIOUS WAY,
  • 00:13:41.176 --> 00:13:43.679
  • NEVER IN A CAPRICIOUS WAY,BUT I FELT LIKE GOD WAS
  • 00:13:43.679 --> 00:13:45.247
  • BUT I FELT LIKE GOD WASLIKE, I THOUGHT I HAD TO
  • 00:13:45.247 --> 00:13:46.815
  • LIKE, I THOUGHT I HAD TODO THAT.
  • 00:13:46.815 --> 00:13:48.717
  • DO THAT.I LEARNED IF I SAY SHOULD
  • 00:13:48.717 --> 00:13:50.920
  • I LEARNED IF I SAY SHOULDIN MY OWN MIND, I DON'T
  • 00:13:50.920 --> 00:13:52.221
  • IN MY OWN MIND, I DON'TNEED TO SHOULD ALL OVER
  • 00:13:52.221 --> 00:13:52.955
  • NEED TO SHOULD ALL OVERMYSELF.
  • 00:13:52.955 --> 00:13:54.757
  • MYSELF.IF IT COMES FROM A PLACE
  • 00:13:54.757 --> 00:13:56.025
  • IF IT COMES FROM A PLACEOF SHOULD, I HAVE TO BACK
  • 00:13:56.025 --> 00:13:57.293
  • OF SHOULD, I HAVE TO BACKUP AND GO, LORD, I MIGHT
  • 00:13:57.293 --> 00:13:59.028
  • UP AND GO, LORD, I MIGHTNOT HAVE HEARD YOU,
  • 00:13:59.028 --> 00:14:00.996
  • NOT HAVE HEARD YOU,BECAUSE CALLING USUALLY IS
  • 00:14:00.996 --> 00:14:03.399
  • BECAUSE CALLING USUALLY ISNOT BASED ON A SHOULD.
  • 00:14:03.399 --> 00:14:06.001
  • NOT BASED ON A SHOULD.THERE IS A JOY, THERE IS
  • 00:14:06.001 --> 00:14:07.403
  • THERE IS A JOY, THERE ISAN EASE YOU GET TO.
  • 00:14:07.403 --> 00:14:09.471
  • AN EASE YOU GET TO.ONE OF THE BEST THINGS HE
  • 00:14:09.471 --> 00:14:11.307
  • ONE OF THE BEST THINGS HEHAS ALLOWED ME TO DO, I
  • 00:14:11.307 --> 00:14:11.974
  • HAS ALLOWED ME TO DO, IWAS ON A NATIONAL TOUR FOR
  • 00:14:11.974 --> 00:14:13.342
  • WAS ON A NATIONAL TOUR FORA LITTLE WHILE, CHRISTIAN
  • 00:14:13.342 --> 00:14:15.177
  • A LITTLE WHILE, CHRISTIANWOMEN'S CONFERENCE AND I
  • 00:14:15.177 --> 00:14:15.878
  • WOMEN'S CONFERENCE AND IWAS ON TOUR WITH
  • 00:14:15.878 --> 00:14:16.645
  • WAS ON TOUR WITHLISA WHELCHEL.
  • 00:14:16.645 --> 00:14:17.146
  • LISA WHELCHEL.I THINK YOU'LL ALL KNOW.
  • 00:14:17.146 --> 00:14:20.115
  • I THINK YOU'LL ALL KNOW.SHE WAS ON "FACTS OF
  • 00:14:20.115 --> 00:14:21.050
  • SHE WAS ON "FACTS OFLIFE," A TV SHOW, YOU WERE
  • 00:14:21.050 --> 00:14:23.686
  • LIFE," A TV SHOW, YOU WEREPROBABLY TOO GODLY TO
  • 00:14:23.686 --> 00:14:25.154
  • PROBABLY TOO GODLY TOWATCH IT, MISS JOYCE, BUT
  • 00:14:25.154 --> 00:14:26.288
  • WATCH IT, MISS JOYCE, BUTANYWAY, SHE WAS A SITCOM
  • 00:14:26.288 --> 00:14:28.524
  • ANYWAY, SHE WAS A SITCOMSTAR FOR YEARS.
  • 00:14:28.524 --> 00:14:30.059
  • STAR FOR YEARS.WE ARE THE SAME AGE, BUT
  • 00:14:30.059 --> 00:14:32.995
  • WE ARE THE SAME AGE, BUTLISA IS TEENY, TINY, ABOUT
  • 00:14:32.995 --> 00:14:34.296
  • LISA IS TEENY, TINY, ABOUTYOUR SIZE, PETITE,
  • 00:14:34.296 --> 00:14:35.531
  • YOUR SIZE, PETITE,BEAUTIFUL BLOND.
  • 00:14:35.531 --> 00:14:37.599
  • BEAUTIFUL BLOND.BUT WE HAVE A REAL SIMILAR
  • 00:14:37.599 --> 00:14:39.535
  • BUT WE HAVE A REAL SIMILARSHAPED HEAD AND SMILE AND
  • 00:14:39.535 --> 00:14:42.738
  • SHAPED HEAD AND SMILE ANDSO, NOBODY WAS COMING TO
  • 00:14:42.738 --> 00:14:45.140
  • SO, NOBODY WAS COMING TOWHERE-- PEOPLE ARE LINED
  • 00:14:45.140 --> 00:14:46.442
  • WHERE-- PEOPLE ARE LINEDUP TO BUY BOOKS, TO SEE
  • 00:14:46.442 --> 00:14:47.576
  • UP TO BUY BOOKS, TO SEELISA HARPER, THEY THOUGHT
  • 00:14:47.576 --> 00:14:49.111
  • LISA HARPER, THEY THOUGHTI WAS LISA WHELCHEL.
  • 00:14:49.111 --> 00:14:50.980
  • I WAS LISA WHELCHEL.AND I CANNOT TELL YOU HOW
  • 00:14:50.980 --> 00:14:52.648
  • AND I CANNOT TELL YOU HOWMANY THOUSANDS, LITERALLY,
  • 00:14:52.648 --> 00:14:53.716
  • MANY THOUSANDS, LITERALLY,OF WOMEN, I'D GO,
  • 00:14:53.716 --> 00:14:55.317
  • OF WOMEN, I'D GO,I'M SORRY.
  • 00:14:55.317 --> 00:14:56.418
  • I'M SORRY.BECAUSE THEY STOOD IN LINE
  • 00:14:56.418 --> 00:14:57.619
  • BECAUSE THEY STOOD IN LINEFOR 45 MINUTES THINKING
  • 00:14:57.619 --> 00:14:59.788
  • FOR 45 MINUTES THINKINGTHEY ARE MEETING LISA
  • 00:14:59.788 --> 00:15:00.656
  • THEY ARE MEETING LISAWHELCHEL BECAUSE I HAD A
  • 00:15:00.656 --> 00:15:02.558
  • WHELCHEL BECAUSE I HAD ABIG GRIN AND A BIG HEAD.
  • 00:15:02.558 --> 00:15:03.492
  • BIG GRIN AND A BIG HEAD.I'M LIKE, I'M SO SORRY.
  • 00:15:03.492 --> 00:15:04.994
  • I'M LIKE, I'M SO SORRY.SHE IS ON THE OTHER SIDE
  • 00:15:04.994 --> 00:15:06.729
  • SHE IS ON THE OTHER SIDEOF THE ARENA.
  • 00:15:06.729 --> 00:15:07.429
  • OF THE ARENA.THEY WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO GET
  • 00:15:07.429 --> 00:15:07.963
  • THEY WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO GETTHERE BECAUSE THE BREAK
  • 00:15:07.963 --> 00:15:08.697
  • THERE BECAUSE THE BREAKWAS ONLY SO LONG.
  • 00:15:08.697 --> 00:15:10.499
  • WAS ONLY SO LONG.IT WAS THE MOST LOVELY
  • 00:15:10.499 --> 00:15:12.735
  • IT WAS THE MOST LOVELYTHING TO GO-- ALMOST ALL
  • 00:15:12.735 --> 00:15:14.703
  • THING TO GO-- ALMOST ALLTHE TIME I WAS OUT THERE I
  • 00:15:14.703 --> 00:15:16.372
  • THE TIME I WAS OUT THERE IWAS DISPLEASING PEOPLE.
  • 00:15:16.372 --> 00:15:17.673
  • WAS DISPLEASING PEOPLE.BUT I STILL GOT TO BE
  • 00:15:17.673 --> 00:15:19.341
  • BUT I STILL GOT TO BEPRESENT AND HUG ON THEM
  • 00:15:19.341 --> 00:15:21.043
  • PRESENT AND HUG ON THEMAND LOVE ON THEM.
  • 00:15:21.043 --> 00:15:22.044
  • AND LOVE ON THEM.AND SOMETIMES THEY'D BE
  • 00:15:22.044 --> 00:15:23.012
  • AND SOMETIMES THEY'D BELIKE, (DISAPPOINTEDLY)
  • 00:15:23.012 --> 00:15:24.046
  • LIKE, (DISAPPOINTEDLY)WELL, WILL YOU SIGN IT?
  • 00:15:24.046 --> 00:15:25.147
  • WELL, WILL YOU SIGN IT?(LAUGHTER)
  • 00:15:25.147 --> 00:15:28.817
  • (LAUGHTER)I WAS TOTALLY THE
  • 00:15:28.817 --> 00:15:29.518
  • I WAS TOTALLY THECONSOLATION PRIZE.
  • 00:15:29.518 --> 00:15:30.786
  • CONSOLATION PRIZE.BUT THERE WAS SUCH A
  • 00:15:30.786 --> 00:15:31.620
  • BUT THERE WAS SUCH ASWEETNESS TO IT BECAUSE I
  • 00:15:31.620 --> 00:15:32.087
  • SWEETNESS TO IT BECAUSE IFOUND MYSELF GOING, I
  • 00:15:32.087 --> 00:15:33.956
  • FOUND MYSELF GOING, IDON'T EVER WANT TO HAVE A
  • 00:15:33.956 --> 00:15:35.190
  • DON'T EVER WANT TO HAVE ASENSE OF ENTITLEMENT WITH
  • 00:15:35.190 --> 00:15:36.058
  • SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT WITHPEOPLE CLAPPING OR
  • 00:15:36.058 --> 00:15:38.727
  • PEOPLE CLAPPING ORAPPROVING OF WHAT I DO.
  • 00:15:38.727 --> 00:15:39.628
  • APPROVING OF WHAT I DO.I WANT TO GO, MAN, IF I
  • 00:15:39.628 --> 00:15:41.730
  • I WANT TO GO, MAN, IF IGET TO DO THIS, I'M GONNA
  • 00:15:41.730 --> 00:15:42.364
  • GET TO DO THIS, I'M GONNABRING MY WHOLE HEART TO
  • 00:15:42.364 --> 00:15:43.399
  • BRING MY WHOLE HEART TOTHE TABLE.
  • 00:15:43.399 --> 00:15:45.334
  • THE TABLE.BUT IF THERE IS A LAUGH
  • 00:15:45.334 --> 00:15:46.702
  • BUT IF THERE IS A LAUGHTRACK OR A BOO TRACK THAT
  • 00:15:46.702 --> 00:15:47.336
  • TRACK OR A BOO TRACK THATDOESN'T MATTER.
  • 00:15:47.336 --> 00:15:48.537
  • DOESN'T MATTER.IS GOD SMILING AT ME?
  • 00:15:48.537 --> 00:15:49.972
  • IS GOD SMILING AT ME?- ELISABETH: JOYCE, I
  • 00:15:49.972 --> 00:15:51.407
  • - ELISABETH: JOYCE, ILOVE WHAT YOU SAID, TOO,
  • 00:15:51.407 --> 00:15:52.541
  • LOVE WHAT YOU SAID, TOO,ABOUT YOU COULD ALMOST BE
  • 00:15:52.541 --> 00:15:53.342
  • ABOUT YOU COULD ALMOST BESTEALING SOMEONE ELSE'S
  • 00:15:53.342 --> 00:15:54.209
  • STEALING SOMEONE ELSE'SYES.
  • 00:15:54.209 --> 00:15:54.710
  • YES.THAT WAS SO GOOD.
  • 00:15:54.710 --> 00:15:56.311
  • THAT WAS SO GOOD.IF YOU ARE TAKEN IN WHEN
  • 00:15:56.311 --> 00:15:57.513
  • IF YOU ARE TAKEN IN WHENYOU DON'T FEEL CALLED INTO
  • 00:15:57.513 --> 00:15:58.414
  • YOU DON'T FEEL CALLED INTOIT-- I ALSO THINK EVERYONE
  • 00:15:58.414 --> 00:15:59.848
  • IT-- I ALSO THINK EVERYONEGOT A PRETTY GOOD DEAL
  • 00:15:59.848 --> 00:16:01.250
  • GOT A PRETTY GOOD DEALCOMING UP AND GETTING YOUR
  • 00:16:01.250 --> 00:16:01.950
  • COMING UP AND GETTING YOURSMILE YOU BLESSED THEIR
  • 00:16:01.950 --> 00:16:02.851
  • SMILE YOU BLESSED THEIRDAY.
  • 00:16:02.851 --> 00:16:03.752
  • DAY.I WOULD HAVE BEEN LIKE,
  • 00:16:03.752 --> 00:16:05.621
  • I WOULD HAVE BEEN LIKE,SWEET!
  • 00:16:05.621 --> 00:16:06.989
  • SWEET!I WILL BE REALLY HONEST.
  • 00:16:06.989 --> 00:16:08.791
  • I WILL BE REALLY HONEST.I FEEL LIKE-- I THINK I
  • 00:16:08.791 --> 00:16:10.726
  • I FEEL LIKE-- I THINK IHAVE SUCH AN OUT LOUD
  • 00:16:10.726 --> 00:16:12.194
  • HAVE SUCH AN OUT LOUDPEOPLE PLEASER WAY ABOUT
  • 00:16:12.194 --> 00:16:14.463
  • PEOPLE PLEASER WAY ABOUTME THAT IT ALMOST IS MORE
  • 00:16:14.463 --> 00:16:15.764
  • ME THAT IT ALMOST IS MOREINSIDE WHERE I DEAL WITH
  • 00:16:15.764 --> 00:16:17.399
  • INSIDE WHERE I DEAL WITHWHAT I CALL F.O.L.P.D.,
  • 00:16:17.399 --> 00:16:19.001
  • WHAT I CALL F.O.L.P.D.,FEAR OF LETTING PEOPLE
  • 00:16:19.001 --> 00:16:19.468
  • FEAR OF LETTING PEOPLEDOWN.
  • 00:16:19.468 --> 00:16:20.102
  • DOWN.IT'S NOT THAT I WON'T
  • 00:16:20.102 --> 00:16:22.037
  • IT'S NOT THAT I WON'TPLEASE THEM, IT'S THAT I
  • 00:16:22.037 --> 00:16:23.439
  • PLEASE THEM, IT'S THAT IALMOST MAKE MYSELF SO-- I
  • 00:16:23.439 --> 00:16:24.773
  • ALMOST MAKE MYSELF SO-- IMUST MAKE MYSELF SO SUPER
  • 00:16:24.773 --> 00:16:26.475
  • MUST MAKE MYSELF SO SUPERNECESSARY, YOU KNOW?
  • 00:16:26.475 --> 00:16:26.942
  • NECESSARY, YOU KNOW?(LAUGHTER)
  • 00:16:26.942 --> 00:16:32.081
  • (LAUGHTER)I'M A UTILITY PLAYER HERE.
  • 00:16:32.081 --> 00:16:32.614
  • I'M A UTILITY PLAYER HERE.AND IF I DON'T DO THIS,
  • 00:16:32.614 --> 00:16:33.749
  • AND IF I DON'T DO THIS,THE WHOLE THING'S GONNA--
  • 00:16:33.749 --> 00:16:34.249
  • THE WHOLE THING'S GONNA--EVERYONE'S GONNA BE LET
  • 00:16:34.249 --> 00:16:34.850
  • EVERYONE'S GONNA BE LETDOWN.
  • 00:16:34.850 --> 00:16:36.185
  • DOWN.AND IT'S GOT TO BE SO
  • 00:16:36.185 --> 00:16:37.252
  • AND IT'S GOT TO BE SOSELF-CENTERED.
  • 00:16:37.252 --> 00:16:39.588
  • SELF-CENTERED.DO I THINK I'M NOT
  • 00:16:39.588 --> 00:16:40.889
  • DO I THINK I'M NOTNECESSARY?
  • 00:16:40.889 --> 00:16:44.793
  • NECESSARY?(LAUGHTER)
  • 00:16:44.793 --> 00:16:45.260
  • (LAUGHTER)REALLY?
  • 00:16:45.260 --> 00:16:46.361
  • REALLY?SO, I JUST THINK, THAT
  • 00:16:46.361 --> 00:16:47.396
  • SO, I JUST THINK, THATCAME TO ME RIGHT NOW.
  • 00:16:47.396 --> 00:16:48.664
  • CAME TO ME RIGHT NOW.IT'S NOT EVEN, WHATEVER.
  • 00:16:48.664 --> 00:16:50.265
  • IT'S NOT EVEN, WHATEVER.BUT I DO THINK IT IS THAT
  • 00:16:50.265 --> 00:16:52.101
  • BUT I DO THINK IT IS THATSNARE IN PROVERBS.
  • 00:16:52.101 --> 00:16:53.335
  • SNARE IN PROVERBS.I DID WRITE DOWN, "THE FEAR
  • 00:16:53.335 --> 00:16:54.470
  • I DID WRITE DOWN, "THE FEAROF MAN LAYS A SNARE, BUT
  • 00:16:54.470 --> 00:16:56.438
  • OF MAN LAYS A SNARE, BUTWHOEVER TRUSTS IN THE LORD
  • 00:16:56.438 --> 00:16:57.106
  • WHOEVER TRUSTS IN THE LORDIS SAFE."
  • 00:16:57.106 --> 00:16:57.673
  • IS SAFE."AND IT'S LIKE, I MUST NOT
  • 00:16:57.673 --> 00:16:58.474
  • AND IT'S LIKE, I MUST NOTTRUST THAT GOD,
  • 00:16:58.474 --> 00:17:00.209
  • TRUST THAT GOD,IF I SAY NO, OR EVEN IF I
  • 00:17:00.209 --> 00:17:01.977
  • IF I SAY NO, OR EVEN IF IMESS UP, I THINK IT IS
  • 00:17:01.977 --> 00:17:03.712
  • MESS UP, I THINK IT ISBECAUSE I STILL HAVE A LOT
  • 00:17:03.712 --> 00:17:05.047
  • BECAUSE I STILL HAVE A LOTOF YESES AND I'M WORKING
  • 00:17:05.047 --> 00:17:06.715
  • OF YESES AND I'M WORKINGTO LIKE SHIFT OVER TO, CAN
  • 00:17:06.715 --> 00:17:08.550
  • TO LIKE SHIFT OVER TO, CANI LET YOU KNOW THE NO
  • 00:17:08.550 --> 00:17:09.451
  • I LET YOU KNOW THE NOTOMORROW?
  • 00:17:09.451 --> 00:17:09.952
  • TOMORROW?I DON'T WANT TO LET YOU
  • 00:17:09.952 --> 00:17:10.385
  • I DON'T WANT TO LET YOUDOWN.
  • 00:17:10.385 --> 00:17:11.186
  • DOWN.F.O.L.P.D.
  • 00:17:11.186 --> 00:17:12.788
  • F.O.L.P.D.ACROSS MY T SHIRT.
  • 00:17:12.788 --> 00:17:15.958
  • ACROSS MY T SHIRT.BUT I DO THINK IT'S THAT
  • 00:17:15.958 --> 00:17:16.959
  • BUT I DO THINK IT'S THATFEELING OF, GOD, YOU WILL
  • 00:17:16.959 --> 00:17:18.660
  • FEELING OF, GOD, YOU WILLTAKE CARE OF THIS AND YOU
  • 00:17:18.660 --> 00:17:19.928
  • TAKE CARE OF THIS AND YOUWILL SUPPLY ALL THAT'S
  • 00:17:19.928 --> 00:17:21.263
  • WILL SUPPLY ALL THAT'SNEEDED FOR THE NEXT PERSON
  • 00:17:21.263 --> 00:17:22.498
  • NEEDED FOR THE NEXT PERSONWHO HAS THE YES THAT YOU
  • 00:17:22.498 --> 00:17:23.565
  • WHO HAS THE YES THAT YOUWANT TO OFFER THEM IN
  • 00:17:23.565 --> 00:17:24.366
  • WANT TO OFFER THEM INTHIS.
  • 00:17:24.366 --> 00:17:26.768
  • THIS.AND YOU'RE NOT GOING TO--
  • 00:17:26.768 --> 00:17:27.903
  • AND YOU'RE NOT GOING TO--HE'D SAY TO ME, STOP
  • 00:17:27.903 --> 00:17:29.938
  • HE'D SAY TO ME, STOPCREATING IDOLS OUT OF
  • 00:17:29.938 --> 00:17:30.572
  • CREATING IDOLS OUT OFPEOPLE AROUND YOU.
  • 00:17:30.572 --> 00:17:31.707
  • PEOPLE AROUND YOU.I DID IT FOR SO LONG,
  • 00:17:31.707 --> 00:17:32.407
  • I DID IT FOR SO LONG,BETSY IS WATCHING, MY
  • 00:17:32.407 --> 00:17:33.842
  • BETSY IS WATCHING, MYMOTHER-IN-LAW, SO WE'D
  • 00:17:33.842 --> 00:17:35.010
  • MOTHER-IN-LAW, SO WE'DTALK ABOUT IT.
  • 00:17:35.010 --> 00:17:36.311
  • TALK ABOUT IT.I COULD HAVE HAD A SWEET
  • 00:17:36.311 --> 00:17:38.780
  • I COULD HAVE HAD A SWEETSPOT OF FIVE YEARS, I THINK,
  • 00:17:38.780 --> 00:17:39.648
  • SPOT OF FIVE YEARS, I THINK,WITH HER WHERE I WAS SO
  • 00:17:39.648 --> 00:17:40.983
  • WITH HER WHERE I WAS SOINTENT ON NOT LETTING MY
  • 00:17:40.983 --> 00:17:42.284
  • INTENT ON NOT LETTING MYMOTHER-IN-LAW DOWN THAT I
  • 00:17:42.284 --> 00:17:43.852
  • MOTHER-IN-LAW DOWN THAT IDIDN'T-- I DIDN'T APPROACH
  • 00:17:43.852 --> 00:17:46.388
  • DIDN'T-- I DIDN'T APPROACHHER WITHOUT FEAR OF LIKE,
  • 00:17:46.388 --> 00:17:47.556
  • HER WITHOUT FEAR OF LIKE,I WANTED TO PROVE TO HER
  • 00:17:47.556 --> 00:17:48.657
  • I WANTED TO PROVE TO HERALL THE TIME THAT I'M AN
  • 00:17:48.657 --> 00:17:50.692
  • ALL THE TIME THAT I'M ANAMAZING WIFE TO TIM.
  • 00:17:50.692 --> 00:17:51.894
  • AMAZING WIFE TO TIM.SHE LOVED ON HIM SO WELL,
  • 00:17:51.894 --> 00:17:53.128
  • SHE LOVED ON HIM SO WELL,HE WAS GOING TO BE IN THE
  • 00:17:53.128 --> 00:17:54.196
  • HE WAS GOING TO BE IN THEBEST HANDS.
  • 00:17:54.196 --> 00:17:57.466
  • BEST HANDS.AND I, IN MY MOST LIKE
  • 00:17:57.466 --> 00:17:58.267
  • AND I, IN MY MOST LIKECONFESSED VERSION, I THINK
  • 00:17:58.267 --> 00:18:00.235
  • CONFESSED VERSION, I THINKI JUST-- GOD HAS
  • 00:18:00.235 --> 00:18:01.336
  • I JUST-- GOD HASMULTIPLIED THOSE MINUTES
  • 00:18:01.336 --> 00:18:02.571
  • MULTIPLIED THOSE MINUTESSO WELL SINCE THE DAY I
  • 00:18:02.571 --> 00:18:04.373
  • SO WELL SINCE THE DAY IDECIDED TO NOT IDOLIZE HER
  • 00:18:04.373 --> 00:18:06.775
  • DECIDED TO NOT IDOLIZE HERBUT JUST HUG HER AS MY
  • 00:18:06.775 --> 00:18:08.310
  • BUT JUST HUG HER AS MYSISTER IN CHRIST WHO
  • 00:18:08.310 --> 00:18:09.378
  • SISTER IN CHRIST WHORAISED THE MAN OF MY
  • 00:18:09.378 --> 00:18:10.846
  • RAISED THE MAN OF MYDREAMS AND THAT I WAS
  • 00:18:10.846 --> 00:18:11.380
  • DREAMS AND THAT I WASGOING TO PROBABLY LET HER
  • 00:18:11.380 --> 00:18:12.447
  • GOING TO PROBABLY LET HERDOWN SOMETIMES, I WAS
  • 00:18:12.447 --> 00:18:14.216
  • DOWN SOMETIMES, I WASGOING TO MESS THINGS UP,
  • 00:18:14.216 --> 00:18:15.617
  • GOING TO MESS THINGS UP,BUT I NEEDED TO STOP
  • 00:18:15.617 --> 00:18:16.785
  • BUT I NEEDED TO STOPMAKING HER MY IDOL BECAUSE
  • 00:18:16.785 --> 00:18:17.586
  • MAKING HER MY IDOL BECAUSETHAT'S GOD'S JOB
  • 00:18:17.586 --> 00:18:18.687
  • THAT'S GOD'S JOBDESCRIPTION.
  • 00:18:18.687 --> 00:18:20.722
  • DESCRIPTION.HE IS SOVEREIGN.
  • 00:18:20.722 --> 00:18:22.824
  • HE IS SOVEREIGN.HE IS OVER EVERYTHING AND
  • 00:18:22.824 --> 00:18:25.060
  • HE IS OVER EVERYTHING ANDTHERE'S NOTHING I CAN DO
  • 00:18:25.060 --> 00:18:25.961
  • THERE'S NOTHING I CAN DOTO GET OUT OF HIS LOVE,
  • 00:18:25.961 --> 00:18:27.129
  • TO GET OUT OF HIS LOVE,LIKE NOTHING, BUT I WAS
  • 00:18:27.129 --> 00:18:28.096
  • LIKE NOTHING, BUT I WASGIVING HER THAT POSITION.
  • 00:18:28.096 --> 00:18:29.097
  • GIVING HER THAT POSITION.AND IT HAS BEEN SO MUCH
  • 00:18:29.097 --> 00:18:30.132
  • AND IT HAS BEEN SO MUCHMORE SWEET.
  • 00:18:30.132 --> 00:18:31.500
  • MORE SWEET.AND I THINK SO MANY WOMEN
  • 00:18:31.500 --> 00:18:32.568
  • AND I THINK SO MANY WOMENSTRUGGLE WITH THAT BECAUSE
  • 00:18:32.568 --> 00:18:33.769
  • STRUGGLE WITH THAT BECAUSETHEY PLACE THIS WOMAN THAT
  • 00:18:33.769 --> 00:18:35.237
  • THEY PLACE THIS WOMAN THATTHEY JUST LOVE AND HONOR
  • 00:18:35.237 --> 00:18:36.572
  • THEY JUST LOVE AND HONORWHERE THEY ARE NOT
  • 00:18:36.572 --> 00:18:38.340
  • WHERE THEY ARE NOTSUPPOSED TO BE.
  • 00:18:38.340 --> 00:18:40.442
  • SUPPOSED TO BE.AND SHE BIRTHED THE MAN OF
  • 00:18:40.442 --> 00:18:41.577
  • AND SHE BIRTHED THE MAN OFMY DREAMS, RAISED HIM TO
  • 00:18:41.577 --> 00:18:42.144
  • MY DREAMS, RAISED HIM TOLOVE ME SO WELL.
  • 00:18:42.144 --> 00:18:44.146
  • LOVE ME SO WELL.I IDOLIZED HER FOR THAT
  • 00:18:44.146 --> 00:18:46.582
  • I IDOLIZED HER FOR THATBUT THAT IS NOT WHAT GOD'S
  • 00:18:46.582 --> 00:18:47.082
  • BUT THAT IS NOT WHAT GOD'SASKING ME TO DO.
  • 00:18:47.082 --> 00:18:47.749
  • ASKING ME TO DO.SO I OPERATED IN THIS FEAR
  • 00:18:47.749 --> 00:18:48.550
  • SO I OPERATED IN THIS FEAROF LETTING HER DOWN FOR SO
  • 00:18:48.550 --> 00:18:49.117
  • OF LETTING HER DOWN FOR SOMANY YEARS.
  • 00:18:49.117 --> 00:18:49.985
  • MANY YEARS.AND NOW OUR RELATIONSHIP
  • 00:18:49.985 --> 00:18:51.053
  • AND NOW OUR RELATIONSHIPIS SO SWEET BECAUSE I'M
  • 00:18:51.053 --> 00:18:52.020
  • IS SO SWEET BECAUSE I'MLIKE, I'M NOT IDOLIZING
  • 00:18:52.020 --> 00:18:52.621
  • LIKE, I'M NOT IDOLIZINGYOU ANYMORE.
  • 00:18:52.621 --> 00:18:54.623
  • YOU ANYMORE.I'M ACTUALLY NOT AFRAID TO
  • 00:18:54.623 --> 00:18:55.757
  • I'M ACTUALLY NOT AFRAID TOLET YOU DOWN.
  • 00:18:55.757 --> 00:18:57.793
  • LET YOU DOWN.I DON'T WANT TO AND I HONOR
  • 00:18:57.793 --> 00:18:58.594
  • I DON'T WANT TO AND I HONORYOU, BUT BETSY AND I HAVE
  • 00:18:58.594 --> 00:18:59.127
  • YOU, BUT BETSY AND I HAVETHIS SWEET RELATIONSHIP
  • 00:18:59.127 --> 00:19:00.729
  • THIS SWEET RELATIONSHIPNOW.
  • 00:19:00.729 --> 00:19:01.930
  • NOW.WE'RE SISTERS.
  • 00:19:01.930 --> 00:19:03.065
  • WE'RE SISTERS.- LISA: IT'S INTERESTING
  • 00:19:03.065 --> 00:19:04.466
  • - LISA: IT'S INTERESTINGTHAT YOU ALMOST CAME ALL
  • 00:19:04.466 --> 00:19:05.701
  • THAT YOU ALMOST CAME ALLTHE WAY BACK TO WHAT JOYCE
  • 00:19:05.701 --> 00:19:06.702
  • THE WAY BACK TO WHAT JOYCESTARTED WITH, TALKING
  • 00:19:06.702 --> 00:19:08.570
  • STARTED WITH, TALKINGABOUT THE WOMAN WHO WAS
  • 00:19:08.570 --> 00:19:10.505
  • ABOUT THE WOMAN WHO WASTHE GATE KEEPER AT THE
  • 00:19:10.505 --> 00:19:11.073
  • THE GATE KEEPER AT THECHURCH WHEN YOU WERE
  • 00:19:11.073 --> 00:19:12.507
  • CHURCH WHEN YOU WEREYOUNGER AND HOW YOU DID
  • 00:19:12.507 --> 00:19:14.209
  • YOUNGER AND HOW YOU DIDEVERYTHING YOU COULD.
  • 00:19:14.209 --> 00:19:15.010
  • EVERYTHING YOU COULD.AND WHEN BOTH OF YOU WERE
  • 00:19:15.010 --> 00:19:17.646
  • AND WHEN BOTH OF YOU WERETALKING, IT REMINDS ME OF
  • 00:19:17.646 --> 00:19:18.780
  • TALKING, IT REMINDS ME OF1 THESSALONIANS WHERE
  • 00:19:18.780 --> 00:19:20.382
  • 1 THESSALONIANS WHEREPAUL SAYS, "BUT JUST AS WE
  • 00:19:20.382 --> 00:19:21.783
  • PAUL SAYS, "BUT JUST AS WEHAVE BEEN APPROVED BY GOD
  • 00:19:21.783 --> 00:19:23.118
  • HAVE BEEN APPROVED BY GODTO BE ENTRUSTED WITH THE
  • 00:19:23.118 --> 00:19:24.419
  • TO BE ENTRUSTED WITH THEGOSPEL, SO WE SPEAK NOT TO
  • 00:19:24.419 --> 00:19:25.921
  • GOSPEL, SO WE SPEAK NOT TOPLEASE MAN BUT TO PLEASE
  • 00:19:25.921 --> 00:19:28.090
  • PLEASE MAN BUT TO PLEASEGOD, WHO TESTS OUR HEARTS,
  • 00:19:28.090 --> 00:19:29.391
  • GOD, WHO TESTS OUR HEARTS,FOR WE NEVER CAME WITH
  • 00:19:29.391 --> 00:19:30.225
  • FOR WE NEVER CAME WITHWORDS OF FLATTERY."
  • 00:19:30.225 --> 00:19:33.295
  • WORDS OF FLATTERY."AND I USED TO LOVE THE
  • 00:19:33.295 --> 00:19:34.329
  • AND I USED TO LOVE THESECOND PART OF THAT VERSE
  • 00:19:34.329 --> 00:19:35.631
  • SECOND PART OF THAT VERSEBECAUSE IT SAYS THAT WE
  • 00:19:35.631 --> 00:19:36.898
  • BECAUSE IT SAYS THAT WELOVED YOU AS A MOTHER
  • 00:19:36.898 --> 00:19:39.334
  • LOVED YOU AS A MOTHERLOVES HER CHILDREN.
  • 00:19:39.334 --> 00:19:40.435
  • LOVES HER CHILDREN.AND I THOUGHT, THAT'S WHAT
  • 00:19:40.435 --> 00:19:40.869
  • AND I THOUGHT, THAT'S WHATI IDENTIFY WITH.
  • 00:19:40.869 --> 00:19:41.703
  • I IDENTIFY WITH.I WANT TO MOTHER THE
  • 00:19:41.703 --> 00:19:42.237
  • I WANT TO MOTHER THEPEOPLE I GET TO MINISTER
  • 00:19:42.237 --> 00:19:43.472
  • PEOPLE I GET TO MINISTERWITH AND I USED TO IGNORE
  • 00:19:43.472 --> 00:19:46.275
  • WITH AND I USED TO IGNORETHE FIRST PART OF THAT
  • 00:19:46.275 --> 00:19:46.742
  • THE FIRST PART OF THATPASSAGE.
  • 00:19:46.742 --> 00:19:47.976
  • PASSAGE.THEN I GO, LISA, HOW OFTEN
  • 00:19:47.976 --> 00:19:49.111
  • THEN I GO, LISA, HOW OFTENDO YOU COME TO OTHER
  • 00:19:49.111 --> 00:19:50.012
  • DO YOU COME TO OTHERPEOPLE WITH FLATTERY?
  • 00:19:50.012 --> 00:19:51.280
  • PEOPLE WITH FLATTERY?I STARTED CHECKING MYSELF.
  • 00:19:51.280 --> 00:19:52.547
  • I STARTED CHECKING MYSELF.BECAUSE IF I'M FLATTERING,
  • 00:19:52.547 --> 00:19:53.682
  • BECAUSE IF I'M FLATTERING,I'M USUALLY TRYING TO
  • 00:19:53.682 --> 00:19:55.250
  • I'M USUALLY TRYING TOGREASE THE SKIDS TO MAKE
  • 00:19:55.250 --> 00:19:56.218
  • GREASE THE SKIDS TO MAKETHEM LIKE ME, TO GET
  • 00:19:56.218 --> 00:19:58.720
  • THEM LIKE ME, TO GETSOMETHING.
  • 00:19:58.720 --> 00:19:59.521
  • SOMETHING.ENCOURAGEMENT AND FLATTERY
  • 00:19:59.521 --> 00:20:00.355
  • ENCOURAGEMENT AND FLATTERYFEEL TOTALLY DIFFERENT.
  • 00:20:00.355 --> 00:20:02.724
  • FEEL TOTALLY DIFFERENT.ENCOURAGEMENT COMES FROM A
  • 00:20:02.724 --> 00:20:03.625
  • ENCOURAGEMENT COMES FROM AHEART THAT I FIND MY
  • 00:20:03.625 --> 00:20:04.993
  • HEART THAT I FIND MYIDENTITY AND CONTENTMENT
  • 00:20:04.993 --> 00:20:05.460
  • IDENTITY AND CONTENTMENTIN CHRIST, SO I'M
  • 00:20:05.460 --> 00:20:06.728
  • IN CHRIST, SO I'MSINCERELY SAYING I HAD TO
  • 00:20:06.728 --> 00:20:09.331
  • SINCERELY SAYING I HAD TOPULL THE SUNROOF BACK AND
  • 00:20:09.331 --> 00:20:10.966
  • PULL THE SUNROOF BACK ANDRAISE MY HANDS OUT WHEN I
  • 00:20:10.966 --> 00:20:13.302
  • RAISE MY HANDS OUT WHEN IWAS LISTENING TO YOU
  • 00:20:13.302 --> 00:20:15.337
  • WAS LISTENING TO YOUWORSHIP IN THE CAR.
  • 00:20:15.337 --> 00:20:15.871
  • WORSHIP IN THE CAR.THAT'S NOT FLATTERY.
  • 00:20:15.871 --> 00:20:16.638
  • THAT'S NOT FLATTERY.BUT I FEEL LIKE THAT'S
  • 00:20:16.638 --> 00:20:18.073
  • BUT I FEEL LIKE THAT'SPART OF ME MATURING AND
  • 00:20:18.073 --> 00:20:19.207
  • PART OF ME MATURING ANDBEING LESS OF A PEOPLE
  • 00:20:19.207 --> 00:20:20.575
  • BEING LESS OF A PEOPLEPERSON IS TO GO, WHEN AM I
  • 00:20:20.575 --> 00:20:21.576
  • PERSON IS TO GO, WHEN AM ICOMING AT SOMEONE WITH
  • 00:20:21.576 --> 00:20:22.644
  • COMING AT SOMEONE WITHFLATTERY TO GET THEM TO
  • 00:20:22.644 --> 00:20:23.278
  • FLATTERY TO GET THEM TOLIKE ME OR GET SOMETHING I
  • 00:20:23.278 --> 00:20:25.681
  • LIKE ME OR GET SOMETHING IWANT?
  • 00:20:25.681 --> 00:20:26.214
  • WANT?AND WHEN AM I SINCERELY
  • 00:20:26.214 --> 00:20:27.649
  • AND WHEN AM I SINCERELYSAYING, THANK YOU FOR
  • 00:20:27.649 --> 00:20:28.850
  • SAYING, THANK YOU FORBIRTHING THE MAN OF MY
  • 00:20:28.850 --> 00:20:29.551
  • BIRTHING THE MAN OF MYDREAMS, WHICH I HOPE ONE
  • 00:20:29.551 --> 00:20:32.821
  • DREAMS, WHICH I HOPE ONEDAY I ACTUALLY GET TO SAY.
  • 00:20:32.821 --> 00:20:36.325
  • DAY I ACTUALLY GET TO SAY.(LAUGHTER)
  • 00:20:36.325 --> 00:20:37.092
  • (LAUGHTER)- ELISABETH: YES, YES,
  • 00:20:37.092 --> 00:20:37.793
  • - ELISABETH: YES, YES,YES.
  • 00:20:37.793 --> 00:20:40.062
  • YES.- JOYCE: I THINK WE ALL
  • 00:20:40.062 --> 00:20:41.063
  • - JOYCE: I THINK WE ALLHAVE TO REALIZE THE BOTTOM
  • 00:20:41.063 --> 00:20:42.130
  • HAVE TO REALIZE THE BOTTOMLINE IS, IF YOU-- A PERSON
  • 00:20:42.130 --> 00:20:42.898
  • LINE IS, IF YOU-- A PERSONIS NOT A TRUE FRIEND IF
  • 00:20:42.898 --> 00:20:44.299
  • IS NOT A TRUE FRIEND IFYOU HAVE TO TELL THEM YES
  • 00:20:44.299 --> 00:20:45.067
  • YOU HAVE TO TELL THEM YESALL THE TIME TO KEEP THEIR
  • 00:20:45.067 --> 00:20:47.569
  • ALL THE TIME TO KEEP THEIRFRIENDSHIP.
  • 00:20:47.569 --> 00:20:48.804
  • FRIENDSHIP.IF SOMEBODY REALLY LOVES
  • 00:20:48.804 --> 00:20:50.739
  • IF SOMEBODY REALLY LOVESYOU, THEN YOU CAN TELL
  • 00:20:50.739 --> 00:20:52.641
  • YOU, THEN YOU CAN TELLTHEM NO AND THEY'RE GONNA
  • 00:20:52.641 --> 00:20:53.909
  • THEM NO AND THEY'RE GONNALOVE YOU JUST AS MUCH IF
  • 00:20:53.909 --> 00:20:55.911
  • LOVE YOU JUST AS MUCH IFTHEY GOT A NO AS THEY DID
  • 00:20:55.911 --> 00:20:57.446
  • THEY GOT A NO AS THEY DIDIF THEY GOT A YES.
  • 00:20:57.446 --> 00:20:59.081
  • IF THEY GOT A YES.AND WE-- I THINK WE ALL
  • 00:20:59.081 --> 00:21:04.386
  • AND WE-- I THINK WE ALLHAVE TO REALLY KEEP IN
  • 00:21:04.386 --> 00:21:07.222
  • HAVE TO REALLY KEEP INMIND THAT WE REALLY NEED
  • 00:21:07.222 --> 00:21:07.756
  • MIND THAT WE REALLY NEEDTO DO WHAT GOD TELLS US
  • 00:21:07.756 --> 00:21:09.191
  • TO DO WHAT GOD TELLS USTO.
  • 00:21:09.191 --> 00:21:11.860
  • TO.NOT WHAT-- NOT WHAT'S JUST
  • 00:21:11.860 --> 00:21:13.195
  • NOT WHAT-- NOT WHAT'S JUSTGONNA MAKE PEOPLE LIKE US,
  • 00:21:13.195 --> 00:21:16.331
  • GONNA MAKE PEOPLE LIKE US,OR-- I'M VERY COMMITTED IN
  • 00:21:16.331 --> 00:21:18.133
  • OR-- I'M VERY COMMITTED INMY TEACHING AND PREACHING.
  • 00:21:18.133 --> 00:21:20.001
  • MY TEACHING AND PREACHING.I'M NOT GOING TO PREACH TO
  • 00:21:20.001 --> 00:21:20.469
  • I'M NOT GOING TO PREACH TOPLEASE YOU.
  • 00:21:20.469 --> 00:21:22.037
  • PLEASE YOU.I'M GONNA SAY WHAT I
  • 00:21:22.037 --> 00:21:23.605
  • I'M GONNA SAY WHAT IBELIEVE GOD IS TELLING ME
  • 00:21:23.605 --> 00:21:25.140
  • BELIEVE GOD IS TELLING METO SAY.
  • 00:21:25.140 --> 00:21:27.008
  • TO SAY.AND WHEN YOU'RE IN OUR
  • 00:21:27.008 --> 00:21:29.644
  • AND WHEN YOU'RE IN OURPOSITION, YOU CAN NEVER DO
  • 00:21:29.644 --> 00:21:30.779
  • POSITION, YOU CAN NEVER DOONE THING THAT'S GONNA
  • 00:21:30.779 --> 00:21:31.279
  • ONE THING THAT'S GONNAPLEASE EVERYBODY.
  • 00:21:31.279 --> 00:21:34.116
  • PLEASE EVERYBODY.I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU DO.
  • 00:21:34.116 --> 00:21:36.084
  • I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU DO.YOU CAN NEVER DO ONE THING
  • 00:21:36.084 --> 00:21:36.718
  • YOU CAN NEVER DO ONE THINGTHAT'S GONNA PLEASE
  • 00:21:36.718 --> 00:21:38.720
  • THAT'S GONNA PLEASEEVERYBODY.
  • 00:21:38.720 --> 00:21:39.988
  • EVERYBODY.SO WHY KEEP TRYING AND
  • 00:21:39.988 --> 00:21:42.023
  • SO WHY KEEP TRYING ANDLET'S JUST PLEASE ONE
  • 00:21:42.023 --> 00:21:43.925
  • LET'S JUST PLEASE ONEPERSON, GOD, IT'S A HUGE
  • 00:21:43.925 --> 00:21:46.461
  • PERSON, GOD, IT'S A HUGESTEP OF FAITH.
  • 00:21:46.461 --> 00:21:48.497
  • STEP OF FAITH.LIKE I SAID, I'M STILL
  • 00:21:48.497 --> 00:21:49.064
  • LIKE I SAID, I'M STILLWORKING ON THIS THING
  • 00:21:49.064 --> 00:21:50.132
  • WORKING ON THIS THINGWITH MY KIDS, IT'S A GOOD
  • 00:21:50.132 --> 00:21:51.900
  • WITH MY KIDS, IT'S A GOODTHING MY KIDS ARE GOOD
  • 00:21:51.900 --> 00:21:53.735
  • THING MY KIDS ARE GOODKIDS AND MATURE, BECAUSE
  • 00:21:53.735 --> 00:21:54.803
  • KIDS AND MATURE, BECAUSETHEY CAN REALLY TAKE
  • 00:21:54.803 --> 00:21:55.837
  • THEY CAN REALLY TAKEADVANTAGE OF MY WEAKNESS
  • 00:21:55.837 --> 00:21:58.573
  • ADVANTAGE OF MY WEAKNESSIF THEY WANTED TO.
  • 00:21:58.573 --> 00:21:59.508
  • IF THEY WANTED TO.(LAUGHTER)
  • 00:21:59.508 --> 00:22:00.275
  • (LAUGHTER)BUT THEY DON'T.
  • 00:22:00.275 --> 00:22:01.276
  • BUT THEY DON'T.IT'S KIND OF LIKE
  • 00:22:01.276 --> 00:22:03.645
  • IT'S KIND OF LIKEEVERYBODY KIND OF KNOWS,
  • 00:22:03.645 --> 00:22:05.380
  • EVERYBODY KIND OF KNOWS,THIS IS MOM'S THING AND
  • 00:22:05.380 --> 00:22:06.081
  • THIS IS MOM'S THING ANDWE'RE HELPING HER.
  • 00:22:06.081 --> 00:22:09.618
  • WE'RE HELPING HER.BECAUSE EVEN IF TWO OF
  • 00:22:09.618 --> 00:22:11.019
  • BECAUSE EVEN IF TWO OFTHEM ARE FIGHTING, LIKE MY
  • 00:22:11.019 --> 00:22:13.822
  • THEM ARE FIGHTING, LIKE MYSON MIGHT SAY, I KNOW, I
  • 00:22:13.822 --> 00:22:14.890
  • SON MIGHT SAY, I KNOW, IKNOW, WE GOT TO GET PEACE.
  • 00:22:14.890 --> 00:22:16.024
  • KNOW, WE GOT TO GET PEACE.YOU HAVE TO HAVE
  • 00:22:16.024 --> 00:22:17.192
  • YOU HAVE TO HAVEYOUR PEACE.
  • 00:22:17.192 --> 00:22:19.261
  • YOUR PEACE.- CECE: I LOVE THAT.
  • 00:22:19.261 --> 00:22:20.228
  • - CECE: I LOVE THAT.- LISA: I'M THINKING I
  • 00:22:20.228 --> 00:22:21.029
  • - LISA: I'M THINKING IWANT TO BE GRAFTED IN THE
  • 00:22:21.029 --> 00:22:22.497
  • WANT TO BE GRAFTED IN THEMEYER FAMILY.
  • 00:22:22.497 --> 00:22:23.198
  • MEYER FAMILY.HOW ABOUT Y'ALL?
  • 00:22:23.198 --> 00:22:23.999
  • HOW ABOUT Y'ALL?- JOYCE: I GUESS IF
  • 00:22:23.999 --> 00:22:25.434
  • - JOYCE: I GUESS IFTHAT'S THE WORST THING I
  • 00:22:25.434 --> 00:22:26.968
  • THAT'S THE WORST THING IEVER DO, I'LL MAKE IT.
  • 00:22:26.968 --> 00:22:29.004
  • EVER DO, I'LL MAKE IT.BUT I SUFFERED TERRIBLY
  • 00:22:29.004 --> 00:22:30.772
  • BUT I SUFFERED TERRIBLYWITH PEOPLE PLEASING.
  • 00:22:30.772 --> 00:22:32.073
  • WITH PEOPLE PLEASING.LIKE I SAID, I ALMOST
  • 00:22:32.073 --> 00:22:33.275
  • LIKE I SAID, I ALMOSTKILLED MYSELF PHYSICALLY
  • 00:22:33.275 --> 00:22:33.775
  • KILLED MYSELF PHYSICALLYTRYING TO DO EVERYTHING
  • 00:22:33.775 --> 00:22:34.543
  • TRYING TO DO EVERYTHINGTHAT EVERYBODY ELSE WANTED
  • 00:22:34.543 --> 00:22:35.076
  • THAT EVERYBODY ELSE WANTEDME TO DO.
  • 00:22:35.076 --> 00:22:36.311
  • ME TO DO.AND I WOULD DO WHAT
  • 00:22:36.311 --> 00:22:38.847
  • AND I WOULD DO WHATEVERYBODY WANTED ME TO DO,
  • 00:22:38.847 --> 00:22:39.414
  • EVERYBODY WANTED ME TO DO,BUT I STILL HAD TO DO WHAT
  • 00:22:39.414 --> 00:22:41.616
  • BUT I STILL HAD TO DO WHATGOD HAD MADE ME
  • 00:22:41.616 --> 00:22:43.518
  • GOD HAD MADE MERESPONSIBLE FOR.
  • 00:22:43.518 --> 00:22:44.085
  • RESPONSIBLE FOR.- CECE: MAN, I THINK WE
  • 00:22:44.085 --> 00:22:45.987
  • - CECE: MAN, I THINK WEMISS OUT ON SO MANY REAL
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  • MISS OUT ON SO MANY REALRELATIONSHIPS BECAUSE OF
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  • RELATIONSHIPS BECAUSE OFLETTING ALL THOSE THINGS
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  • LETTING ALL THOSE THINGSGET IN THE WAY.
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  • GET IN THE WAY.- JOYCE: LOVE ME FOR ME,
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  • - JOYCE: LOVE ME FOR ME,NOT BECAUSE I DO
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  • NOT BECAUSE I DOEVERYTHING YOU WANT ME TO.
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  • EVERYTHING YOU WANT ME TO.AND TRUST ME IF I TELL
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  • AND TRUST ME IF I TELLYOU I CAN'T DO THAT.
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  • YOU I CAN'T DO THAT.TRUST ME THAT I'M NOT
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  • TRUST ME THAT I'M NOTLIKE-- IT'S NOT THAT I
  • 00:23:00.235 --> 00:23:01.369
  • LIKE-- IT'S NOT THAT IDON'T WANT TO DO IT FOR
  • 00:23:01.369 --> 00:23:03.972
  • DON'T WANT TO DO IT FORYOU, IT'S JUST-- IT'S NOT
  • 00:23:03.972 --> 00:23:05.173
  • YOU, IT'S JUST-- IT'S NOTTHE WISE THING FOR ME TO
  • 00:23:05.173 --> 00:23:05.907
  • THE WISE THING FOR ME TODO.
  • 00:23:05.907 --> 00:23:07.209
  • DO.OR IT'S NOT THE THING THAT
  • 00:23:07.209 --> 00:23:09.110
  • OR IT'S NOT THE THING THATGOD WANTS ME TO DO.
  • 00:23:09.110 --> 00:23:12.481
  • GOD WANTS ME TO DO.THE OLDER YOU GET, THE
  • 00:23:12.481 --> 00:23:16.451
  • THE OLDER YOU GET, THEBOLDER YOU GET.
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  • BOLDER YOU GET.- LAURIE: I'M FEELING IT
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  • - LAURIE: I'M FEELING ITCOME ON.
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  • COME ON.- CECE: OH, YEAH, ME TOO.
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  • - CECE: OH, YEAH, ME TOO.- JOYCE: I KIND OF
  • 00:23:23.124 --> 00:23:24.292
  • - JOYCE: I KIND OFSNICKERED WHEN YOU SAID
  • 00:23:24.292 --> 00:23:25.694
  • SNICKERED WHEN YOU SAIDYOU WERE 57.
  • 00:23:25.694 --> 00:23:27.562
  • YOU WERE 57.I THOUGHT-- (MAKES FACE)
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  • I THOUGHT-- (MAKES FACE)I'M 77.
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  • I'M 77.SO-- (LAUGHTER)
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  • SO-- (LAUGHTER)I KNOW A LOT BY NOW BUT
  • 00:23:35.136 --> 00:23:35.937
  • I KNOW A LOT BY NOW BUTI'VE HAD TO PAY THE PRICE
  • 00:23:35.937 --> 00:23:36.605
  • I'VE HAD TO PAY THE PRICETO GET IT ALL TOO.
  • 00:23:36.605 --> 00:23:37.105
  • TO GET IT ALL TOO.I'VE WALKED THROUGH ALL
  • 00:23:37.105 --> 00:23:38.540
  • I'VE WALKED THROUGH ALLTHESE THINGS.
  • 00:23:38.540 --> 00:23:40.141
  • THESE THINGS.FOR ME TO GET TO THE POINT
  • 00:23:40.141 --> 00:23:41.309
  • FOR ME TO GET TO THE POINTWHERE I WOULD SAY NO TO
  • 00:23:41.309 --> 00:23:42.744
  • WHERE I WOULD SAY NO TOSOMEBODY THAT I ADMIRED,
  • 00:23:42.744 --> 00:23:45.881
  • SOMEBODY THAT I ADMIRED,BECAUSE I KNEW THAT NO WAS
  • 00:23:45.881 --> 00:23:49.117
  • BECAUSE I KNEW THAT NO WASGOING TO BE A WISER THING
  • 00:23:49.117 --> 00:23:50.919
  • GOING TO BE A WISER THINGFOR ME, IT TOOK A LOT OF
  • 00:23:50.919 --> 00:23:52.521
  • FOR ME, IT TOOK A LOT OFSUFFERING AND ASKING GOD
  • 00:23:52.521 --> 00:23:55.624
  • SUFFERING AND ASKING GODTO HELP ME.
  • 00:23:55.624 --> 00:23:57.025
  • TO HELP ME.SO, I GET IT.
  • 00:23:57.025 --> 00:23:58.326
  • SO, I GET IT.I UNDERSTAND.
  • 00:23:58.326 --> 00:23:59.794
  • I UNDERSTAND.I KNOW THERE'S ALL KINDS
  • 00:23:59.794 --> 00:24:01.129
  • I KNOW THERE'S ALL KINDSOF PEOPLE WATCHING US THAT
  • 00:24:01.129 --> 00:24:01.663
  • OF PEOPLE WATCHING US THATARE IN BONDAGE TO PEOPLE
  • 00:24:01.663 --> 00:24:03.698
  • ARE IN BONDAGE TO PEOPLEPLEASING.
  • 00:24:03.698 --> 00:24:05.867
  • PLEASING.I SO MUCH WANT THEM TO
  • 00:24:05.867 --> 00:24:09.004
  • I SO MUCH WANT THEM TOREALIZE, GOD IS NOT
  • 00:24:09.004 --> 00:24:10.238
  • REALIZE, GOD IS NOTCALLING THEM TO PLEASE
  • 00:24:10.238 --> 00:24:11.406
  • CALLING THEM TO PLEASEEVERYBODY ELSE.
  • 00:24:11.406 --> 00:24:15.343
  • EVERYBODY ELSE.YES, I WANT YOU TO BE
  • 00:24:15.343 --> 00:24:16.578
  • YES, I WANT YOU TO BEPLEASED WITH ME, BUT I
  • 00:24:16.578 --> 00:24:18.280
  • PLEASED WITH ME, BUT ICAN'T AFFORD TO DISOBEY
  • 00:24:18.280 --> 00:24:19.147
  • CAN'T AFFORD TO DISOBEYGOD.
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  • GOD.- CECE: YOU CAN'T.
  • 00:24:20.682 --> 00:24:22.117
  • - CECE: YOU CAN'T.- JOYCE: IN ORDER FOR YOU
  • 00:24:22.117 --> 00:24:23.952
  • - JOYCE: IN ORDER FOR YOUTO BE PLEASED WITH ME.
  • 00:24:23.952 --> 00:24:24.786
  • TO BE PLEASED WITH ME.YOU EITHER ARE OR YOU'RE
  • 00:24:24.786 --> 00:24:25.820
  • YOU EITHER ARE OR YOU'RENOT.
  • 00:24:25.820 --> 00:24:26.354
  • NOT.- LAURIE: WOULD YOU PRAY
  • 00:24:26.354 --> 00:24:26.821
  • - LAURIE: WOULD YOU PRAYFOR US?
  • 00:24:26.821 --> 00:24:27.756
  • FOR US?- JOYCE: YEAH.
  • 00:24:27.756 --> 00:24:28.323
  • - JOYCE: YEAH.FATHER, WE COME TO YOU IN
  • 00:24:28.323 --> 00:24:29.024
  • FATHER, WE COME TO YOU INJESUS' NAME.
  • 00:24:29.024 --> 00:24:31.326
  • JESUS' NAME.HONESTLY, LORD, I FEEL SO
  • 00:24:31.326 --> 00:24:33.662
  • HONESTLY, LORD, I FEEL SOBAD FOR PEOPLE THAT ARE
  • 00:24:33.662 --> 00:24:37.232
  • BAD FOR PEOPLE THAT AREJUST BEGINNING TO MAYBE
  • 00:24:37.232 --> 00:24:38.300
  • JUST BEGINNING TO MAYBECONFRONT THE SITUATION IN
  • 00:24:38.300 --> 00:24:39.167
  • CONFRONT THE SITUATION INTHEIR LIFE.
  • 00:24:39.167 --> 00:24:40.168
  • THEIR LIFE.BECAUSE I KNOW WHAT IT
  • 00:24:40.168 --> 00:24:42.103
  • BECAUSE I KNOW WHAT ITTAKES.
  • 00:24:42.103 --> 00:24:44.005
  • TAKES.SO I ASK YOU TO GIVE THEM
  • 00:24:44.005 --> 00:24:46.508
  • SO I ASK YOU TO GIVE THEMREAL COURAGE.
  • 00:24:46.508 --> 00:24:48.877
  • REAL COURAGE.I CAN'T ASK YOU TO TAKE
  • 00:24:48.877 --> 00:24:50.045
  • I CAN'T ASK YOU TO TAKEAWAY EVERYTHING THAT'S
  • 00:24:50.045 --> 00:24:51.479
  • AWAY EVERYTHING THAT'SHARD FOR THEM BECAUSE YOU
  • 00:24:51.479 --> 00:24:53.048
  • HARD FOR THEM BECAUSE YOUWANT US TO GO THROUGH HARD
  • 00:24:53.048 --> 00:24:55.417
  • WANT US TO GO THROUGH HARDTHINGS UNTIL THEY ARE NO
  • 00:24:55.417 --> 00:24:57.385
  • THINGS UNTIL THEY ARE NOLONGER HARD FOR US.
  • 00:24:57.385 --> 00:24:59.154
  • LONGER HARD FOR US.BUT I DO ASK YOU TO GIVE
  • 00:24:59.154 --> 00:25:00.422
  • BUT I DO ASK YOU TO GIVETHEM REAL COURAGE AND TO
  • 00:25:00.422 --> 00:25:02.891
  • THEM REAL COURAGE AND TOTAKE THE TIME TO THINK
  • 00:25:02.891 --> 00:25:04.225
  • TAKE THE TIME TO THINKABOUT WHETHER THEY ARE
  • 00:25:04.225 --> 00:25:05.393
  • ABOUT WHETHER THEY AREREALLY SUPPOSED TO DO
  • 00:25:05.393 --> 00:25:05.994
  • REALLY SUPPOSED TO DOSOMETHING OR NOT.
  • 00:25:05.994 --> 00:25:07.762
  • SOMETHING OR NOT.IF THEY ARE NOT SUPPOSED
  • 00:25:07.762 --> 00:25:08.997
  • IF THEY ARE NOT SUPPOSEDTO DO IT TO BE ABLE TO SAY
  • 00:25:08.997 --> 00:25:13.401
  • TO DO IT TO BE ABLE TO SAYNO AND ALWAYS KNOW THAT
  • 00:25:13.401 --> 00:25:14.736
  • NO AND ALWAYS KNOW THATIT'S MORE IMPORTANT TO
  • 00:25:14.736 --> 00:25:15.870
  • IT'S MORE IMPORTANT TOPLEASE YOU THAN IT IS TO
  • 00:25:15.870 --> 00:25:18.139
  • PLEASE YOU THAN IT IS TOPLEASE ANYBODY.
  • 00:25:18.139 --> 00:25:19.074
  • PLEASE ANYBODY.I PRAY FOR THEIR FREEDOM.
  • 00:25:19.074 --> 00:25:20.342
  • I PRAY FOR THEIR FREEDOM.I PRAY FOR THEIR
  • 00:25:20.342 --> 00:25:22.444
  • I PRAY FOR THEIRDELIVERANCE, I PRAY THAT
  • 00:25:22.444 --> 00:25:23.144
  • DELIVERANCE, I PRAY THATTHEY WILL BE ABLE TO ENJOY
  • 00:25:23.144 --> 00:25:24.646
  • THEY WILL BE ABLE TO ENJOYEVERY DAY OF THEIR LIFE BY
  • 00:25:24.646 --> 00:25:26.147
  • EVERY DAY OF THEIR LIFE BYKNOWING THAT WHATEVER THEY
  • 00:25:26.147 --> 00:25:27.482
  • KNOWING THAT WHATEVER THEYARE DOING IS RIGHT IN THE
  • 00:25:27.482 --> 00:25:28.383
  • ARE DOING IS RIGHT IN THECENTER OF YOUR WILL.
  • 00:25:28.383 --> 00:25:29.651
  • CENTER OF YOUR WILL.I ASK IT IN JESUS' NAME.
  • 00:25:29.651 --> 00:25:31.186
  • I ASK IT IN JESUS' NAME.AMEN.
  • 00:25:31.186 --> 00:25:34.122
  • AMEN.- CECE: AMEN.
  • 00:25:34.122 --> 00:25:34.723
  • - CECE: AMEN.- LAURIE: CONNECT WITH US
  • 00:25:34.723 --> 00:25:35.290
  • - LAURIE: CONNECT WITH USON SOCIAL MEDIA.
  • 00:25:35.290 --> 00:25:37.025
  • ON SOCIAL MEDIA.AND LET US KNOW HOW OUR
  • 00:25:37.025 --> 00:25:39.794
  • AND LET US KNOW HOW OURTEAM CAN PRAY FOR YOU.
  • 00:25:39.794 --> 00:25:40.528
  • TEAM CAN PRAY FOR YOU.- LAURIE: NEXT TIME ON
  • 00:25:40.528 --> 00:25:42.697
  • - LAURIE: NEXT TIME ON"BETTER TOGETHER."
  • 00:25:42.697 --> 00:25:43.264
  • "BETTER TOGETHER."- CECE: SO IN ORDER TO
  • 00:25:43.264 --> 00:25:46.101
  • - CECE: SO IN ORDER TOEMBRACE YOUR FUTURE, YOU
  • 00:25:46.101 --> 00:25:46.701
  • EMBRACE YOUR FUTURE, YOUHAVE TO LET GO OF
  • 00:25:46.701 --> 00:25:47.702
  • HAVE TO LET GO OFYOUR PAST.
  • 00:25:47.702 --> 00:25:49.204
  • YOUR PAST.- LAURIE: WATCH
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  • - LAURIE: WATCH"BETTER TOGETHER" WEEKDAYS
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  • "BETTER TOGETHER" WEEKDAYSAND TUESDAY NIGHTS,
  • 00:25:51.172 --> 00:25:53.942