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October 23, 2020
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  • ♪ MUSIC ♪
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  • ♪ MUSIC ♪MATT HAGEE: MARRIAGE IS
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  • MATT HAGEE: MARRIAGE ISA COMMITMENT.
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  • A COMMITMENT.ARE YOU IN IT
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  • ARE YOU IN ITFOR THE LONG HAUL,
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  • FOR THE LONG HAUL,OR MAYBE SLOWLY DRIFTING APART?
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  • OR MAYBE SLOWLY DRIFTING APART?WOULD YOU LIKE TO FIX IT?
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  • WOULD YOU LIKE TO FIX IT?STAY RIGHT HERE.
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  • STAY RIGHT HERE.YOU'RE WATCHING
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  • YOU'RE WATCHING"THE DIFFERENCE."
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  • "THE DIFFERENCE."♪ MUSIC ♪
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  • ♪ MUSIC ♪KENDAL HAGEE: IN A WORLD
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  • KENDAL HAGEE: IN A WORLDOF BUSYNESS AND DISTRACTION,
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  • OF BUSYNESS AND DISTRACTION,DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE
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  • DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKEYOUR FAMILY OR YOUR MARRIAGE
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  • YOUR FAMILY OR YOUR MARRIAGEIS DRIFTING OFF COURSE?
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  • IS DRIFTING OFF COURSE?IF SO,
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  • IF SO,THIS SHOW IS JUST FOR YOU.
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  • THIS SHOW IS JUST FOR YOU.MATT HAGEE: TODAY ON
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  • MATT HAGEE: TODAY ON"THE DIFFERENCE,"
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  • "THE DIFFERENCE,"WE'RE TALKING ABOUT HOW
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  • WE'RE TALKING ABOUT HOWTO LIVE WITH THE INTENTION
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  • TO LIVE WITH THE INTENTIONIN YOUR FAMILY
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  • IN YOUR FAMILYAND IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
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  • AND IN YOUR MARRIAGE.RODNEY AND MICHELLE GAGE
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  • RODNEY AND MICHELLE GAGEARE FOUNDERS AND LEAD PASTORS
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  • ARE FOUNDERS AND LEAD PASTORSOF RETHINK LIFE CHURCH
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  • OF RETHINK LIFE CHURCHIN ORLANDO, FLORIDA.
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  • IN ORLANDO, FLORIDA.AND THEY'RE HERE TO SHARE TIPS,
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  • AND THEY'RE HERE TO SHARE TIPS,LESSONS,
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  • LESSONS,ADVICE ON HOW YOU CAN IDENTIFY
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  • ADVICE ON HOW YOU CAN IDENTIFYIF YOUR FAMILY AND MARRIAGE
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  • IF YOUR FAMILY AND MARRIAGEIS DRIFTING,
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  • IS DRIFTING,AND HOW TO GET THEM BACK
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  • AND HOW TO GET THEM BACKON TRACK WITH PURPOSE
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  • ON TRACK WITH PURPOSEAND INTENTION.
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  • AND INTENTION.KENDAL HAGEE: DON'T GO AWAY.
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  • KENDAL HAGEE: DON'T GO AWAY.YOU'RE WATCHING
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  • YOU'RE WATCHING"THE DIFFERENCE."
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  • "THE DIFFERENCE."♪ MUSIC ♪
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  • ♪ MUSIC ♪DO YOU WANT TO LEARN MORE
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  • DO YOU WANT TO LEARN MOREABOUT THE SHOW?
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  • ABOUT THE SHOW?FOLLOW US ON FACEBOOK
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  • FOLLOW US ON FACEBOOK@MATT AND KENDAL HAGEE,
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  • @MATT AND KENDAL HAGEE,ON INSTAGRAM
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  • ON INSTAGRAM@MATT HAGEE
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  • @MATT HAGEEAND @KENDAL HAGEE,
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  • AND @KENDAL HAGEE,ON TWITTER @MATT HAGEE
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  • ON TWITTER @MATT HAGEEAND @KENDAL HAGEE.
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  • AND @KENDAL HAGEE."THE DIFFERENCE"
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  • "THE DIFFERENCE"WITH MATT AND KENDAL HAGEE.
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  • WITH MATT AND KENDAL HAGEE.♪ MUSIC ♪
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  • ♪ MUSIC ♪MATT HAGEE: WELCOME TO
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  • MATT HAGEE: WELCOME TO"THE DIFFERENCE."
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  • "THE DIFFERENCE."OUR GUESTS TODAY ARE
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  • OUR GUESTS TODAY ARERODNEY AND MICHELLE GAGE.
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  • RODNEY AND MICHELLE GAGE.AND THEY'VE WRITTEN A BOOK
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  • AND THEY'VE WRITTEN A BOOKENTITLED "FAMILY SHIFT."
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  • ENTITLED "FAMILY SHIFT."AND I THINK IT'S NOT ONLY
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  • AND I THINK IT'S NOT ONLYAN APPROPRIATE TITLE
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  • AN APPROPRIATE TITLEBUT IT'S SOMETHING THAT A LOT
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  • BUT IT'S SOMETHING THAT A LOTOF PEOPLE PROBABLY NEED
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  • OF PEOPLE PROBABLY NEEDAND DON'T REALIZE IT,
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  • AND DON'T REALIZE IT,BECAUSE IN MANY CASES,
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  • BECAUSE IN MANY CASES,FAMILIES ARE, TODAY,
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  • FAMILIES ARE, TODAY,BEING DEFINED BY CULTURE.
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  • BEING DEFINED BY CULTURE.THEY'RE BEING DEFINED
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  • THEY'RE BEING DEFINEDBY SITUATIONS.
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  • BY SITUATIONS.THEY'RE BEING REALLY HIJACKED
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  • THEY'RE BEING REALLY HIJACKEDBY A NUMBER OF THINGS.
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  • BY A NUMBER OF THINGS.AND THERE'S A PLACE
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  • AND THERE'S A PLACEWHERE YOU CAN GO AND LOOK,
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  • WHERE YOU CAN GO AND LOOK,AND FIND OUT WHAT THE FAMILY
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  • AND FIND OUT WHAT THE FAMILYIS SUPPOSED TO LOOK LIKE,
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  • IS SUPPOSED TO LOOK LIKE,ACCOMPLISH,
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  • ACCOMPLISH,AND HOW IT'S SUPPOSED
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  • AND HOW IT'S SUPPOSEDTO GENERATIONALLY SUCCEED.
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  • TO GENERATIONALLY SUCCEED.SO WHAT -- WHAT IS IT ABOUT
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  • SO WHAT -- WHAT IS IT ABOUT"FAMILY SHIFT"
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  • "FAMILY SHIFT"THAT PEOPLE NEED TO KNOW?
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  • THAT PEOPLE NEED TO KNOW?RODNEY GAGE: WELL,
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  • RODNEY GAGE: WELL,AS YOU JUST HIT ON,
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  • AS YOU JUST HIT ON,THERE'S A MAJOR CULTURAL SHIFT
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  • THERE'S A MAJOR CULTURAL SHIFTTHAT'S HAPPENING.
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  • THAT'S HAPPENING.AND UNFORTUNATELY,
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  • AND UNFORTUNATELY,THAT SHIFT IS CAUSING
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  • THAT SHIFT IS CAUSINGMANY FAMILIES, COUPLES,
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  • MANY FAMILIES, COUPLES,TO DRIFT FURTHER APART
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  • TO DRIFT FURTHER APARTRATHER THAN CLOSER TOGETHER.
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  • RATHER THAN CLOSER TOGETHER.AND I THINK THEY HAVE GOOD
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  • AND I THINK THEY HAVE GOODINTENTIONS WITH A LOT
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  • INTENTIONS WITH A LOTOF THE CHOICES THEY MAKE
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  • OF THE CHOICES THEY MAKEAND THINGS THAT THEY OFTEN
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  • AND THINGS THAT THEY OFTENTHINK WILL DRAW THEM TOGETHER.
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  • THINK WILL DRAW THEM TOGETHER.BUT SO OFTEN THOSE GOOD THINGS,
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  • BUT SO OFTEN THOSE GOOD THINGS,OVER TIME,
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  • OVER TIME,CAN SOMETIMES ACTUALLY CAUSE
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  • CAN SOMETIMES ACTUALLY CAUSECHALLENGES AND SETBACKS,
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  • CHALLENGES AND SETBACKS,OR MAYBE JUST REALLY CAUSE
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  • OR MAYBE JUST REALLY CAUSEA SUBTLE DRIFT THAT THEY NEVER
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  • A SUBTLE DRIFT THAT THEY NEVERTHOUGHT WOULD EVER HAPPEN.
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  • THOUGHT WOULD EVER HAPPEN.KENDAL HAGEE: THAT'S RIGHT.
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  • KENDAL HAGEE: THAT'S RIGHT.RODNEY GAGE: AND SO OUR HOPE
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  • RODNEY GAGE: AND SO OUR HOPEAND REALLY THE PURPOSE
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  • AND REALLY THE PURPOSEFOR THIS BOOK IS REALLY,
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  • FOR THIS BOOK IS REALLY,IF ANYTHING,
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  • IF ANYTHING,IS JUST TO HELP PEOPLE
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  • IS JUST TO HELP PEOPLEUNDERSTAND THAT,
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  • UNDERSTAND THAT,HEY, IF YOU FIND YOURSELF
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  • HEY, IF YOU FIND YOURSELFMAYBE DRIFTING AWAY FROM
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  • MAYBE DRIFTING AWAY FROMWHAT COULD BE OR SHOULD BE,
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  • WHAT COULD BE OR SHOULD BE,OR WHAT THAT INTENDED DREAM
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  • OR WHAT THAT INTENDED DREAMWAS ORIGINALLY SET OUT
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  • WAS ORIGINALLY SET OUTTO ACCOMPLISH,
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  • TO ACCOMPLISH,WELL IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT
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  • WELL IT DOESN'T MEAN THATTHERE'S NO MORE HOPE FOR YOU.
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  • THERE'S NO MORE HOPE FOR YOU.YOU CAN STOP RIGHT WHERE YOU
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  • YOU CAN STOP RIGHT WHERE YOUARE AND YOU CAN MAKE A SHIFT.
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  • ARE AND YOU CAN MAKE A SHIFT.AND YOU CAN BEGIN MOVING IN
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  • AND YOU CAN BEGIN MOVING INTHE DIRECTION THAT YOU REALLY
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  • THE DIRECTION THAT YOU REALLYWANT, YOU KNOW, TO MOVE INTO.
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  • WANT, YOU KNOW, TO MOVE INTO.AND YOU CAN ULTIMATELY ACHIEVE
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  • AND YOU CAN ULTIMATELY ACHIEVEWHAT IT IS YOU'RE DESIRING
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  • WHAT IT IS YOU'RE DESIRINGTO ACHIEVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE,
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  • TO ACHIEVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE,IN YOUR FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS.
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  • IN YOUR FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS.IT'S JUST HOW DO YOU DO THAT?
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  • IT'S JUST HOW DO YOU DO THAT?AND WE WANT TO COME ALONGSIDE,
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  • AND WE WANT TO COME ALONGSIDE,AND NOT JUST GIVE THEM HOPE,
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  • AND NOT JUST GIVE THEM HOPE,BUT GIVE THEM HOW TO'S SO THEY
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  • BUT GIVE THEM HOW TO'S SO THEYCAN MAKE THAT SHIFT THAT WILL
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  • CAN MAKE THAT SHIFT THAT WILLULTIMATELY MAKE A LASTING
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  • ULTIMATELY MAKE A LASTINGDIFFERENCE IN THEIR MARRIAGE,
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  • DIFFERENCE IN THEIR MARRIAGE,AS WELL AS IN THEIR FAMILY
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  • AS WELL AS IN THEIR FAMILYRELATIONSHIPS.
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  • RELATIONSHIPS.MATT HAGEE: WELL AND I THINK
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  • MATT HAGEE: WELL AND I THINKTHE "HOW TO" IS A VERY
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  • THE "HOW TO" IS A VERYIMPORTANT FACTOR BECAUSE ONE
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  • IMPORTANT FACTOR BECAUSE ONEOF THE THINGS THAT NEVER MADE
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  • OF THE THINGS THAT NEVER MADESENSE TO ME, BUT I'VE HEARD IT,
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  • SENSE TO ME, BUT I'VE HEARD IT,YOU'VE HEARD IT,
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  • YOU'VE HEARD IT,A LOT OF PEOPLE GET TO HEAR IT;
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  • A LOT OF PEOPLE GET TO HEAR IT;"WE GREW APART."
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  • "WE GREW APART."MATT HAGEE: I THINK TO MYSELF,
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  • MATT HAGEE: I THINK TO MYSELF,IF YOU GROW APART,
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  • IF YOU GROW APART,COULD YOU GROW TOGETHER?
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  • COULD YOU GROW TOGETHER?YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN?
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  • YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN?IF YOU WENT THIS WAY,
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  • IF YOU WENT THIS WAY,COULD YOU GO BACK THAT WAY?
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  • COULD YOU GO BACK THAT WAY?AND SOMETIMES THEY GET TO
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  • AND SOMETIMES THEY GET TOA POINT WHERE THEY THINK
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  • A POINT WHERE THEY THINKIT'S JUST EASIER TO STEP OUT
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  • IT'S JUST EASIER TO STEP OUTOF THIS RELATIONSHIP
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  • OF THIS RELATIONSHIPTHAN TURN BACK INTO IT.
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  • THAN TURN BACK INTO IT.RODNEY GAGE: YES.
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  • RODNEY GAGE: YES.MATT HAGEE: SO SOME OF
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  • MATT HAGEE: SO SOME OFTHE HOW TO'S ARE IN YOUR BOOK.
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  • THE HOW TO'S ARE IN YOUR BOOK.BUT ALSO YOU IDENTIFY WAYS
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  • BUT ALSO YOU IDENTIFY WAYSTHAT PEOPLE DRIFT, BECAUSE --
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  • THAT PEOPLE DRIFT, BECAUSE --KENDAL HAGEE: YOU HAVE
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  • KENDAL HAGEE: YOU HAVEAN ACRONYM FOR DRIFT.
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  • AN ACRONYM FOR DRIFT.YOU TELL US ABOUT THAT?
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  • YOU TELL US ABOUT THAT?RODNEY GAGE: RIGHT.
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  • RODNEY GAGE: RIGHT.MATT HAGEE: YOU KNOW IT'S
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  • MATT HAGEE: YOU KNOW IT'SVERY EASY TO IDENTIFY,
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  • VERY EASY TO IDENTIFY,OKAY; HERE'S WHERE WE ARE.
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  • OKAY; HERE'S WHERE WE ARE.BUT IT'S MORE IMPORTANT
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  • BUT IT'S MORE IMPORTANTTO KNOW,
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  • TO KNOW,OKAY; THIS IS WHERE WE'RE
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  • OKAY; THIS IS WHERE WE'REHEADED.
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  • HEADED.SO HOW DOES THE DRIFTING START?
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  • SO HOW DOES THE DRIFTING START?RODNEY GAGE: WELL, I MEAN --
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  • RODNEY GAGE: WELL, I MEAN --YOU WANT TO TAKE IT ON?
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  • YOU WANT TO TAKE IT ON?MICHELLE GAGE: THE FIRST LETTER
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  • MICHELLE GAGE: THE FIRST LETTERIS "D"
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  • IS "D"AND IT'S DISAPPOINTMENTS;
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  • AND IT'S DISAPPOINTMENTS;YOU KNOW?
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  • YOU KNOW?THEY HIT US ALL.
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  • THEY HIT US ALL.MATT HAGEE: WHAT?
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  • MATT HAGEE: WHAT?MICHELLE GAGE: DISAPPOINTMENTS
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  • MICHELLE GAGE: DISAPPOINTMENTSHIT US ALL.
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  • HIT US ALL.MATT HAGEE: MARRIAGE INVOLVES
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  • MATT HAGEE: MARRIAGE INVOLVESDISAPPOINTMENT?
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  • DISAPPOINTMENT?RODNEY GAGE: GO FIGURE.
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  • RODNEY GAGE: GO FIGURE.MATT HAGEE: YOU'VE NEVER BEEN
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  • MATT HAGEE: YOU'VE NEVER BEENDISAPPOINTED; HAVE YOU, BABY?
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  • DISAPPOINTED; HAVE YOU, BABY?NEVER.
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  • NEVER.SEVENTEEN YEARS
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  • SEVENTEEN YEARSOF SUCCESSFUL ACHIEVEMENTS.
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  • OF SUCCESSFUL ACHIEVEMENTS.(LAUGHTER)
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  • (LAUGHTER)MICHELLE GAGE: THAT'S RIGHT.
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  • MICHELLE GAGE: THAT'S RIGHT.WE ALL HAVE DISAPPOINTMENTS
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  • WE ALL HAVE DISAPPOINTMENTSAND IT COULD CAUSE US
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  • AND IT COULD CAUSE USTO DRIFT.
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  • TO DRIFT.UM, REGRETS,
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  • UM, REGRETS,THINGS THAT WE DID
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  • THINGS THAT WE DIDAND WE LOOK BACK
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  • AND WE LOOK BACKAND WE REGRET,
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  • AND WE REGRET,IT CAN CAUSE US
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  • IT CAN CAUSE USTO DRIFT AWAY FROM THE --
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  • TO DRIFT AWAY FROM THE --MATT HAGEE: OR THINGS
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  • MATT HAGEE: OR THINGSYOU WANTED TO DO AND DIDN'T DO.
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  • YOU WANTED TO DO AND DIDN'T DO.MICHELLE GAGE: YES; RIGHT.
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  • MICHELLE GAGE: YES; RIGHT.MATT HAGEE: YOU KNOW SOMETIMES
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  • MATT HAGEE: YOU KNOW SOMETIMESI TALK TO COUPLES,
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  • I TALK TO COUPLES,AND IT'S LIKE,
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  • AND IT'S LIKE,"WELL I REALLY WANTED TO..."
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  • "WELL I REALLY WANTED TO..."FILL IN THE BLANK,
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  • FILL IN THE BLANK,AND THEY DIDN'T FEEL LIKE
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  • AND THEY DIDN'T FEEL LIKETHEY WERE SUPPORTED.
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  • THEY WERE SUPPORTED.SO YOU KNOW I MEAN
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  • SO YOU KNOW I MEANTHAT DISAPPOINTMENT,
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  • THAT DISAPPOINTMENT,REGRET KIND OF THING LED TO
  • 00:04:24.825 --> 00:04:26.293
  • REGRET KIND OF THING LED TOAN OFFENSE THAT THEY WERE LIKE,
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  • AN OFFENSE THAT THEY WERE LIKE,I'M HOLDING THIS.
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  • I'M HOLDING THIS.AND YOU'RE SITTING THERE GOING,
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  • AND YOU'RE SITTING THERE GOING,WELL LET GO.
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  • WELL LET GO.SO YOU'VE GOT DISAPPOINTMENT,
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  • SO YOU'VE GOT DISAPPOINTMENT,REGRET; WHAT'S NEXT?
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  • REGRET; WHAT'S NEXT?MICHELLE GAGE: ISOLATION,
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  • MICHELLE GAGE: ISOLATION,AND THIS IS HUGE
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  • AND THIS IS HUGEIN OUR CULTURE; YOU KNOW?
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  • IN OUR CULTURE; YOU KNOW?MATT HAGEE: I'M MAD;
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  • MATT HAGEE: I'M MAD;I DON'T WANT TO TALK.
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  • I DON'T WANT TO TALK.MICHELLE GAGE: RIGHT.
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  • MICHELLE GAGE: RIGHT.MATT HAGEE: I'M FINE.
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  • MATT HAGEE: I'M FINE.MICHELLE GAGE: THAT'S RIGHT.
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  • MICHELLE GAGE: THAT'S RIGHT.RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.
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  • RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.MICHELLE GAGE: THAT'S RIGHT.
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  • MICHELLE GAGE: THAT'S RIGHT.RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.
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  • RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.MICHELLE GAGE: AND THEN REGRETS
  • 00:04:42.810 --> 00:04:43.444
  • MICHELLE GAGE: AND THEN REGRETSDRIFT --
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  • DRIFT --EXCUSE ME.
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  • EXCUSE ME.DISAPPOINTMENT, REGRET,
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  • DISAPPOINTMENT, REGRET,ISOLATION,
  • 00:04:46.313 --> 00:04:47.748
  • ISOLATION,AND THEN FRUSTRATION.
  • 00:04:47.748 --> 00:04:48.515
  • AND THEN FRUSTRATION.KENDAL HAGEE: FRUSTRATION.
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  • KENDAL HAGEE: FRUSTRATION.MICHELLE GAGE: YEAH.
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  • MICHELLE GAGE: YEAH.IT COULD GET US,
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  • IT COULD GET US,GET US, BAD,
  • 00:04:51.185 --> 00:04:53.420
  • GET US, BAD,AND THEN THE TENSION BEGINS.
  • 00:04:53.420 --> 00:04:55.055
  • AND THEN THE TENSION BEGINS.AND THEN WE JUST BEGIN TO --
  • 00:04:55.055 --> 00:04:56.056
  • AND THEN WE JUST BEGIN TO --MATT HAGEE: HOW ABOUT "T"
  • 00:04:56.056 --> 00:04:56.890
  • MATT HAGEE: HOW ABOUT "T"WAS "TEACH YOU A LESSON"?
  • 00:04:56.890 --> 00:04:58.892
  • WAS "TEACH YOU A LESSON"?(LAUGHTER)
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  • (LAUGHTER)MATT HAGEE: WELL AND IT'S
  • 00:04:59.927 --> 00:05:00.461
  • MATT HAGEE: WELL AND IT'SINTERESTING,
  • 00:05:00.461 --> 00:05:01.895
  • INTERESTING,BECAUSE I THINK ANYBODY
  • 00:05:01.895 --> 00:05:04.998
  • BECAUSE I THINK ANYBODYWHO HAS BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP,
  • 00:05:04.998 --> 00:05:06.567
  • WHO HAS BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP,AT SOME LEVEL CAN RECOGNIZE
  • 00:05:06.567 --> 00:05:07.468
  • AT SOME LEVEL CAN RECOGNIZEEACH OF THOSE THINGS.
  • 00:05:07.468 --> 00:05:08.102
  • EACH OF THOSE THINGS.I MEAN THEY HAPPEN
  • 00:05:08.102 --> 00:05:09.036
  • I MEAN THEY HAPPENIN FRIENDSHIPS.
  • 00:05:09.036 --> 00:05:09.737
  • IN FRIENDSHIPS.THEY HAPPEN IN BUSINESS
  • 00:05:09.737 --> 00:05:10.838
  • THEY HAPPEN IN BUSINESSRELATIONSHIPS.
  • 00:05:10.838 --> 00:05:11.872
  • RELATIONSHIPS.BUT THE THING ABOUT MARRIAGE
  • 00:05:11.872 --> 00:05:13.540
  • BUT THE THING ABOUT MARRIAGERELATIONSHIPS IN THE WORLD
  • 00:05:13.540 --> 00:05:15.743
  • RELATIONSHIPS IN THE WORLDTHAT WE LIVE IN TODAY IS,
  • 00:05:15.743 --> 00:05:17.544
  • THAT WE LIVE IN TODAY IS,AS THE CULTURE SHIFTS,
  • 00:05:17.544 --> 00:05:18.846
  • AS THE CULTURE SHIFTS,THE QUIT OPTION
  • 00:05:18.846 --> 00:05:19.880
  • THE QUIT OPTIONIS THE EASY OPTION.
  • 00:05:19.880 --> 00:05:20.614
  • IS THE EASY OPTION.RODNEY GAGE: YEAH.
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  • RODNEY GAGE: YEAH.MATT HAGEE: THE STAY OPTION IS
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  • MATT HAGEE: THE STAY OPTION ISTHE ONE THAT REQUIRES THE WORK;
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  • THE ONE THAT REQUIRES THE WORK;YOU KNOW?
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  • YOU KNOW?RODNEY GAGE: AND REALLY
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  • RODNEY GAGE: AND REALLYTHE WHOLE DRIFT,
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  • THE WHOLE DRIFT,UM, ANALOGY, IF YOU WILL,
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  • UM, ANALOGY, IF YOU WILL,YOU KNOW THAT'S NOT
  • 00:05:28.389 --> 00:05:29.056
  • YOU KNOW THAT'S NOTTHE ROOT PROBLEM;
  • 00:05:29.056 --> 00:05:30.724
  • THE ROOT PROBLEM;THAT'S REALLY THE SYMPTOMS.
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  • THAT'S REALLY THE SYMPTOMS.AND THAT'S WHERE, I THINK,
  • 00:05:32.292 --> 00:05:33.293
  • AND THAT'S WHERE, I THINK,YOU KNOW MANY COUPLES
  • 00:05:33.293 --> 00:05:34.061
  • YOU KNOW MANY COUPLESOR FAMILIES,
  • 00:05:34.061 --> 00:05:35.262
  • OR FAMILIES,WHO FIND THEMSELVES DRIFTING
  • 00:05:35.262 --> 00:05:36.463
  • WHO FIND THEMSELVES DRIFTINGFURTHER APART,
  • 00:05:36.463 --> 00:05:37.197
  • FURTHER APART,YOU KNOW, WHAT IS IT
  • 00:05:37.197 --> 00:05:37.965
  • YOU KNOW, WHAT IS ITTHEY LOOK FOR?
  • 00:05:37.965 --> 00:05:39.099
  • THEY LOOK FOR?AND IF THEY FEEL ANY
  • 00:05:39.099 --> 00:05:39.666
  • AND IF THEY FEEL ANYOF THOSE THINGS,
  • 00:05:39.666 --> 00:05:41.668
  • OF THOSE THINGS,IF THEY SEE ANY OF THOSE THINGS
  • 00:05:41.668 --> 00:05:43.337
  • IF THEY SEE ANY OF THOSE THINGSHAPPENING IN THEIR HOME
  • 00:05:43.337 --> 00:05:44.371
  • HAPPENING IN THEIR HOMEAND IN THEIR MARRIAGE,
  • 00:05:44.371 --> 00:05:45.105
  • AND IN THEIR MARRIAGE,WELL THOSE OUGHT TO BE
  • 00:05:45.105 --> 00:05:46.507
  • WELL THOSE OUGHT TO BESOME RED FLAGS.
  • 00:05:46.507 --> 00:05:47.741
  • SOME RED FLAGS.AND THEY PROBABLY ALREADY KNOW
  • 00:05:47.741 --> 00:05:49.109
  • AND THEY PROBABLY ALREADY KNOWTHAT THEY'RE THERE.
  • 00:05:49.109 --> 00:05:50.077
  • THAT THEY'RE THERE.BUT THE QUESTION IS,
  • 00:05:50.077 --> 00:05:51.678
  • BUT THE QUESTION IS,OKAY; WELL HOW DO WE --
  • 00:05:51.678 --> 00:05:52.279
  • OKAY; WELL HOW DO WE --HOW DO WE DEAL WITH
  • 00:05:52.279 --> 00:05:53.814
  • HOW DO WE DEAL WITHWHERE WE ARE AND HOW DO WE
  • 00:05:53.814 --> 00:05:55.315
  • WHERE WE ARE AND HOW DO WEWORK THROUGH THAT IN ORDER
  • 00:05:55.315 --> 00:05:57.084
  • WORK THROUGH THAT IN ORDERTO GET OUR FAMILY BACK OR
  • 00:05:57.084 --> 00:05:58.318
  • TO GET OUR FAMILY BACK ORGET OUR MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP
  • 00:05:58.318 --> 00:05:58.852
  • GET OUR MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIPBACK?
  • 00:05:58.852 --> 00:06:00.154
  • BACK?AND SO AGAIN,
  • 00:06:00.154 --> 00:06:01.955
  • AND SO AGAIN,I THINK THERE IS HOPE NO MATTER
  • 00:06:01.955 --> 00:06:03.657
  • I THINK THERE IS HOPE NO MATTERHOW FAR AWAY THEY MAY HAVE
  • 00:06:03.657 --> 00:06:04.858
  • HOW FAR AWAY THEY MAY HAVEDRIFTED.
  • 00:06:04.858 --> 00:06:05.426
  • DRIFTED.KENDAL HAGEE: THAT'S RIGHT.
  • 00:06:05.426 --> 00:06:05.993
  • KENDAL HAGEE: THAT'S RIGHT.RODNEY GAGE: BUT IT'S NEVER
  • 00:06:05.993 --> 00:06:06.794
  • RODNEY GAGE: BUT IT'S NEVERTOO LATE TO START DOING
  • 00:06:06.794 --> 00:06:07.461
  • TOO LATE TO START DOINGWHAT'S RIGHT.
  • 00:06:07.461 --> 00:06:09.229
  • WHAT'S RIGHT.IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO GO BACK
  • 00:06:09.229 --> 00:06:10.497
  • IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO GO BACKAND RECAPTURE WHAT PERHAPS
  • 00:06:10.497 --> 00:06:12.266
  • AND RECAPTURE WHAT PERHAPSHAS BEEN LOST.
  • 00:06:12.266 --> 00:06:13.634
  • HAS BEEN LOST.AND YOU KNOW I THINK THE MAIN
  • 00:06:13.634 --> 00:06:14.802
  • AND YOU KNOW I THINK THE MAINTHING IS, FOR A LOT OF PEOPLE,
  • 00:06:14.802 --> 00:06:15.903
  • THING IS, FOR A LOT OF PEOPLE,IS JUST TO KNOW,
  • 00:06:15.903 --> 00:06:16.937
  • IS JUST TO KNOW,YOU KNOW WITH GOD'S HELP,
  • 00:06:16.937 --> 00:06:19.239
  • YOU KNOW WITH GOD'S HELP,THEY CAN OVERCOME WHATEVER IT
  • 00:06:19.239 --> 00:06:21.442
  • THEY CAN OVERCOME WHATEVER ITIS THAT'S CAUSED THEM TO END UP
  • 00:06:21.442 --> 00:06:22.576
  • IS THAT'S CAUSED THEM TO END UPAT A PLACE THEY NEVER INTENDED
  • 00:06:22.576 --> 00:06:23.744
  • AT A PLACE THEY NEVER INTENDEDTO BE.
  • 00:06:23.744 --> 00:06:24.745
  • TO BE.MATT HAGEE: AND I THINK A BIG
  • 00:06:24.745 --> 00:06:25.712
  • MATT HAGEE: AND I THINK A BIGTHING FOR PEOPLE TO ALSO PUT IN
  • 00:06:25.712 --> 00:06:27.881
  • THING FOR PEOPLE TO ALSO PUT INTHE EQUATION IS "WANT TO,"
  • 00:06:27.881 --> 00:06:28.348
  • THE EQUATION IS "WANT TO,"YOU KNOW?
  • 00:06:28.348 --> 00:06:29.650
  • YOU KNOW?THERE ARE OFTEN TIMES IT'S
  • 00:06:29.650 --> 00:06:31.485
  • THERE ARE OFTEN TIMES IT'SUNFORTUNATE THAT PEOPLE DON'T
  • 00:06:31.485 --> 00:06:32.386
  • UNFORTUNATE THAT PEOPLE DON'TWANT TO BE HONEST ABOUT
  • 00:06:32.386 --> 00:06:34.488
  • WANT TO BE HONEST ABOUT"WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO?"
  • 00:06:34.488 --> 00:06:35.889
  • "WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO?"DO YOU WANT TO FIX THIS?
  • 00:06:35.889 --> 00:06:36.723
  • DO YOU WANT TO FIX THIS?OR DO YOU WANT TO STAY
  • 00:06:36.723 --> 00:06:37.391
  • OR DO YOU WANT TO STAYOFFENDED BY IT?
  • 00:06:37.391 --> 00:06:38.292
  • OFFENDED BY IT?BECAUSE SOMETIMES THEY CAN
  • 00:06:38.292 --> 00:06:39.993
  • BECAUSE SOMETIMES THEY CANDRIFT AND GET TO SUCH A PLACE
  • 00:06:39.993 --> 00:06:41.895
  • DRIFT AND GET TO SUCH A PLACETHAT THEIR OFFENSE HAS BECOME
  • 00:06:41.895 --> 00:06:42.729
  • THAT THEIR OFFENSE HAS BECOMETHEIR IDENTITY.
  • 00:06:42.729 --> 00:06:43.664
  • THEIR IDENTITY.THEIR REGRET HAS BECOME
  • 00:06:43.664 --> 00:06:44.331
  • THEIR REGRET HAS BECOMETHEIR IDENTITY.
  • 00:06:44.331 --> 00:06:45.466
  • THEIR IDENTITY.THEIR DISAPPOINTMENT HAS BECOME
  • 00:06:45.466 --> 00:06:46.066
  • THEIR DISAPPOINTMENT HAS BECOMETHEIR IDENTITY.
  • 00:06:46.066 --> 00:06:46.733
  • THEIR IDENTITY.AND THEY'RE AFRAID THEY'RE NOT
  • 00:06:46.733 --> 00:06:47.701
  • AND THEY'RE AFRAID THEY'RE NOTGOING TO HAVE ANYTHING TO TALK
  • 00:06:47.701 --> 00:06:50.270
  • GOING TO HAVE ANYTHING TO TALKABOUT IF THEY LET GO OF THAT
  • 00:06:50.270 --> 00:06:52.306
  • ABOUT IF THEY LET GO OF THATAND START TO WORK BACK TOWARDS
  • 00:06:52.306 --> 00:06:53.173
  • AND START TO WORK BACK TOWARDSGETTING TOGETHER.
  • 00:06:53.173 --> 00:06:53.707
  • GETTING TOGETHER.RODNEY GAGE: YES.
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  • RODNEY GAGE: YES.MATT HAGEE: SO WE'VE TALKED
  • 00:06:54.308 --> 00:06:54.875
  • MATT HAGEE: SO WE'VE TALKEDABOUT "DRIFT."
  • 00:06:54.875 --> 00:06:55.576
  • ABOUT "DRIFT."WHEN WE COME BACK,
  • 00:06:55.576 --> 00:06:56.343
  • WHEN WE COME BACK,WE'RE GOING TO TALK ABOUT
  • 00:06:56.343 --> 00:06:57.044
  • WE'RE GOING TO TALK ABOUT"SHIFT,"
  • 00:06:57.044 --> 00:06:58.712
  • "SHIFT,"BECAUSE WE'VE GOT SOME THINGS
  • 00:06:58.712 --> 00:06:59.713
  • BECAUSE WE'VE GOT SOME THINGSTHAT ARE GOING TO HELP US GO
  • 00:06:59.713 --> 00:07:01.148
  • THAT ARE GOING TO HELP US GOFROM HERE BACK TO WHERE
  • 00:07:01.148 --> 00:07:02.082
  • FROM HERE BACK TO WHEREWE SHOULD BE.
  • 00:07:02.082 --> 00:07:02.816
  • WE SHOULD BE.WHEN YOU COME BACK TO
  • 00:07:02.816 --> 00:07:03.383
  • WHEN YOU COME BACK TO"THE DIFFERENCE,"
  • 00:07:03.383 --> 00:07:04.017
  • "THE DIFFERENCE,"YOU'RE GOING TO HEAR THINGS
  • 00:07:04.017 --> 00:07:04.885
  • YOU'RE GOING TO HEAR THINGSTHAT ARE GOING TO CHANGE
  • 00:07:04.885 --> 00:07:05.619
  • THAT ARE GOING TO CHANGEYOUR HOME,
  • 00:07:05.619 --> 00:07:06.320
  • YOUR HOME,YOUR FAMILY,
  • 00:07:06.320 --> 00:07:07.321
  • YOUR FAMILY,AND YOUR MARRIAGE FOREVER.
  • 00:07:07.321 --> 00:07:08.155
  • AND YOUR MARRIAGE FOREVER.DON'T GO AWAY.
  • 00:07:08.155 --> 00:07:09.623
  • DON'T GO AWAY.WE'LL BE RIGHT BACK AFTER THIS.
  • 00:07:09.623 --> 00:07:12.526
  • WE'LL BE RIGHT BACK AFTER THIS.♪ MUSIC ♪
  • 00:07:12.526 --> 00:07:13.460
  • ♪ MUSIC ♪♪ MUSIC ♪ MUSIC ♪
  • 00:07:13.460 --> 00:07:14.361
  • ♪ MUSIC ♪ MUSIC ♪THE UNITED STATES
  • 00:07:14.361 --> 00:07:15.562
  • THE UNITED STATESIS THE GREATEST NATION
  • 00:07:15.562 --> 00:07:16.463
  • IS THE GREATEST NATIONON EARTH;
  • 00:07:16.463 --> 00:07:17.531
  • ON EARTH;YET, THERE ARE POWERS
  • 00:07:17.531 --> 00:07:18.499
  • YET, THERE ARE POWERSTHAT SEEK TO DESTROY
  • 00:07:18.499 --> 00:07:19.600
  • THAT SEEK TO DESTROYOUR COUNTRY.
  • 00:07:19.600 --> 00:07:20.367
  • OUR COUNTRY.PASTOR MATT HAGEE: WE HAVE
  • 00:07:20.367 --> 00:07:21.335
  • PASTOR MATT HAGEE: WE HAVEABANDONED THE PRINCIPLES
  • 00:07:21.335 --> 00:07:22.736
  • ABANDONED THE PRINCIPLESTHAT FOUNDED OUR NATION.
  • 00:07:22.736 --> 00:07:24.471
  • THAT FOUNDED OUR NATION.THE CHURCH IS UNDER ATTACK
  • 00:07:24.471 --> 00:07:25.672
  • THE CHURCH IS UNDER ATTACKAND THERE ARE THOSE WHO ARE
  • 00:07:25.672 --> 00:07:27.441
  • AND THERE ARE THOSE WHO ARETRYING TO CLOSE ITS DOORS
  • 00:07:27.441 --> 00:07:28.909
  • TRYING TO CLOSE ITS DOORSAND DESTROY OUR CONSTITUTIONAL
  • 00:07:28.909 --> 00:07:30.811
  • AND DESTROY OUR CONSTITUTIONALRIGHT TO RELIGIOUS FREEDOM.
  • 00:07:30.811 --> 00:07:33.046
  • RIGHT TO RELIGIOUS FREEDOM.IT IS TIME TO TAKE A STAND
  • 00:07:33.046 --> 00:07:34.448
  • IT IS TIME TO TAKE A STANDAND VOTE FOR LEADERS
  • 00:07:34.448 --> 00:07:35.682
  • AND VOTE FOR LEADERSWHO WOULD PRESERVE
  • 00:07:35.682 --> 00:07:37.618
  • WHO WOULD PRESERVETHE AMERICAN WAY OF LIFE.
  • 00:07:37.618 --> 00:07:38.886
  • THE AMERICAN WAY OF LIFE.FOR YOUR GIFT OF ANY AMOUNT,
  • 00:07:38.886 --> 00:07:40.687
  • FOR YOUR GIFT OF ANY AMOUNT,HAGEE MINISTRIES WILL SEND YOU
  • 00:07:40.687 --> 00:07:42.222
  • HAGEE MINISTRIES WILL SEND YOUPASTOR JOHN HAGEE'S BOOK,
  • 00:07:42.222 --> 00:07:43.557
  • PASTOR JOHN HAGEE'S BOOK,"EARTH'S LAST EMPIRE"
  • 00:07:43.557 --> 00:07:45.592
  • "EARTH'S LAST EMPIRE"WITH OVER 40% NEW CONTENT,
  • 00:07:45.592 --> 00:07:46.727
  • WITH OVER 40% NEW CONTENT,AND A "SHIELDS OF STRENGTH"
  • 00:07:46.727 --> 00:07:48.262
  • AND A "SHIELDS OF STRENGTH"CUSTOM DOG TAG.
  • 00:07:48.262 --> 00:07:50.063
  • CUSTOM DOG TAG.FOR GIFTS OF $200 OR MORE,
  • 00:07:50.063 --> 00:07:51.498
  • FOR GIFTS OF $200 OR MORE,YOU WILL ALSO RECEIVE
  • 00:07:51.498 --> 00:07:52.866
  • YOU WILL ALSO RECEIVEA PROPHECY BIBLE,
  • 00:07:52.866 --> 00:07:53.867
  • A PROPHECY BIBLE,A SIGNED COPY OF
  • 00:07:53.867 --> 00:07:55.469
  • A SIGNED COPY OF"EARTH'S LAST EMPIRE,"
  • 00:07:55.469 --> 00:07:56.570
  • "EARTH'S LAST EMPIRE,"AND A HAND-CRAFTED,
  • 00:07:56.570 --> 00:07:58.539
  • AND A HAND-CRAFTED,VETERAN-MADE, WOODEN CROSS.
  • 00:07:58.539 --> 00:07:59.339
  • VETERAN-MADE, WOODEN CROSS.PASTOR MATT HAGEE: NOW
  • 00:07:59.339 --> 00:08:00.340
  • PASTOR MATT HAGEE: NOWIS THE TIME TO PUT YOUR FAITH
  • 00:08:00.340 --> 00:08:01.341
  • IS THE TIME TO PUT YOUR FAITHINTO ACTION
  • 00:08:01.341 --> 00:08:03.810
  • INTO ACTIONAND GO VOTE THE BIBLE.
  • 00:08:03.810 --> 00:08:04.845
  • AND GO VOTE THE BIBLE.SEND YOUR GIFT TODAY.
  • 00:08:04.845 --> 00:08:06.113
  • SEND YOUR GIFT TODAY.CALL THE NUMBER ON YOUR SCREEN
  • 00:08:06.113 --> 00:08:09.950
  • CALL THE NUMBER ON YOUR SCREENOR VISIT JHM.ORG/EMPIRE.
  • 00:08:09.950 --> 00:08:11.385
  • OR VISIT JHM.ORG/EMPIRE.♪ MUSIC ♪IC ♪USIC ♪
  • 00:08:11.385 --> 00:08:12.886
  • ♪ MUSIC ♪IC ♪USIC ♪HAGEE MINISTRIES INVITES YOU
  • 00:08:12.886 --> 00:08:13.820
  • HAGEE MINISTRIES INVITES YOUTO SIGN UP FOR OUR
  • 00:08:13.820 --> 00:08:16.023
  • TO SIGN UP FOR OUR14 DAYS OF PRAYER PROCLAMATION
  • 00:08:16.023 --> 00:08:17.224
  • 14 DAYS OF PRAYER PROCLAMATIONFOR AMERICA.
  • 00:08:17.224 --> 00:08:17.891
  • FOR AMERICA.PASTOR MATT
  • 00:08:17.891 --> 00:08:19.126
  • PASTOR MATTAND PASTOR JOHN HAGEE
  • 00:08:19.126 --> 00:08:20.160
  • AND PASTOR JOHN HAGEEWILL LEAD YOU IN PRAYING
  • 00:08:20.160 --> 00:08:21.528
  • WILL LEAD YOU IN PRAYINGFOR THE LEADERS OF OUR COUNTRY,
  • 00:08:21.528 --> 00:08:22.262
  • FOR THE LEADERS OF OUR COUNTRY,ISRAEL,
  • 00:08:22.262 --> 00:08:23.130
  • ISRAEL,OUR FAMILIES,
  • 00:08:23.130 --> 00:08:24.431
  • OUR FAMILIES,AND OUR CHILDREN.
  • 00:08:24.431 --> 00:08:25.098
  • AND OUR CHILDREN.AMERICA,
  • 00:08:25.098 --> 00:08:26.199
  • AMERICA,WE MUST STAND AND FIGHT
  • 00:08:26.199 --> 00:08:27.901
  • WE MUST STAND AND FIGHTFOR OUR COUNTRY IN PRAYER.
  • 00:08:27.901 --> 00:08:28.468
  • FOR OUR COUNTRY IN PRAYER.JOIN US,
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  • JOIN US,AS WE BATTLE FOR THE SOUL
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  • AS WE BATTLE FOR THE SOULOF OUR NATION
  • 00:08:30.337 --> 00:08:32.239
  • OF OUR NATIONAND OUR CHILDREN'S FUTURE.
  • 00:08:32.239 --> 00:08:35.809
  • AND OUR CHILDREN'S FUTURE.VISIT JHM.ORG/AMERICA TODAY
  • 00:08:35.809 --> 00:08:37.377
  • VISIT JHM.ORG/AMERICA TODAYTO RECEIVE THESE INSPIRATIONAL
  • 00:08:37.377 --> 00:08:38.278
  • TO RECEIVE THESE INSPIRATIONALDEVOTIONS.
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  • DEVOTIONS.♪ MUSIC ♪ MUSIC ♪ MUSIC ♪ MUSICO
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  • ♪ MUSIC ♪ MUSIC ♪ MUSIC ♪ MUSICO"THE DIFFERENCE."
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  • "THE DIFFERENCE."WE'RE HERE WITH RODNEY
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  • WE'RE HERE WITH RODNEYAND MICHELLE GAGE.
  • 00:08:44.251 --> 00:08:45.185
  • AND MICHELLE GAGE.AND IN OUR FIRST SEGMENT,
  • 00:08:45.185 --> 00:08:47.154
  • AND IN OUR FIRST SEGMENT,WE TALKED ABOUT DRIFTING APART.
  • 00:08:47.154 --> 00:08:48.188
  • WE TALKED ABOUT DRIFTING APART.AND IT HAPPENS FOR A MYRIAD
  • 00:08:48.188 --> 00:08:49.122
  • AND IT HAPPENS FOR A MYRIADOF REASONS,
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  • OF REASONS,SOMETIMES BUSYNESS OF SCHEDULE,
  • 00:08:50.490 --> 00:08:51.992
  • SOMETIMES BUSYNESS OF SCHEDULE,SOMETIMES, YOU KNOW,
  • 00:08:51.992 --> 00:08:53.226
  • SOMETIMES, YOU KNOW,FAMILY GOALS THAT REALLY
  • 00:08:53.226 --> 00:08:54.294
  • FAMILY GOALS THAT REALLYDON'T HAVE MUCH TO DO
  • 00:08:54.294 --> 00:08:54.795
  • DON'T HAVE MUCH TO DOWITH THE FAMILY;
  • 00:08:54.795 --> 00:08:55.362
  • WITH THE FAMILY;THEY HAVE TO DO
  • 00:08:55.362 --> 00:08:56.263
  • THEY HAVE TO DOWITH INDIVIDUALS.
  • 00:08:56.263 --> 00:08:57.297
  • WITH INDIVIDUALS.REGARDLESS OF THE REASON,
  • 00:08:57.297 --> 00:08:58.298
  • REGARDLESS OF THE REASON,WHEN PEOPLE GET TO THAT PLACE
  • 00:08:58.298 --> 00:08:59.666
  • WHEN PEOPLE GET TO THAT PLACEWHERE THEY ARE NOT WHERE THEY
  • 00:08:59.666 --> 00:09:01.335
  • WHERE THEY ARE NOT WHERE THEYWANT TO BE,
  • 00:09:01.335 --> 00:09:02.369
  • WANT TO BE,THEY'VE DRIFTED.
  • 00:09:02.369 --> 00:09:03.670
  • THEY'VE DRIFTED.AND HOW DO THEY SHIFT TO GET
  • 00:09:03.670 --> 00:09:05.939
  • AND HOW DO THEY SHIFT TO GETBACK TO WHERE THEY BELONG?
  • 00:09:05.939 --> 00:09:06.573
  • BACK TO WHERE THEY BELONG?RODNEY GAGE: YEAH.
  • 00:09:06.573 --> 00:09:07.874
  • RODNEY GAGE: YEAH.YOU KNOW A FEW MOMENTS AGO,
  • 00:09:07.874 --> 00:09:09.476
  • YOU KNOW A FEW MOMENTS AGO,I WAS GOING TO JUST ADD TO
  • 00:09:09.476 --> 00:09:10.143
  • I WAS GOING TO JUST ADD TOTHE FACT THAT,
  • 00:09:10.143 --> 00:09:11.845
  • THE FACT THAT,YOU KNOW YOU CAN'T BECOME
  • 00:09:11.845 --> 00:09:13.180
  • YOU KNOW YOU CAN'T BECOMEWHO YOU WANT TO BE BY REMAINING
  • 00:09:13.180 --> 00:09:14.414
  • WHO YOU WANT TO BE BY REMAININGWHO YOU ARE.
  • 00:09:14.414 --> 00:09:15.282
  • WHO YOU ARE.SO AT SOME POINT,
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  • SO AT SOME POINT,YOU HAVE TO MAKE THAT DECISION
  • 00:09:16.683 --> 00:09:16.984
  • YOU HAVE TO MAKE THAT DECISIONTO SAY,
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  • TO SAY,OKAY; THERE'S A SHIFT
  • 00:09:17.751 --> 00:09:18.685
  • OKAY; THERE'S A SHIFTTHAT NEEDS TO HAPPEN.
  • 00:09:18.685 --> 00:09:19.620
  • THAT NEEDS TO HAPPEN.MATT HAGEE: IF YOU'RE TAKING
  • 00:09:19.620 --> 00:09:20.754
  • MATT HAGEE: IF YOU'RE TAKINGNOTES, WRITE THAT DOWN.
  • 00:09:20.754 --> 00:09:21.555
  • NOTES, WRITE THAT DOWN.KENDAL HAGEE: WRITE THAT DOWN.
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  • KENDAL HAGEE: WRITE THAT DOWN.MATT HAGEE: SAY IT AGAIN.
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  • MATT HAGEE: SAY IT AGAIN.RODNEY GAGE: SO I THINK,
  • 00:09:23.223 --> 00:09:24.291
  • RODNEY GAGE: SO I THINK,YOU KNOW WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT
  • 00:09:24.291 --> 00:09:26.059
  • YOU KNOW WHEN YOU THINK ABOUTMAKING A SHIFT AND STARTING TO
  • 00:09:26.059 --> 00:09:27.761
  • MAKING A SHIFT AND STARTING TOMOVE IN A POSITIVE DIRECTION,
  • 00:09:27.761 --> 00:09:29.363
  • MOVE IN A POSITIVE DIRECTION,I THINK IT REALLY BEGINS --
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  • I THINK IT REALLY BEGINS --AND WE HAVE ANOTHER ACRONYM
  • 00:09:31.031 --> 00:09:32.265
  • AND WE HAVE ANOTHER ACRONYMFOR "SHIFT."
  • 00:09:32.265 --> 00:09:33.567
  • FOR "SHIFT."AND WE REALLY DO THIS
  • 00:09:33.567 --> 00:09:35.636
  • AND WE REALLY DO THISBECAUSE WE OFTEN SAY, YOU KNOW,
  • 00:09:35.636 --> 00:09:38.105
  • BECAUSE WE OFTEN SAY, YOU KNOW,PARENTS, HUSBANDS, AND WIVES,
  • 00:09:38.105 --> 00:09:38.739
  • PARENTS, HUSBANDS, AND WIVES,THEY NEED MORE THAN
  • 00:09:38.739 --> 00:09:39.172
  • THEY NEED MORE THANJUST PRAYER;
  • 00:09:39.172 --> 00:09:40.307
  • JUST PRAYER;THEY NEED A PLAN.
  • 00:09:40.307 --> 00:09:41.041
  • THEY NEED A PLAN.SO GIVE ME SOME HOPE.
  • 00:09:41.041 --> 00:09:41.842
  • SO GIVE ME SOME HOPE.GIVE ME SOME HANDLES.
  • 00:09:41.842 --> 00:09:43.010
  • GIVE ME SOME HANDLES.WHAT CAN WE DO?
  • 00:09:43.010 --> 00:09:43.710
  • WHAT CAN WE DO?MATT HAGEE: FAITH AND WORKS.
  • 00:09:43.710 --> 00:09:44.344
  • MATT HAGEE: FAITH AND WORKS.RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:09:44.344 --> 00:09:46.513
  • RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.SO THE "S" SIMPLY STANDS FOR
  • 00:09:46.513 --> 00:09:47.714
  • SO THE "S" SIMPLY STANDS FOR"START WITH THE END IN MIND."
  • 00:09:47.714 --> 00:09:48.482
  • "START WITH THE END IN MIND."AND THIS IS ALL --
  • 00:09:48.482 --> 00:09:49.483
  • AND THIS IS ALL --THIS IS ALL ABOUT A SHIFT
  • 00:09:49.483 --> 00:09:51.385
  • THIS IS ALL ABOUT A SHIFTIN OVERALL DIRECTION.
  • 00:09:51.385 --> 00:09:52.486
  • IN OVERALL DIRECTION.SO THE QUESTION IS,
  • 00:09:52.486 --> 00:09:53.587
  • SO THE QUESTION IS,IS FOR ANY COUPLE,
  • 00:09:53.587 --> 00:09:54.621
  • IS FOR ANY COUPLE,FOR ANY FAMILY,
  • 00:09:54.621 --> 00:09:55.989
  • FOR ANY FAMILY,IS REALLY SIT DOWN AND ASK
  • 00:09:55.989 --> 00:09:57.858
  • IS REALLY SIT DOWN AND ASKTHEMSELVES SOME HARD QUESTIONS.
  • 00:09:57.858 --> 00:09:58.759
  • THEMSELVES SOME HARD QUESTIONS.AND REALLY IT BEGINS WITH,
  • 00:09:58.759 --> 00:10:00.394
  • AND REALLY IT BEGINS WITH,OKAY; WELL, WHAT IS OUR VISION
  • 00:10:00.394 --> 00:10:01.528
  • OKAY; WELL, WHAT IS OUR VISIONFOR OUR MARRIAGE?
  • 00:10:01.528 --> 00:10:02.429
  • FOR OUR MARRIAGE?WHAT IS OUR VISION
  • 00:10:02.429 --> 00:10:03.830
  • WHAT IS OUR VISIONFOR OUR CHILDREN?
  • 00:10:03.830 --> 00:10:04.798
  • FOR OUR CHILDREN?WHAT IS THE VISION
  • 00:10:04.798 --> 00:10:05.966
  • WHAT IS THE VISIONFOR OUR FAMILY?
  • 00:10:05.966 --> 00:10:07.134
  • FOR OUR FAMILY?WHO DO WE ULTIMATELY WANT
  • 00:10:07.134 --> 00:10:08.335
  • WHO DO WE ULTIMATELY WANTTO BECOME?
  • 00:10:08.335 --> 00:10:09.169
  • TO BECOME?AND SO YOU KNOW
  • 00:10:09.169 --> 00:10:10.137
  • AND SO YOU KNOWAS THE SCRIPTURE TEACHES US
  • 00:10:10.137 --> 00:10:11.038
  • AS THE SCRIPTURE TEACHES USIN PROVERBS, YOU KNOW,
  • 00:10:11.038 --> 00:10:12.039
  • IN PROVERBS, YOU KNOW,"WHERE THERE IS NO VISION,
  • 00:10:12.039 --> 00:10:13.440
  • "WHERE THERE IS NO VISION,THE PEOPLE PERISH."
  • 00:10:13.440 --> 00:10:14.274
  • THE PEOPLE PERISH."AND SO THEREFORE,
  • 00:10:14.274 --> 00:10:15.275
  • AND SO THEREFORE,WHEN THERE'S NO VISION
  • 00:10:15.275 --> 00:10:15.876
  • WHEN THERE'S NO VISIONIN THE MARRIAGE,
  • 00:10:15.876 --> 00:10:16.943
  • IN THE MARRIAGE,WHEN THERE'S NO VISION
  • 00:10:16.943 --> 00:10:18.145
  • WHEN THERE'S NO VISIONIN THE HOME,
  • 00:10:18.145 --> 00:10:19.413
  • IN THE HOME,THE MARRIAGE DIES,
  • 00:10:19.413 --> 00:10:20.881
  • THE MARRIAGE DIES,THE FAMILY DIES.
  • 00:10:20.881 --> 00:10:22.082
  • THE FAMILY DIES.AND SO WE HAVE TO RESURRECT
  • 00:10:22.082 --> 00:10:23.383
  • AND SO WE HAVE TO RESURRECTTHAT VISION.
  • 00:10:23.383 --> 00:10:24.451
  • THAT VISION.AND SO WE HAVE TO START WITH
  • 00:10:24.451 --> 00:10:25.752
  • AND SO WE HAVE TO START WITHTHE END IN MIND.
  • 00:10:25.752 --> 00:10:26.953
  • THE END IN MIND.SO IT'S ASKING THOSE,
  • 00:10:26.953 --> 00:10:27.688
  • SO IT'S ASKING THOSE,"WHAT COULD BE,"
  • 00:10:27.688 --> 00:10:28.789
  • "WHAT COULD BE,""WHAT SHOULD BE" QUESTIONS
  • 00:10:28.789 --> 00:10:30.290
  • "WHAT SHOULD BE" QUESTIONSABOUT WHERE WE ULTIMATELY
  • 00:10:30.290 --> 00:10:31.191
  • ABOUT WHERE WE ULTIMATELYWANT TO GO.
  • 00:10:31.191 --> 00:10:32.325
  • WANT TO GO.AND THEN THE "H" SIMPLY STANDS
  • 00:10:32.325 --> 00:10:34.728
  • AND THEN THE "H" SIMPLY STANDSFOR "HOLD TO CORE VALUES."
  • 00:10:34.728 --> 00:10:35.328
  • FOR "HOLD TO CORE VALUES."AND THIS IS ALL ABOUT
  • 00:10:35.328 --> 00:10:36.830
  • AND THIS IS ALL ABOUTA SHIFT IN FOCUS.
  • 00:10:36.830 --> 00:10:38.832
  • A SHIFT IN FOCUS.AND SO IT GOES BACK TO, OKAY;
  • 00:10:38.832 --> 00:10:40.167
  • AND SO IT GOES BACK TO, OKAY;WHAT IS IT THAT'S IMPORTANT
  • 00:10:40.167 --> 00:10:40.967
  • WHAT IS IT THAT'S IMPORTANTTO US?
  • 00:10:40.967 --> 00:10:42.836
  • TO US?WHAT DO WE REALLY BELIEVE?
  • 00:10:42.836 --> 00:10:43.837
  • WHAT DO WE REALLY BELIEVE?WHAT ARE THE --
  • 00:10:43.837 --> 00:10:44.705
  • WHAT ARE THE --WHAT ARE THE GUARDRAILS
  • 00:10:44.705 --> 00:10:45.872
  • WHAT ARE THE GUARDRAILSAND GUIDELINES THAT ARE GOING
  • 00:10:45.872 --> 00:10:47.307
  • AND GUIDELINES THAT ARE GOINGTO NAVIGATE OUR FAMILY
  • 00:10:47.307 --> 00:10:48.442
  • TO NAVIGATE OUR FAMILYSO THAT WE CAN MAKE WISE
  • 00:10:48.442 --> 00:10:50.343
  • SO THAT WE CAN MAKE WISEDECISIONS TO GET US MOVING
  • 00:10:50.343 --> 00:10:51.478
  • DECISIONS TO GET US MOVINGIN THE DIRECTION THAT WE
  • 00:10:51.478 --> 00:10:52.746
  • IN THE DIRECTION THAT WEULTIMATELY WANT TO BECOME AND
  • 00:10:52.746 --> 00:10:53.880
  • ULTIMATELY WANT TO BECOME ANDULTIMATELY WANT TO END UP IN.
  • 00:10:53.880 --> 00:10:55.015
  • ULTIMATELY WANT TO END UP IN.MATT HAGEE: IN A LOT OF PLACES,
  • 00:10:55.015 --> 00:10:56.416
  • MATT HAGEE: IN A LOT OF PLACES,THAT REALLY DEFINES YOUR "YES"
  • 00:10:56.416 --> 00:10:57.350
  • THAT REALLY DEFINES YOUR "YES"AND YOUR "NO".
  • 00:10:57.350 --> 00:10:58.518
  • AND YOUR "NO".RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:10:58.518 --> 00:10:59.319
  • RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.MATT HAGEE: WHEN I WAS A KID,
  • 00:10:59.319 --> 00:11:00.587
  • MATT HAGEE: WHEN I WAS A KID,IF I WENT INTO MY DAD'S ROOM
  • 00:11:00.587 --> 00:11:01.588
  • IF I WENT INTO MY DAD'S ROOMAND I ASKED HIM A QUESTION,
  • 00:11:01.588 --> 00:11:02.923
  • AND I ASKED HIM A QUESTION,99% OF THE TIME,
  • 00:11:02.923 --> 00:11:03.890
  • 99% OF THE TIME,I ALREADY KNEW WHAT THE ANSWER
  • 00:11:03.890 --> 00:11:04.424
  • I ALREADY KNEW WHAT THE ANSWERWAS.
  • 00:11:04.424 --> 00:11:05.592
  • WAS.AND SOMETIMES I WAS HOPING HE
  • 00:11:05.592 --> 00:11:07.227
  • AND SOMETIMES I WAS HOPING HEMIGHT HAVE CHANGED HIS MIND.
  • 00:11:07.227 --> 00:11:08.128
  • MIGHT HAVE CHANGED HIS MIND.BUT I KNEW WHAT HIS YES'S
  • 00:11:08.128 --> 00:11:09.963
  • BUT I KNEW WHAT HIS YES'SAND NO'S WOULD BE; YOU KNOW?
  • 00:11:09.963 --> 00:11:10.897
  • AND NO'S WOULD BE; YOU KNOW?AND I THINK THAT THAT'S
  • 00:11:10.897 --> 00:11:12.132
  • AND I THINK THAT THAT'SAN IMPORTANT THING FOR FAMILIES
  • 00:11:12.132 --> 00:11:13.600
  • AN IMPORTANT THING FOR FAMILIESTO REALLY DEFINE BECAUSE --
  • 00:11:13.600 --> 00:11:14.434
  • TO REALLY DEFINE BECAUSE --MICHELLE GAGE: IT IS.
  • 00:11:14.434 --> 00:11:15.168
  • MICHELLE GAGE: IT IS.MATT HAGEE: UNFORTUNATELY,
  • 00:11:15.168 --> 00:11:15.969
  • MATT HAGEE: UNFORTUNATELY,SOMETIMES YOUR CHILDREN WILL
  • 00:11:15.969 --> 00:11:17.604
  • SOMETIMES YOUR CHILDREN WILLACT LIKE SABOTEURS; YOU KNOW.
  • 00:11:17.604 --> 00:11:18.805
  • ACT LIKE SABOTEURS; YOU KNOW.THEY'LL TRY TO GET BETWEEN MOM
  • 00:11:18.805 --> 00:11:19.206
  • THEY'LL TRY TO GET BETWEEN MOMAND DAD.
  • 00:11:19.206 --> 00:11:20.440
  • AND DAD.IF THEY KNOW DAD'S GOING TO SAY
  • 00:11:20.440 --> 00:11:21.241
  • IF THEY KNOW DAD'S GOING TO SAY"NO,"
  • 00:11:21.241 --> 00:11:22.509
  • "NO,"MAYBE WE CAN WORK MOM TOWARDS
  • 00:11:22.509 --> 00:11:22.976
  • MAYBE WE CAN WORK MOM TOWARDSA "YES,"
  • 00:11:22.976 --> 00:11:24.177
  • A "YES,"AND LEVERAGE HER "YES"
  • 00:11:24.177 --> 00:11:25.011
  • AND LEVERAGE HER "YES"AGAINST HIS "NO."
  • 00:11:25.011 --> 00:11:26.580
  • AGAINST HIS "NO."AND IF MOM AND DAD,
  • 00:11:26.580 --> 00:11:27.748
  • AND IF MOM AND DAD,IF THEY HAVE THE SAME CORE
  • 00:11:27.748 --> 00:11:29.382
  • IF THEY HAVE THE SAME COREVALUES AND THEY UNDERSTAND WHAT
  • 00:11:29.382 --> 00:11:30.751
  • VALUES AND THEY UNDERSTAND WHATTHE "NO" IS,
  • 00:11:30.751 --> 00:11:32.986
  • THE "NO" IS,THEN YOU KNOW THAT STOPS
  • 00:11:32.986 --> 00:11:33.587
  • THEN YOU KNOW THAT STOPSRIGHT AWAY.
  • 00:11:33.587 --> 00:11:34.521
  • RIGHT AWAY.RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:11:34.521 --> 00:11:35.522
  • RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.AND WHAT THAT DOES IS
  • 00:11:35.522 --> 00:11:36.656
  • AND WHAT THAT DOES ISIT HELPS YOU, ALSO,
  • 00:11:36.656 --> 00:11:37.958
  • IT HELPS YOU, ALSO,WHEN THERE'S A MYRIAD
  • 00:11:37.958 --> 00:11:39.693
  • WHEN THERE'S A MYRIADOF CHOICES AND OPTIONS
  • 00:11:39.693 --> 00:11:41.328
  • OF CHOICES AND OPTIONSTHAT FAMILIES HAVE TODAY,
  • 00:11:41.328 --> 00:11:43.697
  • THAT FAMILIES HAVE TODAY,SIGNED UP FOR ALL THESE THINGS;
  • 00:11:43.697 --> 00:11:44.598
  • SIGNED UP FOR ALL THESE THINGS;WELL AT THE END OF IT --
  • 00:11:44.598 --> 00:11:45.532
  • WELL AT THE END OF IT --AND THERE'S NOTHING WRONG
  • 00:11:45.532 --> 00:11:46.867
  • AND THERE'S NOTHING WRONGWITH A LOT OF THOSE THINGS.
  • 00:11:46.867 --> 00:11:48.602
  • WITH A LOT OF THOSE THINGS.BUT WHAT HAVING STRONG,
  • 00:11:48.602 --> 00:11:50.303
  • BUT WHAT HAVING STRONG,HEALTHY CORE VALUES DOES,
  • 00:11:50.303 --> 00:11:51.204
  • HEALTHY CORE VALUES DOES,IT PUTS YOUR PRIORITIES
  • 00:11:51.204 --> 00:11:52.339
  • IT PUTS YOUR PRIORITIESIN PERSPECTIVE.
  • 00:11:52.339 --> 00:11:53.306
  • IN PERSPECTIVE.BUT IT HELPS YOU TO BE ABLE
  • 00:11:53.306 --> 00:11:53.640
  • BUT IT HELPS YOU TO BE ABLETO SAY,
  • 00:11:53.640 --> 00:11:55.075
  • TO SAY,"NO" TO THE GOOD SO YOU CAN SAY
  • 00:11:55.075 --> 00:11:56.443
  • "NO" TO THE GOOD SO YOU CAN SAY"YES" TO THE BEST.
  • 00:11:56.443 --> 00:11:57.410
  • "YES" TO THE BEST.AND THAT HELPS YOU KEEP MOVING
  • 00:11:57.410 --> 00:11:59.446
  • AND THAT HELPS YOU KEEP MOVINGFORWARD TOWARDS YOUR VISION.
  • 00:11:59.446 --> 00:12:00.147
  • FORWARD TOWARDS YOUR VISION.AND THEN --
  • 00:12:00.147 --> 00:12:00.781
  • AND THEN --MATT HAGEE: WITHOUT GUILT.
  • 00:12:00.781 --> 00:12:01.381
  • MATT HAGEE: WITHOUT GUILT.RODNEY GAGE: EXACTLY.
  • 00:12:01.381 --> 00:12:02.082
  • RODNEY GAGE: EXACTLY.MATT HAGEE: BECAUSE THERE'S
  • 00:12:02.082 --> 00:12:02.649
  • MATT HAGEE: BECAUSE THERE'SA LOT OF PEOPLE
  • 00:12:02.649 --> 00:12:03.183
  • A LOT OF PEOPLETHAT WOULD BE LIKE,
  • 00:12:03.183 --> 00:12:03.884
  • THAT WOULD BE LIKE,"WHY AREN'T YOU DOING THIS?
  • 00:12:03.884 --> 00:12:04.384
  • "WHY AREN'T YOU DOING THIS?EVERYBODY'S DOING THIS."
  • 00:12:04.384 --> 00:12:04.951
  • EVERYBODY'S DOING THIS."AND YOU'RE LIKE,
  • 00:12:04.951 --> 00:12:05.685
  • AND YOU'RE LIKE,"I'VE GOT TO MAKE
  • 00:12:05.685 --> 00:12:06.520
  • "I'VE GOT TO MAKETHE BEST DECISION FOR EVERYBODY
  • 00:12:06.520 --> 00:12:07.454
  • THE BEST DECISION FOR EVERYBODYWHO SLEEPS AT MY HOUSE."
  • 00:12:07.454 --> 00:12:08.155
  • WHO SLEEPS AT MY HOUSE."RODNEY GAGE: RIGHT.
  • 00:12:08.155 --> 00:12:08.955
  • RODNEY GAGE: RIGHT.RIGHT.
  • 00:12:08.955 --> 00:12:09.523
  • RIGHT.YEAH.
  • 00:12:09.523 --> 00:12:10.991
  • YEAH.AND SO I OFTEN SAY THAT
  • 00:12:10.991 --> 00:12:12.425
  • AND SO I OFTEN SAY THATTHE NEW TRINITY, IF YOU WILL,
  • 00:12:12.425 --> 00:12:13.693
  • THE NEW TRINITY, IF YOU WILL,IS THE THREE "A'S".
  • 00:12:13.693 --> 00:12:14.761
  • IS THE THREE "A'S".IT'S ATHLETICS,
  • 00:12:14.761 --> 00:12:15.262
  • IT'S ATHLETICS,ARTS,
  • 00:12:15.262 --> 00:12:16.563
  • ARTS,AND ACADEMICS.
  • 00:12:16.563 --> 00:12:17.130
  • AND ACADEMICS.WELL THOSE,
  • 00:12:17.130 --> 00:12:17.964
  • WELL THOSE,ALL THREE OF THOSE THINGS
  • 00:12:17.964 --> 00:12:19.099
  • ALL THREE OF THOSE THINGSARE WONDERFUL THINGS.
  • 00:12:19.099 --> 00:12:20.100
  • ARE WONDERFUL THINGS.BUT THOSE THINGS IN
  • 00:12:20.100 --> 00:12:21.034
  • BUT THOSE THINGS INAND OF THEMSELVES
  • 00:12:21.034 --> 00:12:22.536
  • AND OF THEMSELVESCAN SOMETIMES COMPETE WITH
  • 00:12:22.536 --> 00:12:24.271
  • CAN SOMETIMES COMPETE WITHTHE THINGS THAT MATTER MOST.
  • 00:12:24.271 --> 00:12:25.472
  • THE THINGS THAT MATTER MOST.SO YOU'VE GOT TO HOLD TIGHT
  • 00:12:25.472 --> 00:12:26.740
  • SO YOU'VE GOT TO HOLD TIGHTTO THOSE CORE VALUES AND THINGS
  • 00:12:26.740 --> 00:12:28.208
  • TO THOSE CORE VALUES AND THINGSTHAT TRULY MATTER.
  • 00:12:28.208 --> 00:12:29.075
  • THAT TRULY MATTER.AND SO WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT
  • 00:12:29.075 --> 00:12:30.343
  • AND SO WHEN YOU THINK ABOUTTHE START WITH THE END IN MIND,
  • 00:12:30.343 --> 00:12:31.578
  • THE START WITH THE END IN MIND,HOLD TO CORE VALUES,
  • 00:12:31.578 --> 00:12:33.079
  • HOLD TO CORE VALUES,AND THEN WE GO TO THE WHOLE
  • 00:12:33.079 --> 00:12:34.915
  • AND THEN WE GO TO THE WHOLEISSUE OF IDENTIFYING WHAT
  • 00:12:34.915 --> 00:12:36.750
  • ISSUE OF IDENTIFYING WHATWE CALL YOUR "GPS."
  • 00:12:36.750 --> 00:12:37.551
  • WE CALL YOUR "GPS."AND THIS IS --
  • 00:12:37.551 --> 00:12:38.919
  • AND THIS IS --SO THIS IS ALL ABOUT A SHIFT
  • 00:12:38.919 --> 00:12:40.220
  • SO THIS IS ALL ABOUT A SHIFTIN MOTIVATION.
  • 00:12:40.220 --> 00:12:41.988
  • IN MOTIVATION.SO GPS SIMPLY STANDS FOR
  • 00:12:41.988 --> 00:12:42.823
  • SO GPS SIMPLY STANDS FORYOUR GOALS,
  • 00:12:42.823 --> 00:12:43.523
  • YOUR GOALS,YOUR PASSIONS,
  • 00:12:43.523 --> 00:12:44.825
  • YOUR PASSIONS,AND YOUR STRUGGLES.
  • 00:12:44.825 --> 00:12:45.959
  • AND YOUR STRUGGLES.AND WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT
  • 00:12:45.959 --> 00:12:46.626
  • AND WHEN YOU THINK ABOUTYOUR VISION,
  • 00:12:46.626 --> 00:12:48.128
  • YOUR VISION,GOING IN A CERTAIN DIRECTION,
  • 00:12:48.128 --> 00:12:49.062
  • GOING IN A CERTAIN DIRECTION,AND YOU THINK ABOUT THE
  • 00:12:49.062 --> 00:12:50.230
  • AND YOU THINK ABOUT THECORE VALUES THAT YOU HOLD TIGHT
  • 00:12:50.230 --> 00:12:51.698
  • CORE VALUES THAT YOU HOLD TIGHTTO THAT ARE YOUR GUARDRAILS,
  • 00:12:51.698 --> 00:12:52.933
  • TO THAT ARE YOUR GUARDRAILS,YOUR GUIDELINES,
  • 00:12:52.933 --> 00:12:54.000
  • YOUR GUIDELINES,THAT KEEPS YOU MOVING IN
  • 00:12:54.000 --> 00:12:55.468
  • THAT KEEPS YOU MOVING INTHE DIRECTION YOU WANT TO GO;
  • 00:12:55.468 --> 00:12:57.170
  • THE DIRECTION YOU WANT TO GO;THE GPS IS THERE TO REALLY HELP
  • 00:12:57.170 --> 00:12:59.172
  • THE GPS IS THERE TO REALLY HELPREINFORCE REALLY THE THINGS
  • 00:12:59.172 --> 00:13:01.208
  • REINFORCE REALLY THE THINGSTHAT YOU BEGIN TO BREAK DOWN,
  • 00:13:01.208 --> 00:13:02.475
  • THAT YOU BEGIN TO BREAK DOWN,AS FAR AS YOUR GOALS,
  • 00:13:02.475 --> 00:13:03.844
  • AS FAR AS YOUR GOALS,AND THEN WHAT IT IS THAT,
  • 00:13:03.844 --> 00:13:04.411
  • AND THEN WHAT IT IS THAT,YOU KNOW,
  • 00:13:04.411 --> 00:13:05.145
  • YOU KNOW,THAT YOUR PASSIONATE ABOUT,
  • 00:13:05.145 --> 00:13:06.313
  • THAT YOUR PASSIONATE ABOUT,BECAUSE EVERYBODY'S WIRED
  • 00:13:06.313 --> 00:13:07.814
  • BECAUSE EVERYBODY'S WIREDDIFFERENT IN THE FAMILY.
  • 00:13:07.814 --> 00:13:09.683
  • DIFFERENT IN THE FAMILY.SO WE HAVE PERSONALITY TESTS
  • 00:13:09.683 --> 00:13:10.884
  • SO WE HAVE PERSONALITY TESTSAT FAMILY SHIFT.COM
  • 00:13:10.884 --> 00:13:11.818
  • AT FAMILY SHIFT.COMPEOPLE CAN GO TO,
  • 00:13:11.818 --> 00:13:13.119
  • PEOPLE CAN GO TO,LEARN ABOUT THEIR
  • 00:13:13.119 --> 00:13:13.720
  • LEARN ABOUT THEIRFIVE DIFFERENT TEMPERAMENTS.
  • 00:13:13.720 --> 00:13:14.688
  • FIVE DIFFERENT TEMPERAMENTS.MATT HAGEE: CAN YOU --
  • 00:13:14.688 --> 00:13:15.689
  • MATT HAGEE: CAN YOU --RODNEY GAGE: YEAH.
  • 00:13:15.689 --> 00:13:16.423
  • RODNEY GAGE: YEAH.(LAUGHTER)
  • 00:13:16.423 --> 00:13:17.057
  • (LAUGHTER)MATT HAGEE: TRUST ME.
  • 00:13:17.057 --> 00:13:17.624
  • MATT HAGEE: TRUST ME.(LAUGHTER)
  • 00:13:17.624 --> 00:13:18.124
  • (LAUGHTER)RODNEY GAGE: YEAH,
  • 00:13:18.124 --> 00:13:20.594
  • RODNEY GAGE: YEAH,EVERYBODY HAS THEIR OWN BIT.
  • 00:13:20.594 --> 00:13:21.695
  • EVERYBODY HAS THEIR OWN BIT.BUT WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT THE
  • 00:13:21.695 --> 00:13:23.530
  • BUT WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT THEPASSIONS THAT ARE UNIQUE TO US,
  • 00:13:23.530 --> 00:13:25.265
  • PASSIONS THAT ARE UNIQUE TO US,THOSE CAN CHANNEL A LOT
  • 00:13:25.265 --> 00:13:27.467
  • THOSE CAN CHANNEL A LOTOF POSITIVE ENERGY --
  • 00:13:27.467 --> 00:13:28.301
  • OF POSITIVE ENERGY --MATT HAGEE: IT'S FUEL.
  • 00:13:28.301 --> 00:13:28.935
  • MATT HAGEE: IT'S FUEL.RODNEY GAGE: -- GIVES FOCUS.
  • 00:13:28.935 --> 00:13:29.903
  • RODNEY GAGE: -- GIVES FOCUS.ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:13:29.903 --> 00:13:31.972
  • ABSOLUTELY.AND IT CAN BRING NEW HOPE
  • 00:13:31.972 --> 00:13:33.406
  • AND IT CAN BRING NEW HOPEAND NEW LIFE TO DREAMS
  • 00:13:33.406 --> 00:13:35.275
  • AND NEW LIFE TO DREAMSAND ASPIRATIONS THAT WE HAVE.
  • 00:13:35.275 --> 00:13:36.509
  • AND ASPIRATIONS THAT WE HAVE.MATT HAGEE: PASSION IS FUEL,
  • 00:13:36.509 --> 00:13:38.144
  • MATT HAGEE: PASSION IS FUEL,AND FUEL FEEDS FIRE.
  • 00:13:38.144 --> 00:13:38.845
  • AND FUEL FEEDS FIRE.RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:13:38.845 --> 00:13:39.479
  • RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.MATT HAGEE: THE QUESTION IS,
  • 00:13:39.479 --> 00:13:40.847
  • MATT HAGEE: THE QUESTION IS,"WHAT'S BURNING?"
  • 00:13:40.847 --> 00:13:41.548
  • "WHAT'S BURNING?"YOU KNOW?
  • 00:13:41.548 --> 00:13:42.415
  • YOU KNOW?IS THIS A GOOD BURN
  • 00:13:42.415 --> 00:13:43.383
  • IS THIS A GOOD BURNOR A BAD BURN,
  • 00:13:43.383 --> 00:13:44.217
  • OR A BAD BURN,BECAUSE THERE'S PASSION
  • 00:13:44.217 --> 00:13:45.352
  • BECAUSE THERE'S PASSIONINVOLVED IF IT'S BURNING.
  • 00:13:45.352 --> 00:13:45.986
  • INVOLVED IF IT'S BURNING.RODNEY GAGE: RIGHT.
  • 00:13:45.986 --> 00:13:46.586
  • RODNEY GAGE: RIGHT.MATT HAGEE: YOU KNOW AND ONE
  • 00:13:46.586 --> 00:13:47.153
  • MATT HAGEE: YOU KNOW AND ONEOF THE CHALLENGES,
  • 00:13:47.153 --> 00:13:47.954
  • OF THE CHALLENGES,BACK TO THE DRIFT,
  • 00:13:47.954 --> 00:13:49.089
  • BACK TO THE DRIFT,IS THERE'S A LOT OF PEOPLE
  • 00:13:49.089 --> 00:13:50.190
  • IS THERE'S A LOT OF PEOPLETHAT LOSE PASSION.
  • 00:13:50.190 --> 00:13:52.259
  • THAT LOSE PASSION.THEY LOSE THEIR FUEL; YOU KNOW?
  • 00:13:52.259 --> 00:13:53.560
  • THEY LOSE THEIR FUEL; YOU KNOW?RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:13:53.560 --> 00:13:54.761
  • RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.MATT HAGEE: AND SO THE GPS,
  • 00:13:54.761 --> 00:13:56.429
  • MATT HAGEE: AND SO THE GPS,GOALS, AND PASSION,
  • 00:13:56.429 --> 00:13:57.030
  • GOALS, AND PASSION,AND THEN --
  • 00:13:57.030 --> 00:13:57.697
  • AND THEN --RODNEY GAGE: STRUGGLES.
  • 00:13:57.697 --> 00:13:58.231
  • RODNEY GAGE: STRUGGLES.MATT HAGEE: -- STRUGGLES.
  • 00:13:58.231 --> 00:13:59.332
  • MATT HAGEE: -- STRUGGLES.SO THIS IS THE HONEST PART
  • 00:13:59.332 --> 00:14:00.166
  • SO THIS IS THE HONEST PARTWHERE YOU HAVE TO KNOW WHAT
  • 00:14:00.166 --> 00:14:01.534
  • WHERE YOU HAVE TO KNOW WHATYOU'RE NOT GOOD AT.
  • 00:14:01.534 --> 00:14:02.636
  • YOU'RE NOT GOOD AT.RODNEY GAGE: I THINK SO OFTEN
  • 00:14:02.636 --> 00:14:03.470
  • RODNEY GAGE: I THINK SO OFTENIT IS.
  • 00:14:03.470 --> 00:14:04.471
  • IT IS.I THINK WHAT HAPPENS A LOT
  • 00:14:04.471 --> 00:14:05.071
  • I THINK WHAT HAPPENS A LOTOF TIMES,
  • 00:14:05.071 --> 00:14:06.940
  • OF TIMES,THE WEAKNESSES, SOMETIMES,
  • 00:14:06.940 --> 00:14:07.908
  • THE WEAKNESSES, SOMETIMES,YOU KNOW CAN BE THE THING
  • 00:14:07.908 --> 00:14:09.075
  • YOU KNOW CAN BE THE THINGTHAT EVERYBODY KIND OF PUTS
  • 00:14:09.075 --> 00:14:10.377
  • THAT EVERYBODY KIND OF PUTSTHEIR FOCUS ON.
  • 00:14:10.377 --> 00:14:11.478
  • THEIR FOCUS ON.BUT AT THE SAME TIME,
  • 00:14:11.478 --> 00:14:13.179
  • BUT AT THE SAME TIME,SOMETIMES WE HAVE SETBACKS,
  • 00:14:13.179 --> 00:14:14.314
  • SOMETIMES WE HAVE SETBACKS,THOSE UNEXPECTED THINGS
  • 00:14:14.314 --> 00:14:15.548
  • THOSE UNEXPECTED THINGSTHAT HAPPEN.
  • 00:14:15.548 --> 00:14:16.483
  • THAT HAPPEN.AND SO RATHER THAN ALLOWING
  • 00:14:16.483 --> 00:14:17.984
  • AND SO RATHER THAN ALLOWINGTHAT TO KIND OF SABOTAGE
  • 00:14:17.984 --> 00:14:18.451
  • THAT TO KIND OF SABOTAGEYOUR MARRIAGE
  • 00:14:18.451 --> 00:14:20.220
  • YOUR MARRIAGEOR SABOTAGE YOUR FAMILY,
  • 00:14:20.220 --> 00:14:21.087
  • OR SABOTAGE YOUR FAMILY,WELL I BELIEVE OUR STRUGGLES
  • 00:14:21.087 --> 00:14:21.821
  • WELL I BELIEVE OUR STRUGGLESCAN ALSO BECOME
  • 00:14:21.821 --> 00:14:23.123
  • CAN ALSO BECOMEOUR GREATEST STORY.
  • 00:14:23.123 --> 00:14:24.391
  • OUR GREATEST STORY.I BELIEVE OUR PAIN CAN BECOME
  • 00:14:24.391 --> 00:14:26.126
  • I BELIEVE OUR PAIN CAN BECOMEEVEN OUR GREATEST PLATFORM.
  • 00:14:26.126 --> 00:14:26.993
  • EVEN OUR GREATEST PLATFORM.AND SO IT'S A MATTER OF
  • 00:14:26.993 --> 00:14:28.295
  • AND SO IT'S A MATTER OFLEVERAGING THOSE STRUGGLES INTO
  • 00:14:28.295 --> 00:14:29.930
  • LEVERAGING THOSE STRUGGLES INTOSOMETHING POSITIVE SO THAT
  • 00:14:29.930 --> 00:14:31.464
  • SOMETHING POSITIVE SO THATWE CAN LEVERAGE THAT IN A WAY
  • 00:14:31.464 --> 00:14:32.132
  • WE CAN LEVERAGE THAT IN A WAYTHAT MAKES A DIFFERENCE
  • 00:14:32.132 --> 00:14:33.700
  • THAT MAKES A DIFFERENCETO OTHER PEOPLE'S LIVES.
  • 00:14:33.700 --> 00:14:35.435
  • TO OTHER PEOPLE'S LIVES.AND OF COURSE, THE NEXT LETTER,
  • 00:14:35.435 --> 00:14:36.303
  • AND OF COURSE, THE NEXT LETTER,AS WE KEEP MOVING FORWARD,
  • 00:14:36.303 --> 00:14:36.903
  • AS WE KEEP MOVING FORWARD,IS THE "F,"
  • 00:14:36.903 --> 00:14:37.637
  • IS THE "F,"WHICH SIMPLY STANDS FOR
  • 00:14:37.637 --> 00:14:40.440
  • WHICH SIMPLY STANDS FOR"FIND LIFE-GIVING FRIENDSHIPS."
  • 00:14:40.440 --> 00:14:41.942
  • "FIND LIFE-GIVING FRIENDSHIPS."AND SO THAT'S ALL ABOUT
  • 00:14:41.942 --> 00:14:43.643
  • AND SO THAT'S ALL ABOUTA SHIFT IN REINFORCEMENT,
  • 00:14:43.643 --> 00:14:44.811
  • A SHIFT IN REINFORCEMENT,ASSOCIATING WITH THE RIGHT
  • 00:14:44.811 --> 00:14:46.046
  • ASSOCIATING WITH THE RIGHTPEOPLE WHO ARE IN ALIGNMENT
  • 00:14:46.046 --> 00:14:47.614
  • PEOPLE WHO ARE IN ALIGNMENTWITH YOUR VISION, YOUR VALUES,
  • 00:14:47.614 --> 00:14:48.481
  • WITH YOUR VISION, YOUR VALUES,AND ALL THE THINGS THAT YOU
  • 00:14:48.481 --> 00:14:49.816
  • AND ALL THE THINGS THAT YOUTRULY ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT.
  • 00:14:49.816 --> 00:14:50.684
  • TRULY ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT.MATT HAGEE: AND IT MIGHT MEAN
  • 00:14:50.684 --> 00:14:51.751
  • MATT HAGEE: AND IT MIGHT MEANTHAT YOU HAVE FEWER FRIENDS.
  • 00:14:51.751 --> 00:14:52.652
  • THAT YOU HAVE FEWER FRIENDS.KENDAL HAGEE: YES.
  • 00:14:52.652 --> 00:14:53.420
  • KENDAL HAGEE: YES.MICHELLE GAGE: ALMOST ALWAYS
  • 00:14:53.420 --> 00:14:55.055
  • MICHELLE GAGE: ALMOST ALWAYSIT MEANS THAT.
  • 00:14:55.055 --> 00:14:55.922
  • IT MEANS THAT.IT'S ONE OF THE GREATEST THINGS
  • 00:14:55.922 --> 00:14:57.390
  • IT'S ONE OF THE GREATEST THINGSWE CAN TEACH OUR KIDS
  • 00:14:57.390 --> 00:14:58.358
  • WE CAN TEACH OUR KIDSIS HOW TO FIND --
  • 00:14:58.358 --> 00:14:59.092
  • IS HOW TO FIND --KENDAL HAGEE: YOU'RE KNOWN
  • 00:14:59.092 --> 00:14:59.793
  • KENDAL HAGEE: YOU'RE KNOWNBY THE COMPANY YOU KEEP.
  • 00:14:59.793 --> 00:15:00.460
  • BY THE COMPANY YOU KEEP.MICHELLE GAGE: THAT'S RIGHT.
  • 00:15:00.460 --> 00:15:01.328
  • MICHELLE GAGE: THAT'S RIGHT.MATT HAGEE: WELL IT'S NOT ONLY
  • 00:15:01.328 --> 00:15:01.962
  • MATT HAGEE: WELL IT'S NOT ONLYKNOWN BY THE COMPANY YOU KEEP,
  • 00:15:01.962 --> 00:15:03.196
  • KNOWN BY THE COMPANY YOU KEEP,BUT YOU KNOW, AS I GREW UP,
  • 00:15:03.196 --> 00:15:05.699
  • BUT YOU KNOW, AS I GREW UP,IT BECAME VERY APPARENT THAT
  • 00:15:05.699 --> 00:15:06.599
  • IT BECAME VERY APPARENT THATTHERE WERE PEOPLE THAT WERE
  • 00:15:06.599 --> 00:15:08.468
  • THERE WERE PEOPLE THAT WEREIN MY LIFE FOR A SEASON.
  • 00:15:08.468 --> 00:15:09.636
  • IN MY LIFE FOR A SEASON.AND MAYBE IT'S A SPORTS SEASON
  • 00:15:09.636 --> 00:15:10.370
  • AND MAYBE IT'S A SPORTS SEASONAND MAYBE IT WAS A SCHOOL
  • 00:15:10.370 --> 00:15:11.171
  • AND MAYBE IT WAS A SCHOOLSEASON,
  • 00:15:11.171 --> 00:15:13.506
  • SEASON,BUT THERE WAS THAT DAY WHERE
  • 00:15:13.506 --> 00:15:15.008
  • BUT THERE WAS THAT DAY WHERETHE PATH I WAS ON AND THE PATH
  • 00:15:15.008 --> 00:15:16.409
  • THE PATH I WAS ON AND THE PATHTHEY WERE ON COULD NOT BE
  • 00:15:16.409 --> 00:15:17.944
  • THEY WERE ON COULD NOT BETHE SAME UNLESS ONE OF US
  • 00:15:17.944 --> 00:15:18.979
  • THE SAME UNLESS ONE OF USDRAMATICALLY CHANGED.
  • 00:15:18.979 --> 00:15:19.913
  • DRAMATICALLY CHANGED.RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:15:19.913 --> 00:15:20.647
  • RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.MICHELLE GAGE: THAT'S TRUE.
  • 00:15:20.647 --> 00:15:21.748
  • MICHELLE GAGE: THAT'S TRUE.MATT HAGEE: AND THAT'S NOT
  • 00:15:21.748 --> 00:15:23.550
  • MATT HAGEE: AND THAT'S NOTWHEN YOU CHOOSE FRIENDSHIP
  • 00:15:23.550 --> 00:15:25.218
  • WHEN YOU CHOOSE FRIENDSHIPOVER YOUR FUTURE;
  • 00:15:25.218 --> 00:15:25.752
  • OVER YOUR FUTURE;YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING?
  • 00:15:25.752 --> 00:15:26.553
  • YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING?YOU SAY, "GOD BLESS YOU.
  • 00:15:26.553 --> 00:15:27.620
  • YOU SAY, "GOD BLESS YOU.SEE YOU DOWN THE ROAD."
  • 00:15:27.620 --> 00:15:28.455
  • SEE YOU DOWN THE ROAD."RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:15:28.455 --> 00:15:29.089
  • RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.MATT HAGEE: I GOTCHA
  • 00:15:29.089 --> 00:15:29.622
  • MATT HAGEE: I GOTCHAIN PICTURES,
  • 00:15:29.622 --> 00:15:30.590
  • IN PICTURES,BUT WE'RE GOING THIS WAY.
  • 00:15:30.590 --> 00:15:31.291
  • BUT WE'RE GOING THIS WAY.RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:15:31.291 --> 00:15:32.359
  • RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:15:32.359 --> 00:15:32.892
  • ABSOLUTELY.AND THAT CAN BE
  • 00:15:32.892 --> 00:15:34.694
  • AND THAT CAN BEA VERY DIFFICULT, YOU KNOW,
  • 00:15:34.694 --> 00:15:36.162
  • A VERY DIFFICULT, YOU KNOW,TRANSITION IN LIFE.
  • 00:15:36.162 --> 00:15:37.263
  • TRANSITION IN LIFE.IT'S ALWAYS HARD.
  • 00:15:37.263 --> 00:15:37.998
  • IT'S ALWAYS HARD.BUT AT THE SAME TIME,
  • 00:15:37.998 --> 00:15:39.766
  • BUT AT THE SAME TIME,WE HAVE TO ALIGN OUR SELF WITH
  • 00:15:39.766 --> 00:15:41.434
  • WE HAVE TO ALIGN OUR SELF WITHPEOPLE WHO ARE LIKE MINDED,
  • 00:15:41.434 --> 00:15:42.869
  • PEOPLE WHO ARE LIKE MINDED,WHO SHARE THE SAME VISION
  • 00:15:42.869 --> 00:15:44.137
  • WHO SHARE THE SAME VISIONAND VALUES,
  • 00:15:44.137 --> 00:15:45.672
  • AND VALUES,BECAUSE LIFE'S TOO SHORT TO GET
  • 00:15:45.672 --> 00:15:47.741
  • BECAUSE LIFE'S TOO SHORT TO GETDISTRACTED BY RELATIONSHIPS
  • 00:15:47.741 --> 00:15:48.441
  • DISTRACTED BY RELATIONSHIPSTHAT ARE GOING TO GET YOU
  • 00:15:48.441 --> 00:15:49.609
  • THAT ARE GOING TO GET YOUDISTRACTED OR GET YOU --
  • 00:15:49.609 --> 00:15:50.577
  • DISTRACTED OR GET YOU --OR CAUSE YOU TO DRIFT
  • 00:15:50.577 --> 00:15:51.211
  • OR CAUSE YOU TO DRIFTFURTHER AWAY.
  • 00:15:51.211 --> 00:15:52.012
  • FURTHER AWAY.MATT HAGEE: THERE'S ALWAYS
  • 00:15:52.012 --> 00:15:52.779
  • MATT HAGEE: THERE'S ALWAYSA TRUE FRIEND WAITING
  • 00:15:52.779 --> 00:15:53.646
  • A TRUE FRIEND WAITINGUP THE ROAD.
  • 00:15:53.646 --> 00:15:54.214
  • UP THE ROAD.AND WHEN YOU CHOOSE THE PATH
  • 00:15:54.214 --> 00:15:54.814
  • AND WHEN YOU CHOOSE THE PATHGOD WANTS YOU ON,
  • 00:15:54.814 --> 00:15:55.548
  • GOD WANTS YOU ON,HE'S GOT SOMEBODY WAITING
  • 00:15:55.548 --> 00:15:56.349
  • HE'S GOT SOMEBODY WAITINGFOR YOU UP THERE, SAYING,
  • 00:15:56.349 --> 00:15:57.083
  • FOR YOU UP THERE, SAYING,"HEY, I'VE BEEN LOOK FOR YOU."
  • 00:15:57.083 --> 00:15:57.784
  • "HEY, I'VE BEEN LOOK FOR YOU."RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:15:57.784 --> 00:15:58.418
  • RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.MICHELLE GAGE: THAT'S TRUE.
  • 00:15:58.418 --> 00:15:59.486
  • MICHELLE GAGE: THAT'S TRUE.KENDAL HAGEE: AND THE "T"?
  • 00:15:59.486 --> 00:16:00.186
  • KENDAL HAGEE: AND THE "T"?MICHELLE GAGE: TEACH
  • 00:16:00.186 --> 00:16:01.054
  • MICHELLE GAGE: TEACHBY EXAMPLE.
  • 00:16:01.054 --> 00:16:01.955
  • BY EXAMPLE.KENDAL HAGEE: TEACH BY EXAMPLE.
  • 00:16:01.955 --> 00:16:02.589
  • KENDAL HAGEE: TEACH BY EXAMPLE.MICHELLE GAGE: NOTHING GREATER
  • 00:16:02.589 --> 00:16:03.356
  • MICHELLE GAGE: NOTHING GREATERTHAN THAT.
  • 00:16:03.356 --> 00:16:03.890
  • THAN THAT.RODNEY GAGE: YEAH.
  • 00:16:03.890 --> 00:16:05.458
  • RODNEY GAGE: YEAH.AND THAT'S, YOU KNOW,
  • 00:16:05.458 --> 00:16:06.426
  • AND THAT'S, YOU KNOW,THAT'S IN MY WAYS SOMEWHAT
  • 00:16:06.426 --> 00:16:07.127
  • THAT'S IN MY WAYS SOMEWHATOBVIOUS.
  • 00:16:07.127 --> 00:16:08.628
  • OBVIOUS.BUT WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT IT,
  • 00:16:08.628 --> 00:16:10.663
  • BUT WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT IT,YOU KNOW WE HAVE TO BE WHO WE
  • 00:16:10.663 --> 00:16:12.432
  • YOU KNOW WE HAVE TO BE WHO WEWANT OUR CHILDREN TO BECOME,
  • 00:16:12.432 --> 00:16:13.767
  • WANT OUR CHILDREN TO BECOME,BECAUSE OUR CHILDREN ULTIMATELY
  • 00:16:13.767 --> 00:16:16.002
  • BECAUSE OUR CHILDREN ULTIMATELYWILL BECOME WHO WE ARE.
  • 00:16:16.002 --> 00:16:17.837
  • WILL BECOME WHO WE ARE.AND SO WE REPRODUCE WHO WE ARE.
  • 00:16:17.837 --> 00:16:18.571
  • AND SO WE REPRODUCE WHO WE ARE.MATT HAGEE: WHETHER YOU WANT IT
  • 00:16:18.571 --> 00:16:18.972
  • MATT HAGEE: WHETHER YOU WANT ITOR NOT.
  • 00:16:18.972 --> 00:16:19.606
  • OR NOT.RODNEY GAGE: YOU BETTER BELIEVE
  • 00:16:19.606 --> 00:16:20.073
  • RODNEY GAGE: YOU BETTER BELIEVEIT.
  • 00:16:20.073 --> 00:16:20.907
  • IT.SO THEY'RE WATCHING US
  • 00:16:20.907 --> 00:16:22.208
  • SO THEY'RE WATCHING USHOW WE LIVE.
  • 00:16:22.208 --> 00:16:23.009
  • HOW WE LIVE.THEY'RE LISTENING TO
  • 00:16:23.009 --> 00:16:24.277
  • THEY'RE LISTENING TOHOW WE TALK.
  • 00:16:24.277 --> 00:16:25.779
  • HOW WE TALK.AND WE HAVE TO BE MINDFUL
  • 00:16:25.779 --> 00:16:26.312
  • AND WE HAVE TO BE MINDFULOF THAT,
  • 00:16:26.312 --> 00:16:27.380
  • OF THAT,BUT MAKE SURE THAT WE ARE
  • 00:16:27.380 --> 00:16:29.015
  • BUT MAKE SURE THAT WE AREINTENTIONAL WITH EVERYTHING
  • 00:16:29.015 --> 00:16:30.617
  • INTENTIONAL WITH EVERYTHINGTHAT WE DO,
  • 00:16:30.617 --> 00:16:31.251
  • THAT WE DO,BECAUSE WE WANT TO LEAVE
  • 00:16:31.251 --> 00:16:32.452
  • BECAUSE WE WANT TO LEAVEOUR KIDS MORE THAN JUST
  • 00:16:32.452 --> 00:16:33.319
  • OUR KIDS MORE THAN JUSTWITH MEMORIES,
  • 00:16:33.319 --> 00:16:34.254
  • WITH MEMORIES,WHICH ARE GREAT.
  • 00:16:34.254 --> 00:16:34.921
  • WHICH ARE GREAT.BUT ULTIMATELY,
  • 00:16:34.921 --> 00:16:36.056
  • BUT ULTIMATELY,OUR INTENTION IS TO LEAVE THEM
  • 00:16:36.056 --> 00:16:37.023
  • OUR INTENTION IS TO LEAVE THEMA LEGACY.
  • 00:16:37.023 --> 00:16:37.791
  • A LEGACY.MATT HAGEE: AND EQUIPPED
  • 00:16:37.791 --> 00:16:38.425
  • MATT HAGEE: AND EQUIPPEDTO SUCCEED.
  • 00:16:38.425 --> 00:16:39.526
  • TO SUCCEED.RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:16:39.526 --> 00:16:40.226
  • RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.MATT HAGEE: I MEAN WHEN YOU
  • 00:16:40.226 --> 00:16:41.428
  • MATT HAGEE: I MEAN WHEN YOUTALK ABOUT "TEACH BY EXAMPLE,"
  • 00:16:41.428 --> 00:16:42.328
  • TALK ABOUT "TEACH BY EXAMPLE,"I CAN SPEAK TO THAT,
  • 00:16:42.328 --> 00:16:44.197
  • I CAN SPEAK TO THAT,BECAUSE I HAVE A VERY REAL AND
  • 00:16:44.197 --> 00:16:46.166
  • BECAUSE I HAVE A VERY REAL ANDPRESENT EXAMPLE IN MY LIFE.
  • 00:16:46.166 --> 00:16:47.000
  • PRESENT EXAMPLE IN MY LIFE.AND I CAN'T TELL YOU HOW MANY
  • 00:16:47.000 --> 00:16:48.401
  • AND I CAN'T TELL YOU HOW MANYTIMES AT THIS AGE AND STAGE
  • 00:16:48.401 --> 00:16:49.903
  • TIMES AT THIS AGE AND STAGEIN MY LIFE WITH 17 YEARS
  • 00:16:49.903 --> 00:16:51.137
  • IN MY LIFE WITH 17 YEARSOF MARRIAGE AND FOUR KIDS,
  • 00:16:51.137 --> 00:16:53.606
  • OF MARRIAGE AND FOUR KIDS,I GO, "I'VE SEEN DAD DO THIS,"
  • 00:16:53.606 --> 00:16:54.074
  • I GO, "I'VE SEEN DAD DO THIS,"YOU KNOW?
  • 00:16:54.074 --> 00:16:55.341
  • YOU KNOW?AND IF NOTHING ELSE,
  • 00:16:55.341 --> 00:16:56.309
  • AND IF NOTHING ELSE,IT GIVES YOU THE CONFIDENCE
  • 00:16:56.309 --> 00:16:56.676
  • IT GIVES YOU THE CONFIDENCETO KNOW,
  • 00:16:56.676 --> 00:16:58.578
  • TO KNOW,IF HE COULD, I CAN TOO.
  • 00:16:58.578 --> 00:16:59.212
  • IF HE COULD, I CAN TOO.RODNEY GAGE: YOU BETTER BELIEVE
  • 00:16:59.212 --> 00:16:59.746
  • RODNEY GAGE: YOU BETTER BELIEVEIT.
  • 00:16:59.746 --> 00:17:00.980
  • IT.MATT HAGEE: I MAY NOT REMEMBER
  • 00:17:00.980 --> 00:17:01.748
  • MATT HAGEE: I MAY NOT REMEMBERALL THE STEPS
  • 00:17:01.748 --> 00:17:02.982
  • ALL THE STEPSBUT HE SURVIVED.
  • 00:17:02.982 --> 00:17:03.716
  • BUT HE SURVIVED.YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING?
  • 00:17:03.716 --> 00:17:04.451
  • YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING?RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:17:04.451 --> 00:17:05.185
  • RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.MATT HAGEE: AND SO THAT'S
  • 00:17:05.185 --> 00:17:06.286
  • MATT HAGEE: AND SO THAT'SA BIG PART OF IT.
  • 00:17:06.286 --> 00:17:07.587
  • A BIG PART OF IT.YOU KNOW YOU'RE HEARING A LOT
  • 00:17:07.587 --> 00:17:09.055
  • YOU KNOW YOU'RE HEARING A LOTOF INFORMATION COMING AT YOU
  • 00:17:09.055 --> 00:17:10.924
  • OF INFORMATION COMING AT YOUIN A VERY QUICK HURRY.
  • 00:17:10.924 --> 00:17:12.292
  • IN A VERY QUICK HURRY.IT SOUNDS SIMPLE.
  • 00:17:12.292 --> 00:17:13.660
  • IT SOUNDS SIMPLE.BUT SIMPLE IS NOT ALWAYS EASY,
  • 00:17:13.660 --> 00:17:14.861
  • BUT SIMPLE IS NOT ALWAYS EASY,WHICH IS WHY YOU NEED TO GET
  • 00:17:14.861 --> 00:17:15.595
  • WHICH IS WHY YOU NEED TO GETTHIS BOOK,
  • 00:17:15.595 --> 00:17:16.629
  • THIS BOOK,"FAMILY SHIFT."
  • 00:17:16.629 --> 00:17:17.330
  • "FAMILY SHIFT."IT NOT ONLY GIVES YOU
  • 00:17:17.330 --> 00:17:18.498
  • IT NOT ONLY GIVES YOUTHE INFORMATION BUT IT HOLDS
  • 00:17:18.498 --> 00:17:19.599
  • THE INFORMATION BUT IT HOLDSYOU ACCOUNTABLE FOR WHAT
  • 00:17:19.599 --> 00:17:20.867
  • YOU ACCOUNTABLE FOR WHATYOU NEED TO BE ACCOMPLISHING
  • 00:17:20.867 --> 00:17:21.534
  • YOU NEED TO BE ACCOMPLISHINGTO BRING YOUR FAMILY
  • 00:17:21.534 --> 00:17:22.135
  • TO BRING YOUR FAMILYCLOSER TOGETHER.
  • 00:17:22.135 --> 00:17:22.735
  • CLOSER TOGETHER.WHEN WE COME BACK TO
  • 00:17:22.735 --> 00:17:23.269
  • WHEN WE COME BACK TO"THE DIFFERENCE,"
  • 00:17:23.269 --> 00:17:23.937
  • "THE DIFFERENCE,"RODNEY AND I ARE GOING
  • 00:17:23.937 --> 00:17:24.637
  • RODNEY AND I ARE GOINGTO HAVE A CONVERSATION
  • 00:17:24.637 --> 00:17:25.472
  • TO HAVE A CONVERSATIONWITHOUT THE LADIES,
  • 00:17:25.472 --> 00:17:26.239
  • WITHOUT THE LADIES,BECAUSE SOMETIMES WE CAN BE
  • 00:17:26.239 --> 00:17:28.775
  • BECAUSE SOMETIMES WE CAN BEMORE HONEST WHEN IT'S JUST US.
  • 00:17:28.775 --> 00:17:29.476
  • MORE HONEST WHEN IT'S JUST US.AND WE MIGHT GIVE THE GIRLS
  • 00:17:29.476 --> 00:17:30.376
  • AND WE MIGHT GIVE THE GIRLSA CHANCE TO DO THE SAME.
  • 00:17:30.376 --> 00:17:30.810
  • A CHANCE TO DO THE SAME.YOU'RE WATCHING
  • 00:17:30.810 --> 00:17:31.344
  • YOU'RE WATCHING"THE DIFFERENCE."
  • 00:17:31.344 --> 00:17:32.879
  • "THE DIFFERENCE."WE'LL BE RIGHT BACK AFTER THIS.
  • 00:17:32.879 --> 00:17:37.083
  • WE'LL BE RIGHT BACK AFTER THIS.♪ MUSIC ♪L ABOUT
  • 00:17:37.083 --> 00:17:37.984
  • ♪ MUSIC ♪L ABOUTTHE ACTIONS YOU TAKE
  • 00:17:37.984 --> 00:17:39.119
  • THE ACTIONS YOU TAKEDURING YOUR LIFE.
  • 00:17:39.119 --> 00:17:40.019
  • DURING YOUR LIFE.YOUR ACTIONS WILL AFFECT
  • 00:17:40.019 --> 00:17:41.187
  • YOUR ACTIONS WILL AFFECTHOW PEOPLE REMEMBER YOU
  • 00:17:41.187 --> 00:17:43.056
  • HOW PEOPLE REMEMBER YOUFOR GENERATIONS TO COME.
  • 00:17:43.056 --> 00:17:44.357
  • FOR GENERATIONS TO COME.AS A LEGACY PARTNER,
  • 00:17:44.357 --> 00:17:45.158
  • AS A LEGACY PARTNER,YOUR MONTHLY GIFT
  • 00:17:45.158 --> 00:17:46.593
  • YOUR MONTHLY GIFTSUPPORTS HUMANITARIAN EFFORTS
  • 00:17:46.593 --> 00:17:47.360
  • SUPPORTS HUMANITARIAN EFFORTSIN ISRAEL,
  • 00:17:47.360 --> 00:17:48.661
  • IN ISRAEL,THE SANCTUARY OF HOPE,
  • 00:17:48.661 --> 00:17:49.863
  • THE SANCTUARY OF HOPE,AND OUR GLOBAL BROADCAST
  • 00:17:49.863 --> 00:17:50.663
  • AND OUR GLOBAL BROADCASTOUTREACH.
  • 00:17:50.663 --> 00:17:51.531
  • OUTREACH.THE BIBLE STATES
  • 00:17:51.531 --> 00:17:52.899
  • THE BIBLE STATESTHAT WHEN YOU BLESS ISRAEL,
  • 00:17:52.899 --> 00:17:54.367
  • THAT WHEN YOU BLESS ISRAEL,GOD BLESSES YOU.
  • 00:17:54.367 --> 00:17:55.168
  • GOD BLESSES YOU.GOD CAN USE US
  • 00:17:55.168 --> 00:17:56.169
  • GOD CAN USE USIN AMAZING WAYS
  • 00:17:56.169 --> 00:17:57.070
  • IN AMAZING WAYSTO ENRICH THE LIVES
  • 00:17:57.070 --> 00:17:58.938
  • TO ENRICH THE LIVESOF GOD'S CHOSEN PEOPLE.
  • 00:17:58.938 --> 00:18:00.373
  • OF GOD'S CHOSEN PEOPLE.PARTNER WITH US TODAY.
  • 00:18:00.373 --> 00:18:01.774
  • PARTNER WITH US TODAY.CALL THE NUMBER ON THE SCREEN
  • 00:18:01.774 --> 00:18:05.612
  • CALL THE NUMBER ON THE SCREENOR GO TO JHM.ORG/PARTNER.
  • 00:18:05.612 --> 00:18:07.213
  • OR GO TO JHM.ORG/PARTNER.YOU AND YOUR FAMILY CAN EXPLORE
  • 00:18:07.213 --> 00:18:08.381
  • YOU AND YOUR FAMILY CAN EXPLOREISRAEL WITH PASTOR MATT,
  • 00:18:08.381 --> 00:18:09.616
  • ISRAEL WITH PASTOR MATT,KENDAL, AND THEIR CHILDREN
  • 00:18:09.616 --> 00:18:12.051
  • KENDAL, AND THEIR CHILDRENON THE 2021 ISRAEL FAMILY TRIP.
  • 00:18:12.051 --> 00:18:13.052
  • ON THE 2021 ISRAEL FAMILY TRIP.THIS ISN'T YOUR TYPICAL
  • 00:18:13.052 --> 00:18:13.887
  • THIS ISN'T YOUR TYPICALPILGRIMAGE.
  • 00:18:13.887 --> 00:18:15.288
  • PILGRIMAGE.THIS FUN AND EXCITING TRIP
  • 00:18:15.288 --> 00:18:16.723
  • THIS FUN AND EXCITING TRIPIS DESIGNED FOR FAMILIES.
  • 00:18:16.723 --> 00:18:17.657
  • IS DESIGNED FOR FAMILIES.MORE THAN JUST VISITING
  • 00:18:17.657 --> 00:18:18.992
  • MORE THAN JUST VISITINGHISTORICAL PLACES,
  • 00:18:18.992 --> 00:18:20.093
  • HISTORICAL PLACES,PAST WILL MEET PRESENT,
  • 00:18:20.093 --> 00:18:21.728
  • PAST WILL MEET PRESENT,AS YOU SAIL ACROSS THE SEA
  • 00:18:21.728 --> 00:18:22.695
  • AS YOU SAIL ACROSS THE SEAOF GALILEE.
  • 00:18:22.695 --> 00:18:24.397
  • OF GALILEE.DISCOVER ANCIENT ANTIQUITIES
  • 00:18:24.397 --> 00:18:26.299
  • DISCOVER ANCIENT ANTIQUITIESWHILE ON AN ARCHEOLOGICAL DIG.
  • 00:18:26.299 --> 00:18:27.800
  • WHILE ON AN ARCHEOLOGICAL DIG.RECREATE THE DAY-TO-DAY LIFE
  • 00:18:27.800 --> 00:18:29.435
  • RECREATE THE DAY-TO-DAY LIFEOF AN ANCIENT BIBLICAL VILLAGE,
  • 00:18:29.435 --> 00:18:30.670
  • OF AN ANCIENT BIBLICAL VILLAGE,INCLUDING HERDING SHEEP
  • 00:18:30.670 --> 00:18:31.905
  • INCLUDING HERDING SHEEPAND MAKING CHEESE.
  • 00:18:31.905 --> 00:18:32.939
  • AND MAKING CHEESE.FLOAT ON THE DEAD SEA,
  • 00:18:32.939 --> 00:18:34.507
  • FLOAT ON THE DEAD SEA,AND SWIM IN THE MEDITERRANEAN.
  • 00:18:34.507 --> 00:18:35.208
  • AND SWIM IN THE MEDITERRANEAN.TAKE COMMUNION
  • 00:18:35.208 --> 00:18:36.042
  • TAKE COMMUNIONAT THE GARDEN TOMB
  • 00:18:36.042 --> 00:18:36.910
  • AT THE GARDEN TOMBAND BE BAPTIZED
  • 00:18:36.910 --> 00:18:38.144
  • AND BE BAPTIZEDIN THE JORDAN RIVER.
  • 00:18:38.144 --> 00:18:39.379
  • IN THE JORDAN RIVER.WHETHER YOU'RE RIDING ATV'S
  • 00:18:39.379 --> 00:18:40.413
  • WHETHER YOU'RE RIDING ATV'SACROSS THE DESERT
  • 00:18:40.413 --> 00:18:41.814
  • ACROSS THE DESERTOR TAKING PART IN A CAMEL
  • 00:18:41.814 --> 00:18:42.749
  • OR TAKING PART IN A CAMELCARAVAN,
  • 00:18:42.749 --> 00:18:44.050
  • CARAVAN,THIS IS THE PERFECT WAY
  • 00:18:44.050 --> 00:18:46.052
  • THIS IS THE PERFECT WAYTO BRING THE BIBLE TO LIFE
  • 00:18:46.052 --> 00:18:47.720
  • TO BRING THE BIBLE TO LIFEFOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
  • 00:18:47.720 --> 00:18:48.888
  • FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.SPACE IS LIMITED,
  • 00:18:48.888 --> 00:18:52.192
  • SPACE IS LIMITED,SO CALL OR GO TO JHM.ORG
  • 00:18:52.192 --> 00:18:53.726
  • SO CALL OR GO TO JHM.ORGFOR MORE INFORMATION
  • 00:18:53.726 --> 00:18:55.061
  • FOR MORE INFORMATIONAND RESERVE YOUR SPOT
  • 00:18:55.061 --> 00:18:56.829
  • AND RESERVE YOUR SPOTON THIS ONE-OF-A-KIND TOUR
  • 00:18:56.829 --> 00:18:58.131
  • ON THIS ONE-OF-A-KIND TOURTODAY.
  • 00:18:58.131 --> 00:19:05.438
  • TODAY.♪ MUSIC ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪
  • 00:19:05.438 --> 00:19:06.039
  • ♪ MUSIC ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪MATT HAGEE: RODNEY AND I
  • 00:19:06.039 --> 00:19:06.739
  • MATT HAGEE: RODNEY AND IARE OVER HERE AT THE MOMENT
  • 00:19:06.739 --> 00:19:07.640
  • ARE OVER HERE AT THE MOMENTWITH "MATT'S SET."
  • 00:19:07.640 --> 00:19:08.975
  • WITH "MATT'S SET."AND YOU KNOW, RODNEY,
  • 00:19:08.975 --> 00:19:10.076
  • AND YOU KNOW, RODNEY,ONE OF THE THINGS THAT IS
  • 00:19:10.076 --> 00:19:11.010
  • ONE OF THE THINGS THAT ISREALLY PREVALENT IN THE WORLD
  • 00:19:11.010 --> 00:19:13.012
  • REALLY PREVALENT IN THE WORLDTODAY IS A GENERATION
  • 00:19:13.012 --> 00:19:13.913
  • TODAY IS A GENERATIONOF FATHERS,
  • 00:19:13.913 --> 00:19:15.615
  • OF FATHERS,WHO GREW UP FATHERLESS.
  • 00:19:15.615 --> 00:19:17.283
  • WHO GREW UP FATHERLESS.AND THEY FEEL ILL-EQUIPPED
  • 00:19:17.283 --> 00:19:18.484
  • AND THEY FEEL ILL-EQUIPPEDTO BE ABLE TO ACCOMPLISH
  • 00:19:18.484 --> 00:19:19.452
  • TO BE ABLE TO ACCOMPLISHSUCCESSFULLY WHAT THEY'RE
  • 00:19:19.452 --> 00:19:20.520
  • SUCCESSFULLY WHAT THEY'RESUPPOSED TO DO FOR THEIR KIDS.
  • 00:19:20.520 --> 00:19:22.855
  • SUPPOSED TO DO FOR THEIR KIDS.WHAT IS THE ADVICE YOU GIVE
  • 00:19:22.855 --> 00:19:23.389
  • WHAT IS THE ADVICE YOU GIVETO MEN,
  • 00:19:23.389 --> 00:19:24.157
  • TO MEN,WHEN IT COMES TO THE MOST
  • 00:19:24.157 --> 00:19:25.024
  • WHEN IT COMES TO THE MOSTIMPORTANT THING THEY CAN DO
  • 00:19:25.024 --> 00:19:26.159
  • IMPORTANT THING THEY CAN DOFOR THEIR CHILDREN?
  • 00:19:26.159 --> 00:19:26.893
  • FOR THEIR CHILDREN?RODNEY GAGE: WELL I THINK
  • 00:19:26.893 --> 00:19:27.527
  • RODNEY GAGE: WELL I THINKFIRST AND FOREMOST,
  • 00:19:27.527 --> 00:19:28.962
  • FIRST AND FOREMOST,IS JUST TO SPEAK LIFE INTO
  • 00:19:28.962 --> 00:19:30.630
  • IS JUST TO SPEAK LIFE INTOTHE MEN THEMSELVES AND TO KNOW
  • 00:19:30.630 --> 00:19:31.497
  • THE MEN THEMSELVES AND TO KNOWTHAT, YOU KNOW, MAYBE THEY
  • 00:19:31.497 --> 00:19:32.865
  • THAT, YOU KNOW, MAYBE THEYDIDN'T HAVE A GOOD EXAMPLE,
  • 00:19:32.865 --> 00:19:33.900
  • DIDN'T HAVE A GOOD EXAMPLE,BUT JUST TO SIMPLY KNOW THAT
  • 00:19:33.900 --> 00:19:35.101
  • BUT JUST TO SIMPLY KNOW THATTHEY ARE LOVED AND ACCEPTED,
  • 00:19:35.101 --> 00:19:36.336
  • THEY ARE LOVED AND ACCEPTED,AND THEY HAVE A FATHER,
  • 00:19:36.336 --> 00:19:36.936
  • AND THEY HAVE A FATHER,WHO IS A FATHER
  • 00:19:36.936 --> 00:19:38.004
  • WHO IS A FATHERTO THE FATHERLESS.
  • 00:19:38.004 --> 00:19:38.638
  • TO THE FATHERLESS.MATT HAGEE: ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:19:38.638 --> 00:19:39.706
  • MATT HAGEE: ABSOLUTELY.RODNEY GAGE: AND SO WE DRAW
  • 00:19:39.706 --> 00:19:41.241
  • RODNEY GAGE: AND SO WE DRAWOUR IDENTITY FROM HIM,
  • 00:19:41.241 --> 00:19:42.742
  • OUR IDENTITY FROM HIM,WE FIND OUR SECURITY AND OUR
  • 00:19:42.742 --> 00:19:44.244
  • WE FIND OUR SECURITY AND OURCONFIDENCE THAT COMES FROM HIM
  • 00:19:44.244 --> 00:19:45.245
  • CONFIDENCE THAT COMES FROM HIMAND HIM ALONE.
  • 00:19:45.245 --> 00:19:47.146
  • AND HIM ALONE.THEN THAT ALLOWS US ██ TO BE ABE
  • 00:19:47.146 --> 00:19:48.514
  • THEN THAT ALLOWS US ██ TO BE ABETO SPEAK LIFE INTO THE LIVES
  • 00:19:48.514 --> 00:19:49.582
  • TO SPEAK LIFE INTO THE LIVESOF OUR CHILDREN,
  • 00:19:49.582 --> 00:19:51.317
  • OF OUR CHILDREN,AND TO ULTIMATELY LIVE OUR LIFE
  • 00:19:51.317 --> 00:19:52.952
  • AND TO ULTIMATELY LIVE OUR LIFEIN A WAY TO BE ABLE --
  • 00:19:52.952 --> 00:19:55.255
  • IN A WAY TO BE ABLE --THAT'S ABLE TO SHOW THEM REALLY
  • 00:19:55.255 --> 00:19:58.958
  • THAT'S ABLE TO SHOW THEM REALLYHOW TO LIVE A GODLY LIFE BY THE
  • 00:19:58.958 --> 00:20:01.628
  • HOW TO LIVE A GODLY LIFE BY THEWAY WE LIVE EACH AND EVERY DAY,
  • 00:20:01.628 --> 00:20:03.830
  • WAY WE LIVE EACH AND EVERY DAY,BY THE WAY WE COMMUNICATE.
  • 00:20:03.830 --> 00:20:05.164
  • BY THE WAY WE COMMUNICATE.AND IF WE ARE MARRIED,
  • 00:20:05.164 --> 00:20:06.132
  • AND IF WE ARE MARRIED,I THINK THE GREATEST SINGLE
  • 00:20:06.132 --> 00:20:09.035
  • I THINK THE GREATEST SINGLETHING A DAD CAN DO FOR HIS KIDS
  • 00:20:09.035 --> 00:20:10.703
  • THING A DAD CAN DO FOR HIS KIDSIS TO LOVE HIS WIFE AND
  • 00:20:10.703 --> 00:20:12.438
  • IS TO LOVE HIS WIFE ANDTO ESTABLISH THAT RELATIONSHIP,
  • 00:20:12.438 --> 00:20:13.139
  • TO ESTABLISH THAT RELATIONSHIP,FIRST.
  • 00:20:13.139 --> 00:20:14.841
  • FIRST.ALLOW THAT RELATIONSHIP TO THEN
  • 00:20:14.841 --> 00:20:16.909
  • ALLOW THAT RELATIONSHIP TO THENSPILL OVER INTO THEIR
  • 00:20:16.909 --> 00:20:18.244
  • SPILL OVER INTO THEIRRELATIONSHIP WITH THE KIDS.
  • 00:20:18.244 --> 00:20:18.911
  • RELATIONSHIP WITH THE KIDS.BUT EVEN IF THEY'RE
  • 00:20:18.911 --> 00:20:20.046
  • BUT EVEN IF THEY'REA SINGLE DAD
  • 00:20:20.046 --> 00:20:20.847
  • A SINGLE DADOR WHETHER THEY'RE IN
  • 00:20:20.847 --> 00:20:22.315
  • OR WHETHER THEY'RE INA BLENDED FAMILY SITUATION,
  • 00:20:22.315 --> 00:20:23.249
  • A BLENDED FAMILY SITUATION,AS WE WERE TALKING ABOUT
  • 00:20:23.249 --> 00:20:24.017
  • AS WE WERE TALKING ABOUTEARLIER,
  • 00:20:24.017 --> 00:20:25.051
  • EARLIER,I THINK IT REALLY COMES DOWN
  • 00:20:25.051 --> 00:20:26.052
  • I THINK IT REALLY COMES DOWNTO, OKAY;
  • 00:20:26.052 --> 00:20:28.154
  • TO, OKAY;WHO DO WE WANT TO BECOME?
  • 00:20:28.154 --> 00:20:30.056
  • WHO DO WE WANT TO BECOME?WHAT IS THE VISION THAT I HAVE
  • 00:20:30.056 --> 00:20:31.991
  • WHAT IS THE VISION THAT I HAVEAS A DAD FOR OUR FAMILY?
  • 00:20:31.991 --> 00:20:33.426
  • AS A DAD FOR OUR FAMILY?AND HOW CAN I HELP SET
  • 00:20:33.426 --> 00:20:34.994
  • AND HOW CAN I HELP SETTHE EXAMPLE AND LEAD THE WAY
  • 00:20:34.994 --> 00:20:36.996
  • THE EXAMPLE AND LEAD THE WAYIN ACCOMPLISHING THAT VISION
  • 00:20:36.996 --> 00:20:38.064
  • IN ACCOMPLISHING THAT VISIONIN OUR HOME?
  • 00:20:38.064 --> 00:20:38.598
  • IN OUR HOME?MATT HAGEE: AND I THINK,
  • 00:20:38.598 --> 00:20:39.465
  • MATT HAGEE: AND I THINK,FOR A LOT OF MEN,
  • 00:20:39.465 --> 00:20:41.000
  • FOR A LOT OF MEN,THEY HAVE TO ACCEPT THE FACT
  • 00:20:41.000 --> 00:20:42.402
  • THEY HAVE TO ACCEPT THE FACTTHAT THEY ARE THE EXAMPLE.
  • 00:20:42.402 --> 00:20:43.002
  • THAT THEY ARE THE EXAMPLE.RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:20:43.002 --> 00:20:43.636
  • RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.MATT HAGEE: WHETHER THEY WANT
  • 00:20:43.636 --> 00:20:44.337
  • MATT HAGEE: WHETHER THEY WANTTO BE OR NOT.
  • 00:20:44.337 --> 00:20:44.971
  • TO BE OR NOT.RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:20:44.971 --> 00:20:45.838
  • RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.MATT HAGEE: ONE OF THE THINGS
  • 00:20:45.838 --> 00:20:47.674
  • MATT HAGEE: ONE OF THE THINGSABOUT "SHIFT" IS THE "T" IS
  • 00:20:47.674 --> 00:20:49.175
  • ABOUT "SHIFT" IS THE "T" ISTEACH BY EXAMPLE;
  • 00:20:49.175 --> 00:20:50.310
  • TEACH BY EXAMPLE;THAT'S A RESPONSIBILITY YOU
  • 00:20:50.310 --> 00:20:51.477
  • THAT'S A RESPONSIBILITY YOUCAN'T REALLY ESCAPE.
  • 00:20:51.477 --> 00:20:52.779
  • CAN'T REALLY ESCAPE.IF YOU'RE THERE,
  • 00:20:52.779 --> 00:20:53.813
  • IF YOU'RE THERE,THEY'RE WATCHING.
  • 00:20:53.813 --> 00:20:55.048
  • THEY'RE WATCHING.IF YOU'RE NOT THERE,
  • 00:20:55.048 --> 00:20:56.349
  • IF YOU'RE NOT THERE,YOU'RE WATCHING.
  • 00:20:56.349 --> 00:20:57.116
  • YOU'RE WATCHING.IF YOU'RE SPEAKING,
  • 00:20:57.116 --> 00:20:58.051
  • IF YOU'RE SPEAKING,THEY'RE LISTENING.
  • 00:20:58.051 --> 00:20:59.452
  • THEY'RE LISTENING.IF YOU'RE NOT SPEAKING,
  • 00:20:59.452 --> 00:21:00.186
  • IF YOU'RE NOT SPEAKING,THEY'RE LISTENING.
  • 00:21:00.186 --> 00:21:02.989
  • THEY'RE LISTENING.AND THEY ARE ALWAYS GEARED TO
  • 00:21:02.989 --> 00:21:04.957
  • AND THEY ARE ALWAYS GEARED TODO WHATEVER IT IS YOU SHOWED
  • 00:21:04.957 --> 00:21:06.492
  • DO WHATEVER IT IS YOU SHOWEDTHEM HOW TO DO.
  • 00:21:06.492 --> 00:21:06.993
  • THEM HOW TO DO.RODNEY GAGE: YES.
  • 00:21:06.993 --> 00:21:07.560
  • RODNEY GAGE: YES.MATT HAGEE: AND I THINK,
  • 00:21:07.560 --> 00:21:08.094
  • MATT HAGEE: AND I THINK,YOU KNOW,
  • 00:21:08.094 --> 00:21:09.429
  • YOU KNOW,ONE OF THE THINGS THAT YOU'VE
  • 00:21:09.429 --> 00:21:10.330
  • ONE OF THE THINGS THAT YOU'VEESTABLISHED IN THE YOUR BOOK
  • 00:21:10.330 --> 00:21:11.431
  • ESTABLISHED IN THE YOUR BOOKIS WHEN YOU TEACH BY EXAMPLE,
  • 00:21:11.431 --> 00:21:13.333
  • IS WHEN YOU TEACH BY EXAMPLE,YOU PROBABLY HAVE TO OWN
  • 00:21:13.333 --> 00:21:14.901
  • YOU PROBABLY HAVE TO OWNWHAT YOU NEED TO DO BETTER.
  • 00:21:14.901 --> 00:21:16.069
  • WHAT YOU NEED TO DO BETTER.YOU KNOW YOU'RE NOT ALWAYS
  • 00:21:16.069 --> 00:21:16.803
  • YOU KNOW YOU'RE NOT ALWAYSGOING TO SHOW YOUR KIDS
  • 00:21:16.803 --> 00:21:17.603
  • GOING TO SHOW YOUR KIDSTHE BEST EXAMPLE.
  • 00:21:17.603 --> 00:21:18.371
  • THE BEST EXAMPLE.AND SOMETIMES THE MOST POWERFUL
  • 00:21:18.371 --> 00:21:19.639
  • AND SOMETIMES THE MOST POWERFULTHING YOU CAN DO IS LOOK AT
  • 00:21:19.639 --> 00:21:20.373
  • THING YOU CAN DO IS LOOK ATYOUR KID, AND SAY,
  • 00:21:20.373 --> 00:21:21.174
  • YOUR KID, AND SAY,"I COULD HAVE DONE BETTER
  • 00:21:21.174 --> 00:21:21.674
  • "I COULD HAVE DONE BETTERTHERE,
  • 00:21:21.674 --> 00:21:22.442
  • THERE,AND HERE'S HOW..."
  • 00:21:22.442 --> 00:21:22.942
  • AND HERE'S HOW..."RODNEY GAGE: YEAH.
  • 00:21:22.942 --> 00:21:24.143
  • RODNEY GAGE: YEAH.AND I THINK I'VE OFTEN SAID,
  • 00:21:24.143 --> 00:21:24.777
  • AND I THINK I'VE OFTEN SAID,YOU KNOW,
  • 00:21:24.777 --> 00:21:26.112
  • YOU KNOW,IF YOU WANT TO REALLY FIND OUT
  • 00:21:26.112 --> 00:21:27.280
  • IF YOU WANT TO REALLY FIND OUTTHE SPIRITUAL TEMPERATURE
  • 00:21:27.280 --> 00:21:28.247
  • THE SPIRITUAL TEMPERATUREIN THE AVERAGE HOME,
  • 00:21:28.247 --> 00:21:29.048
  • IN THE AVERAGE HOME,ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS PUT
  • 00:21:29.048 --> 00:21:30.183
  • ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS PUTTHE THERMOMETER
  • 00:21:30.183 --> 00:21:31.617
  • THE THERMOMETERIN THE FATHER'S MOUTH.
  • 00:21:31.617 --> 00:21:32.685
  • IN THE FATHER'S MOUTH.SO IT REALLY DOES START
  • 00:21:32.685 --> 00:21:33.419
  • SO IT REALLY DOES STARTWITH US.
  • 00:21:33.419 --> 00:21:34.821
  • WITH US.WE HAVE TO SET THE EXAMPLE,
  • 00:21:34.821 --> 00:21:36.923
  • WE HAVE TO SET THE EXAMPLE,SET THE PACE IN THE HOME,
  • 00:21:36.923 --> 00:21:38.991
  • SET THE PACE IN THE HOME,SO THAT EVERYBODY ELSE WILL
  • 00:21:38.991 --> 00:21:40.827
  • SO THAT EVERYBODY ELSE WILLFOLLOW IN THOSE FOOTSTEPS
  • 00:21:40.827 --> 00:21:43.296
  • FOLLOW IN THOSE FOOTSTEPSIN A WAY THAT IS INTENTIONAL
  • 00:21:43.296 --> 00:21:44.897
  • IN A WAY THAT IS INTENTIONALAND ULTIMATELY GENERATIONAL,
  • 00:21:44.897 --> 00:21:46.366
  • AND ULTIMATELY GENERATIONAL,SO THAT WE CAN MAKE AN IMPACT
  • 00:21:46.366 --> 00:21:47.734
  • SO THAT WE CAN MAKE AN IMPACTIN GENERATIONS TO COME.
  • 00:21:47.734 --> 00:21:48.267
  • IN GENERATIONS TO COME.MATT HAGEE: THAT GOES TO
  • 00:21:48.267 --> 00:21:49.268
  • MATT HAGEE: THAT GOES TOTHE GOAL; RIGHT?
  • 00:21:49.268 --> 00:21:51.170
  • THE GOAL; RIGHT?THE GOAL FOR EVERY MAN HAS
  • 00:21:51.170 --> 00:21:52.305
  • THE GOAL FOR EVERY MAN HASTO BE THAT THEY WANT
  • 00:21:52.305 --> 00:21:53.005
  • TO BE THAT THEY WANTTHEIR CHILDREN
  • 00:21:53.005 --> 00:21:53.973
  • THEIR CHILDRENAND THEIR GRANDCHILDREN
  • 00:21:53.973 --> 00:21:55.808
  • AND THEIR GRANDCHILDRENTO LIVE A WONDERFUL LIFE
  • 00:21:55.808 --> 00:21:56.909
  • TO LIVE A WONDERFUL LIFEREGARDLESS OF WHAT THAT
  • 00:21:56.909 --> 00:21:58.277
  • REGARDLESS OF WHAT THATLOOKS LIKE; YOU KNOW?
  • 00:21:58.277 --> 00:21:59.779
  • LOOKS LIKE; YOU KNOW?THEY WANT TO BE ABLE TO LOOK,
  • 00:21:59.779 --> 00:22:00.213
  • THEY WANT TO BE ABLE TO LOOK,YOU KNOW,
  • 00:22:00.213 --> 00:22:01.180
  • YOU KNOW,A HUNDRED YEARS DOWN THE ROAD
  • 00:22:01.180 --> 00:22:02.048
  • A HUNDRED YEARS DOWN THE ROADAND KNOW THAT THEY DID
  • 00:22:02.048 --> 00:22:03.149
  • AND KNOW THAT THEY DIDSOMETHING THAT WAS PERMANENT
  • 00:22:03.149 --> 00:22:04.450
  • SOMETHING THAT WAS PERMANENTAND LONG LASTING.
  • 00:22:04.450 --> 00:22:05.184
  • AND LONG LASTING.RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:22:05.184 --> 00:22:06.786
  • RODNEY GAGE: ABSOLUTELY.AND THAT'S THE LEGACY;
  • 00:22:06.786 --> 00:22:07.253
  • AND THAT'S THE LEGACY;YOU KNOW?
  • 00:22:07.253 --> 00:22:08.588
  • YOU KNOW?AND THAT'S THE BEAUTY ABOUT
  • 00:22:08.588 --> 00:22:10.123
  • AND THAT'S THE BEAUTY ABOUTBEING ABLE TO LIVE WITHOUT
  • 00:22:10.123 --> 00:22:12.392
  • BEING ABLE TO LIVE WITHOUTREGRETS AND TO KNOW THAT WE CAN
  • 00:22:12.392 --> 00:22:13.726
  • REGRETS AND TO KNOW THAT WE CANLEAVE SOMETHING BEHIND
  • 00:22:13.726 --> 00:22:14.460
  • LEAVE SOMETHING BEHINDFOR OUR CHILDREN,
  • 00:22:14.460 --> 00:22:16.295
  • FOR OUR CHILDREN,WHICH IS A LEGACY OF FAITH,
  • 00:22:16.295 --> 00:22:16.996
  • WHICH IS A LEGACY OF FAITH,AND SOMETHING THAT WILL
  • 00:22:16.996 --> 00:22:18.297
  • AND SOMETHING THAT WILLULTIMATELY, THEY --
  • 00:22:18.297 --> 00:22:19.599
  • ULTIMATELY, THEY --GOD WILL USE IN THEIR LIVES TO
  • 00:22:19.599 --> 00:22:21.868
  • GOD WILL USE IN THEIR LIVES TOPASS ONTO THE NEXT GENERATION.
  • 00:22:21.868 --> 00:22:23.069
  • PASS ONTO THE NEXT GENERATION.AND SO I THINK WHEN MEN
  • 00:22:23.069 --> 00:22:24.570
  • AND SO I THINK WHEN MENJUST REALLY JUST --
  • 00:22:24.570 --> 00:22:25.338
  • JUST REALLY JUST --AND I --
  • 00:22:25.338 --> 00:22:26.539
  • AND I --MATT, IT'S REALLY JUST TAKING
  • 00:22:26.539 --> 00:22:27.740
  • MATT, IT'S REALLY JUST TAKINGA LOT OF PRESSURE OFF
  • 00:22:27.740 --> 00:22:28.574
  • A LOT OF PRESSURE OFFOF THEMSELVES TOO.
  • 00:22:28.574 --> 00:22:30.510
  • OF THEMSELVES TOO.MEN CARRY A LOT OF PRESSURE
  • 00:22:30.510 --> 00:22:31.210
  • MEN CARRY A LOT OF PRESSUREFROM FINANCIAL
  • 00:22:31.210 --> 00:22:33.112
  • FROM FINANCIALRESPONSIBILITIES, WITH WORK,
  • 00:22:33.112 --> 00:22:34.547
  • RESPONSIBILITIES, WITH WORK,AND JUST THE DOMESTIC,
  • 00:22:34.547 --> 00:22:35.515
  • AND JUST THE DOMESTIC,YOU KNOW, RESPONSIBILITIES,
  • 00:22:35.515 --> 00:22:36.282
  • YOU KNOW, RESPONSIBILITIES,AND EVERYTHING THAT GOES
  • 00:22:36.282 --> 00:22:37.150
  • AND EVERYTHING THAT GOESWITH THAT.
  • 00:22:37.150 --> 00:22:38.351
  • WITH THAT.BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY,
  • 00:22:38.351 --> 00:22:39.652
  • BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY,WE HAVE TO JUST KNOW THAT GOD
  • 00:22:39.652 --> 00:22:41.988
  • WE HAVE TO JUST KNOW THAT GODHAS PLACED US WHERE HE HAS US
  • 00:22:41.988 --> 00:22:43.122
  • HAS PLACED US WHERE HE HAS USFOR A PURPOSE.
  • 00:22:43.122 --> 00:22:44.757
  • FOR A PURPOSE.AND THAT IS TO MAKE AN IMPRINT,
  • 00:22:44.757 --> 00:22:46.592
  • AND THAT IS TO MAKE AN IMPRINT,TO MAKE A LASTING IMPRESSION
  • 00:22:46.592 --> 00:22:48.327
  • TO MAKE A LASTING IMPRESSIONAND IMPACT ON OUR CHILDREN,
  • 00:22:48.327 --> 00:22:50.029
  • AND IMPACT ON OUR CHILDREN,ON OUR FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS,
  • 00:22:50.029 --> 00:22:51.898
  • ON OUR FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS,SO THAT THAT LEGACY WILL
  • 00:22:51.898 --> 00:22:54.167
  • SO THAT THAT LEGACY WILLCONTINUE AS GOD INTENDED.
  • 00:22:54.167 --> 00:22:54.634
  • CONTINUE AS GOD INTENDED.MATT HAGEE: WELL,
  • 00:22:54.634 --> 00:22:55.468
  • MATT HAGEE: WELL,GOD WILL HELP YOU LEAD
  • 00:22:55.468 --> 00:22:57.103
  • GOD WILL HELP YOU LEADWITH LEGACY AND PURPOSE.
  • 00:22:57.103 --> 00:22:58.204
  • WITH LEGACY AND PURPOSE.AND THE LADIES ARE IN
  • 00:22:58.204 --> 00:22:59.071
  • AND THE LADIES ARE IN"KENDAL'S CORNER,"
  • 00:22:59.071 --> 00:22:59.705
  • "KENDAL'S CORNER,"AND THEY ARE GOING TO TALK
  • 00:22:59.705 --> 00:23:00.540
  • AND THEY ARE GOING TO TALKABOUT HOW YOU CAN KEEP
  • 00:23:00.540 --> 00:23:02.275
  • ABOUT HOW YOU CAN KEEPYOUR FAMILY ON TRACK.
  • 00:23:02.275 --> 00:23:04.210
  • YOUR FAMILY ON TRACK.♪ MUSIC ♪
  • 00:23:04.210 --> 00:23:04.944
  • ♪ MUSIC ♪KENDAL HAGEE: I'M SITTING IN
  • 00:23:04.944 --> 00:23:06.512
  • KENDAL HAGEE: I'M SITTING IN"KENDAL'S CORNER" WITH MICHELE,
  • 00:23:06.512 --> 00:23:08.214
  • "KENDAL'S CORNER" WITH MICHELE,AND WE'RE TALKING ABOUT
  • 00:23:08.214 --> 00:23:08.781
  • AND WE'RE TALKING ABOUTTHE WOMEN.
  • 00:23:08.781 --> 00:23:10.082
  • THE WOMEN.YOU KNOW GOD SAYS THAT THE
  • 00:23:10.082 --> 00:23:11.250
  • YOU KNOW GOD SAYS THAT THEWOMAN, THE WIFE,
  • 00:23:11.250 --> 00:23:12.018
  • WOMAN, THE WIFE,IS THE HOME,
  • 00:23:12.018 --> 00:23:13.453
  • IS THE HOME,YOU KNOW SHE IS THE PERSON
  • 00:23:13.453 --> 00:23:13.853
  • YOU KNOW SHE IS THE PERSONOF THE HOME,
  • 00:23:13.853 --> 00:23:14.987
  • OF THE HOME,THE HEART OF THE HOME.
  • 00:23:14.987 --> 00:23:15.555
  • THE HEART OF THE HOME.MICHELLE GAGE: THAT'S RIGHT.
  • 00:23:15.555 --> 00:23:16.289
  • MICHELLE GAGE: THAT'S RIGHT.KENDAL HAGEE: AND SO TALKING
  • 00:23:16.289 --> 00:23:17.056
  • KENDAL HAGEE: AND SO TALKINGABOUT FAMILY SHIFT
  • 00:23:17.056 --> 00:23:17.824
  • ABOUT FAMILY SHIFTAND HOW WOMEN --
  • 00:23:17.824 --> 00:23:19.125
  • AND HOW WOMEN --HOW DO WE GET OUR KIDS
  • 00:23:19.125 --> 00:23:19.959
  • HOW DO WE GET OUR KIDSTO COMMIT?
  • 00:23:19.959 --> 00:23:21.227
  • TO COMMIT?AND HOW DO WE GET --
  • 00:23:21.227 --> 00:23:22.161
  • AND HOW DO WE GET --WITH OUR SCHEDULES,
  • 00:23:22.161 --> 00:23:22.962
  • WITH OUR SCHEDULES,WE'RE RUNNING IN A HUNDRED
  • 00:23:22.962 --> 00:23:23.896
  • WE'RE RUNNING IN A HUNDREDDIFFERENT DIRECTIONS.
  • 00:23:23.896 --> 00:23:25.298
  • DIFFERENT DIRECTIONS.HOW DO WE GET INVOLVED AND GET
  • 00:23:25.298 --> 00:23:26.165
  • HOW DO WE GET INVOLVED AND GETOUR KIDS TO GET INVOLVED
  • 00:23:26.165 --> 00:23:27.500
  • OUR KIDS TO GET INVOLVEDIN THIS FAMILY SHIFT?
  • 00:23:27.500 --> 00:23:28.067
  • IN THIS FAMILY SHIFT?MICHELLE GAGE: WELL YOU KNOW
  • 00:23:28.067 --> 00:23:28.601
  • MICHELLE GAGE: WELL YOU KNOWWHAT?
  • 00:23:28.601 --> 00:23:29.335
  • WHAT?WE WERE TALKING ABOUT TEACHING
  • 00:23:29.335 --> 00:23:29.902
  • WE WERE TALKING ABOUT TEACHINGBY EXAMPLE.
  • 00:23:29.902 --> 00:23:31.437
  • BY EXAMPLE.THE GUYS JUST TALKED ABOUT THAT
  • 00:23:31.437 --> 00:23:32.071
  • THE GUYS JUST TALKED ABOUT THATAS WELL.
  • 00:23:32.071 --> 00:23:33.606
  • AS WELL.AND YOU KNOW I LEARNED,
  • 00:23:33.606 --> 00:23:35.308
  • AND YOU KNOW I LEARNED,FROM MY FAMILY,
  • 00:23:35.308 --> 00:23:36.275
  • FROM MY FAMILY,WHAT YOU PUT FIRST AT
  • 00:23:36.275 --> 00:23:37.610
  • WHAT YOU PUT FIRST ATTHE BEGINNING IS WHAT YOU ARE
  • 00:23:37.610 --> 00:23:38.578
  • THE BEGINNING IS WHAT YOU AREAT THE END.
  • 00:23:38.578 --> 00:23:39.846
  • AT THE END.AND YOU KNOW WHAT WE TEACH
  • 00:23:39.846 --> 00:23:42.248
  • AND YOU KNOW WHAT WE TEACHOUR KIDS IS WHAT WE'RE PUTTING
  • 00:23:42.248 --> 00:23:43.249
  • OUR KIDS IS WHAT WE'RE PUTTINGFIRST IN OUR LIFE.
  • 00:23:43.249 --> 00:23:43.983
  • FIRST IN OUR LIFE.FIRST THING IN THE MORNING,
  • 00:23:43.983 --> 00:23:44.984
  • FIRST THING IN THE MORNING,WHAT ARE WE PUTTING FIRST?
  • 00:23:44.984 --> 00:23:47.019
  • WHAT ARE WE PUTTING FIRST?WHAT DO THEY SEE US DO?
  • 00:23:47.019 --> 00:23:48.855
  • WHAT DO THEY SEE US DO?AND WHAT ARE WE PUTTING INTO
  • 00:23:48.855 --> 00:23:49.355
  • AND WHAT ARE WE PUTTING INTOOUR LIFE,
  • 00:23:49.355 --> 00:23:50.356
  • OUR LIFE,THE BIG ROCKS THAT WE'RE
  • 00:23:50.356 --> 00:23:51.591
  • THE BIG ROCKS THAT WE'REPUTTING IN AND COMMITTING TO,
  • 00:23:51.591 --> 00:23:52.758
  • PUTTING IN AND COMMITTING TO,SO THAT WE HAVE ROOM FOR THE
  • 00:23:52.758 --> 00:23:53.893
  • SO THAT WE HAVE ROOM FOR THESMALLER THINGS IN OUR LIFE?
  • 00:23:53.893 --> 00:23:54.527
  • SMALLER THINGS IN OUR LIFE?KENDAL HAGEE: THAT'S RIGHT.
  • 00:23:54.527 --> 00:23:55.061
  • KENDAL HAGEE: THAT'S RIGHT.THAT'S RIGHT.
  • 00:23:55.061 --> 00:23:55.828
  • THAT'S RIGHT.YOU KNOW I EVEN HAVE MOMS SAY,
  • 00:23:55.828 --> 00:23:56.696
  • YOU KNOW I EVEN HAVE MOMS SAY,"WELL I'M SO BUSY;
  • 00:23:56.696 --> 00:23:57.730
  • "WELL I'M SO BUSY;I DON'T HAVE TIME TO GET INTO
  • 00:23:57.730 --> 00:23:58.498
  • I DON'T HAVE TIME TO GET INTOTHE WORD OF GOD,"
  • 00:23:58.498 --> 00:23:59.332
  • THE WORD OF GOD,"BUT YOU DO.
  • 00:23:59.332 --> 00:24:00.266
  • BUT YOU DO.BRING YOUR KIDS IN BED
  • 00:24:00.266 --> 00:24:00.700
  • BRING YOUR KIDS IN BEDWITH YOU.
  • 00:24:00.700 --> 00:24:02.268
  • WITH YOU.READ THE WORD OF GOD WITH THEM.
  • 00:24:02.268 --> 00:24:03.269
  • READ THE WORD OF GOD WITH THEM.WHATEVER YOU'RE STUDYING,
  • 00:24:03.269 --> 00:24:03.936
  • WHATEVER YOU'RE STUDYING,YOU'RE DEVO,
  • 00:24:03.936 --> 00:24:04.871
  • YOU'RE DEVO,WHATEVER YOU'RE TRYING,
  • 00:24:04.871 --> 00:24:06.138
  • WHATEVER YOU'RE TRYING,BRING THEM IN WITH YOU AND
  • 00:24:06.138 --> 00:24:07.740
  • BRING THEM IN WITH YOU ANDINVOLVE THEM IN THE TEACHING.
  • 00:24:07.740 --> 00:24:08.908
  • INVOLVE THEM IN THE TEACHING.AND YOU CAN ALWAYS FIND
  • 00:24:08.908 --> 00:24:10.176
  • AND YOU CAN ALWAYS FINDA LITTLE BIT OF TIME.
  • 00:24:10.176 --> 00:24:10.977
  • A LITTLE BIT OF TIME.AND SO WE TALK ABOUT
  • 00:24:10.977 --> 00:24:11.477
  • AND SO WE TALK ABOUTCOMMITMENT.
  • 00:24:11.477 --> 00:24:12.311
  • COMMITMENT.HOW DO WE GET OUR KIDS
  • 00:24:12.311 --> 00:24:14.580
  • HOW DO WE GET OUR KIDSTO COMMIT TO DOING
  • 00:24:14.580 --> 00:24:15.515
  • TO COMMIT TO DOINGTHIS FAMILY SHIFT?
  • 00:24:15.515 --> 00:24:16.148
  • THIS FAMILY SHIFT?MICHELLE GAGE: WELL, IT'S,
  • 00:24:16.148 --> 00:24:17.149
  • MICHELLE GAGE: WELL, IT'S,YOU KNOW, AGAIN, HOLDING TO
  • 00:24:17.149 --> 00:24:17.750
  • YOU KNOW, AGAIN, HOLDING TOTHOSE.
  • 00:24:17.750 --> 00:24:18.451
  • THOSE.KENDAL HAGEE: YOU HAVE THREE
  • 00:24:18.451 --> 00:24:19.051
  • KENDAL HAGEE: YOU HAVE THREEKIDS THAT ARE OLDER THAN MINE,
  • 00:24:19.051 --> 00:24:19.952
  • KIDS THAT ARE OLDER THAN MINE,SO I'M LOOK FOR WISDOM HERE.
  • 00:24:19.952 --> 00:24:20.953
  • SO I'M LOOK FOR WISDOM HERE.MY KIDS ARE TEENAGERS.
  • 00:24:20.953 --> 00:24:21.954
  • MY KIDS ARE TEENAGERS.I'M THINKING, OKAY;
  • 00:24:21.954 --> 00:24:23.422
  • I'M THINKING, OKAY;WE'RE GOING THROUGH THE STAGES
  • 00:24:23.422 --> 00:24:24.924
  • WE'RE GOING THROUGH THE STAGESOF TEENAGE, YOU KNOW MAYBE,
  • 00:24:24.924 --> 00:24:25.658
  • OF TEENAGE, YOU KNOW MAYBE,UH --
  • 00:24:25.658 --> 00:24:27.593
  • UH --BUT HOW DO YOU GET THEM TO GET
  • 00:24:27.593 --> 00:24:28.294
  • BUT HOW DO YOU GET THEM TO GETINVOLVED?
  • 00:24:28.294 --> 00:24:28.928
  • INVOLVED?MICHELLE GAGE: I THINK DEFINING
  • 00:24:28.928 --> 00:24:29.595
  • MICHELLE GAGE: I THINK DEFININGTHOSE CORE VALUES
  • 00:24:29.595 --> 00:24:29.962
  • THOSE CORE VALUESIS SO IMPORTANT,
  • 00:24:29.962 --> 00:24:30.696
  • IS SO IMPORTANT,BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT YOU CAN
  • 00:24:30.696 --> 00:24:31.898
  • BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT YOU CANHOLD ONTO; YOU KNOW?
  • 00:24:31.898 --> 00:24:32.999
  • HOLD ONTO; YOU KNOW?AND I THINK,
  • 00:24:32.999 --> 00:24:34.100
  • AND I THINK,JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL.
  • 00:24:34.100 --> 00:24:35.034
  • JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL.I'M THINKING THAT WE'VE GOT
  • 00:24:35.034 --> 00:24:36.969
  • I'M THINKING THAT WE'VE GOTTO HOLD ONTO THOSE CORE VALUES.
  • 00:24:36.969 --> 00:24:38.738
  • TO HOLD ONTO THOSE CORE VALUES.AND WHATEVER THAT IS,
  • 00:24:38.738 --> 00:24:39.438
  • AND WHATEVER THAT IS,THAT YOU DECIDE THAT IS
  • 00:24:39.438 --> 00:24:40.540
  • THAT YOU DECIDE THAT ISIN YOUR FAMILY.
  • 00:24:40.540 --> 00:24:41.240
  • IN YOUR FAMILY.FOR US,
  • 00:24:41.240 --> 00:24:42.174
  • FOR US,IT'S LIKE GENEROSITY
  • 00:24:42.174 --> 00:24:43.242
  • IT'S LIKE GENEROSITYIS OUR WAY.
  • 00:24:43.242 --> 00:24:45.344
  • IS OUR WAY.POSITIVE IS OUR SPIRIT,
  • 00:24:45.344 --> 00:24:46.612
  • POSITIVE IS OUR SPIRIT,YOU KNOW, AND THOSE TYPE
  • 00:24:46.612 --> 00:24:48.014
  • YOU KNOW, AND THOSE TYPETHINGS; THAT WHEN THEY BEGIN
  • 00:24:48.014 --> 00:24:49.715
  • THINGS; THAT WHEN THEY BEGINTO DRIFT, YOU'VE ALREADY
  • 00:24:49.715 --> 00:24:51.484
  • TO DRIFT, YOU'VE ALREADYESTABLISHED WHAT YOU LEARNED.
  • 00:24:51.484 --> 00:24:52.318
  • ESTABLISHED WHAT YOU LEARNED.KENDAL HAGEE: YOU HAD THE WHOLE
  • 00:24:52.318 --> 00:24:52.852
  • KENDAL HAGEE: YOU HAD THE WHOLEPLAY OUT.
  • 00:24:52.852 --> 00:24:53.619
  • PLAY OUT.I MEAN LIKE, SO YOU TOOK
  • 00:24:53.619 --> 00:24:55.154
  • I MEAN LIKE, SO YOU TOOKYOUR WHOLE GAGE FAMILY VISION,
  • 00:24:55.154 --> 00:24:56.188
  • YOUR WHOLE GAGE FAMILY VISION,YOU TOOK THE MISSION STATEMENT,
  • 00:24:56.188 --> 00:24:58.291
  • YOU TOOK THE MISSION STATEMENT,AND YOU HAD IT ALL WRITTEN OUT.
  • 00:24:58.291 --> 00:24:58.724
  • AND YOU HAD IT ALL WRITTEN OUT.MICHELLE GAGE: YES.
  • 00:24:58.724 --> 00:24:59.425
  • MICHELLE GAGE: YES.KENDAL HAGEE: AND I THINK
  • 00:24:59.425 --> 00:24:59.959
  • KENDAL HAGEE: AND I THINKTHAT'S IMPORTANT FOR MOMS.
  • 00:24:59.959 --> 00:25:00.993
  • THAT'S IMPORTANT FOR MOMS.YOU KNOW IT TELLS US
  • 00:25:00.993 --> 00:25:01.394
  • YOU KNOW IT TELLS USIN HABAKKUK,
  • 00:25:01.394 --> 00:25:01.961
  • IN HABAKKUK,"WRITE OUT THE VISION
  • 00:25:01.961 --> 00:25:02.695
  • "WRITE OUT THE VISIONAND MAKE IT PLAIN."
  • 00:25:02.695 --> 00:25:03.796
  • AND MAKE IT PLAIN."WRITE IT SO PLAINLY
  • 00:25:03.796 --> 00:25:05.364
  • WRITE IT SO PLAINLYTHAT YOU CAN GO BACK TO IT
  • 00:25:05.364 --> 00:25:06.566
  • THAT YOU CAN GO BACK TO ITAND SAY, "THIS IS WHAT WE'RE,
  • 00:25:06.566 --> 00:25:08.034
  • AND SAY, "THIS IS WHAT WE'RE,AS A FAMILY, DOING."
  • 00:25:08.034 --> 00:25:08.734
  • AS A FAMILY, DOING."AND I ENCOURAGE MOMS
  • 00:25:08.734 --> 00:25:09.969
  • AND I ENCOURAGE MOMSTHOSE THAT ARE WATCHING,
  • 00:25:09.969 --> 00:25:11.270
  • THOSE THAT ARE WATCHING,TAKE TIME WITH YOUR FAMILY.
  • 00:25:11.270 --> 00:25:12.305
  • TAKE TIME WITH YOUR FAMILY.GET YOUR FAMILY AROUND THE
  • 00:25:12.305 --> 00:25:13.940
  • GET YOUR FAMILY AROUND THEDINNER TABLE OR IN THE LIVING
  • 00:25:13.940 --> 00:25:15.308
  • DINNER TABLE OR IN THE LIVINGROOM, AND WRITE THAT VISION,
  • 00:25:15.308 --> 00:25:16.642
  • ROOM, AND WRITE THAT VISION,WRITE OUT YOUR CORE VALUES.
  • 00:25:16.642 --> 00:25:17.176
  • WRITE OUT YOUR CORE VALUES.MICHELLE GAGE: YES.
  • 00:25:17.176 --> 00:25:17.877
  • MICHELLE GAGE: YES.ON OUR WEBSITE AT
  • 00:25:17.877 --> 00:25:18.978
  • ON OUR WEBSITE ATFAMILY SHIFT.COM,
  • 00:25:18.978 --> 00:25:20.379
  • FAMILY SHIFT.COM,WE ACTUALLY WALK YOU THROUGH
  • 00:25:20.379 --> 00:25:21.013
  • WE ACTUALLY WALK YOU THROUGHHOW YOU CAN DO THAT,
  • 00:25:21.013 --> 00:25:22.448
  • HOW YOU CAN DO THAT,AS WELL AS IN THE BOOK.
  • 00:25:22.448 --> 00:25:23.282
  • AS WELL AS IN THE BOOK.UM, BUT YES,
  • 00:25:23.282 --> 00:25:24.450
  • UM, BUT YES,YOU COULD DO IT STEP BY STEP.
  • 00:25:24.450 --> 00:25:25.618
  • YOU COULD DO IT STEP BY STEP.WE DID THAT WHEN OUR KIDS WERE
  • 00:25:25.618 --> 00:25:26.652
  • WE DID THAT WHEN OUR KIDS WEREIN MIDDLE SCHOOL.
  • 00:25:26.652 --> 00:25:28.220
  • IN MIDDLE SCHOOL.SO THERE'S REALLY --
  • 00:25:28.220 --> 00:25:29.288
  • SO THERE'S REALLY --NOW IS A GOOD TIME TO START,
  • 00:25:29.288 --> 00:25:30.756
  • NOW IS A GOOD TIME TO START,WHATEVER AGE THEY ARE.
  • 00:25:30.756 --> 00:25:31.757
  • WHATEVER AGE THEY ARE.AND IT'S NEVER TOO LATE.
  • 00:25:31.757 --> 00:25:32.525
  • AND IT'S NEVER TOO LATE.KENDAL HAGEE: IT'S NEVER
  • 00:25:32.525 --> 00:25:33.025
  • KENDAL HAGEE: IT'S NEVERTOO LATE.
  • 00:25:33.025 --> 00:25:33.726
  • TOO LATE.AND YOU ALSO HAVE A PODCAST
  • 00:25:33.726 --> 00:25:34.527
  • AND YOU ALSO HAVE A PODCASTTHAT I WATCHED.
  • 00:25:34.527 --> 00:25:35.261
  • THAT I WATCHED.TELL US HOW TO FIND
  • 00:25:35.261 --> 00:25:35.828
  • TELL US HOW TO FINDYOUR PODCAST.
  • 00:25:35.828 --> 00:25:37.063
  • YOUR PODCAST.WE JUST LOOK UP RODNEY
  • 00:25:37.063 --> 00:25:37.863
  • WE JUST LOOK UP RODNEYAND MICHELLE GAGE.
  • 00:25:37.863 --> 00:25:38.931
  • AND MICHELLE GAGE.LOOK UP AND YOU CAN TALK.
  • 00:25:38.931 --> 00:25:39.398
  • LOOK UP AND YOU CAN TALK.MICHELLE GAGE: YES.
  • 00:25:39.398 --> 00:25:40.066
  • MICHELLE GAGE: YES.KENDAL HAGEE: YOU'VE SAID
  • 00:25:40.066 --> 00:25:42.068
  • KENDAL HAGEE: YOU'VE SAID20 THINGS TO START IN 2020.
  • 00:25:42.068 --> 00:25:43.636
  • 20 THINGS TO START IN 2020.MICHELLE GAGE: YES, YES.
  • 00:25:43.636 --> 00:25:44.437
  • MICHELLE GAGE: YES, YES.KENDAL HAGEE: WHICH IS AMAZING.
  • 00:25:44.437 --> 00:25:45.071
  • KENDAL HAGEE: WHICH IS AMAZING.MICHELLE GAGE: OH, THANK YOU.
  • 00:25:45.071 --> 00:25:45.972
  • MICHELLE GAGE: OH, THANK YOU.A FRIEND GAVE US THAT IDEA.
  • 00:25:45.972 --> 00:25:46.505
  • A FRIEND GAVE US THAT IDEA.BUT IT'S JUST
  • 00:25:46.505 --> 00:25:48.374
  • BUT IT'S JUSTTHE FAMILY SHIFT PODCAST.
  • 00:25:48.374 --> 00:25:49.508
  • THE FAMILY SHIFT PODCAST.AND WE LOVE JUST TALKING ABOUT
  • 00:25:49.508 --> 00:25:50.876
  • AND WE LOVE JUST TALKING ABOUTLIFE AND LEADERSHIP,
  • 00:25:50.876 --> 00:25:52.311
  • LIFE AND LEADERSHIP,AND HOW WE CAN LEAD OUR KIDS,
  • 00:25:52.311 --> 00:25:53.479
  • AND HOW WE CAN LEAD OUR KIDS,AND JUST THE THINGS THAT WE CAN
  • 00:25:53.479 --> 00:25:54.480
  • AND JUST THE THINGS THAT WE CANDO THAT ARE PRACTICAL,
  • 00:25:54.480 --> 00:25:55.748
  • DO THAT ARE PRACTICAL,EVERYDAY THINGS THAT WE CAN DO
  • 00:25:55.748 --> 00:25:57.383
  • EVERYDAY THINGS THAT WE CAN DOTO HELP OUR FAMILY GET --
  • 00:25:57.383 --> 00:25:58.684
  • TO HELP OUR FAMILY GET --LIVE WITH GREATER INTENTION.
  • 00:25:58.684 --> 00:25:59.251
  • LIVE WITH GREATER INTENTION.KENDAL HAGEE: GREATER
  • 00:25:59.251 --> 00:25:59.919
  • KENDAL HAGEE: GREATERINTENTION, THAT'S AWESOME.
  • 00:25:59.919 --> 00:26:00.686
  • INTENTION, THAT'S AWESOME.MICHELLE, THANK YOU SO MUCH
  • 00:26:00.686 --> 00:26:01.454
  • MICHELLE, THANK YOU SO MUCHFOR JOINING ME.
  • 00:26:01.454 --> 00:26:02.121
  • FOR JOINING ME.MICHELLE GAGE: THANK YOU
  • 00:26:02.121 --> 00:26:02.788
  • MICHELLE GAGE: THANK YOUFOR HAVING ME, KENDAL.
  • 00:26:02.788 --> 00:26:03.389
  • FOR HAVING ME, KENDAL.KENDAL HAGEE: THANK YOU.
  • 00:26:03.389 --> 00:26:03.956
  • KENDAL HAGEE: THANK YOU.WE'LL BE RIGHT BACK WITH
  • 00:26:03.956 --> 00:26:04.624
  • WE'LL BE RIGHT BACK WITH"THE DIFFERENCE."
  • 00:26:04.624 --> 00:26:05.491
  • "THE DIFFERENCE."♪ MUSIC ♪
  • 00:26:05.491 --> 00:26:06.392
  • ♪ MUSIC ♪DO YOU WANT TO LEARN MORE
  • 00:26:06.392 --> 00:26:07.393
  • DO YOU WANT TO LEARN MOREABOUT THE SHOW?
  • 00:26:07.393 --> 00:26:08.661
  • ABOUT THE SHOW?FOLLOW US ON FACEBOOK
  • 00:26:08.661 --> 00:26:10.129
  • FOLLOW US ON FACEBOOK@MATT AND KENDAL HAGEE,
  • 00:26:10.129 --> 00:26:10.963
  • @MATT AND KENDAL HAGEE,ON INSTAGRAM
  • 00:26:10.963 --> 00:26:11.797
  • ON INSTAGRAM@MATT HAGEE
  • 00:26:11.797 --> 00:26:13.366
  • @MATT HAGEEAND @KENDAL HAGEE,
  • 00:26:13.366 --> 00:26:15.001
  • AND @KENDAL HAGEE,ON TWITTER @MATT HAGEE
  • 00:26:15.001 --> 00:26:16.535
  • ON TWITTER @MATT HAGEEAND @KENDAL HAGEE.
  • 00:26:16.535 --> 00:26:17.269
  • AND @KENDAL HAGEE."THE DIFFERENCE"
  • 00:26:17.269 --> 00:26:18.804
  • "THE DIFFERENCE"WITH MATT AND KENDAL HAGEE.
  • 00:26:18.804 --> 00:26:20.740
  • WITH MATT AND KENDAL HAGEE.♪ MUSIC ♪
  • 00:26:20.740 --> 00:26:21.674
  • ♪ MUSIC ♪MATT HAGEE: KENDAL AND I WANT
  • 00:26:21.674 --> 00:26:22.208
  • MATT HAGEE: KENDAL AND I WANTTO THANK OUR GUESTS,
  • 00:26:22.208 --> 00:26:23.376
  • TO THANK OUR GUESTS,RODNEY AND MICHELLE GAGE,
  • 00:26:23.376 --> 00:26:24.543
  • RODNEY AND MICHELLE GAGE,FOR COMING AND SHARING FROM
  • 00:26:24.543 --> 00:26:25.578
  • FOR COMING AND SHARING FROMTHEIR RECENT BOOK
  • 00:26:25.578 --> 00:26:26.646
  • THEIR RECENT BOOK"FAMILY SHIFT."
  • 00:26:26.646 --> 00:26:27.580
  • "FAMILY SHIFT."IF YOU'D LIKE TO FIND OUT
  • 00:26:27.580 --> 00:26:28.948
  • IF YOU'D LIKE TO FIND OUTMORE ABOUT HOW YOU CAN TAKE
  • 00:26:28.948 --> 00:26:30.149
  • MORE ABOUT HOW YOU CAN TAKEYOUR FAMILY THROUGH A VERY
  • 00:26:30.149 --> 00:26:32.218
  • YOUR FAMILY THROUGH A VERYIMPORTANT SHIFT IN YOUR LIFE,
  • 00:26:32.218 --> 00:26:33.986
  • IMPORTANT SHIFT IN YOUR LIFE,YOU CAN GO TO FAMILY SHIFT.COM.
  • 00:26:33.986 --> 00:26:34.420
  • YOU CAN GO TO FAMILY SHIFT.COM.KENDAL HAGEE: YES.
  • 00:26:34.420 --> 00:26:35.221
  • KENDAL HAGEE: YES.SO YOU CAN ALSO FIND THEM
  • 00:26:35.221 --> 00:26:36.822
  • SO YOU CAN ALSO FIND THEMON PODCAST.
  • 00:26:36.822 --> 00:26:37.857
  • ON PODCAST.YOU CAN ALSO FIND US
  • 00:26:37.857 --> 00:26:38.724
  • YOU CAN ALSO FIND USON OUR PODCAST,
  • 00:26:38.724 --> 00:26:40.960
  • ON OUR PODCAST,OR YOU CAN VISIT US AT JHM.ORG,
  • 00:26:40.960 --> 00:26:42.828
  • OR YOU CAN VISIT US AT JHM.ORG,OR SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PODCAST.
  • 00:26:42.828 --> 00:26:44.430
  • OR SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PODCAST.WE WOULD LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU.
  • 00:26:44.430 --> 00:26:45.865
  • WE WOULD LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU.AND WE WANT TO STAY CONNECTED,
  • 00:26:45.865 --> 00:26:47.133
  • AND WE WANT TO STAY CONNECTED,BECAUSE GOD IS MAKING
  • 00:26:47.133 --> 00:26:48.534
  • BECAUSE GOD IS MAKINGA DIFFERENCE AND HE'S GOING TO
  • 00:26:48.534 --> 00:26:49.669
  • A DIFFERENCE AND HE'S GOING TOMAKE A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR LIFE
  • 00:26:49.669 --> 00:26:50.369
  • MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR LIFETODAY.
  • 00:26:50.369 --> 00:26:51.037
  • TODAY.MATT HAGEE: IF YOU'RE LOOKING
  • 00:26:51.037 --> 00:26:51.771
  • MATT HAGEE: IF YOU'RE LOOKINGFOR SOLUTIONS,
  • 00:26:51.771 --> 00:26:52.738
  • FOR SOLUTIONS,YOU CAN CONTACT US HERE
  • 00:26:52.738 --> 00:26:54.173
  • YOU CAN CONTACT US HEREAT HAGEE MINISTRIES.
  • 00:26:54.173 --> 00:26:55.041
  • AT HAGEE MINISTRIES.WE HAVE PRAYER PARTNERS,
  • 00:26:55.041 --> 00:26:55.975
  • WE HAVE PRAYER PARTNERS,WHO ARE STANDING BY.
  • 00:26:55.975 --> 00:26:57.143
  • WHO ARE STANDING BY.IF YOU'D LIKE TO HEAR A TOPIC
  • 00:26:57.143 --> 00:26:58.277
  • IF YOU'D LIKE TO HEAR A TOPICCOVERED ON "THE DIFFERENCE,"
  • 00:26:58.277 --> 00:26:59.378
  • COVERED ON "THE DIFFERENCE,"WE ENCOURAGE YOU TO CONNECT
  • 00:26:59.378 --> 00:27:00.513
  • WE ENCOURAGE YOU TO CONNECTWITH US OVER FACEBOOK,
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  • WITH US OVER FACEBOOK,INSTAGRAM,
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  • INSTAGRAM,SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS,
  • 00:27:02.348 --> 00:27:03.416
  • SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS,OR JUST LEAVING SOMETHING IN
  • 00:27:03.416 --> 00:27:05.184
  • OR JUST LEAVING SOMETHING INTHE COMMENTS ON OUR WEBSITE,
  • 00:27:05.184 --> 00:27:07.119
  • THE COMMENTS ON OUR WEBSITE,AGAIN, AT JHM.ORG.
  • 00:27:07.119 --> 00:27:08.521
  • AGAIN, AT JHM.ORG.TO RODNEY AND MICHELLE GAGE,
  • 00:27:08.521 --> 00:27:09.255
  • TO RODNEY AND MICHELLE GAGE,GOD BLESS YOU.
  • 00:27:09.255 --> 00:27:10.056
  • GOD BLESS YOU.THANK YOU.
  • 00:27:10.056 --> 00:27:11.323
  • THANK YOU.AND WE PRAY THAT THIS SHOW HAS
  • 00:27:11.323 --> 00:27:13.392
  • AND WE PRAY THAT THIS SHOW HASMADE A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR LIFE.
  • 00:27:13.392 --> 00:27:30.000