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Better Together LIVE | Episode 118

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September 30, 2020
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Heartbreak; broken trust; and emotional barriers can keep us trapped in a vicious cycle. Understanding God's unconditional love sets us free. | TBN Prayer Line: 1-888-731-1000

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Better Together LIVE | Episode 118

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  • - LAURIE CROUCH: PSALMS 38
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  • - LAURIE CROUCH: PSALMS 38REMINDS US THAT "THE LORD
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  • REMINDS US THAT "THE LORDIS CLOSE TO THE
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  • IS CLOSE TO THEBROKENHEARTED."
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  • BROKENHEARTED."WHEN BETRAYAL, GRIEF,
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  • WHEN BETRAYAL, GRIEF,AND PAIN FLOOD OUR HEARTS,
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  • AND PAIN FLOOD OUR HEARTS,WHERE CAN WE TURN TO
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  • WHERE CAN WE TURN TOFIND THE STRENGTH TO RECOVER
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  • FIND THE STRENGTH TO RECOVERAND LOVE AGAIN?
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  • AND LOVE AGAIN?TODAY WE'RE LEANING IN TO
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  • TODAY WE'RE LEANING IN TOTHE ONE WHO LOVES US
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  • THE ONE WHO LOVES USUNCONDITIONALLY.
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  • UNCONDITIONALLY.COME ON, LET'S TALK ABOUT
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  • COME ON, LET'S TALK ABOUTTHIS.
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  • THIS.[MUSIC]
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  • [MUSIC]- JADA EDWARDS: MAN, I
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  • - JADA EDWARDS: MAN, ITHINK THAT THIS IDEA OF
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  • THINK THAT THIS IDEA OFBEING BRAVE ENOUGH TO LOVE
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  • BEING BRAVE ENOUGH TO LOVEAGAIN AFTER YOU'VE BEEN
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  • AGAIN AFTER YOU'VE BEENBETRAYED IS SUCH A
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  • BETRAYED IS SUCH ACRITICAL TOPIC.
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  • CRITICAL TOPIC.REALLY, AT THE ROOT
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  • REALLY, AT THE ROOTOF IT IS FORGIVENESS, AND
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  • OF IT IS FORGIVENESS, ANDI THINK WE OFTEN THINK OF
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  • I THINK WE OFTEN THINK OFMAYBE MARRIAGES OR
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  • MAYBE MARRIAGES ORROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS
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  • ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPSWHEN WE THINK ABOUT
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  • WHEN WE THINK ABOUTBETRAYAL AND HEARTBREAK,
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  • BETRAYAL AND HEARTBREAK,BUT I THINK FOR A LOT OF
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  • BUT I THINK FOR A LOT OFWOMEN, OUR FIRST BETRAYAL
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  • WOMEN, OUR FIRST BETRAYALMAY HAVE HAPPENED IN OUR
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  • MAY HAVE HAPPENED IN OURFAMILIES OR AMONG OUR
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  • FAMILIES OR AMONG OURFRIENDS BEFORE WE GOT
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  • FRIENDS BEFORE WE GOTMARRIED OR EVEN IF WE'RE
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  • MARRIED OR EVEN IF WE'RENOT MARRIED, WE'VE
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  • NOT MARRIED, WE'VEEXPERIENCED SOME THINGS
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  • EXPERIENCED SOME THINGSWHERE PEOPLE WE TRUSTED OR
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  • WHERE PEOPLE WE TRUSTED ORPEOPLE WE EXPECTED TO
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  • PEOPLE WE EXPECTED TOPROTECT US MAY HAVE
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  • PROTECT US MAY HAVEBETRAYED US, AND I THINK
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  • BETRAYED US, AND I THINKTHAT'S SUCH A BIG POINT OF
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  • THAT'S SUCH A BIG POINT OFAWARENESS SO THAT WE CAN
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  • AWARENESS SO THAT WE CANBEGIN THAT HEALING
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  • BEGIN THAT HEALINGPROCESS.
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  • PROCESS.HOW DO WE BECOME AWARE OF
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  • HOW DO WE BECOME AWARE OFWHERE WE'VE BEEN
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  • WHERE WE'VE BEENDISAPPOINTED, WHERE WE'VE
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  • DISAPPOINTED, WHERE WE'VEBEEN BETRAYED, AND BEGIN
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  • BEEN BETRAYED, AND BEGINTO WORK THROUGH THAT?
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  • TO WORK THROUGH THAT?I HAD A SITUATION WITH A
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  • I HAD A SITUATION WITH AFRIEND, NOT-- I MEAN,
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  • FRIEND, NOT-- I MEAN,MAYBE MY TEEN YEARS, JUST
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  • MAYBE MY TEEN YEARS, JUSTOLD ENOUGH WHERE YOU COULD
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  • OLD ENOUGH WHERE YOU COULDGET YOUR FEELINGS HURT AND
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  • GET YOUR FEELINGS HURT ANDREALLY FEEL LIKE SOMEONE
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  • REALLY FEEL LIKE SOMEONEHAD BETRAYED YOU, AND SO I
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  • HAD BETRAYED YOU, AND SO IREMEMBER KIND OF FEELING
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  • REMEMBER KIND OF FEELINGLIKE THIS PERSON THAT I
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  • LIKE THIS PERSON THAT ITHOUGHT I KNEW LET ME
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  • THOUGHT I KNEW LET MEDOWN, THAT THEY DIDN'T
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  • DOWN, THAT THEY DIDN'TREPRESENT ME WELL OR
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  • REPRESENT ME WELL ORDIDN'T UNDERSTAND OUR
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  • DIDN'T UNDERSTAND OURFRIENDSHIP WELL.
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  • FRIENDSHIP WELL.AND I'M A BIG FRIENDSHIP
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  • AND I'M A BIG FRIENDSHIPKIND OF PERSON, AND THOSE
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  • KIND OF PERSON, AND THOSEARE PRECIOUS AND DEAR
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  • ARE PRECIOUS AND DEARPEOPLE TO ME, AND I
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  • PEOPLE TO ME, AND IREMEMBER SITTING AT HOME
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  • REMEMBER SITTING AT HOMEAND BEING SAD AND HAVING A
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  • AND BEING SAD AND HAVING APITY PARTY.
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  • PITY PARTY.AND MY MOTHER, WHO IS THE
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  • AND MY MOTHER, WHO IS THEMASTER NURTURER-- I MEAN,
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  • MASTER NURTURER-- I MEAN,SHE IS ALL THE THINGS THAT
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  • SHE IS ALL THE THINGS THATI'M NOT-- SHE IS THE
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  • I'M NOT-- SHE IS THECUDDLER AND THE ROCKER AND
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  • CUDDLER AND THE ROCKER ANDALL OF THESE THINGS, AND I
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  • ALL OF THESE THINGS, AND IWAS JUST SITTIN' OVER IN A
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  • WAS JUST SITTIN' OVER IN ACORNER AND BEING
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  • CORNER AND BEINGIRRITATED, WHICH IS MY
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  • IRRITATED, WHICH IS MYFORM OF SADNESS, AND SO
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  • FORM OF SADNESS, AND SOSHE SAID, YOU KNOW,
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  • SHE SAID, YOU KNOW,"WHAT'S GOIN' ON?"
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  • "WHAT'S GOIN' ON?"AND I SAID, "I CAN'T
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  • AND I SAID, "I CAN'TBELIEVE SO-AND-SO DID
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  • BELIEVE SO-AND-SO DIDTHIS," AND I HAD NAMES,
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  • THIS," AND I HAD NAMES,Y'ALL.
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  • Y'ALL.I HAD THE WHOLE LIST OF
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  • I HAD THE WHOLE LIST OFEVERYONE'S GRIEVANCES, AND
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  • EVERYONE'S GRIEVANCES, ANDONE PARTICULAR NAME STUCK
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  • ONE PARTICULAR NAME STUCKOUT TO HER BECAUSE THIS
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  • OUT TO HER BECAUSE THISGIRL WAS REALLY A FRIEND,
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  • GIRL WAS REALLY A FRIEND,AND SHE KNEW HER-- KNEW
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  • AND SHE KNEW HER-- KNEWOUR FAMILIES.
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  • OUR FAMILIES.AND SHE ASKED ME, SHE
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  • AND SHE ASKED ME, SHESAID, "WELL, IS SHE YOUR
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  • SAID, "WELL, IS SHE YOURFRIEND?"
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  • FRIEND?"I SAID, "I MEAN, I THINK SO."
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  • I SAID, "I MEAN, I THINK SO."SHE SAID, "NO, NO, NO,
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  • SHE SAID, "NO, NO, NO,IS SHE YOUR FRIEND?
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  • IS SHE YOUR FRIEND?DO YOU HAVE A REAL
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  • DO YOU HAVE A REALFRIENDSHIP WITH HER?"
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  • FRIENDSHIP WITH HER?"AND I THOUGHT ABOUT IT FOR
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  • AND I THOUGHT ABOUT IT FORA SECOND, AND I SAID, "I
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  • A SECOND, AND I SAID, "IDO ACTUALLY."
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  • DO ACTUALLY."SHE SAID,
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  • SHE SAID,"SO, IF SHE'S YOUR FRIEND,
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  • "SO, IF SHE'S YOUR FRIEND,THIS ONE FAILURE CANNOT
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  • THIS ONE FAILURE CANNOTDEFINE THE FRIENDSHIP.
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  • DEFINE THE FRIENDSHIP.IF YOU THINK THIS IS WHO
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  • IF YOU THINK THIS IS WHOSHE IS AND SHE'S GONNA
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  • SHE IS AND SHE'S GONNAALWAYS BETRAY YOU OR
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  • ALWAYS BETRAY YOU ORALWAYS MISS IT,
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  • ALWAYS MISS IT,THAT'S DIFFERENT,
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  • THAT'S DIFFERENT,BUT, JADA, IF THIS IS
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  • BUT, JADA, IF THIS ISYOUR FRIEND, IT'S WORTH
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  • YOUR FRIEND, IT'S WORTHFIGHTING FOR."
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  • FIGHTING FOR."AND, Y'ALL, I HAD TO SWALLOW
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  • AND, Y'ALL, I HAD TO SWALLOWTHE BIGGEST PRIDE PILL
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  • THE BIGGEST PRIDE PILLBECAUSE THIS PERSON WHO I
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  • BECAUSE THIS PERSON WHO ITHOUGHT WAS THE PERSON IN
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  • THOUGHT WAS THE PERSON INTHE WRONG, MY MOM SAID,
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  • THE WRONG, MY MOM SAID,"IF YOU LOVE HER AND
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  • "IF YOU LOVE HER ANDTHAT'S YOUR FRIEND, YOU
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  • THAT'S YOUR FRIEND, YOUNEED TO GIVE HER AN
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  • NEED TO GIVE HER ANOPPORTUNITY TO MAKE IT RIGHT."
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  • OPPORTUNITY TO MAKE IT RIGHT."AND SO I SAID,
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  • AND SO I SAID,"OH, I HAVE AN OPPORTUNITY
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  • "OH, I HAVE AN OPPORTUNITYFOR HER, AND SO I HAVE
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  • FOR HER, AND SO I HAVESOME THINGS THAT I NEED TO
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  • SOME THINGS THAT I NEED TOSAY TO HER."
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  • SAY TO HER."AND SHE'S LIKE,
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  • AND SHE'S LIKE,"NO, NO, NO, NO,
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  • "NO, NO, NO, NO,JUST CALL AND SAY, 'HERE'S
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  • JUST CALL AND SAY, 'HERE'SHOW I'M FEELING.
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  • HOW I'M FEELING.CAN YOU JUST HELP ME
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  • CAN YOU JUST HELP MEFIGURE OUT AM I SEEING
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  • FIGURE OUT AM I SEEINGTHIS WRONG?
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  • THIS WRONG?HELP ME--" SHE SAID,
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  • HELP ME--" SHE SAID,"LET HER HAVE A CHANCE TO MAKE
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  • "LET HER HAVE A CHANCE TO MAKETHIS RIGHT."
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  • THIS RIGHT."AND, Y'ALL,
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  • AND, Y'ALL,WE ARE FRIENDS TO THIS
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  • WE ARE FRIENDS TO THISDAY, AND IT'S BEEN A
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  • DAY, AND IT'S BEEN A30-PLUS-YEAR FRIENDSHIP,
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  • 30-PLUS-YEAR FRIENDSHIP,BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY, THAT
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  • BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY, THATMOMENT, MY MOM MADE ME
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  • MOMENT, MY MOM MADE METHINK ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS
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  • THINK ABOUT RELATIONSHIPSAND PEOPLE BEYOND WHAT
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  • AND PEOPLE BEYOND WHATTHEY DO TO ME.
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  • THEY DO TO ME.AND SO SHE KIND OF
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  • AND SO SHE KIND OFCHALLENGED ME TO ASSESS
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  • CHALLENGED ME TO ASSESSPEOPLE'S CHARACTER AND TO
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  • PEOPLE'S CHARACTER AND TOSEE IS THIS SOMETHING THAT
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  • SEE IS THIS SOMETHING THATMAYBE GOD ALLOWED TO
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  • MAYBE GOD ALLOWED TOHAPPEN, BUT THIS IS
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  • HAPPEN, BUT THIS ISACTUALLY A GOD-ORDAINED
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  • ACTUALLY A GOD-ORDAINEDFRIENDSHIP OR
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  • FRIENDSHIP ORRELATIONSHIP, AND THIS IS
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  • RELATIONSHIP, AND THIS ISJUST ISOLATED DISAPPOINTMENT,
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  • JUST ISOLATED DISAPPOINTMENT,OR IS THIS UNHEALTHY?
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  • OR IS THIS UNHEALTHY?IS IT TOXIC?
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  • IS IT TOXIC?THAT'S DIFFERENT.
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  • THAT'S DIFFERENT.BUT IT REALLY SET ME ON A
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  • BUT IT REALLY SET ME ON APATH TO START BEING
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  • PATH TO START BEINGDISCERNING ABOUT MY
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  • DISCERNING ABOUT MYFRIENDSHIPS, AND SO THERE
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  • FRIENDSHIPS, AND SO THEREARE SOME THINGS THAT I
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  • ARE SOME THINGS THAT ITHINK MIGHT, AT ONE POINT,
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  • THINK MIGHT, AT ONE POINT,I WOULD HAVE SEEN AS HUGE
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  • I WOULD HAVE SEEN AS HUGEBETRAYALS THAT NOW I JUST
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  • BETRAYALS THAT NOW I JUSTSEE AS HUMAN BROKENNESS,
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  • SEE AS HUMAN BROKENNESS,AND I SAY, "THIS IS A GOOD
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  • AND I SAY, "THIS IS A GOODPERSON WHO'S MADE SOME
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  • PERSON WHO'S MADE SOMEMISTAKES.
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  • MISTAKES.GOD, HOW CAN WE HEAL?"
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  • GOD, HOW CAN WE HEAL?"AND THEN THERE'S OTHER
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  • AND THEN THERE'S OTHERTIMES WHERE I MIGHT'VE
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  • TIMES WHERE I MIGHT'VEBEEN TOO FORGIVING,
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  • BEEN TOO FORGIVING,AND GOD HAS GIVEN ME WISDOM TO
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  • AND GOD HAS GIVEN ME WISDOM TOSAY,
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  • SAY,"THIS IS NOT WISE,
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  • "THIS IS NOT WISE,AND THIS IS NOT HEALTHY."
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  • AND THIS IS NOT HEALTHY."AND SO, FOR ME, THE
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  • AND SO, FOR ME, THEBIGGEST PART ABOUT BEING
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  • BIGGEST PART ABOUT BEINGBRAVE IN THE MIDDLE OF
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  • BRAVE IN THE MIDDLE OFHEARTBREAK OR WHEN I'VE
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  • HEARTBREAK OR WHEN I'VEBEEN DISAPPOINTED IS
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  • BEEN DISAPPOINTED ISPERSPECTIVE.
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  • PERSPECTIVE.IS THIS JUST SOME
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  • IS THIS JUST SOMEBROKENNESS IN A PERSON
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  • BROKENNESS IN A PERSONTHAT'S GOOD FOR YOU AND
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  • THAT'S GOOD FOR YOU ANDGOD ORDAINED FOR YOU, OR
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  • GOD ORDAINED FOR YOU, ORIS THIS SOMETHING
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  • IS THIS SOMETHINGUNHEALTHY THAT YOU NEED TO
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  • UNHEALTHY THAT YOU NEED TOSTEER AWAY FROM?
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  • STEER AWAY FROM?AND IT'S REALLY HELPED ME
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  • AND IT'S REALLY HELPED MENAVIGATE THOSE THINGS,
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  • NAVIGATE THOSE THINGS,FORGIVING BOTH, FOR
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  • FORGIVING BOTH, FORFORGIVING AND CONTINUING
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  • FORGIVING AND CONTINUINGRELATIONSHIP WITH SOME,
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  • RELATIONSHIP WITH SOME,AND FORGIVING AND
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  • AND FORGIVING ANDRELEASING SOME OTHERS.
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  • RELEASING SOME OTHERS.AND SO IT'S BEEN SUCH A--
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  • AND SO IT'S BEEN SUCH A--THAT WAS SUCH A PIVOTAL
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  • THAT WAS SUCH A PIVOTALMOMENT FOR ME, AND,
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  • MOMENT FOR ME, AND,JANICE, I WONDER DID YOU
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  • JANICE, I WONDER DID YOUHAVE ANY MOMENTS LIKE
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  • HAVE ANY MOMENTS LIKETHAT, OR HOW HAVE YOU, IN
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  • THAT, OR HOW HAVE YOU, INYOUR ADULT LIFE NOW,
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  • YOUR ADULT LIFE NOW,SEEN HOW YOU CAN NAVIGATE
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  • SEEN HOW YOU CAN NAVIGATEBETRAYAL OR HEARTBREAK?
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  • BETRAYAL OR HEARTBREAK?- JANICE GAINES: YEAH,
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  • - JANICE GAINES: YEAH,I MEAN, THAT'S REALLY GOOD.
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  • I MEAN, THAT'S REALLY GOOD.I THINK YOUR MOTHER IS
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  • I THINK YOUR MOTHER ISVERY WISE TO HAVE
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  • VERY WISE TO HAVEINSTRUCTED YOU THAT WAY.
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  • INSTRUCTED YOU THAT WAY.- JADA: SHE'S GREAT.
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  • - JADA: SHE'S GREAT.- JANICE: YES, SHE SOUNDS
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  • - JANICE: YES, SHE SOUNDSGREAT, AND I THINK--
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  • GREAT, AND I THINK--AND I'M SURE SHE HAS AWESOME
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  • AND I'M SURE SHE HAS AWESOMEFRIENDSHIPS AS WELL
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  • FRIENDSHIPS AS WELLBECAUSE SHE'S ABLE TO GIVE
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  • BECAUSE SHE'S ABLE TO GIVETHAT KIND OF WISDOM.
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  • THAT KIND OF WISDOM.I REMEMBER AN ISSUE
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  • I REMEMBER AN ISSUEWITH A FRIEND OF MINE,
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  • WITH A FRIEND OF MINE,EVEN IN ADULTHOOD,
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  • EVEN IN ADULTHOOD,WHERE I HAD TO
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  • WHERE I HAD TOTAKE THOSE STEPS,
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  • TAKE THOSE STEPS,AND REALLY THE HARDEST PART
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  • AND REALLY THE HARDEST PARTFOR ME WAS REALIZING,
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  • FOR ME WAS REALIZING,LIKE YOU SAID, THAT WHAT
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  • LIKE YOU SAID, THAT WHATSOMEONE DOES DOESN'T
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  • SOMEONE DOES DOESN'TNECESSARILY TAINT THEIR
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  • NECESSARILY TAINT THEIRCHARACTER FOREVER.
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  • CHARACTER FOREVER.AND, HONESTLY, YOU KNOW,
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  • AND, HONESTLY, YOU KNOW,KIND OF HARKENING BACK TO
  • 00:05:36.292 --> 00:05:37.527
  • KIND OF HARKENING BACK TOYESTERDAY'S CONVERSATION,
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  • YESTERDAY'S CONVERSATION,COUNSELING HAS HELPED ME
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  • COUNSELING HAS HELPED MESEE THAT AND JUST FOCUSING
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  • SEE THAT AND JUST FOCUSINGON ONE SCRIPTURE,
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  • ON ONE SCRIPTURE,"THERE, BUT FOR THE
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  • "THERE, BUT FOR THEGRACE OF GOD,
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  • GRACE OF GOD,GO I," IN REALIZING THAT
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  • GO I," IN REALIZING THATIN ANY OF THE THINGS THAT
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  • IN ANY OF THE THINGS THATCOULD HAPPEN TO ME, APART
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  • COULD HAPPEN TO ME, APARTFROM THE GRACE OF THE LORD
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  • FROM THE GRACE OF THE LORDIN MY LIFE, I HAVE THE
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  • IN MY LIFE, I HAVE THEPROPENSITY TO WOUND OTHER
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  • PROPENSITY TO WOUND OTHERHUMANS AS DEEPLY AS HUMANS
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  • HUMANS AS DEEPLY AS HUMANSHAVE EVER WOUNDED HUMANS
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  • HAVE EVER WOUNDED HUMANSBEFORE.
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  • BEFORE.AND SO IT IS REALLY
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  • AND SO IT IS REALLYINTERESTING TO ME, WHEN I
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  • INTERESTING TO ME, WHEN ISTART TO THINK OF IT FROM
  • 00:06:03.486 --> 00:06:04.520
  • START TO THINK OF IT FROMTHAT PERSPECTIVE, THAT THE
  • 00:06:04.520 --> 00:06:05.822
  • THAT PERSPECTIVE, THAT THEONLY PEOPLE I HAVE TO
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  • ONLY PEOPLE I HAVE TOCHOOSE FROM, WHETHER IT'S
  • 00:06:06.956 --> 00:06:08.891
  • CHOOSE FROM, WHETHER IT'SIN FRIENDSHIP OR FAMILY OR
  • 00:06:08.891 --> 00:06:10.393
  • IN FRIENDSHIP OR FAMILY ORWITH MY HUSBAND, IS A POOL
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  • WITH MY HUSBAND, IS A POOLOF PEOPLE WHO ARE BROKEN
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  • OF PEOPLE WHO ARE BROKENAND BEING HEALED.
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  • AND BEING HEALED.THEY ARE IN PROCESS.
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  • THEY ARE IN PROCESS.THEY ARE BEING SANCTIFIED
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  • THEY ARE BEING SANCTIFIEDAND ARE IMPERFECT, AND
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  • AND ARE IMPERFECT, ANDTHAT HAS HELPED ME TO
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  • THAT HAS HELPED ME TOREALLY BE ABLE TO STAND IN
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  • REALLY BE ABLE TO STAND INTHE PLACE OF FORGIVENESS
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  • THE PLACE OF FORGIVENESSAND SAY, HEY, LET ME TRY
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  • AND SAY, HEY, LET ME TRYTO GET THE PERSPECTIVE
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  • TO GET THE PERSPECTIVETHAT YOU WERE TALKIN'
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  • THAT YOU WERE TALKIN'ABOUT, JADA, AND SEE WHAT
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  • ABOUT, JADA, AND SEE WHATDOES THE LORD SAY ABOUT
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  • DOES THE LORD SAY ABOUTTHIS RELATIONSHIP AND NOT
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  • THIS RELATIONSHIP AND NOTJUST, YOU KNOW, AND DO IT
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  • JUST, YOU KNOW, AND DO ITEVERY TIME, ASK THE LORD
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  • EVERY TIME, ASK THE LORDFOR THAT PERSPECTIVE EVERY
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  • FOR THAT PERSPECTIVE EVERYTIME, BECAUSE HE SEES WHAT
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  • TIME, BECAUSE HE SEES WHATI CANNOT SEE, AND WHILE I
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  • I CANNOT SEE, AND WHILE IDON'T WANT TO KEEP TOXIC
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  • DON'T WANT TO KEEP TOXICRELATIONSHIPS AROUND AND I
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  • RELATIONSHIPS AROUND AND IDON'T WANNA TOSS GOOD
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  • DON'T WANNA TOSS GOODFRIENDSHIPS AWAY, THE
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  • FRIENDSHIPS AWAY, THEREALITY IS ONLY THE LORD
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  • REALITY IS ONLY THE LORDKNOWS WHAT'S COMING, AND I
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  • KNOWS WHAT'S COMING, AND IWANT TO BE OBEDIENT TO HIM
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  • WANT TO BE OBEDIENT TO HIMWHEN HE SPEAKS ABOUT THOSE
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  • WHEN HE SPEAKS ABOUT THOSEFRIENDSHIPS.
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  • FRIENDSHIPS.SO I THINK THAT'S KIND OF
  • 00:06:58.374 --> 00:07:00.009
  • SO I THINK THAT'S KIND OFHOW I'VE GOTTEN MY
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  • HOW I'VE GOTTEN MYPERSPECTIVE, JUST
  • 00:07:00.977 --> 00:07:02.445
  • PERSPECTIVE, JUSTREMEMBERING THAT, "OH, MY
  • 00:07:02.445 --> 00:07:03.479
  • REMEMBERING THAT, "OH, MYGOODNESS, EVERYBODY'S
  • 00:07:03.479 --> 00:07:04.247
  • GOODNESS, EVERYBODY'SIMPERFECT, AND IN THIS
  • 00:07:04.247 --> 00:07:05.348
  • IMPERFECT, AND IN THISSENSE, YOU'VE BEEN
  • 00:07:05.348 --> 00:07:06.415
  • SENSE, YOU'VE BEENWOUNDED, AND YOU'VE
  • 00:07:06.415 --> 00:07:07.416
  • WOUNDED, AND YOU'VEWOUNDED OTHERS, SO, NOW,
  • 00:07:07.416 --> 00:07:08.651
  • WOUNDED OTHERS, SO, NOW,WHAT DOES THE LORD SAY
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  • WHAT DOES THE LORD SAYABOUT THIS FRIENDSHIP?"
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  • ABOUT THIS FRIENDSHIP?"AND STARTING WITH WE
  • 00:07:11.487 --> 00:07:12.455
  • AND STARTING WITH WEALWAYS SAY, YOU KNOW,
  • 00:07:12.455 --> 00:07:14.457
  • ALWAYS SAY, YOU KNOW,"IF YOU'RE HAVIN' OUGHT
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  • "IF YOU'RE HAVIN' OUGHTAGAINST YOUR BROTHER,
  • 00:07:16.259 --> 00:07:17.426
  • AGAINST YOUR BROTHER,GO TO HIM," BUT THERE'S A
  • 00:07:17.426 --> 00:07:18.160
  • GO TO HIM," BUT THERE'S ASCRIPTURE IN COLOSSIANS
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  • SCRIPTURE IN COLOSSIANSTHAT JUST SAYS,
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  • THAT JUST SAYS,IF SOMEBODY'S OFFENDED YOU,
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  • IF SOMEBODY'S OFFENDED YOU,FORGIVE 'EM.
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  • FORGIVE 'EM.IT'S LIKE, START THERE,
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  • IT'S LIKE, START THERE,AND THEN, IF IT'S SO BIG
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  • AND THEN, IF IT'S SO BIGTHAT YOU CAN'T GET OVER
  • 00:07:25.234 --> 00:07:26.068
  • THAT YOU CAN'T GET OVERIT, OKAY, START THE
  • 00:07:26.068 --> 00:07:27.236
  • IT, OKAY, START THEPROCESS OF BRINGING IT TO
  • 00:07:27.236 --> 00:07:28.271
  • PROCESS OF BRINGING IT TO'EM, BUT THE FIRST
  • 00:07:28.271 --> 00:07:30.540
  • 'EM, BUT THE FIRSTRESPONSE IS FORGIVENESS,
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  • RESPONSE IS FORGIVENESS,AND SO IT TAKES A LOT OF
  • 00:07:31.741 --> 00:07:32.375
  • AND SO IT TAKES A LOT OFCOURAGE TO DO THAT
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  • COURAGE TO DO THATFOR SURE.
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  • FOR SURE.- JAMIE IVEY: IT'S SO
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  • - JAMIE IVEY: IT'S SOTRUE, AND, YOU KNOW, WE'RE
  • 00:07:37.680 --> 00:07:40.082
  • TRUE, AND, YOU KNOW, WE'RETALKING ABOUT FRIENDSHIPS
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  • TALKING ABOUT FRIENDSHIPSHERE, AND MAYBE EVEN
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  • HERE, AND MAYBE EVENWITHIN MARRIAGES, AND I
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  • WITHIN MARRIAGES, AND ITHINK WE CAN ALL SAY,
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  • THINK WE CAN ALL SAY,LIKE, WE'RE NOT TALKING
  • 00:07:43.019 --> 00:07:44.220
  • LIKE, WE'RE NOT TALKINGABOUT TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS
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  • ABOUT TOXIC RELATIONSHIPSHERE, SO WHEN WE TALK
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  • HERE, SO WHEN WE TALKABOUT HOW DO WE HAVE THE
  • 00:07:45.588 --> 00:07:46.656
  • ABOUT HOW DO WE HAVE THECOURAGE TO, LIKE, LOVE
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  • COURAGE TO, LIKE, LOVEAGAIN AND ENTER BACK INTO
  • 00:07:47.323 --> 00:07:47.924
  • AGAIN AND ENTER BACK INTOANOTHER RELATIONSHIP, I
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  • ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP, ITHINK THE FOUNDATION HERE
  • 00:07:48.791 --> 00:07:49.525
  • THINK THE FOUNDATION HEREIS THAT THIS IS A HEALTHY
  • 00:07:49.525 --> 00:07:50.326
  • IS THAT THIS IS A HEALTHYRELATIONSHIP LIKE JADA WAS
  • 00:07:50.326 --> 00:07:51.160
  • RELATIONSHIP LIKE JADA WASTALKING ABOUT, LIKE, IS
  • 00:07:51.160 --> 00:07:52.061
  • TALKING ABOUT, LIKE, ISTHIS GOING TO BE A
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  • THIS GOING TO BE AFRIENDSHIP THAT'S GOING TO
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  • FRIENDSHIP THAT'S GOING TOLAST FOR A WHILE?
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  • LAST FOR A WHILE?AND, YOU KNOW, I OFTEN
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  • AND, YOU KNOW, I OFTENTHINK, LIKE, YOU KNOW, GOD
  • 00:07:56.866 --> 00:07:57.500
  • THINK, LIKE, YOU KNOW, GODIS REALLY CLEAR.
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  • IS REALLY CLEAR.YOU KNOW, JESUS SAID,
  • 00:07:58.401 --> 00:07:59.335
  • YOU KNOW, JESUS SAID,"THE WAY THAT WE'RE GONNA
  • 00:07:59.335 --> 00:08:00.102
  • "THE WAY THAT WE'RE GONNAKNOW THAT YOU'RE MY
  • 00:08:00.102 --> 00:08:01.170
  • KNOW THAT YOU'RE MYDISCIPLES IS HOW YOU LOVE
  • 00:08:01.170 --> 00:08:01.804
  • DISCIPLES IS HOW YOU LOVEONE ANOTHER."
  • 00:08:01.804 --> 00:08:02.605
  • ONE ANOTHER."AND SO THERE'S THIS IDEA
  • 00:08:02.605 --> 00:08:04.974
  • AND SO THERE'S THIS IDEAOF US AS CHRIST-FOLLOWERS--
  • 00:08:04.974 --> 00:08:06.542
  • OF US AS CHRIST-FOLLOWERS--AND YOU GUYS HAVE MENTIONED
  • 00:08:06.542 --> 00:08:07.944
  • AND YOU GUYS HAVE MENTIONEDIT SO MANY TIMES ABOUT
  • 00:08:07.944 --> 00:08:08.778
  • IT SO MANY TIMES ABOUTFORGIVENESS AND HOW DO WE
  • 00:08:08.778 --> 00:08:09.378
  • FORGIVENESS AND HOW DO WEENTER INTO THOSE
  • 00:08:09.378 --> 00:08:10.046
  • ENTER INTO THOSERELATIONSHIPS.
  • 00:08:10.046 --> 00:08:11.113
  • RELATIONSHIPS.I OFTEN THINK, FOR MYSELF,
  • 00:08:11.113 --> 00:08:11.681
  • I OFTEN THINK, FOR MYSELF,WHEN I'M HAVING AN ISSUE
  • 00:08:11.681 --> 00:08:12.481
  • WHEN I'M HAVING AN ISSUEWITH A FRIEND OR MY
  • 00:08:12.481 --> 00:08:13.683
  • WITH A FRIEND OR MYHUSBAND OR A CHILD OR
  • 00:08:13.683 --> 00:08:14.617
  • HUSBAND OR A CHILD ORSOMEBODY, OF THINKING,
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  • SOMEBODY, OF THINKING,"YOU KNOW WHAT?
  • 00:08:15.618 --> 00:08:16.385
  • "YOU KNOW WHAT?I DON'T WANNA DO THIS
  • 00:08:16.385 --> 00:08:17.520
  • I DON'T WANNA DO THISAGAIN BECAUSE WE'VE
  • 00:08:17.520 --> 00:08:18.588
  • AGAIN BECAUSE WE'VEALREADY BEEN DOWN THIS
  • 00:08:18.588 --> 00:08:19.622
  • ALREADY BEEN DOWN THISROAD, AND I HAVE TO
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  • ROAD, AND I HAVE TOCONTINUE TO CHOOSE TO LOVE
  • 00:08:20.222 --> 00:08:21.190
  • CONTINUE TO CHOOSE TO LOVEYOU."
  • 00:08:21.190 --> 00:08:21.958
  • YOU."AND I'M REMINDED ABOUT
  • 00:08:21.958 --> 00:08:23.159
  • AND I'M REMINDED ABOUTHOW OFTEN GOD IS CONTINUING
  • 00:08:23.159 --> 00:08:25.061
  • HOW OFTEN GOD IS CONTINUINGTO LOVE ME IN SPITE
  • 00:08:25.061 --> 00:08:26.262
  • TO LOVE ME IN SPITEOF MYSELF, YOU KNOW,
  • 00:08:26.262 --> 00:08:27.997
  • OF MYSELF, YOU KNOW,AND GOD IS NEVER ONE TO BE
  • 00:08:27.997 --> 00:08:28.965
  • AND GOD IS NEVER ONE TO BELIKE, "OH, HERE WE GO
  • 00:08:28.965 --> 00:08:29.632
  • LIKE, "OH, HERE WE GOAGAIN.
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  • AGAIN.JAMIE IS DOIN' IT AGAIN,
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  • JAMIE IS DOIN' IT AGAIN,AND I'M GONNA CHOOSE TO
  • 00:08:33.002 --> 00:08:34.170
  • AND I'M GONNA CHOOSE TOLOVE HER AGAIN."
  • 00:08:34.170 --> 00:08:34.837
  • LOVE HER AGAIN."LIKE, GOD HAS ALREADY MADE THAT
  • 00:08:34.837 --> 00:08:35.905
  • LIKE, GOD HAS ALREADY MADE THATDECISION THAT HIS LOVE FOR
  • 00:08:35.905 --> 00:08:39.075
  • DECISION THAT HIS LOVE FORUS CAN NEVER END, NEVER FAIL.
  • 00:08:39.075 --> 00:08:39.709
  • US CAN NEVER END, NEVER FAIL.IT'S IN HIS WORD.
  • 00:08:39.709 --> 00:08:40.876
  • IT'S IN HIS WORD.IT'S HIS CHARACTER.
  • 00:08:40.876 --> 00:08:42.211
  • IT'S HIS CHARACTER.HE SHOWED THAT THROUGH
  • 00:08:42.211 --> 00:08:43.145
  • HE SHOWED THAT THROUGHJESUS, SENDING HIS SON FOR
  • 00:08:43.145 --> 00:08:44.413
  • JESUS, SENDING HIS SON FORUS, AND SO THERE'S THIS
  • 00:08:44.413 --> 00:08:45.982
  • US, AND SO THERE'S THISEXAMPLE THAT WE HAVE OF
  • 00:08:45.982 --> 00:08:47.149
  • EXAMPLE THAT WE HAVE OFGOD'S NEVER-ENDING LOVE
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  • GOD'S NEVER-ENDING LOVEFOR HIS PEOPLE.
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  • FOR HIS PEOPLE.AND, LISTEN, WE'RE, LIKE
  • 00:08:50.786 --> 00:08:51.320
  • AND, LISTEN, WE'RE, LIKEYOU SAID, JANICE, WE ARE
  • 00:08:51.320 --> 00:08:52.655
  • YOU SAID, JANICE, WE AREBROKEN PEOPLE, AND WE HAVE
  • 00:08:52.655 --> 00:08:54.290
  • BROKEN PEOPLE, AND WE HAVETHE SAME-- I COULD MESS UP
  • 00:08:54.290 --> 00:08:55.591
  • THE SAME-- I COULD MESS UPAND BE UNKIND TO SOMEONE
  • 00:08:55.591 --> 00:08:56.792
  • AND BE UNKIND TO SOMEONEJUST LIKE ANYONE ELSE CAN
  • 00:08:56.792 --> 00:08:58.227
  • JUST LIKE ANYONE ELSE CANTO ME, SO THAT'S WHERE
  • 00:08:58.227 --> 00:08:59.295
  • TO ME, SO THAT'S WHEREWE'RE THINKING HERE,
  • 00:08:59.295 --> 00:09:00.529
  • WE'RE THINKING HERE,BUT TO KNOW THAT AND TO
  • 00:09:00.529 --> 00:09:01.998
  • BUT TO KNOW THAT AND TOKNOW HOW GOD PURSUES ME
  • 00:09:01.998 --> 00:09:02.531
  • KNOW HOW GOD PURSUES MEAND LOVES ME IN SPITE OF
  • 00:09:02.531 --> 00:09:03.733
  • AND LOVES ME IN SPITE OFMYSELF, I WANNA BE THAT
  • 00:09:03.733 --> 00:09:05.768
  • MYSELF, I WANNA BE THATFRIEND.
  • 00:09:05.768 --> 00:09:07.136
  • FRIEND.I WANNA BE THAT WIFE.
  • 00:09:07.136 --> 00:09:08.337
  • I WANNA BE THAT WIFE.I WANNA BE THAT MOTHER.
  • 00:09:08.337 --> 00:09:10.606
  • I WANNA BE THAT MOTHER.I WANNA BE THAT PERSON WHO
  • 00:09:10.606 --> 00:09:13.309
  • I WANNA BE THAT PERSON WHOCONTINUES TO STEP BACK
  • 00:09:13.309 --> 00:09:14.543
  • CONTINUES TO STEP BACKINTO LOVE BECAUSE GOD HAS
  • 00:09:14.543 --> 00:09:16.245
  • INTO LOVE BECAUSE GOD HASLOVED ME SO MUCH,
  • 00:09:16.245 --> 00:09:18.147
  • LOVED ME SO MUCH,THEREFORE, I CAN LOVE
  • 00:09:18.147 --> 00:09:19.782
  • THEREFORE, I CAN LOVEOTHERS THAT WAY.
  • 00:09:19.782 --> 00:09:20.683
  • OTHERS THAT WAY.I CAN BE PATIENT, AND I
  • 00:09:20.683 --> 00:09:21.884
  • I CAN BE PATIENT, AND ICAN BE KIND, AND I CAN BE
  • 00:09:21.884 --> 00:09:23.953
  • CAN BE KIND, AND I CAN BEFORGIVING, AND I CAN BE
  • 00:09:23.953 --> 00:09:25.187
  • FORGIVING, AND I CAN BEGRACIOUS WITH MY FRIENDS
  • 00:09:25.187 --> 00:09:26.489
  • GRACIOUS WITH MY FRIENDSAND MY FAMILY ONLY BECAUSE
  • 00:09:26.489 --> 00:09:28.324
  • AND MY FAMILY ONLY BECAUSEGOD HAS DONE THAT FOR ME,
  • 00:09:28.324 --> 00:09:30.426
  • GOD HAS DONE THAT FOR ME,AND I HAD THE HOLY SPIRIT,
  • 00:09:30.426 --> 00:09:31.160
  • AND I HAD THE HOLY SPIRIT,AND SO I'M ABLE TO DO
  • 00:09:31.160 --> 00:09:31.927
  • AND SO I'M ABLE TO DOTHAT.
  • 00:09:31.927 --> 00:09:32.828
  • THAT.AND SO I OFTEN THINK ABOUT
  • 00:09:32.828 --> 00:09:34.330
  • AND SO I OFTEN THINK ABOUTTHAT WHEN I'M WONDERING,
  • 00:09:34.330 --> 00:09:36.332
  • THAT WHEN I'M WONDERING,"CAN I LOVE AGAIN?
  • 00:09:36.332 --> 00:09:37.299
  • "CAN I LOVE AGAIN?CAN I STEP BACK INTO THIS
  • 00:09:37.299 --> 00:09:38.267
  • CAN I STEP BACK INTO THISFRIENDSHIP AGAIN AFTER
  • 00:09:38.267 --> 00:09:39.201
  • FRIENDSHIP AGAIN AFTERI'VE BEEN HURT?"
  • 00:09:39.201 --> 00:09:40.770
  • I'VE BEEN HURT?"THE QUESTION IS--
  • 00:09:40.770 --> 00:09:44.206
  • THE QUESTION IS--GOD ALWAYS IS LOVING US.
  • 00:09:44.206 --> 00:09:45.341
  • GOD ALWAYS IS LOVING US.HE IS NEVER, KIND OF,
  • 00:09:45.341 --> 00:09:46.542
  • HE IS NEVER, KIND OF,WEIGHING THE ODDS OF IF HE
  • 00:09:46.542 --> 00:09:47.243
  • WEIGHING THE ODDS OF IF HESHOULD CONTINUE TO LOVE US
  • 00:09:47.243 --> 00:09:48.310
  • SHOULD CONTINUE TO LOVE USOR NOT.
  • 00:09:48.310 --> 00:09:49.745
  • OR NOT.IT'S ALWAYS A "YES" FROM
  • 00:09:49.745 --> 00:09:50.379
  • IT'S ALWAYS A "YES" FROMTHE FATHER.
  • 00:09:50.379 --> 00:09:51.914
  • THE FATHER.HE IS ALWAYS CONTINUING TO
  • 00:09:51.914 --> 00:09:52.915
  • HE IS ALWAYS CONTINUING TOLOVE US, AND WHEN I
  • 00:09:52.915 --> 00:09:56.686
  • LOVE US, AND WHEN IREMEMBER THAT AND I THINK,
  • 00:09:56.686 --> 00:09:57.186
  • REMEMBER THAT AND I THINK,"OKAY, I WANNA BE AN
  • 00:09:57.186 --> 00:09:58.721
  • "OKAY, I WANNA BE ANIMITATOR OF GOD," THIS IS
  • 00:09:58.721 --> 00:09:59.255
  • IMITATOR OF GOD," THIS ISA WAY THAT I CAN IMITATE
  • 00:09:59.255 --> 00:10:00.823
  • A WAY THAT I CAN IMITATEHIM IS I CAN STEP BACK
  • 00:10:00.823 --> 00:10:01.424
  • HIM IS I CAN STEP BACKINTO A RELATIONSHIP AND
  • 00:10:01.424 --> 00:10:02.291
  • INTO A RELATIONSHIP ANDLOVE AGAIN, EVEN WHEN
  • 00:10:02.291 --> 00:10:04.393
  • LOVE AGAIN, EVEN WHENI'VE BEEN HURT.
  • 00:10:04.393 --> 00:10:04.994
  • I'VE BEEN HURT.- LAURIE: YEAH, YOU KNOW,
  • 00:10:04.994 --> 00:10:06.062
  • - LAURIE: YEAH, YOU KNOW,AND THAT ALWAYS BRINGS IT,
  • 00:10:06.062 --> 00:10:07.396
  • AND THAT ALWAYS BRINGS IT,JAMIE, BACK TO WHAT KIND
  • 00:10:07.396 --> 00:10:10.766
  • JAMIE, BACK TO WHAT KINDOF A WIFE AM I BEING, OR
  • 00:10:10.766 --> 00:10:11.367
  • OF A WIFE AM I BEING, ORWHAT KIND OF A FRIEND
  • 00:10:11.367 --> 00:10:13.602
  • WHAT KIND OF A FRIENDAM I BEING?
  • 00:10:13.602 --> 00:10:16.138
  • AM I BEING?AND SO WE TAKE THE, AGAIN,
  • 00:10:16.138 --> 00:10:17.873
  • AND SO WE TAKE THE, AGAIN,THE EXCUSES OUT OF THE
  • 00:10:17.873 --> 00:10:20.509
  • THE EXCUSES OUT OF THEWAY, AND YOU JUST SAID,
  • 00:10:20.509 --> 00:10:21.277
  • WAY, AND YOU JUST SAID,JUST LIKE JESUS LOVES,
  • 00:10:21.277 --> 00:10:23.412
  • JUST LIKE JESUS LOVES,WE'RE SUPPOSED TO LOVE.
  • 00:10:23.412 --> 00:10:24.680
  • WE'RE SUPPOSED TO LOVE.SO IT'S NOT ABOUT WHAT YOU
  • 00:10:24.680 --> 00:10:25.414
  • SO IT'S NOT ABOUT WHAT YOUDO TO ME, BUT IT'S WHAT I--
  • 00:10:25.414 --> 00:10:27.550
  • DO TO ME, BUT IT'S WHAT I--WHAT AM I DOIN'?
  • 00:10:27.550 --> 00:10:28.451
  • WHAT AM I DOIN'?WHAT AM I--
  • 00:10:28.451 --> 00:10:29.051
  • WHAT AM I--HOW IS MY ATTITUDE
  • 00:10:29.051 --> 00:10:29.919
  • HOW IS MY ATTITUDERIGHT NOW?
  • 00:10:29.919 --> 00:10:31.153
  • RIGHT NOW?I'VE HEARD IT SAID,
  • 00:10:31.153 --> 00:10:32.621
  • I'VE HEARD IT SAID,"IF YOU'RE THE SMARTEST PERSON
  • 00:10:32.621 --> 00:10:34.590
  • "IF YOU'RE THE SMARTEST PERSONIN THE ROOM ALL THE TIME,
  • 00:10:34.590 --> 00:10:35.725
  • IN THE ROOM ALL THE TIME,MAYBE THERE'S SOMETHING
  • 00:10:35.725 --> 00:10:38.127
  • MAYBE THERE'S SOMETHINGWRONG."
  • 00:10:38.127 --> 00:10:39.829
  • WRONG."AND SO I THINK, CHRIS,
  • 00:10:39.829 --> 00:10:44.700
  • AND SO I THINK, CHRIS,MOST PEOPLE PROBABLY
  • 00:10:44.700 --> 00:10:45.968
  • MOST PEOPLE PROBABLYHAVE BEEN TO THE
  • 00:10:45.968 --> 00:10:46.635
  • HAVE BEEN TO THEPOINT WHERE THEY'VE BEEN
  • 00:10:46.635 --> 00:10:47.570
  • POINT WHERE THEY'VE BEENHURT SO BAD THAT THEY
  • 00:10:47.570 --> 00:10:49.038
  • HURT SO BAD THAT THEYNEVER WANT TO TRUST,
  • 00:10:49.038 --> 00:10:50.072
  • NEVER WANT TO TRUST,OR THEY NEVER WANT TO
  • 00:10:50.072 --> 00:10:51.674
  • OR THEY NEVER WANT TOLOVE AGAIN.
  • 00:10:51.674 --> 00:10:52.308
  • LOVE AGAIN.WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO SAY
  • 00:10:52.308 --> 00:10:53.142
  • WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO SAYWITH THAT?
  • 00:10:53.142 --> 00:10:53.843
  • WITH THAT?- CHRISTINE CAINE: YEAH,
  • 00:10:53.843 --> 00:10:54.744
  • - CHRISTINE CAINE: YEAH,IT IS TRUE.
  • 00:10:54.744 --> 00:10:56.145
  • IT IS TRUE.YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU'VE GOT
  • 00:10:56.145 --> 00:10:57.313
  • YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU'VE GOTMY KIND OF BACKGROUND--
  • 00:10:57.313 --> 00:10:58.080
  • MY KIND OF BACKGROUND--AND I SEE THE DIFFERENCE
  • 00:10:58.080 --> 00:10:59.882
  • AND I SEE THE DIFFERENCEBETWEEN HOW NICK'S MERCY
  • 00:10:59.882 --> 00:11:01.117
  • BETWEEN HOW NICK'S MERCYAND COMPASSION AND ABILITY
  • 00:11:01.117 --> 00:11:02.485
  • AND COMPASSION AND ABILITYTO FORGIVE REALLY QUICKLY,
  • 00:11:02.485 --> 00:11:05.121
  • TO FORGIVE REALLY QUICKLY,VERSES MINE--
  • 00:11:05.121 --> 00:11:06.122
  • VERSES MINE--[LAUGHTER]
  • 00:11:06.122 --> 00:11:06.655
  • [LAUGHTER]AND I THINK SOME OF IT HAS
  • 00:11:06.655 --> 00:11:07.923
  • AND I THINK SOME OF IT HASGOT TO DO WITH OUR
  • 00:11:07.923 --> 00:11:08.624
  • GOT TO DO WITH OURBACKGROUND.
  • 00:11:08.624 --> 00:11:10.659
  • BACKGROUND.LIKE, MY HUSBAND IS LIKE
  • 00:11:10.659 --> 00:11:11.160
  • LIKE, MY HUSBAND IS LIKETHE FOURTH PART OF THE
  • 00:11:11.160 --> 00:11:11.961
  • THE FOURTH PART OF THETRINITY, AND THEN THERE'S
  • 00:11:11.961 --> 00:11:12.995
  • TRINITY, AND THEN THERE'SME, WHO'S NOT THERE.
  • 00:11:12.995 --> 00:11:13.662
  • ME, WHO'S NOT THERE.[LAUGHTER]
  • 00:11:13.662 --> 00:11:17.066
  • [LAUGHTER]BUT, I THINK BECAUSE OF THE
  • 00:11:17.066 --> 00:11:21.537
  • BUT, I THINK BECAUSE OF THEABANDONMENT AND THE ABUSE
  • 00:11:21.537 --> 00:11:22.738
  • ABANDONMENT AND THE ABUSEAND SOME THINGS THAT
  • 00:11:22.738 --> 00:11:24.507
  • AND SOME THINGS THATHAPPENED IN MY BACKGROUND,
  • 00:11:24.507 --> 00:11:25.775
  • HAPPENED IN MY BACKGROUND,TRUST IS NOT SOMETHING
  • 00:11:25.775 --> 00:11:26.876
  • TRUST IS NOT SOMETHINGTHAT COMES EASY TO ME.
  • 00:11:26.876 --> 00:11:27.443
  • THAT COMES EASY TO ME.NOW, I'M VERY
  • 00:11:27.443 --> 00:11:28.444
  • NOW, I'M VERYTHICK-SKINNED, BUT I'M
  • 00:11:28.444 --> 00:11:30.613
  • THICK-SKINNED, BUT I'MVERY TENDERHEARTED, SO IF
  • 00:11:30.613 --> 00:11:32.381
  • VERY TENDERHEARTED, SO IFYOU GET IN TO MY INNER
  • 00:11:32.381 --> 00:11:33.215
  • YOU GET IN TO MY INNERCIRCLE AND I TRUST YOU--
  • 00:11:33.215 --> 00:11:37.520
  • CIRCLE AND I TRUST YOU--I TRUST YOU.
  • 00:11:37.520 --> 00:11:39.955
  • I TRUST YOU.I MEAN, THAT'S THE WHOLE
  • 00:11:39.955 --> 00:11:40.589
  • I MEAN, THAT'S THE WHOLETHING, AND YOU KNOW,
  • 00:11:40.589 --> 00:11:41.590
  • THING, AND YOU KNOW,LAURIE, 'CAUSE YOU'VE
  • 00:11:41.590 --> 00:11:42.224
  • LAURIE, 'CAUSE YOU'VEWALKED THROUGH SOME OF
  • 00:11:42.224 --> 00:11:43.058
  • WALKED THROUGH SOME OFTHIS WITH ME, JUST, YOU
  • 00:11:43.058 --> 00:11:44.226
  • THIS WITH ME, JUST, YOUKNOW, FOUR OR FIVE YEARS AGO.
  • 00:11:44.226 --> 00:11:45.561
  • KNOW, FOUR OR FIVE YEARS AGO.AND SO WE'RE TALKING NOW
  • 00:11:45.561 --> 00:11:47.496
  • AND SO WE'RE TALKING NOWI'M AN ADULT IN MY 50s, SO
  • 00:11:47.496 --> 00:11:47.963
  • I'M AN ADULT IN MY 50s, SOWE'RE NOT EVEN TALKIN'
  • 00:11:47.963 --> 00:11:49.431
  • WE'RE NOT EVEN TALKIN'ABOUT A FRIEND AT SCHOOL OR--
  • 00:11:49.431 --> 00:11:50.933
  • ABOUT A FRIEND AT SCHOOL OR--WE'RE TALKING ABOUT
  • 00:11:50.933 --> 00:11:52.668
  • WE'RE TALKING ABOUTAT THIS LEVEL OF LIFE AND
  • 00:11:52.668 --> 00:11:54.370
  • AT THIS LEVEL OF LIFE ANDMINISTRY, SOMETHING SO
  • 00:11:54.370 --> 00:11:56.038
  • MINISTRY, SOMETHING SODRAMATIC HAPPENED THAT IT
  • 00:11:56.038 --> 00:12:00.075
  • DRAMATIC HAPPENED THAT ITNEARLY TOOK ME OUT.
  • 00:12:00.075 --> 00:12:00.609
  • NEARLY TOOK ME OUT.YOU KNOW, LIKE, IT WAS SO
  • 00:12:00.609 --> 00:12:02.044
  • YOU KNOW, LIKE, IT WAS SODAMAGING THAT I GUESS
  • 00:12:02.044 --> 00:12:03.179
  • DAMAGING THAT I GUESSTHERE ARE PEOPLE WATCHING
  • 00:12:03.179 --> 00:12:04.046
  • THERE ARE PEOPLE WATCHINGTHIS, THINKING, YOU KNOW,
  • 00:12:04.046 --> 00:12:05.047
  • THIS, THINKING, YOU KNOW,"IS THIS SOMETHING THAT
  • 00:12:05.047 --> 00:12:09.251
  • "IS THIS SOMETHING THATYOU GROW OUT OF?"
  • 00:12:09.251 --> 00:12:09.919
  • YOU GROW OUT OF?"YOU GET BETTER AT IT, BUT
  • 00:12:09.919 --> 00:12:12.154
  • YOU GET BETTER AT IT, BUTBETRAYAL, AS MUCH AS--
  • 00:12:12.154 --> 00:12:13.489
  • BETRAYAL, AS MUCH AS--JESUS EXPERIENCED IT RIGHT
  • 00:12:13.489 --> 00:12:16.025
  • JESUS EXPERIENCED IT RIGHTTHROUGH TO HIS DEATH.
  • 00:12:16.025 --> 00:12:16.992
  • THROUGH TO HIS DEATH.I MEAN, YOU KNOW, PETER
  • 00:12:16.992 --> 00:12:17.626
  • I MEAN, YOU KNOW, PETERBETRAYED HIM, AND THEN,
  • 00:12:17.626 --> 00:12:20.029
  • BETRAYED HIM, AND THEN,OBVIOUSLY, JUDAS BETRAYED
  • 00:12:20.029 --> 00:12:21.030
  • OBVIOUSLY, JUDAS BETRAYEDHIM, AND SO IT'S SOMETHING
  • 00:12:21.030 --> 00:12:21.931
  • HIM, AND SO IT'S SOMETHINGTHAT IS VERY CLOSE.
  • 00:12:21.931 --> 00:12:22.865
  • THAT IS VERY CLOSE.YOU KNOW, THE PSALMIST
  • 00:12:22.865 --> 00:12:25.134
  • YOU KNOW, THE PSALMISTSAID IT WOULD'VE BEEN EASY
  • 00:12:25.134 --> 00:12:26.101
  • SAID IT WOULD'VE BEEN EASYIF IT WAS MY ENEMY THAT
  • 00:12:26.101 --> 00:12:28.437
  • IF IT WAS MY ENEMY THATTURNED AGAINST ME, BUT
  • 00:12:28.437 --> 00:12:29.205
  • TURNED AGAINST ME, BUTWHEN IT WAS MY FRIEND THAT
  • 00:12:29.205 --> 00:12:30.539
  • WHEN IT WAS MY FRIEND THATI WENT TO THE HOUSE OF GOD
  • 00:12:30.539 --> 00:12:31.607
  • I WENT TO THE HOUSE OF GODWITH, THERE'S SOMETHING, I
  • 00:12:31.607 --> 00:12:32.975
  • WITH, THERE'S SOMETHING, ITHINK, IN PARTICULAR,
  • 00:12:32.975 --> 00:12:34.310
  • THINK, IN PARTICULAR,WHEN IT GETS--
  • 00:12:34.310 --> 00:12:36.212
  • WHEN IT GETS--WE DON'T TALK ABOUT IT
  • 00:12:36.212 --> 00:12:37.680
  • WE DON'T TALK ABOUT ITA LOT, BUT IN CHRISTIANITY,
  • 00:12:37.680 --> 00:12:39.415
  • A LOT, BUT IN CHRISTIANITY,WHEN IT'S A CHRISTIAN
  • 00:12:39.415 --> 00:12:40.649
  • WHEN IT'S A CHRISTIANBROTHER OR SISTER
  • 00:12:40.649 --> 00:12:42.218
  • BROTHER OR SISTERTHAT YOU ARE CLOSE TO,
  • 00:12:42.218 --> 00:12:42.985
  • THAT YOU ARE CLOSE TO,AND SO YOU SORT OF
  • 00:12:42.985 --> 00:12:44.386
  • AND SO YOU SORT OFEXPECT SOME OF THE THINGS
  • 00:12:44.386 --> 00:12:45.688
  • EXPECT SOME OF THE THINGSWE'RE TALKING ABOUT, LIKE,
  • 00:12:45.688 --> 00:12:46.889
  • WE'RE TALKING ABOUT, LIKE,IF YOU'VE GOT AN OFFENSE
  • 00:12:46.889 --> 00:12:48.824
  • IF YOU'VE GOT AN OFFENSEOR SOMETHING'S WRONG,
  • 00:12:48.824 --> 00:12:49.758
  • OR SOMETHING'S WRONG,WE WOULD'VE TALKED TO ONE
  • 00:12:49.758 --> 00:12:50.593
  • WE WOULD'VE TALKED TO ONEANOTHER: "I THOUGHT WE
  • 00:12:50.593 --> 00:12:51.493
  • ANOTHER: "I THOUGHT WEWERE FRIENDS ENOUGH THAT
  • 00:12:51.493 --> 00:12:52.428
  • WERE FRIENDS ENOUGH THATWE WOULD'VE DEALT WITH THIS."
  • 00:12:52.428 --> 00:12:53.395
  • WE WOULD'VE DEALT WITH THIS."AND THEN, ALL OF A SUDDEN,
  • 00:12:53.395 --> 00:12:54.363
  • AND THEN, ALL OF A SUDDEN,SOMEONE THAT YOU
  • 00:12:54.363 --> 00:12:55.564
  • SOMEONE THAT YOUTHOUGHT YOU WERE IN
  • 00:12:55.564 --> 00:12:56.599
  • THOUGHT YOU WERE INALIGNMENT WITH-- I THINK
  • 00:12:56.599 --> 00:12:57.933
  • ALIGNMENT WITH-- I THINKMAYBE THERE ARE SOME
  • 00:12:57.933 --> 00:12:58.567
  • MAYBE THERE ARE SOMEPASTORS AND LEADERS
  • 00:12:58.567 --> 00:12:59.301
  • PASTORS AND LEADERSLISTENING TO THIS AND
  • 00:12:59.301 --> 00:13:00.536
  • LISTENING TO THIS ANDPEOPLE IN YOUR CHURCHES,
  • 00:13:00.536 --> 00:13:01.103
  • PEOPLE IN YOUR CHURCHES,PEOPLE IN MINISTRY, PEOPLE
  • 00:13:01.103 --> 00:13:02.905
  • PEOPLE IN MINISTRY, PEOPLEON YOUR TEAMS AND, JUST,
  • 00:13:02.905 --> 00:13:04.940
  • ON YOUR TEAMS AND, JUST,FRIENDS THAT YOU THINK,
  • 00:13:04.940 --> 00:13:06.275
  • FRIENDS THAT YOU THINK,"WE'RE ALL GOOD,"
  • 00:13:06.275 --> 00:13:07.610
  • "WE'RE ALL GOOD,"AND THEN, ALL OF A SUDDEN,
  • 00:13:07.610 --> 00:13:08.544
  • AND THEN, ALL OF A SUDDEN,OUT OF LEFT FIELD,
  • 00:13:08.544 --> 00:13:09.778
  • OUT OF LEFT FIELD,SOMETHING HAPPENS.
  • 00:13:09.778 --> 00:13:11.247
  • SOMETHING HAPPENS.NOW, I KNOW, IN MY CASE,
  • 00:13:11.247 --> 00:13:15.150
  • NOW, I KNOW, IN MY CASE,NOW WE ARE FIVE YEARS ON
  • 00:13:15.150 --> 00:13:17.119
  • NOW WE ARE FIVE YEARS ONFROM THIS SITUATION, SO
  • 00:13:17.119 --> 00:13:17.786
  • FROM THIS SITUATION, SONOW, LOOKING BACK, IT IS
  • 00:13:17.786 --> 00:13:19.088
  • NOW, LOOKING BACK, IT ISVERY OBVIOUS THAT THIS
  • 00:13:19.088 --> 00:13:20.389
  • VERY OBVIOUS THAT THISTHING AT THE TIME ACTUALLY
  • 00:13:20.389 --> 00:13:20.990
  • THING AT THE TIME ACTUALLYHAD NOTHING TO DO WITH ME,
  • 00:13:20.990 --> 00:13:22.024
  • HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH ME,AND IT WAS SOMETHING THAT
  • 00:13:22.024 --> 00:13:22.958
  • AND IT WAS SOMETHING THATTHIS PERSON WAS GOING
  • 00:13:22.958 --> 00:13:23.826
  • THIS PERSON WAS GOINGTHROUGH, BUT YOU DON'T
  • 00:13:23.826 --> 00:13:24.460
  • THROUGH, BUT YOU DON'TKNOW THAT WHEN YOU'RE IN
  • 00:13:24.460 --> 00:13:25.060
  • KNOW THAT WHEN YOU'RE INTHE MOMENT.
  • 00:13:25.060 --> 00:13:25.761
  • THE MOMENT.YOU'RE JUST KIND OF
  • 00:13:25.761 --> 00:13:26.528
  • YOU'RE JUST KIND OFFEELING ALL OF THE EMOTION
  • 00:13:26.528 --> 00:13:27.596
  • FEELING ALL OF THE EMOTIONOF THE REJECTION, THE
  • 00:13:27.596 --> 00:13:28.964
  • OF THE REJECTION, THEHURT, THE BETRAYAL, AND IT
  • 00:13:28.964 --> 00:13:33.636
  • HURT, THE BETRAYAL, AND ITSO DEEPLY CUT INTO ME.
  • 00:13:33.636 --> 00:13:35.037
  • SO DEEPLY CUT INTO ME.I THINK MY HUSBAND WOULD
  • 00:13:35.037 --> 00:13:36.505
  • I THINK MY HUSBAND WOULDTELL YOU, AND WHATEVER,
  • 00:13:36.505 --> 00:13:37.840
  • TELL YOU, AND WHATEVER,BECAUSE I'M SO LOYAL, ONCE
  • 00:13:37.840 --> 00:13:38.440
  • BECAUSE I'M SO LOYAL, ONCEYOU'RE IN, I MEAN, YOU'RE
  • 00:13:38.440 --> 00:13:40.409
  • YOU'RE IN, I MEAN, YOU'RE"RIDE OR DIE."
  • 00:13:40.409 --> 00:13:41.176
  • "RIDE OR DIE."I AM LOYAL,
  • 00:13:41.176 --> 00:13:43.279
  • I AM LOYAL,SO YOU COULD DEEPLY WOUND ME.
  • 00:13:43.279 --> 00:13:45.915
  • SO YOU COULD DEEPLY WOUND ME.NOW, YOU KNOW, IT WAS AT
  • 00:13:45.915 --> 00:13:46.815
  • NOW, YOU KNOW, IT WAS ATTHE POINT WHERE, LAURIE,
  • 00:13:46.815 --> 00:13:48.150
  • THE POINT WHERE, LAURIE,WE WERE AT-- WE WERE
  • 00:13:48.150 --> 00:13:49.551
  • WE WERE AT-- WE WEREDOING A TBN TOUR, AND WE
  • 00:13:49.551 --> 00:13:51.487
  • DOING A TBN TOUR, AND WEWERE AT THE GARDEN TOMB,
  • 00:13:51.487 --> 00:13:52.187
  • WERE AT THE GARDEN TOMB,AND I WAS TEACHING ABOUT
  • 00:13:52.187 --> 00:13:53.789
  • AND I WAS TEACHING ABOUTTHE RESURRECTION AND WHERE
  • 00:13:53.789 --> 00:13:54.857
  • THE RESURRECTION AND WHERETHAT SECTION WHERE JESUS
  • 00:13:54.857 --> 00:13:56.325
  • THAT SECTION WHERE JESUSSAID TO MARY,
  • 00:13:56.325 --> 00:13:56.859
  • SAID TO MARY,"GO TELL THE DISCIPLES--
  • 00:13:56.859 --> 00:13:58.127
  • "GO TELL THE DISCIPLES--AND PETER."
  • 00:13:58.127 --> 00:13:59.361
  • AND PETER."AND IT WAS LIKE, AS I WAS
  • 00:13:59.361 --> 00:14:00.930
  • AND IT WAS LIKE, AS I WASPREPARING THAT THING, "AND
  • 00:14:00.930 --> 00:14:02.998
  • PREPARING THAT THING, "ANDTELL PETER AS WELL," THAT
  • 00:14:02.998 --> 00:14:05.267
  • TELL PETER AS WELL," THATIT WAS LIKE GOD HAD TO
  • 00:14:05.267 --> 00:14:06.568
  • IT WAS LIKE GOD HAD TOMAKE ME CONFRONT-- CHRISTINE.
  • 00:14:06.568 --> 00:14:07.169
  • MAKE ME CONFRONT-- CHRISTINE.PETER DENIED ME THREE
  • 00:14:07.169 --> 00:14:09.238
  • PETER DENIED ME THREETIMES AFTER THIS INCIDENT"--
  • 00:14:09.238 --> 00:14:09.838
  • TIMES AFTER THIS INCIDENT"--AND IT WAS ALMOST,
  • 00:14:09.838 --> 00:14:11.774
  • AND IT WAS ALMOST,IN MY OWN HEART--
  • 00:14:11.774 --> 00:14:13.008
  • IN MY OWN HEART--I'M NOT ADDING ANYTHING TO
  • 00:14:13.008 --> 00:14:13.976
  • I'M NOT ADDING ANYTHING TOSCRIPTURE, BUT IT WAS
  • 00:14:13.976 --> 00:14:15.711
  • SCRIPTURE, BUT IT WASLIKE, HAD JUDAS REPENTED,
  • 00:14:15.711 --> 00:14:18.314
  • LIKE, HAD JUDAS REPENTED,I WOULD'VE SAID, PETER
  • 00:14:18.314 --> 00:14:20.482
  • I WOULD'VE SAID, PETERAND JUDAS AS WELL, EVEN IF
  • 00:14:20.482 --> 00:14:22.217
  • AND JUDAS AS WELL, EVEN IFJUDAS HAD NOT-- YOU KNOW,
  • 00:14:22.217 --> 00:14:22.751
  • JUDAS HAD NOT-- YOU KNOW,IF IT WASN'T ALL OVER,
  • 00:14:22.751 --> 00:14:23.786
  • IF IT WASN'T ALL OVER,LIKE, GOD WAS SO LOVING
  • 00:14:23.786 --> 00:14:24.787
  • LIKE, GOD WAS SO LOVINGTHAT THE PEOPLE THAT HE
  • 00:14:24.787 --> 00:14:25.621
  • THAT THE PEOPLE THAT HEHAD WALKED WITH-- AND IT
  • 00:14:25.621 --> 00:14:27.456
  • HAD WALKED WITH-- AND ITWAS SOMETHING IN THERE
  • 00:14:27.456 --> 00:14:28.157
  • WAS SOMETHING IN THERETHAT MADE ME-- AND I
  • 00:14:28.157 --> 00:14:28.791
  • THAT MADE ME-- AND IGUESS IT GETS BACK TO
  • 00:14:28.791 --> 00:14:30.259
  • GUESS IT GETS BACK TOJANICE'S POINT: I HAD TO
  • 00:14:30.259 --> 00:14:32.561
  • JANICE'S POINT: I HAD TOSTILL MAKE SOME DECISIONS
  • 00:14:32.561 --> 00:14:33.128
  • STILL MAKE SOME DECISIONSFOR ME THAT I WAS GOING TO
  • 00:14:33.128 --> 00:14:34.830
  • FOR ME THAT I WAS GOING TOHAVE TO OFFER FORGIVENESS
  • 00:14:34.830 --> 00:14:35.464
  • HAVE TO OFFER FORGIVENESSIF THIS FRIENDSHIP WAS
  • 00:14:35.464 --> 00:14:36.732
  • IF THIS FRIENDSHIP WASREALLY WORTH IT.
  • 00:14:36.732 --> 00:14:38.233
  • REALLY WORTH IT.AND EVEN THOUGH-- SOMETIMES
  • 00:14:38.233 --> 00:14:39.568
  • AND EVEN THOUGH-- SOMETIMESYOU PUT EXPECTATIONS ON
  • 00:14:39.568 --> 00:14:40.336
  • YOU PUT EXPECTATIONS ONPEOPLE.
  • 00:14:40.336 --> 00:14:41.203
  • PEOPLE.YOU GO, "WELL, THIS
  • 00:14:41.203 --> 00:14:42.471
  • YOU GO, "WELL, THISPERSON, YOU KNOW, IS THIS
  • 00:14:42.471 --> 00:14:43.105
  • PERSON, YOU KNOW, IS THISLEVEL OF MINISTRY OR THIS
  • 00:14:43.105 --> 00:14:44.673
  • LEVEL OF MINISTRY OR THISLEVEL OF WHAT A
  • 00:14:44.673 --> 00:14:45.207
  • LEVEL OF WHAT ACHRISTIAN-- AND THEY
  • 00:14:45.207 --> 00:14:46.241
  • CHRISTIAN-- AND THEYSHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER,
  • 00:14:46.241 --> 00:14:46.875
  • SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER,AND LOOK AT WHAT HAS
  • 00:14:46.875 --> 00:14:48.110
  • AND LOOK AT WHAT HASHAPPENED," AND YOU CAN
  • 00:14:48.110 --> 00:14:49.311
  • HAPPENED," AND YOU CANACTUALLY HAVE UNREALISTIC
  • 00:14:49.311 --> 00:14:50.312
  • ACTUALLY HAVE UNREALISTICEXPECTATIONS OF PEOPLE AND
  • 00:14:50.312 --> 00:14:51.146
  • EXPECTATIONS OF PEOPLE ANDGO-- THEY'RE STILL JUST
  • 00:14:51.146 --> 00:14:51.780
  • GO-- THEY'RE STILL JUSTPEOPLE.
  • 00:14:51.780 --> 00:14:52.448
  • PEOPLE.I'M STILL A PERSON.
  • 00:14:52.448 --> 00:14:53.415
  • I'M STILL A PERSON.I WOUND OTHERS TOO.
  • 00:14:53.415 --> 00:14:54.883
  • I WOUND OTHERS TOO.I HURT OTHERS TOO.
  • 00:14:54.883 --> 00:14:56.952
  • I HURT OTHERS TOO.BUT IT WAS LIKE I HAD TO
  • 00:14:56.952 --> 00:14:58.854
  • BUT IT WAS LIKE I HAD TOGET TO THAT PLACE TO GO,
  • 00:14:58.854 --> 00:15:01.056
  • GET TO THAT PLACE TO GO,PETER AND JUDAS BOTH
  • 00:15:01.056 --> 00:15:03.826
  • PETER AND JUDAS BOTHBETRAYED JESUS, SO DEEPLY,
  • 00:15:03.826 --> 00:15:05.728
  • BETRAYED JESUS, SO DEEPLY,AND, OF COURSE, JUDAS AT A
  • 00:15:05.728 --> 00:15:08.330
  • AND, OF COURSE, JUDAS AT AWHOLE NOTHER LEVEL, BUT,
  • 00:15:08.330 --> 00:15:09.665
  • WHOLE NOTHER LEVEL, BUT,STILL, IN THAT MOMENT I
  • 00:15:09.665 --> 00:15:10.466
  • STILL, IN THAT MOMENT ITHOUGHT, HAD JUDAS
  • 00:15:10.466 --> 00:15:11.767
  • THOUGHT, HAD JUDASREPENTED LIKE PETER DID
  • 00:15:11.767 --> 00:15:15.371
  • REPENTED LIKE PETER DIDINSTEAD OF TAKIN' HIS LIFE
  • 00:15:15.371 --> 00:15:16.472
  • INSTEAD OF TAKIN' HIS LIFEAND, YOU KNOW, IT ALL
  • 00:15:16.472 --> 00:15:17.439
  • AND, YOU KNOW, IT ALLENDED, IT WAS ALMOST LIKE
  • 00:15:17.439 --> 00:15:18.340
  • ENDED, IT WAS ALMOST LIKEJESUS WOULD HAVE FORGAVE
  • 00:15:18.340 --> 00:15:18.974
  • JESUS WOULD HAVE FORGAVEHIM TOO.
  • 00:15:18.974 --> 00:15:20.142
  • HIM TOO.JUST THAT PHRASE OF "GO
  • 00:15:20.142 --> 00:15:20.909
  • JUST THAT PHRASE OF "GOTELL THE DISCIPLES-- AND
  • 00:15:20.909 --> 00:15:23.679
  • TELL THE DISCIPLES-- ANDPETER," IT WAS LIKE,
  • 00:15:23.679 --> 00:15:24.847
  • PETER," IT WAS LIKE,"WHOA, CHRISTINE, OKAY,
  • 00:15:24.847 --> 00:15:25.814
  • "WHOA, CHRISTINE, OKAY,ARE YOU WILLING TO DO YOUR
  • 00:15:25.814 --> 00:15:28.517
  • ARE YOU WILLING TO DO YOUR'AND PETER,' WHATEVER THAT
  • 00:15:28.517 --> 00:15:29.785
  • 'AND PETER,' WHATEVER THATMIGHT MEAN, IN THIS CASE?
  • 00:15:29.785 --> 00:15:30.419
  • MIGHT MEAN, IN THIS CASE?IT WAS DEEPLY PAINFUL.
  • 00:15:30.419 --> 00:15:31.820
  • IT WAS DEEPLY PAINFUL.IT TRIGGERED A WHOLE LOT.
  • 00:15:31.820 --> 00:15:33.589
  • IT TRIGGERED A WHOLE LOT.AND, YOU KNOW, THE ISSUE
  • 00:15:33.589 --> 00:15:36.458
  • AND, YOU KNOW, THE ISSUEIS THAT GOD WAS ACTUALLY
  • 00:15:36.458 --> 00:15:37.359
  • IS THAT GOD WAS ACTUALLYWANTING TO DO A DEEPER
  • 00:15:37.359 --> 00:15:37.926
  • WANTING TO DO A DEEPERLEVEL OF HEALING IN MY
  • 00:15:37.926 --> 00:15:38.560
  • LEVEL OF HEALING IN MYOWN LIFE.
  • 00:15:38.560 --> 00:15:39.862
  • OWN LIFE.IT MADE ME HAVE TO GO BACK
  • 00:15:39.862 --> 00:15:40.529
  • IT MADE ME HAVE TO GO BACKTO COUNSELING, HAVE A
  • 00:15:40.529 --> 00:15:41.997
  • TO COUNSELING, HAVE AWHOLE OTHER LEVEL OF
  • 00:15:41.997 --> 00:15:43.432
  • WHOLE OTHER LEVEL OFHEALING, AND WHEN I LOOK
  • 00:15:43.432 --> 00:15:44.833
  • HEALING, AND WHEN I LOOKAT THE FRUIT OF THESE LAST
  • 00:15:44.833 --> 00:15:46.068
  • AT THE FRUIT OF THESE LASTFEW YEARS, I'M LIKE, "OH,
  • 00:15:46.068 --> 00:15:47.036
  • FEW YEARS, I'M LIKE, "OH,MY GOODNESS, I NEVER EVEN
  • 00:15:47.036 --> 00:15:48.270
  • MY GOODNESS, I NEVER EVENKNEW THE LORD WANTED TO GO
  • 00:15:48.270 --> 00:15:50.973
  • KNEW THE LORD WANTED TO GOTHAT MUCH DEEPER."
  • 00:15:50.973 --> 00:15:51.974
  • THAT MUCH DEEPER."BUT IT TOOK A
  • 00:15:51.974 --> 00:15:53.642
  • BUT IT TOOK A"--AND PETER ALSO"
  • 00:15:53.642 --> 00:15:54.309
  • "--AND PETER ALSO"MOMENT TO GO, "AM I
  • 00:15:54.309 --> 00:15:56.145
  • MOMENT TO GO, "AM IWILLING TO DIG YET AGAIN?"
  • 00:15:56.145 --> 00:15:57.112
  • WILLING TO DIG YET AGAIN?"I GUESS I SAY ALL THAT
  • 00:15:57.112 --> 00:15:58.113
  • I GUESS I SAY ALL THATTO GO THAT, IN MY 50s--
  • 00:15:58.113 --> 00:16:02.017
  • TO GO THAT, IN MY 50s--YOU KNOW, JADA, I'M
  • 00:16:02.017 --> 00:16:04.953
  • YOU KNOW, JADA, I'MLAUGHING 'CAUSE YOU WERE
  • 00:16:04.953 --> 00:16:06.055
  • LAUGHING 'CAUSE YOU WEREUSING THE EXAMPLE OF YOUR
  • 00:16:06.055 --> 00:16:08.190
  • USING THE EXAMPLE OF YOURMOM, WHO ACTUALLY SEEMS TO
  • 00:16:08.190 --> 00:16:09.024
  • MOM, WHO ACTUALLY SEEMS TOBE JESUS, JR., LIKE
  • 00:16:09.024 --> 00:16:09.958
  • BE JESUS, JR., LIKELAURIE, AS WELL, BUT SHE
  • 00:16:09.958 --> 00:16:10.726
  • LAURIE, AS WELL, BUT SHEWAS COMING TO YOU AS A
  • 00:16:10.726 --> 00:16:11.627
  • WAS COMING TO YOU AS ATEENAGER, SAYING-- YEAH,
  • 00:16:11.627 --> 00:16:12.795
  • TEENAGER, SAYING-- YEAH,SHE SOUNDS IT-- LIKE,
  • 00:16:12.795 --> 00:16:13.896
  • SHE SOUNDS IT-- LIKE,"IS THIS FRIENDSHIP WORTH IT?"
  • 00:16:13.896 --> 00:16:15.230
  • "IS THIS FRIENDSHIP WORTH IT?"I'M SAYING, IN MY 50s,
  • 00:16:15.230 --> 00:16:16.065
  • I'M SAYING, IN MY 50s,AS A CHRISTIAN MINISTER--
  • 00:16:16.065 --> 00:16:17.666
  • AS A CHRISTIAN MINISTER--STILL GOTTA MAKE THE SAME
  • 00:16:17.666 --> 00:16:21.036
  • STILL GOTTA MAKE THE SAMEDECISIONS, BASICALLY, OF
  • 00:16:21.036 --> 00:16:21.537
  • DECISIONS, BASICALLY, OFTHAT CONSTANT "70 TIMES
  • 00:16:21.537 --> 00:16:22.337
  • THAT CONSTANT "70 TIMES7," YOU'VE GOTTA KEEP
  • 00:16:22.337 --> 00:16:23.272
  • 7," YOU'VE GOTTA KEEPFORGIVING.
  • 00:16:23.272 --> 00:16:23.772
  • FORGIVING.AND WE'RE NOT TALKING
  • 00:16:23.772 --> 00:16:24.306
  • AND WE'RE NOT TALKINGABOUT ANYTHING ABUSIVE OR
  • 00:16:24.306 --> 00:16:25.507
  • ABOUT ANYTHING ABUSIVE ORWRONG OR-- JAMIE'S ALREADY
  • 00:16:25.507 --> 00:16:27.976
  • WRONG OR-- JAMIE'S ALREADYESTABLISHED THAT, BUT I
  • 00:16:27.976 --> 00:16:29.178
  • ESTABLISHED THAT, BUT ITHINK IN CHRISTIAN
  • 00:16:29.178 --> 00:16:30.245
  • THINK IN CHRISTIANRELATIONSHIPS, THAT'S THE
  • 00:16:30.245 --> 00:16:31.346
  • RELATIONSHIPS, THAT'S THEONLY WAY FORWARD.
  • 00:16:31.346 --> 00:16:33.082
  • ONLY WAY FORWARD.- JADA: ABSOLUTELY, AND,
  • 00:16:33.082 --> 00:16:34.416
  • - JADA: ABSOLUTELY, AND,YOU KNOW, THERE'S SOME--
  • 00:16:34.416 --> 00:16:35.484
  • YOU KNOW, THERE'S SOME--A COUPLE OF THINGS YOU
  • 00:16:35.484 --> 00:16:37.419
  • A COUPLE OF THINGS YOUTOUCHED ON THAT, AGAIN,
  • 00:16:37.419 --> 00:16:38.087
  • TOUCHED ON THAT, AGAIN,WERE ALREADY IN MY HEART,
  • 00:16:38.087 --> 00:16:39.054
  • WERE ALREADY IN MY HEART,AND SO I THINK THEY'RE SO
  • 00:16:39.054 --> 00:16:41.690
  • AND SO I THINK THEY'RE SOIMPORTANT, ESPECIALLY FROM
  • 00:16:41.690 --> 00:16:42.491
  • IMPORTANT, ESPECIALLY FROMA MINISTRY STANDPOINT.
  • 00:16:42.491 --> 00:16:44.560
  • A MINISTRY STANDPOINT.BEING LEADERS IN A CHURCH,
  • 00:16:44.560 --> 00:16:47.029
  • BEING LEADERS IN A CHURCH,WE HEAR OFTEN MANY STORIES
  • 00:16:47.029 --> 00:16:50.165
  • WE HEAR OFTEN MANY STORIESOF PEOPLE TELLING US THAT
  • 00:16:50.165 --> 00:16:52.034
  • OF PEOPLE TELLING US THATTHEY'VE BEEN BETRAYED OR
  • 00:16:52.034 --> 00:16:52.968
  • THEY'VE BEEN BETRAYED ORBEEN LET DOWN BY SOMEONE
  • 00:16:52.968 --> 00:16:53.769
  • BEEN LET DOWN BY SOMEONEIN MINISTRY, SOMEONE IN
  • 00:16:53.769 --> 00:16:55.537
  • IN MINISTRY, SOMEONE INLEADERSHIP, THIS IDEA OF
  • 00:16:55.537 --> 00:16:57.039
  • LEADERSHIP, THIS IDEA OF"CHURCH HURT," YOU KNOW,
  • 00:16:57.039 --> 00:16:58.707
  • "CHURCH HURT," YOU KNOW,AND SO WE TALK ABOUT THAT
  • 00:16:58.707 --> 00:17:00.342
  • AND SO WE TALK ABOUT THATA LOT, AND SOMETIMES I
  • 00:17:00.342 --> 00:17:01.443
  • A LOT, AND SOMETIMES IJUST ASK THEM, "WELL, WHO
  • 00:17:01.443 --> 00:17:04.379
  • JUST ASK THEM, "WELL, WHOHURT YOU?"
  • 00:17:04.379 --> 00:17:05.514
  • HURT YOU?"AND SO, I MEAN, "WAS IT
  • 00:17:05.514 --> 00:17:05.914
  • AND SO, I MEAN, "WAS ITTHE CHURCH?
  • 00:17:05.914 --> 00:17:07.116
  • THE CHURCH?DID AN ORGANIZATION HAVE A
  • 00:17:07.116 --> 00:17:08.784
  • DID AN ORGANIZATION HAVE APRACTICE IN PLACE THAT WAS
  • 00:17:08.784 --> 00:17:10.219
  • PRACTICE IN PLACE THAT WASDESTRUCTIVE, OR WAS IT AN
  • 00:17:10.219 --> 00:17:13.555
  • DESTRUCTIVE, OR WAS IT ANINDIVIDUAL IN THE CHURCH
  • 00:17:13.555 --> 00:17:14.323
  • INDIVIDUAL IN THE CHURCHWHO HURT YOU?
  • 00:17:14.323 --> 00:17:15.891
  • WHO HURT YOU?BECAUSE JUST BECAUSE
  • 00:17:15.891 --> 00:17:17.559
  • BECAUSE JUST BECAUSEPEOPLE OF GOD HURT YOU
  • 00:17:17.559 --> 00:17:18.127
  • PEOPLE OF GOD HURT YOUDOES NOT MEAN THAT GOD HAS
  • 00:17:18.127 --> 00:17:19.061
  • DOES NOT MEAN THAT GOD HASHURT YOU."
  • 00:17:19.061 --> 00:17:19.528
  • HURT YOU."SO THERE HAS TO BE
  • 00:17:19.528 --> 00:17:20.662
  • SO THERE HAS TO BETHIS PERSPECTIVE BECAUSE
  • 00:17:20.662 --> 00:17:21.697
  • THIS PERSPECTIVE BECAUSEI THINK IT CHANGES
  • 00:17:21.697 --> 00:17:22.664
  • I THINK IT CHANGESEVERYTHING, AND HAVING
  • 00:17:22.664 --> 00:17:25.033
  • EVERYTHING, AND HAVINGTHIS AWARENESS OF WHAT IT
  • 00:17:25.033 --> 00:17:26.835
  • THIS AWARENESS OF WHAT ITCAN TRIGGER AND WHAT IT
  • 00:17:26.835 --> 00:17:28.303
  • CAN TRIGGER AND WHAT ITMEANS FOR US, I MEAN,
  • 00:17:28.303 --> 00:17:29.972
  • MEANS FOR US, I MEAN,IS SO SIGNIFICANT BECAUSE,
  • 00:17:29.972 --> 00:17:31.640
  • IS SO SIGNIFICANT BECAUSE,WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT--
  • 00:17:31.640 --> 00:17:32.841
  • WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT--WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT THE
  • 00:17:32.841 --> 00:17:33.642
  • WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT THEGARDEN TOMB, I WAS
  • 00:17:33.642 --> 00:17:35.377
  • GARDEN TOMB, I WASTHINKING ABOUT THAT THE
  • 00:17:35.377 --> 00:17:36.311
  • THINKING ABOUT THAT THEPASSAGE IN GETHSEMANE,
  • 00:17:36.311 --> 00:17:37.246
  • PASSAGE IN GETHSEMANE,THE GARDEN OF GETHSEMANE,
  • 00:17:37.246 --> 00:17:38.213
  • THE GARDEN OF GETHSEMANE,WHERE JESUS IS ASKING FOR
  • 00:17:38.213 --> 00:17:39.214
  • WHERE JESUS IS ASKING FORTHIS CUP TO BE REMOVED,
  • 00:17:39.214 --> 00:17:40.482
  • THIS CUP TO BE REMOVED,AND HE'S IN ONE OF HIS
  • 00:17:40.482 --> 00:17:42.251
  • AND HE'S IN ONE OF HISMOST VULNERABLE PLACES,
  • 00:17:42.251 --> 00:17:43.519
  • MOST VULNERABLE PLACES,AND THE PEOPLE THAT WERE
  • 00:17:43.519 --> 00:17:45.420
  • AND THE PEOPLE THAT WEREHIS INNER CIRCLE-- RIGHT?
  • 00:17:45.420 --> 00:17:47.189
  • HIS INNER CIRCLE-- RIGHT?-- WITHIN THE 12, THE
  • 00:17:47.189 --> 00:17:48.924
  • -- WITHIN THE 12, THETHREE WERE THERE, AND THEY
  • 00:17:48.924 --> 00:17:49.925
  • THREE WERE THERE, AND THEYCOULD NOT PRAY WITH HIM.
  • 00:17:49.925 --> 00:17:50.626
  • COULD NOT PRAY WITH HIM.HE SAID, "YOU CAN'T KEEP
  • 00:17:50.626 --> 00:17:51.293
  • HE SAID, "YOU CAN'T KEEPWATCH WITH ME?"
  • 00:17:51.293 --> 00:17:52.661
  • WATCH WITH ME?"AND THE FIRST TIME THEY
  • 00:17:52.661 --> 00:17:53.962
  • AND THE FIRST TIME THEYFAILED, HE DIDN'T SAY,
  • 00:17:53.962 --> 00:17:55.297
  • FAILED, HE DIDN'T SAY,"UN-FOLLOW, UNFRIEND, GET
  • 00:17:55.297 --> 00:17:55.998
  • "UN-FOLLOW, UNFRIEND, GETOUT THE GARDEN."
  • 00:17:55.998 --> 00:17:56.832
  • OUT THE GARDEN."HE SAID,
  • 00:17:56.832 --> 00:17:57.566
  • HE SAID,"LET'S TRY AGAIN."
  • 00:17:57.566 --> 00:17:58.867
  • "LET'S TRY AGAIN."AND STILL THEY FAILED,
  • 00:17:58.867 --> 00:18:00.502
  • AND STILL THEY FAILED,AND AGAIN.
  • 00:18:00.502 --> 00:18:02.838
  • AND AGAIN.AND STILL THEY FAILED, AND
  • 00:18:02.838 --> 00:18:03.372
  • AND STILL THEY FAILED, ANDSTILL, HE STILL GAVE THEM
  • 00:18:03.372 --> 00:18:04.573
  • STILL, HE STILL GAVE THEMCALLING AND COMMISSION
  • 00:18:04.573 --> 00:18:05.340
  • CALLING AND COMMISSIONEVEN AFTER THAT.
  • 00:18:05.340 --> 00:18:08.043
  • EVEN AFTER THAT.AND SO I THINK A HUGE PART
  • 00:18:08.043 --> 00:18:09.645
  • AND SO I THINK A HUGE PARTOF KNOWING THAT WE'RE NOT
  • 00:18:09.645 --> 00:18:11.413
  • OF KNOWING THAT WE'RE NOTCLINICALLY FORGIVING,
  • 00:18:11.413 --> 00:18:12.714
  • CLINICALLY FORGIVING,SAYING, "OH, AS A
  • 00:18:12.714 --> 00:18:13.315
  • SAYING, "OH, AS ACHRISTIAN, I'M GONNA
  • 00:18:13.315 --> 00:18:14.149
  • CHRISTIAN, I'M GONNARELEASE YOU; YOU NO LONGER
  • 00:18:14.149 --> 00:18:15.217
  • RELEASE YOU; YOU NO LONGEROWE ME," ET CETERA, ET
  • 00:18:15.217 --> 00:18:16.351
  • OWE ME," ET CETERA, ETCETERA, "HOWEVER, I'M
  • 00:18:16.351 --> 00:18:18.153
  • CETERA, "HOWEVER, I'MWITHDRAWING MY EMOTIONAL
  • 00:18:18.153 --> 00:18:19.454
  • WITHDRAWING MY EMOTIONALENGAGEMENT"-- OKAY, IT'S A
  • 00:18:19.454 --> 00:18:20.122
  • ENGAGEMENT"-- OKAY, IT'S ACLINICAL FORGIVENESS.
  • 00:18:20.122 --> 00:18:21.256
  • CLINICAL FORGIVENESS.HOW DO I SAY I'M GONNA BE
  • 00:18:21.256 --> 00:18:22.591
  • HOW DO I SAY I'M GONNA BEVULNERABLE?
  • 00:18:22.591 --> 00:18:24.359
  • VULNERABLE?I'M GONNA TRUST GOD
  • 00:18:24.359 --> 00:18:26.461
  • I'M GONNA TRUST GODBECAUSE EVEN THOUGH JUDAS'
  • 00:18:26.461 --> 00:18:28.096
  • BECAUSE EVEN THOUGH JUDAS'BETRAYAL WAS DIFFERENT, HE
  • 00:18:28.096 --> 00:18:29.298
  • BETRAYAL WAS DIFFERENT, HESTILL CALLED HIM IN THE
  • 00:18:29.298 --> 00:18:30.365
  • STILL CALLED HIM IN THEBEGINNING, AND HE WAS GOD.
  • 00:18:30.365 --> 00:18:31.099
  • BEGINNING, AND HE WAS GOD.HE KNEW WHAT WAS COMING
  • 00:18:31.099 --> 00:18:32.067
  • HE KNEW WHAT WAS COMINGDOWN THE LINE AND STILL
  • 00:18:32.067 --> 00:18:33.368
  • DOWN THE LINE AND STILLSAID, "I'M GONNA USE YOU.
  • 00:18:33.368 --> 00:18:33.969
  • SAID, "I'M GONNA USE YOU.YOU'RE PART OF THE
  • 00:18:33.969 --> 00:18:35.037
  • YOU'RE PART OF THEPROPHECY.
  • 00:18:35.037 --> 00:18:35.771
  • PROPHECY.SO EVEN IN YOUR
  • 00:18:35.771 --> 00:18:37.039
  • SO EVEN IN YOURBROKENNESS, YOU'RE STILL A
  • 00:18:37.039 --> 00:18:37.973
  • BROKENNESS, YOU'RE STILL APART OF WHAT I'M GONNA DO
  • 00:18:37.973 --> 00:18:39.174
  • PART OF WHAT I'M GONNA DOTHROUGH MY SON," AND EVEN
  • 00:18:39.174 --> 00:18:40.309
  • THROUGH MY SON," AND EVENWITH THIS THREE THAT WERE
  • 00:18:40.309 --> 00:18:41.877
  • WITH THIS THREE THAT WEREHIS INNER CIRCLE.
  • 00:18:41.877 --> 00:18:43.011
  • HIS INNER CIRCLE.SO WHEN PEOPLE IN MY
  • 00:18:43.011 --> 00:18:43.946
  • SO WHEN PEOPLE IN MYCHURCH OR PEOPLE IN MY
  • 00:18:43.946 --> 00:18:45.214
  • CHURCH OR PEOPLE IN MYLIFE ARGUE AGAINST LIFE
  • 00:18:45.214 --> 00:18:46.515
  • LIFE ARGUE AGAINST LIFEGROUPS, AND THEY DON'T
  • 00:18:46.515 --> 00:18:47.683
  • GROUPS, AND THEY DON'TWANNA BE IN COMMUNITY
  • 00:18:47.683 --> 00:18:49.451
  • WANNA BE IN COMMUNITYAND TELL THEIR BUSINESS,
  • 00:18:49.451 --> 00:18:50.485
  • AND TELL THEIR BUSINESS,I'M LIKE, "COME WITH ME
  • 00:18:50.485 --> 00:18:51.486
  • I'M LIKE, "COME WITH METO THE GARDEN.
  • 00:18:51.486 --> 00:18:52.254
  • TO THE GARDEN.LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT
  • 00:18:52.254 --> 00:18:53.222
  • LET ME TELL YOU ABOUTVULNERABILITY, OKAY?
  • 00:18:53.222 --> 00:18:53.956
  • VULNERABILITY, OKAY?PEOPLE ARE GONNA
  • 00:18:53.956 --> 00:18:54.489
  • PEOPLE ARE GONNADISAPPOINT YOU.
  • 00:18:54.489 --> 00:18:55.157
  • DISAPPOINT YOU.THEY'RE GOING TO
  • 00:18:55.157 --> 00:18:55.657
  • THEY'RE GOING TODISAPPOINT YOU.
  • 00:18:55.657 --> 00:18:56.592
  • DISAPPOINT YOU.YOU DON'T GET IN A LIFE
  • 00:18:56.592 --> 00:18:57.192
  • YOU DON'T GET IN A LIFEGROUP FOR PERFECTION.
  • 00:18:57.192 --> 00:18:58.260
  • GROUP FOR PERFECTION.YOU DON'T HAVE FRIENDSHIPS
  • 00:18:58.260 --> 00:18:59.795
  • YOU DON'T HAVE FRIENDSHIPSBECAUSE YOU NEED PEOPLE TO
  • 00:18:59.795 --> 00:19:00.429
  • BECAUSE YOU NEED PEOPLE TOBE JESUS.
  • 00:19:00.429 --> 00:19:00.996
  • BE JESUS.YOU HAVE JESUS.
  • 00:19:00.996 --> 00:19:02.798
  • YOU HAVE JESUS.WE DO THAT BECAUSE WE
  • 00:19:02.798 --> 00:19:03.865
  • WE DO THAT BECAUSE WESHARPEN EACH OTHER.
  • 00:19:03.865 --> 00:19:04.766
  • SHARPEN EACH OTHER.WE LEARN FROM EACH OTHER
  • 00:19:04.766 --> 00:19:06.268
  • WE LEARN FROM EACH OTHEREVEN IN OUR FAILURES."
  • 00:19:06.268 --> 00:19:09.004
  • EVEN IN OUR FAILURES."AND SO I THINK, FOR ME,
  • 00:19:09.004 --> 00:19:09.871
  • AND SO I THINK, FOR ME,BECAUSE I CAN BE REALLY
  • 00:19:09.871 --> 00:19:10.772
  • BECAUSE I CAN BE REALLYGOOD AT CLINICAL
  • 00:19:10.772 --> 00:19:11.974
  • GOOD AT CLINICALFORGIVENESS, I CAN BE
  • 00:19:11.974 --> 00:19:12.741
  • FORGIVENESS, I CAN BEREALLY GOOD AT THAT
  • 00:19:12.741 --> 00:19:14.910
  • REALLY GOOD AT THATACADEMIC APPROACH TO
  • 00:19:14.910 --> 00:19:15.544
  • ACADEMIC APPROACH TORELEASING SOMEONE, THE
  • 00:19:15.544 --> 00:19:17.279
  • RELEASING SOMEONE, THECHALLENGE, FOR ME, IS
  • 00:19:17.279 --> 00:19:18.213
  • CHALLENGE, FOR ME, ISALWAYS "AM I GOING TO
  • 00:19:18.213 --> 00:19:19.414
  • ALWAYS "AM I GOING TORE-ENGAGE EMOTIONALLY?
  • 00:19:19.414 --> 00:19:20.716
  • RE-ENGAGE EMOTIONALLY?AM I GONNA TRUST YOU
  • 00:19:20.716 --> 00:19:22.584
  • AM I GONNA TRUST YOUAGAIN?
  • 00:19:22.584 --> 00:19:23.151
  • AGAIN?AM I GONNA BE VULNERABLE
  • 00:19:23.151 --> 00:19:23.852
  • AM I GONNA BE VULNERABLEAGAIN?"
  • 00:19:23.852 --> 00:19:24.920
  • AGAIN?"'CAUSE I CAN BE FRIENDLY
  • 00:19:24.920 --> 00:19:25.554
  • 'CAUSE I CAN BE FRIENDLYAND NOT VULNERABLE, AND I
  • 00:19:25.554 --> 00:19:27.189
  • AND NOT VULNERABLE, AND ICAN BE, YOU KNOW, AMICABLE
  • 00:19:27.189 --> 00:19:28.557
  • CAN BE, YOU KNOW, AMICABLEAND NOT VULNERABLE, AND I
  • 00:19:28.557 --> 00:19:29.591
  • AND NOT VULNERABLE, AND ICAN BE POLITE AND NOT OPEN
  • 00:19:29.591 --> 00:19:31.560
  • CAN BE POLITE AND NOT OPENTO YOU.
  • 00:19:31.560 --> 00:19:32.928
  • TO YOU.AND SO THAT HAS ALWAYS
  • 00:19:32.928 --> 00:19:34.029
  • AND SO THAT HAS ALWAYSBEEN THE THING THAT VERY
  • 00:19:34.029 --> 00:19:35.597
  • BEEN THE THING THAT VERYOFTEN NO ONE ELSE WILL
  • 00:19:35.597 --> 00:19:37.065
  • OFTEN NO ONE ELSE WILLKNOW BUT GOD, AND HE'LL
  • 00:19:37.065 --> 00:19:38.233
  • KNOW BUT GOD, AND HE'LLSAY, "WAIT, WAIT, WAIT,
  • 00:19:38.233 --> 00:19:39.401
  • SAY, "WAIT, WAIT, WAIT,BUT YOU'RE HOLDING BACK,
  • 00:19:39.401 --> 00:19:40.302
  • BUT YOU'RE HOLDING BACK,AND WHEN YOU DO THAT,
  • 00:19:40.302 --> 00:19:41.103
  • AND WHEN YOU DO THAT,HERE'S THE PROBLEM WITH
  • 00:19:41.103 --> 00:19:41.803
  • HERE'S THE PROBLEM WITHTHAT: YOU'RE
  • 00:19:41.803 --> 00:19:42.971
  • THAT: YOU'RESELF-PROTECTING, JADA,
  • 00:19:42.971 --> 00:19:43.905
  • SELF-PROTECTING, JADA,AND THAT'S MY JOB.
  • 00:19:43.905 --> 00:19:44.840
  • AND THAT'S MY JOB.SO IF YOU'RE GONNA PROTECT
  • 00:19:44.840 --> 00:19:45.807
  • SO IF YOU'RE GONNA PROTECTYOURSELF, THEN YOU'VE
  • 00:19:45.807 --> 00:19:47.376
  • YOURSELF, THEN YOU'VETAKEN ME OUT OF THE ROLE
  • 00:19:47.376 --> 00:19:48.644
  • TAKEN ME OUT OF THE ROLEOF PROTECTOR, OKAY?
  • 00:19:48.644 --> 00:19:49.978
  • OF PROTECTOR, OKAY?SO I NEED YOU TO BE
  • 00:19:49.978 --> 00:19:50.879
  • SO I NEED YOU TO BEVULNERABLE BECAUSE THEN I
  • 00:19:50.879 --> 00:19:51.280
  • VULNERABLE BECAUSE THEN ICAN PROTECT YOU.
  • 00:19:51.280 --> 00:19:52.314
  • CAN PROTECT YOU.I CAN GIVE YOU
  • 00:19:52.314 --> 00:19:53.015
  • I CAN GIVE YOUDISCERNMENT, AND EVEN WHEN
  • 00:19:53.015 --> 00:19:53.915
  • DISCERNMENT, AND EVEN WHENTHEY FAIL AGAIN, I CAN
  • 00:19:53.915 --> 00:19:54.916
  • THEY FAIL AGAIN, I CANBRING YOU THROUGH THE
  • 00:19:54.916 --> 00:19:55.684
  • BRING YOU THROUGH THEHEALING."
  • 00:19:55.684 --> 00:19:56.785
  • HEALING."AND SO I DON'T
  • 00:19:56.785 --> 00:19:58.253
  • AND SO I DON'TKNOW ABOUT ANYONE ELSE
  • 00:19:58.253 --> 00:19:59.288
  • KNOW ABOUT ANYONE ELSEHERE, BUT, FOR ME, THAT
  • 00:19:59.288 --> 00:20:00.789
  • HERE, BUT, FOR ME, THATHAS BEEN A HUGE GAUGE FOR
  • 00:20:00.789 --> 00:20:02.291
  • HAS BEEN A HUGE GAUGE FORME WHEN IT'S NOT CLINICAL
  • 00:20:02.291 --> 00:20:03.158
  • ME WHEN IT'S NOT CLINICALAND ACADEMIC, BUT TRULY
  • 00:20:03.158 --> 00:20:04.593
  • AND ACADEMIC, BUT TRULYI'M CHOOSING TO REENGAGE
  • 00:20:04.593 --> 00:20:06.395
  • I'M CHOOSING TO REENGAGEEMOTIONALLY-- THAT'S HOW I
  • 00:20:06.395 --> 00:20:08.063
  • EMOTIONALLY-- THAT'S HOW IKNOW THAT I'M DECIDING
  • 00:20:08.063 --> 00:20:09.898
  • KNOW THAT I'M DECIDINGTO PURSUE THROUGH WHATEVER
  • 00:20:09.898 --> 00:20:12.501
  • TO PURSUE THROUGH WHATEVERBETRAYAL HAS HAPPENED.
  • 00:20:12.501 --> 00:20:14.102
  • BETRAYAL HAS HAPPENED.- JANICE: YOU KNOW WHAT'S
  • 00:20:14.102 --> 00:20:15.537
  • - JANICE: YOU KNOW WHAT'SINTERESTIN' ABOUT THAT,
  • 00:20:15.537 --> 00:20:16.071
  • INTERESTIN' ABOUT THAT,JADA, IS THAT THAT'S SO
  • 00:20:16.071 --> 00:20:16.872
  • JADA, IS THAT THAT'S SOTRUE.
  • 00:20:16.872 --> 00:20:17.439
  • TRUE.I THINK ONE OF THE THINGS
  • 00:20:17.439 --> 00:20:19.041
  • I THINK ONE OF THE THINGSTHAT THE LORD
  • 00:20:19.041 --> 00:20:19.608
  • THAT THE LORDHAS REALLY ACTUALLY
  • 00:20:19.608 --> 00:20:21.243
  • HAS REALLY ACTUALLYHAD TO SHOW ME AND GENTLY
  • 00:20:21.243 --> 00:20:23.045
  • HAD TO SHOW ME AND GENTLYLEAD ME INTO COMING TO
  • 00:20:23.045 --> 00:20:24.146
  • LEAD ME INTO COMING TOGRIPS WITH IS THE FACT
  • 00:20:24.146 --> 00:20:25.647
  • GRIPS WITH IS THE FACTTHAT "AND YOU WILL BE HURT
  • 00:20:25.647 --> 00:20:28.250
  • THAT "AND YOU WILL BE HURTAGAIN," AND THAT'S FACING
  • 00:20:28.250 --> 00:20:30.652
  • AGAIN," AND THAT'S FACINGTHAT FACT THAT, IN REAL
  • 00:20:30.652 --> 00:20:32.821
  • THAT FACT THAT, IN REALHONEST AND TRUE
  • 00:20:32.821 --> 00:20:34.156
  • HONEST AND TRUERELATIONSHIP, YOU'RE GONNA
  • 00:20:34.156 --> 00:20:36.725
  • RELATIONSHIP, YOU'RE GONNABE HURT AGAIN.
  • 00:20:36.725 --> 00:20:39.194
  • BE HURT AGAIN.I THINK THAT HAS BEEN THE
  • 00:20:39.194 --> 00:20:40.696
  • I THINK THAT HAS BEEN THETHING THAT HAS HELPED ME
  • 00:20:40.696 --> 00:20:42.331
  • THING THAT HAS HELPED MEREALIZING THAT YOU'RE NOT
  • 00:20:42.331 --> 00:20:44.032
  • REALIZING THAT YOU'RE NOTGONNA DEAL WITH PERFECT
  • 00:20:44.032 --> 00:20:45.534
  • GONNA DEAL WITH PERFECTHUMANS FROM HERE ON OUT,
  • 00:20:45.534 --> 00:20:46.835
  • HUMANS FROM HERE ON OUT,SO YOU CAN EITHER CLOSE
  • 00:20:46.835 --> 00:20:48.570
  • SO YOU CAN EITHER CLOSEYOUR HEART AND EXPERIENCE
  • 00:20:48.570 --> 00:20:49.671
  • YOUR HEART AND EXPERIENCENOTHING AND ACCEPT
  • 00:20:49.671 --> 00:20:51.206
  • NOTHING AND ACCEPTNUMBNESS, OR YOU CAN ALLOW
  • 00:20:51.206 --> 00:20:52.908
  • NUMBNESS, OR YOU CAN ALLOWYOURSELF TO BE VULNERABLE
  • 00:20:52.908 --> 00:20:55.310
  • YOURSELF TO BE VULNERABLEAGAIN AND ENJOY AMAZING
  • 00:20:55.310 --> 00:20:59.481
  • AGAIN AND ENJOY AMAZINGTIMES AND AMAZING
  • 00:20:59.481 --> 00:21:00.115
  • TIMES AND AMAZINGRELATIONSHIPS WITH
  • 00:21:00.115 --> 00:21:00.716
  • RELATIONSHIPS WITHDIFFERENT PEOPLE, AND
  • 00:21:00.716 --> 00:21:01.249
  • DIFFERENT PEOPLE, ANDYOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO
  • 00:21:01.249 --> 00:21:02.651
  • YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TORISK BEING HURT AGAIN.
  • 00:21:02.651 --> 00:21:04.953
  • RISK BEING HURT AGAIN.BUT THE KICKER, FOR ME, IS
  • 00:21:04.953 --> 00:21:06.421
  • BUT THE KICKER, FOR ME, ISTHIS, THAT "THE LORD IS
  • 00:21:06.421 --> 00:21:07.622
  • THIS, THAT "THE LORD ISNEAR TO THE
  • 00:21:07.622 --> 00:21:08.557
  • NEAR TO THEBROKENHEARTED," AND I
  • 00:21:08.557 --> 00:21:11.960
  • BROKENHEARTED," AND IDON'T HAVE TO BE AFRAID OF
  • 00:21:11.960 --> 00:21:14.496
  • DON'T HAVE TO BE AFRAID OFBETRAYAL OR HEARTBREAK AS
  • 00:21:14.496 --> 00:21:15.564
  • BETRAYAL OR HEARTBREAK ASTHOUGH IT'S GOING TO
  • 00:21:15.564 --> 00:21:16.698
  • THOUGH IT'S GOING TODESTROY ME BECAUSE EVEN IN
  • 00:21:16.698 --> 00:21:18.734
  • DESTROY ME BECAUSE EVEN INBETRAYAL, EVEN IN
  • 00:21:18.734 --> 00:21:20.402
  • BETRAYAL, EVEN INHEARTBREAK, THE LORD IS NEAR,
  • 00:21:20.402 --> 00:21:23.004
  • HEARTBREAK, THE LORD IS NEAR,AND THAT IS THE ONLY
  • 00:21:23.004 --> 00:21:24.573
  • AND THAT IS THE ONLYTHING THAT CAN MAKE IT
  • 00:21:24.573 --> 00:21:25.707
  • THING THAT CAN MAKE ITOKAY IS THAT THE LORD
  • 00:21:25.707 --> 00:21:27.175
  • OKAY IS THAT THE LORDHIMSELF DRAWS NEAR TO ME.
  • 00:21:27.175 --> 00:21:29.711
  • HIMSELF DRAWS NEAR TO ME.THAT IS THE ONLY SALVE
  • 00:21:29.711 --> 00:21:31.713
  • THAT IS THE ONLY SALVETHAT ACTUALLY FIXES THE
  • 00:21:31.713 --> 00:21:33.014
  • THAT ACTUALLY FIXES THEWOUND.
  • 00:21:33.014 --> 00:21:33.548
  • WOUND.YOU KNOW, THE PERSON CAN
  • 00:21:33.548 --> 00:21:35.450
  • YOU KNOW, THE PERSON CANAPOLOGIZE AND DO BETTER--
  • 00:21:35.450 --> 00:21:37.219
  • APOLOGIZE AND DO BETTER--LIKE, EVEN A PREVIOUS DAY,
  • 00:21:37.219 --> 00:21:39.087
  • LIKE, EVEN A PREVIOUS DAY,YOU KNOW, CHRIS WAS
  • 00:21:39.087 --> 00:21:40.389
  • YOU KNOW, CHRIS WASSAYING, "WELL-MEANING
  • 00:21:40.389 --> 00:21:41.390
  • SAYING, "WELL-MEANINGPEOPLE SAYING THINGS THAT
  • 00:21:41.390 --> 00:21:42.157
  • PEOPLE SAYING THINGS THATCREATE INSECURITIES,
  • 00:21:42.157 --> 00:21:43.558
  • CREATE INSECURITIES,WELL, THE PERSON MAY HAVE
  • 00:21:43.558 --> 00:21:45.060
  • WELL, THE PERSON MAY HAVEAPOLOGIZED, LOVED YOU
  • 00:21:45.060 --> 00:21:46.194
  • APOLOGIZED, LOVED YOUWELL, AND YOU'RE STILL
  • 00:21:46.194 --> 00:21:47.229
  • WELL, AND YOU'RE STILLCARRYING THAT WOUND."
  • 00:21:47.229 --> 00:21:49.231
  • CARRYING THAT WOUND."BUT THE REALITY IS THE LORD
  • 00:21:49.231 --> 00:21:50.932
  • BUT THE REALITY IS THE LORDIS THE ONLY SALVE TO THESE
  • 00:21:50.932 --> 00:21:51.566
  • IS THE ONLY SALVE TO THESEWOUNDS THAT HAVE BEEN
  • 00:21:51.566 --> 00:21:54.302
  • WOUNDS THAT HAVE BEENCREATED.
  • 00:21:54.302 --> 00:21:54.870
  • CREATED.AND SO WHEN WE ALLOW HIM
  • 00:21:54.870 --> 00:21:56.471
  • AND SO WHEN WE ALLOW HIMTO MOVE IN TO HEAL OUR
  • 00:21:56.471 --> 00:21:58.240
  • TO MOVE IN TO HEAL OURWOUNDS AND WE CAN SAY
  • 00:21:58.240 --> 00:22:00.575
  • WOUNDS AND WE CAN SAYAGAIN, "I CAN RISK BEING
  • 00:22:00.575 --> 00:22:05.414
  • AGAIN, "I CAN RISK BEINGFRIENDS WITH PEOPLE, I CAN
  • 00:22:05.414 --> 00:22:06.081
  • FRIENDS WITH PEOPLE, I CANRISK STAYING MARRIED,
  • 00:22:06.081 --> 00:22:06.548
  • RISK STAYING MARRIED,I CAN RISK HAVING
  • 00:22:06.548 --> 00:22:07.149
  • I CAN RISK HAVINGRELATIONSHIP WITH FAMILY
  • 00:22:07.149 --> 00:22:08.350
  • RELATIONSHIP WITH FAMILYAS WE'VE ESTABLISHED IN
  • 00:22:08.350 --> 00:22:09.951
  • AS WE'VE ESTABLISHED INHEALTHY WAYS-- BECAUSE I
  • 00:22:09.951 --> 00:22:11.820
  • HEALTHY WAYS-- BECAUSE IKNOW THAT, NO MATTER WHAT,
  • 00:22:11.820 --> 00:22:14.423
  • KNOW THAT, NO MATTER WHAT,GOD'S GRACE IS SUFFICIENT
  • 00:22:14.423 --> 00:22:15.924
  • GOD'S GRACE IS SUFFICIENTFOR ME, AND HE WILL BE NEAR."
  • 00:22:15.924 --> 00:22:16.691
  • FOR ME, AND HE WILL BE NEAR."BUT I THINK IT TAKES
  • 00:22:16.691 --> 00:22:18.827
  • BUT I THINK IT TAKESTHAT REALIZING THAT
  • 00:22:18.827 --> 00:22:20.228
  • THAT REALIZING THAT"YEAH, THIS COULD ACTUALLY
  • 00:22:20.228 --> 00:22:21.463
  • "YEAH, THIS COULD ACTUALLYHAPPEN AGAIN."
  • 00:22:21.463 --> 00:22:22.397
  • HAPPEN AGAIN."THAT'S THE FEAR OF
  • 00:22:22.397 --> 00:22:23.932
  • THAT'S THE FEAR OFNOT BEING VULNERABLE
  • 00:22:23.932 --> 00:22:25.767
  • NOT BEING VULNERABLEAGAIN, BUT IF THE
  • 00:22:25.767 --> 00:22:27.068
  • AGAIN, BUT IF THELORD FIXES THAT, THEN
  • 00:22:27.068 --> 00:22:27.836
  • LORD FIXES THAT, THENTHAT'S WHAT WE HAVE TO
  • 00:22:27.836 --> 00:22:30.005
  • THAT'S WHAT WE HAVE TOLEAN ON, YOU KNOW?
  • 00:22:30.005 --> 00:22:31.173
  • LEAN ON, YOU KNOW?I DON'T KNOW-- JAMIE, HAVE
  • 00:22:31.173 --> 00:22:32.073
  • I DON'T KNOW-- JAMIE, HAVEYOU EVER EXPERIENCED
  • 00:22:32.073 --> 00:22:33.475
  • YOU EVER EXPERIENCEDHAVING TO TELL YOURSELF THAT?
  • 00:22:33.475 --> 00:22:36.011
  • HAVING TO TELL YOURSELF THAT?[LAUGHTER]
  • 00:22:36.011 --> 00:22:36.578
  • [LAUGHTER]- JAMIE: A MILLION TIMES,
  • 00:22:36.578 --> 00:22:38.113
  • - JAMIE: A MILLION TIMES,AND I WILL A MILLION TIMES
  • 00:22:38.113 --> 00:22:40.215
  • AND I WILL A MILLION TIMESMORE.
  • 00:22:40.215 --> 00:22:40.749
  • MORE.YOU KNOW, I HAVE A
  • 00:22:40.749 --> 00:22:41.883
  • YOU KNOW, I HAVE AFRIEND-- MY FRIEND AMANDA,
  • 00:22:41.883 --> 00:22:42.784
  • FRIEND-- MY FRIEND AMANDA,SHE SAID THIS TO ME ONE
  • 00:22:42.784 --> 00:22:43.685
  • SHE SAID THIS TO ME ONETIME, AND I HAVE NEVER
  • 00:22:43.685 --> 00:22:44.319
  • TIME, AND I HAVE NEVERFORGOTTEN THIS.
  • 00:22:44.319 --> 00:22:45.220
  • FORGOTTEN THIS.SHE SAID, "I WENT INTO
  • 00:22:45.220 --> 00:22:46.188
  • SHE SAID, "I WENT INTOMARRIAGE THINKING I WAS
  • 00:22:46.188 --> 00:22:46.888
  • MARRIAGE THINKING I WASFINALLY GOING TO NEVER BE
  • 00:22:46.888 --> 00:22:47.923
  • FINALLY GOING TO NEVER BEHURT BY A BOY EVER AGAIN."
  • 00:22:47.923 --> 00:22:50.759
  • HURT BY A BOY EVER AGAIN."- JANICE: MM, POOR GIRL.
  • 00:22:50.759 --> 00:22:51.460
  • - JANICE: MM, POOR GIRL.- JAMIE: AND SHE QUICKLY
  • 00:22:51.460 --> 00:22:52.427
  • - JAMIE: AND SHE QUICKLYFOUND OUT THAT THAT
  • 00:22:52.427 --> 00:22:53.495
  • FOUND OUT THAT THATDOESN'T-- "POOR GIRL."
  • 00:22:53.495 --> 00:22:53.995
  • DOESN'T-- "POOR GIRL."[LAUGHTER]
  • 00:22:53.995 --> 00:22:54.763
  • [LAUGHTER]-- THAT THAT PAIN DOESN'T
  • 00:22:54.763 --> 00:22:56.298
  • -- THAT THAT PAIN DOESN'THURT WITH THAT COMMITMENT
  • 00:22:56.298 --> 00:22:57.833
  • HURT WITH THAT COMMITMENTOF MARRIAGE, THAT NOW
  • 00:22:57.833 --> 00:22:58.800
  • OF MARRIAGE, THAT NOWYOU'RE JUST COMMITTED, AND
  • 00:22:58.800 --> 00:22:59.835
  • YOU'RE JUST COMMITTED, ANDTHERE'S NO LEAVING, BUT WE
  • 00:22:59.835 --> 00:23:01.303
  • THERE'S NO LEAVING, BUT WESTILL HURT EACH OTHER, AND
  • 00:23:01.303 --> 00:23:03.572
  • STILL HURT EACH OTHER, ANDSO THERE'S THIS ACT OF
  • 00:23:03.572 --> 00:23:04.139
  • SO THERE'S THIS ACT OFCONTINUING TO LOVE AGAIN,
  • 00:23:04.139 --> 00:23:04.973
  • CONTINUING TO LOVE AGAIN,CONTINUING TO REPENT, AND
  • 00:23:04.973 --> 00:23:06.441
  • CONTINUING TO REPENT, ANDCONTINUING TO FORGIVE,
  • 00:23:06.441 --> 00:23:07.642
  • CONTINUING TO FORGIVE,JUST LIKE WE'VE TALKED
  • 00:23:07.642 --> 00:23:09.244
  • JUST LIKE WE'VE TALKEDABOUT THIS ENTIRE TIME
  • 00:23:09.244 --> 00:23:10.378
  • ABOUT THIS ENTIRE TIMEABOUT HOW IT'S WORTH IT TO
  • 00:23:10.378 --> 00:23:11.980
  • ABOUT HOW IT'S WORTH IT TOBECOME VULNERABLE AGAIN
  • 00:23:11.980 --> 00:23:12.814
  • BECOME VULNERABLE AGAINAND TO ENTER INTO THAT
  • 00:23:12.814 --> 00:23:14.416
  • AND TO ENTER INTO THATLOVE AGAIN BECAUSE WE SEE
  • 00:23:14.416 --> 00:23:15.584
  • LOVE AGAIN BECAUSE WE SEEWHAT GOD CAN DO WITH IT.
  • 00:23:15.584 --> 00:23:16.117
  • WHAT GOD CAN DO WITH IT.YOU KNOW, WE SEE WHAT GOD
  • 00:23:16.117 --> 00:23:18.453
  • YOU KNOW, WE SEE WHAT GODCAN DO WITH PETER AND WHAT
  • 00:23:18.453 --> 00:23:20.555
  • CAN DO WITH PETER AND WHATHE WENT THROUGH AND THEN
  • 00:23:20.555 --> 00:23:21.690
  • HE WENT THROUGH AND THENHOW GOD USED HIM IN SUCH A
  • 00:23:21.690 --> 00:23:24.326
  • HOW GOD USED HIM IN SUCH AMIGHTY WAY.
  • 00:23:24.326 --> 00:23:25.160
  • MIGHTY WAY.AND SO I WANT TO BE A
  • 00:23:25.160 --> 00:23:26.928
  • AND SO I WANT TO BE AFRIEND, A WIFE, A MOM, WHO
  • 00:23:26.928 --> 00:23:28.263
  • FRIEND, A WIFE, A MOM, WHOUNDERSTANDS THAT I'M
  • 00:23:28.263 --> 00:23:31.066
  • UNDERSTANDS THAT I'MWILLING TO GO BACK IN,
  • 00:23:31.066 --> 00:23:32.300
  • WILLING TO GO BACK IN,I'M WILLING TO REPENT,
  • 00:23:32.300 --> 00:23:33.134
  • I'M WILLING TO REPENT,I'M WILLING TO FORGIVE,
  • 00:23:33.134 --> 00:23:33.835
  • I'M WILLING TO FORGIVE,I'M WILLING TO LOVE AGAIN
  • 00:23:33.835 --> 00:23:35.136
  • I'M WILLING TO LOVE AGAINBECAUSE GOD HAS DONE THAT
  • 00:23:35.136 --> 00:23:36.171
  • BECAUSE GOD HAS DONE THATSO WELL FOR ME, BUT ALSO
  • 00:23:36.171 --> 00:23:38.540
  • SO WELL FOR ME, BUT ALSOBECAUSE I WANNA BE AN
  • 00:23:38.540 --> 00:23:39.741
  • BECAUSE I WANNA BE ANEXAMPLE OF HOW WE CAN BE
  • 00:23:39.741 --> 00:23:41.910
  • EXAMPLE OF HOW WE CAN BETHAT AS FOLLOWERS OF JESUS
  • 00:23:41.910 --> 00:23:42.677
  • THAT AS FOLLOWERS OF JESUSAS WELL.
  • 00:23:42.677 --> 00:23:43.945
  • AS WELL.ALL OF YOU GUYS THAT ARE
  • 00:23:43.945 --> 00:23:45.580
  • ALL OF YOU GUYS THAT ARELISTENING AND WATCHING US,
  • 00:23:45.580 --> 00:23:46.615
  • LISTENING AND WATCHING US,I'M GONNA PRAY FOR US, AND
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  • I'M GONNA PRAY FOR US, ANDI'M JUST GONNA PRAY THAT,
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  • I'M JUST GONNA PRAY THAT,WHATEVER KIND OF SITUATION
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  • WHATEVER KIND OF SITUATIONYOU'RE IN, WE DON'T KNOW,
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  • YOU'RE IN, WE DON'T KNOW,BUT GOD DOES KNOW, THAT HE
  • 00:23:52.420 --> 00:23:53.722
  • BUT GOD DOES KNOW, THAT HEWILL MEET YOU THERE.
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  • WILL MEET YOU THERE.SO PRAY WITH ME.
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  • SO PRAY WITH ME.GOD, WE LOVE YOU FOR SO
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  • GOD, WE LOVE YOU FOR SOMANY REASONS.
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  • MANY REASONS.I'M THINKING RIGHT NOW OF
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  • I'M THINKING RIGHT NOW OFHOW THANKFUL I AM FOR YOUR
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  • HOW THANKFUL I AM FOR YOURLAVISH LOVE THAT YOU
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  • LAVISH LOVE THAT YOUCONTINUE TO POUR ON ME,
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  • CONTINUE TO POUR ON ME,THAT YOU CONTINUE TO BE
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  • THAT YOU CONTINUE TO BEFAITHFUL TO ME, EVEN WHEN
  • 00:24:08.770 --> 00:24:10.338
  • FAITHFUL TO ME, EVEN WHENI AM NOT FAITHFUL.
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  • I AM NOT FAITHFUL.GOD, YOU CONTINUE TO MEET
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  • GOD, YOU CONTINUE TO MEETME RIGHT WHERE I AM.
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  • ME RIGHT WHERE I AM.GOD, I PRAY THAT FOR ALL
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  • GOD, I PRAY THAT FOR ALLOF THE FIVE OF US AND FOR
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  • OF THE FIVE OF US AND FOREVERY PERSON WHO IS
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  • EVERY PERSON WHO ISLISTENING TO MY VOICE,
  • 00:24:19.214 --> 00:24:21.016
  • LISTENING TO MY VOICE,THAT WE WOULD BE WILLING
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  • THAT WE WOULD BE WILLINGTO BE VULNERABLE AGAIN,
  • 00:24:22.083 --> 00:24:23.385
  • TO BE VULNERABLE AGAIN,THAT WE'D BE WILLING TO
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  • THAT WE'D BE WILLING TOLOVE AGAIN AND TO ENTER
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  • LOVE AGAIN AND TO ENTERINTO THOSE RELATIONSHIPS
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  • INTO THOSE RELATIONSHIPSBECAUSE WE KNOW WHAT YOU
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  • BECAUSE WE KNOW WHAT YOUCAN DO WITH THEM.
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  • CAN DO WITH THEM.SO, GOD, WE GIVE YOU OUR
  • 00:24:31.026 --> 00:24:31.860
  • SO, GOD, WE GIVE YOU OURRELATIONSHIPS.
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  • RELATIONSHIPS.WE LAY THEM DOWN AT YOUR FEET.
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  • WE LAY THEM DOWN AT YOUR FEET.WE ASK YOU TO BE THE
  • 00:24:34.863 --> 00:24:35.597
  • WE ASK YOU TO BE THELEADER IN THEM, THE
  • 00:24:35.597 --> 00:24:36.865
  • LEADER IN THEM, THEPROVIDER FOR US.
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  • PROVIDER FOR US.GOD, WOULD YOU HELP US NOT
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  • GOD, WOULD YOU HELP US NOTTHINK THAT WE NEED TO BE
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  • THINK THAT WE NEED TO BESELF-PROTECTIVE OF OUR
  • 00:24:41.503 --> 00:24:42.404
  • SELF-PROTECTIVE OF OURHEARTS BUT, GOD, GIVE THAT
  • 00:24:42.404 --> 00:24:43.438
  • HEARTS BUT, GOD, GIVE THATOVER TO YOU, AND WE PRAY
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  • OVER TO YOU, AND WE PRAYALL OF THIS IN JESUS'
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  • ALL OF THIS IN JESUS'NAME, AMEN.
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  • NAME, AMEN.- JANICE: AMEN.
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  • - JANICE: AMEN.- LAURIE: AMEN.
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  • - LAURIE: AMEN.YOU KNOW, I BELIEVE THAT'S
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  • YOU KNOW, I BELIEVE THAT'SALL CALLED AGAPE LOVE.
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  • ALL CALLED AGAPE LOVE.I WANT YOU TO DO A GOOD
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  • I WANT YOU TO DO A GOODWORD STUDY ON THE WORD
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  • WORD STUDY ON THE WORD"AGAPE," A-G-A-P-E, AGAPE
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  • "AGAPE," A-G-A-P-E, AGAPELOVE, AND I THINK THAT'S--
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  • LOVE, AND I THINK THAT'S--IF WE CAN GET GOOD AT
  • 00:24:58.787 --> 00:25:00.655
  • IF WE CAN GET GOOD ATTHAT, WE CAN HEAL, WE CAN
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  • THAT, WE CAN HEAL, WE CANMOVE ON, WE CAN LOVE
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  • MOVE ON, WE CAN LOVEOTHERS THE WAY CHRIST
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  • OTHERS THE WAY CHRISTLOVED US, AND WE CAN JUST
  • 00:25:06.628 --> 00:25:08.263
  • LOVED US, AND WE CAN JUSTBE BETTER AT ALL OF IT.
  • 00:25:08.263 --> 00:25:09.464
  • BE BETTER AT ALL OF IT.YOU KNOW, OUR BETTER
  • 00:25:09.464 --> 00:25:10.432
  • YOU KNOW, OUR BETTERTOGETHER COMMUNITY IS
  • 00:25:10.432 --> 00:25:11.566
  • TOGETHER COMMUNITY ISALWAYS HERE FOR YOU.
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  • ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU.YOU CAN CONNECT WITH US ON
  • 00:25:13.034 --> 00:25:14.069
  • YOU CAN CONNECT WITH US ONSOCIAL MEDIA AND LET US
  • 00:25:14.069 --> 00:25:15.270
  • SOCIAL MEDIA AND LET USKNOW HOW WE CAN PRAY FOR YOU.
  • 00:25:15.270 --> 00:25:16.504
  • KNOW HOW WE CAN PRAY FOR YOU.THANKS FOR JOINING US TODAY.
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  • THANKS FOR JOINING US TODAY.DO YOU HAVE THE COURAGE TO
  • 00:25:18.740 --> 00:25:19.841
  • DO YOU HAVE THE COURAGE TOSTEP OUTSIDE OF YOUR
  • 00:25:19.841 --> 00:25:21.376
  • STEP OUTSIDE OF YOURCOMFORT ZONE?
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  • COMFORT ZONE?TOMORROW WE'RE TALKING
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  • TOMORROW WE'RE TALKINGABOUT HOW TO BE OPEN TO
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  • ABOUT HOW TO BE OPEN TOCHANGE WITH ONE SIMPLE STEP--
  • 00:25:25.647 --> 00:25:27.182
  • CHANGE WITH ONE SIMPLE STEP--TRUSTING GOD.
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  • TRUSTING GOD.WE WILL SEE YOU THEN.
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  • WE WILL SEE YOU THEN.GOD BLESS YOU.
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  • GOD BLESS YOU.BYE-BYE.
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